2024-05-24 00:48:29
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Devin and Cindy Carlson Welcome to Color Daddy.
Let's start off with you. Guys are the first official sisters I've ever had on Color Daddy, really like people related even.
We clap a lot and clap, my dad calls it the Carlson Clap, because we clap all the time. I think we got it from, Yeah, anytime. My parents will always.
Start a clap. And it just has gone down. When we were a little like anything, the smallest things we did, they were like.
Even now, we like, walk in their house and they're like, I love it because you guys keep clapping at me.
Welcome to college, I like.
Okay, you just had a birthday. I just happy. belated birthday. You went to Vegas. I went to Vegas. Tell me what was the most like, memorable moment in Vegas?
What happened? what did you do?
Well, the entire trip was like, kind of a surprise. Yeah, I don't know. A few months ago, we were all sitting in my bedroom. I was like, What are we gonna do for my birthday?
Like, we got to make it big and because it was like, my first.
Whatever first single birthday in a while. okay, we can say it, we can say it. okay, okay, first single birthday.
Well, you were gonna do it, you got to do it big, do it big, and I was like, Katy Perry.
Obviously, yeah, we have to see. That's what, like, started the idea, yeah.
So then we were looking at the dates and then she happened to be playing it. So we're like, fuck it. And then I started getting closer and they're like, What do you want to do? And I was like, can part of my gift just be that I don't plan it? like, Can you guys just plan it?
So everything was kind of a highlight. But I feel like one of my favorite parts was when we were all at the lobby bar and we everyone kept coming down and, like, showing off their out.
Because we didn't stay in the same room, we all stayed in separate rooms. Yeah, I kind of felt like camp, and then everyone we would like it was summer camp. What are you waiting at the lobby? Yeah, everyone come down.
It was like a fashion show, seeing everyone's like outfits.
I don't know, okay, so you were there? Yes, do you usually get invited to each other? Shit, yeah, within the past few years.
Well, cuz we were just like on sisters, yeah, a really long time, like, just really I feel like in high school.
When did you become friends? Talk, walk me through the the high school. We are definitely like sisters, still like friends. We never have really fought.
I don't think I've ever had a real fight, every fight has been about clothes.
Like, screaming, crying, everything.
Why are you fighting over clothes? Because, like, you borrowed that without asking? Yeah, my first job I spent all of my money on, mainly like gas and clothes, and I would guess work hours for like little money. And then I go to the urban outfitters sales section, buy one thing and then go to wear it and it's gone and I'm like.
And I'm like, I worked so hard to buy this fucking shirt and she's wearing it without asking. And then there was like, the trade. It's like, okay, well, if you borrowed that without asking, I get to wear this.
I you've never worn things that you've never worn, you can't post a photo on it. Yeah, are you guys in the same friend group?
Yeah, we're like, we hang out every day, basically. yeah, like our friend group is the same, we're like, a. It was like Sydney.
Went through a like a gnarly relationship and then got out of it and I feel like we weren't close at all during that relationship. And it really made me be like, Oh my gosh, okay, once she's out of this, like, I can't. It showed me, like, what I? I almost lost my sister. I felt like as like in my life, and I was like, I'm never letting this happen again.
She is like, I'm not, I'm like forcing her to be my friend, basically, and then after the relationship.
Yeah, we became really close. Yeah, did you feel that too? Yeah, yeah.
I mean, it was the fact friends are amazing.
Yeah, friends are friends like it, they're not your blood, the fact you guys are friends and your blood.
Yeah, I think we forget sometimes, and our friends sometimes, like I'll forget. You guys are like sisters, like we hang out with, like sisters, like it doesn't feel like, but it's we'll also do, like our bickering fights about, like, just.
Sister and our friends.
But it'll last like five minutes, then we'll be like, should we go get dinner?
I.
Want to get an idea of your personalities but described by the other Devin? You go first. Describe Sidney's personality and how like friends view her, and like, who is she in the friend group? And like, what is her personality?
Give it a fucking yeah. Sidney is like the funny, the funny one. She's like the funniest one out of all of our friends. Like it's. Sidney can never be serious for more than like, five seconds. She's perfect.
And she's also fun. I don't know she's not silly or goofy, she's just like, dry, funny, serious.
Like, she's humor and monotone is the fucking fun, that's what she is. When you're like, What did you do? you're like, absolutely, yeah. I think we get already got to know you a little better. Yeah, now, do it for Devin.
Devin's not the quiet one.
She.
Can be put in a room with complete strangers and walk out with ten friends. Ten new numbers, going lunch plans. Like, she, we're, Oh, that's Sidney, No, oh my god.
No, we are.
Drunk and I give people my number. That's completely different, you can do this, just like, naturally, that's where we're, like, very different.
Like, she's like social butterfly, can, like, talk to anyone, be friends with anyone, and it's honestly really it's like a talent of hers.
And you're like the first one, if you're walking the door, you're talking.
She's following you with, like, hilarious joke. Yeah, the joke was exactly, people get to meet us, they'd always be like.
Are you okay with that? I, It's true.
This is reality, appreciate it. We, we work perfectly together, your sisters, your best friends and your business partners. Your company. Wildflower creates the best phone cases, I'm pretty sure.
When we were drunk at Olivia O'Brien's music video, or somewhere, you guys like light, like you lightly started telling you. The first time, we, I think it wasn't, we were like, upstairs, yes.
Oh my, I came over before you came over to a look, Oh my God.
Yes, and you broke the latex outfit? Oh my God, I did.
I didn't know anyone. So nice you're like, show us your vagina.
We were like.
Drunk at the music? Yeah, yeah, he was like crushing it. Yeah, yeah.
She's working. We're just gonna get hammered right? And you guys started to tell me the story, yeah, how it all came to be.
Tell us the story for the daddy gang that doesn't know well. It happened ten years ago. Now we just celebrated our 10-year anniversary. Thank you. It's crazy shit, very crazy. Um, my. I really wanted a phone case for my birthday and there was like iPhones had just come out, so there wasn't really cute accessory phone cases.
It was just kind of like the solid color, protective ones, like it wasn't like thought of an accessory.
Otter box.
Just like just to cover your phone. And our mom has always been very creative and crafty. She was making like the shorts with like the studs on them and putting like sewing fabric on them. Like, she's always just a very like DIY. She was an art teacher, she just like loves doing stuff like that.
So she thought to get a clear phone case, put fabric in it and stud the outside of it like herself. And so she made a few of them and gave them to me and Devin. We went to school and our friends were like, what is that we want that? So she made them for our friends, and so, like our friend group. Had them at school. And people were like, seeing them. And we would go the mall and people would stop us and be like, where did you get that phone case? Like random people all the time.
So the first day, my mom actually carried extras in her car because people would stop us that often, she would been like, Well, I have some, you know?
Company or anything, we literally were just like, and it wasn't an idea to make it a company. Yeah, we just really go. We'll tell our mom what type of fabric to buy and like, what stud patterns. It's supposed to happen. Literally didn't.
There was no vision of growing it or having a company of those. Yeah, no one's plan.
Yeah.
One day, yeah, keeping him on her. And we went out to dinner, the four of us, the four of us family. And we got up to use the bathroom and we were waiting in line. And Miley Cyrus walked out of the bathroom stall, and this was like Miley's bun era. Yeah, like, and I was the biggest Hannah Montana fan. Like girls at school knew me as the girl who was obsessed with him. Yeah, like, yeah, my obsession. She walked out and was like, like, wait, and I was like, this is my in, I have to say something.
Mm-hmm. And I was like, I know it's really annoying, but do you mind if we take a photo together? and so then we took a picture together and.
Took it with the phone that had the phone case on it, and Miley was like, that phone case is so cute. Where is it from? And we were like, our mom made it. She was like, Does she have a company? We're like, No, and she said, Is your mom here?
We're like, Yeah, she's like, Can I go meet her? And we were like, Sure, didn't even go pee, walk out the bathroom, we're like, walking back to our table, me, Devon, Miley and our parents are like.
What are they doing? Like, what? There was a girl we went to school with, tweeting, Yeah, she's like, Shit, what is going on?
And we, she Miley taps our mom on the shoulder and it's like, Did you make these phone cases? Like, they're so cute? And we were like, Yeah? And she was like, you guys should start a business like this is really cool, this is really cool idea.
You guys should, like, start a business. And my dad looked at her. My dad was a graphic designer for years. And so we looked at Miley and said, we'll have a website in the morning, yeah, and we were like.
Mm-hmm. And so she ended up. We gave her all the cases off our phones too, and the ones in the car. Yeah. We were like, take everything, what do you want? You could have everything. And back to her table.
Yeah, I took a photo of them, tweeted it.
Tagged me in her tweet, Everyone started, and this was like, 2012 Twitter. Like no one, it was unheard of to get mentioned by, like, yeah, anyone like a celebrity or anything like that. And so, and all of our phones had died.
So we didn't even know we're driving home like freaking out, waiting to get a phone charger. All of us plug our phones in. We're like, and everyone from school is texting, texting us like, what's this tweet? My dad stays up all night that night.
I mean, when Miley Cyrus fucking looks at you, it is like, you need to have a company, and your dad's like, there will.
So when we started tweeting, like responding to people like wildflower cases, calm, we had all the inventory, we had nothing. We ended up selling our house and that funded all of wildflower. And we moved into our grandma and grandpa's house, and we still ran all of wildflower for the first five years inside of our house, and.
Yeah, I quit my job, first I did, our mom quit her job, and then our dad. When he did, we were like.
Okay, this is like, real, this is real. So we like, I tried to go to college. I really was like, kind of embarrassed about, like it was weird, because no one's was starting companies like.
It was me and Sydney, kind of like Sydney, more so, because she was like a freshman and it was taking time away from hanging out with her. It was like, weird, it was weird, so it wasn't like as supported as it is now. So yeah.
I can kind of see that, cuz they're like, what are you doing? And it was like, No.
It was very like, you're not going to college and we're like.
I had one friend in high school throughout all of this because they had thought it was different and weird and like it, it wasn't the normal.
It was a lot of just like making fun, like, like, oh yeah, like, whatever.
We would, I like, posting on Instagram. Yeah, I think people that are now beginning the tick-tock phase. Yeah, feeling embarrassed that it's like kids find their tick-tock right? Because people like, Oh, it's embarrassing, and it's like, No, it's not. Yeah, is it a very normal? Have you guys ever talked to Miley about that? Like, whole blow up in moment.
I did recent, not like recently. Beginning of this year. One of our friends was working with her and I got the opportunity to, like, meet her and hang out with her.
We saw her a lot. Yeah, really great and really cool.
And I just kept being like, I owe so much to you, like you don't understand.
It's really fucking cool to see how much you guys have grown and also how close you guys are. So it hasn't broken up the family. No, if anything, it was like, our family depends on this.
So if not everyone's not holding up their part of the bargain, like, yeah, then we're not gonna have a roof over our heads. So it was like, literally we had to work. I mean, I feel like now we're at a point where we've been able that we're lucky enough to build a team that we're like, we genuinely trust and have been able to delegate enough stuff out. So now it's like, I feel like I'm actually starting to live my college years and I like, worked through my real yeah. But I mean, it's just so like, endlessly happy and grateful, and like, just it's still very surreal.
It's crazy, girls.
We're gonna talk about your dating.
I.
Mean, I go back and forth between, Okay, okay, I'm gonna give you each the love and the attention that you deserve. Devin, we're starting with you.
Okay, are you currently dating anyone? Yes, how serious is it? Has he met your family? Tell us? Well, there's like.
Blushing, he.
He's really, he's like.
Well, we so, obviously, I was in a relationship for a very long time, a public relationship, and we had, like the most mutual breakup ever. And we still are totally chill and friends and I am supportive of each other and whatever. And but then I was like, Holy fuck, I'm single for the first time in my entire life. Well, adult life, basically, and.
I just went on a wild journey that's, I feel like, lasted almost a year. Mm-hmm and it. So the guy I'm currently with was a part of that early on and has just kind of been with me back and forth through that. But now we're.
Exclusively seeing each other. And he has made it through my craziest moments and still likes me for whatever reason.
Yeah, thank you for sharing. Can you give us a little bit of an explanation when you're talking about, like, a wild year?
Just a little bit of what you're talking. I was just like, zero fucks, like I'll go on a date with anyone right now, like.
Just.
Really throwing myself out there and making up for lost time and having so much fun, good for you. I kept being like nervous, that no one, like no one, was gonna like, like me, or, hey, don't I? I was so insecure about it.
I get it when you're in a long-term relationship.
First, it's a little shocking to end that, whether it was like a good breakup, bad breakup, it's like, I'm single. What does it even mean?
Like, how do I even act? what the fuck do I do? Yeah, and so you just went like a little wild and you had a fucking great year.
Yeah, I just kept being like, scared that people were think that I was like thinking I was being crazy. But in my head, I'm like, I've never really done this. Yeah, there's no way that I'm being crazy.
Did you think she was being crazy? Yes, No, I thought I thought she was more crazy. At the end of your relationship, okay, then out of it, so you were happy.
She was out of it. Yeah, it was like, honestly, the best months ever. I was like, this is the most fun we've ever had. And it kind of was a little bit of the same feeling that like she had when I was in a relationship, but not as intense at all. But was just like, Wow, we're really like, just free and hanging, and like, our friend group was just like, it was just so like.
Free, right? Do you think you're more of a relationship girl? I think for being single?
Yeah, from like the moments that I was single, I just kept finding myself like in real, like, like.
Situations Yeah, are you single? I'm single? are you more a relationship girl or single girl?
Well, I don't know, because, like, she's a the type of relationship girl where she will get in multiple relationships very easily. Yeah, I might be a relationship type of person, but I don't get into them very often at all. Even in like high school. She had a different boyfriend every month. I think I had one, maybe all four years, like I just. It takes me a lot to get to that point to actually date someone.
Everyone's got their own thing, like I have friends like, and that works for her totally.
She's just so harsh and it's like, but the thing is, the things that she says aren't like, not true, like she'll. She would bring up things about like a guy I was seeing, and I was like, like, I was. A guy was dropping me off at a hotel. And she was like, I thought it was your, or she goes up to him and goes, I thought you were her Uber driver.
And he was like, Hey, I was like, Oh, I thought you were the Uber. I said then that afterwards, I was like, Oh my God, I called him the Uber driver. Was he, like, mortified? He needed it, he needed to be humbled.
Okay, so you will call out shit about the guy she's seeing, yeah?
She will literally be sitting on my couch and being like, make me a latte. Oh, and he did this guy.
She was like, I was like, I want a smoothie, and he made me a smoothie and he put chocolate chips in it.
Why do you do that? Just like test the like boundaries?
I just like, it's very entertaining for me to watch all of this happen, so it's just like I'm like watching TV. And like, right, can be a part of it.
How does it make you feel when she's doing this?
I just love when my sister interacts with any guy that I've seen at all because I feel like it takes a lot for her to be herself around people. Okay, right? And that's why I like the new guy that I that I'm with. The fact that she can, like, be her funny self around him, like, means more to me than like almost anything. But I just could think I care a lot what my friends think like. If my friends don't like someone, I'm pretty like.
When it comes to guys, I'm like, Yeah, they're done, yeah, it's not happening. Have you on any dates recently?
I have been on one date my whole life. Are you in style?
Said that she's like, I don't go on dates like, I'll see you at like, hide or like.
She's like, they or they come to my house. Yeah, why do you think you're just like, not dating I? How do you meet people?
She, I guess, I guess I stopped, I guess I, I don't, I don't know, I just. I have never been interested in that type of dating, like going on dates with new people.
I had everyone that I have gotten into a relationship with, I have been friends with and become really close with. And then I'm like, Oh my God, we have feelings, we're dating, got it? I'm just not even that it's like, hard or uncomfortable, I just don't care to.
I'm not that type of dater.
I guess went on one day and she was like group chatting us like, who's gonna come meet up with us now? Like, because I was.
Instantly not into it, and I knew I wasn't into it. I just, I guess that. Also, I rarely find people that I feel like I could date seriously, I don't know. There's some people that I'm like, Okay, I, there's something about this person that I could like, but that happens very rarely.
I think that's fair. Yeah, okay.
How would you each describe each other's type?
I'm curious what you will say.
Sydney likes like, Well, they have to be funny, okay?
Funnier than you.
Sydney has to find them funny, okay, which is like unique sense of humor.
She kind of likes when they're like, I don't want to like, offend any. Go for it.
But she likes like.
What's the nicest way to put it?
Sydney likes.
Interesting-looking people like they have to be unique looking. There's something like almost off about them, or their style is very like, weird, like the normal person would be, like, they're weird. That's Sydney's type. And what do you say? Back to that?
I would agree, that's a funny way to describe it. how would you describe it? I just like, I'm really attracted to men who are, like, very comfortable in themselves and who they are and like.
Don't just give off that vibe like they don't care what other people think of them. And they will wear whatever they want, look however they want, and they're just like, confident in that and who they are. I think it makes me very comfortable around them and be like, I could totally be myself, say whatever I want, wear whatever I want. And they would be like, that's cool, give me Devin's type.
Honestly, you're kind of.
Okay.
What, like? It can be a musician guy, and that ranges in all areas, okay, but as long as they're a musician, I think she's some sort of attraction. Is it, cuz they sing to you?
No, I find it, I just find like when Sydney said, like when someone's so themselves like that to me is so attractive, like when they just don't. Like, they aren't trying to impress anyone. It and I think that they're cool, like, I just think that that's, yeah, I find them interesting. But like the musician part, I think dating wise, my lifestyle just works well with someone who's like, like, our schedules usually work better when it's like we're constantly both traveling.
You're a backstage bitch, that's fucking backstage lifestyle. We were dancers.
We like music, but it's just funny because I'm literally like, I like the music that I like. It's never really like the guys that I write.
You kind of talked about how you had an intense relationship that you guys had a little, like not falling out, but you just kind of pause in your relationship. Devin, how did you approach handling when you didn't like who Sydney was dating? We just did not talk about it, but I knew.
But it was more so because my boyfriend and her boyfriend weren't like, didn't really mesh, and he was like they didn't ever want to be in the same place. So it not because anything had happened, it was more just like, didn't like, no con, no communication was the communication, so it was just constantly avoiding each other.
And then I was like, obviously I have to be loyal to the person that I was with and she felt the same. So we were just kind of like coexisting and working together. So when you guys would work, would you just like not talk? I mean, we're so busy. There was no service and she was packing and shipping every order. And so it was like, literally just hours of me responding or answering phone calls and Sidney, just like.
Outside of that, and did your parents know what was going on? Yeah, yeah, they weren't too fond of him either. I don't think anybody was, but I also think everyone has to have a relationship like that. It was like such an insane experience, but I'm so glad it happened like I've forever.
I'm like, so grateful of that relationship. And I also was like, I think I met him. When I was like 18, 19 and it lasted till I was like 22. So it was like a lot of. I was young and I. That was kind of my first like big, intense relationship and it just took everything out of me and I had never been. It's something that intense and I, I I mean, I talked about, it's not like something I hide at all. But he was a drug addict. And that was something that kind of developed over the years, and also something that I didn't know much about being so young.
I didn't know what anything was, or like, what was bad, what wasn't, and also something that I didn't want to talk to my family about. Or my friends. Well, you know, how do you like, tell your friends and family that that's what you're dealing with and going through? So, like, that kind of ate at me inside and took a lot of like.
Everything out of me that just consumed me, like I bleached my hair classic when you're in like a terrible relationship and like my hair was falling out. I had like an eating disorder. I stopped talking to a lot of my friends, my family like talking, and I just like, consumed it all in myself. Because it was so like I was trying to help him and be there for him, but also like he wasn't giving that to me. It was like the lowest lows I've ever had, but also when it was great, it felt like amazing.
So, like, I held on to those moments and it was just a lot. But, you know, our parents have been together since they went to prom together in high school.
Like, they answer each other's first boyfriend and girlfriend, and they've, they're still together.
They're like, so growing up, that was like my view of what love is like. You find that one and you do anything to make it work, which is amazing. And I'm so glad we have that and that they have that. But also getting into a relationship like that, I'm like, I will fight for this.
I would do anything to keep it, you know, no matter how much it hurts or whatever like this is what love is. And I had to learn that's not the truth. You know, when it hurts you that bad you, that's when you don't, you know, you say this isn't right.
I thank you for sharing that because I had something similar in high school that was like my first love. And I really think a lot of people were will relate to. Like, the good is like in moments, because it's so good, because you're contrasting the awfulness of those moments, and so you're like, holding on to the good. And I think that, like, I mean, everyone knows, once you're out of it, you're like, Oh, I did distance myself from my friends and family. Yeah, you can look back, but when you're fucking in it, it's literally you're just trying, you're blinded.
You're like, I had no idea, and it honestly took a few years out of that to just get back to like myself. I like, I didn't even think about dating or like seeing other people. I was just like, Okay, I need to get back to like myself and like my friends and my family, and like, focus on myself.
And after that, like that took a few years, I'm, like, currently the best I've ever been and like.
So content being alone, almost too content where I'm like, I would rather stay home than go out at this point. But I'm. I probably could be in a relationship if I wanted to right now, but I'm very content now knowing.
Have you guys had conversations about, like, fuck, we can never let this happen to each other again, and like, lose each other in those.
Moments Yeah, I was pretty like when she when I she called me and I was at breakfast with my boyfriend, she was like, he cheated on me. We just broke up and I dropped everything, didn't even finish my meal and just immediately drove home. I called our.
Childhood best friend, who basically was like Sydney's second older sister, I was like, they broke up. She's the moment we all. Literally. I called everyone and we all got there as fast as we could. And then my best friend Nicole and I took Sydney to Disneyland the next day and we kept being like. Cuz the friends that she had had at that time that she was like closest with, I felt like, didn't ever like, tell her, like, get the fuck out there, like a lot of the friends that wanted she.
It was like she didn't want to hear what we were saying necessarily, and I was like, we got to show her what it's like to, like, be treated right, have really good friends and healthy relationships. And so I was like, welcoming Sydney and with open arms to anything we were doing. I was, like it, always inviting my sister, even if she didn't come to 20 times in a row. I was like, you're invited, you're invited.
You're invited, you're invited. Until she, like, finally started coming and having fun and then getting comfortable, and then she just like, blossomed into the Sydney that we've known all along. How did you find out he cheated?
The girl, Well, the last time.
The.
Girl DM me, Oh, and it was class he was. He was also a musician but was on tour and it happened somewhere and she, like, sent me photos in his shirt.
I was like that feeling when you find out and you're like, I don't even know what to do with myself right now.
Oh my God, my stomach. I like all my anxiety, everything goes to my stomach. Which is why I think it made me like, just not eat, because that's immediately what I feels in my stomach. And I was like, so lost because I didn't have close friends, I barely talked to my family.
I felt like my world was like, Oh my God, this can't end, like, I don't like, thank God, thank God, I'm like, thank you for hitting on me.
That was like the best thing I've ever done in the moment, the shit that sucks.
Then you look back and you're like, Thank fucking God, yeah, I am, because if it wasn't that, I may have still been in that shit and look where you are fucking now.
Yeah, I have like, 10, of course, I have, like, I'm like, how many do I have, I have like this?
You have your finstead, you're a stalker. Oh, I am.
Psycho, we tell me, Yes, I I love it. Oh, she actually is, I, I love that like.
I love you even more now because like.
Well, no.
I win. My ex-boyfriend used to go on tour when we got back, cuz we dated. We broke up, then we got back together and that was like the seventh year. Yeah, in the beginning was a fucking maniac, I don't know how he put up with me.
I love it. I would create, I would go on and I would like look up their tour, or I had the tour manager, like, he forwarded me their tour schedule. So I would go to every venues Instagram page and like, watch every story of everyone that was there and then look at, like, everyone's profile that was there, tagged photos, everything.
I actually really respect you for admitting it because I think there's no shame in stalking like, Who gives a fuck?
It's too, everyone does it, everyone say you don't, you're lying, I know every like, even.
This guy that I had gone on a few dates, but he like DM me and it was the first time that I had gone and met up with someone over DM. That I didn't previously know. But like, he knew people that I knew and whatever, and so I was like, Okay, and we hung out. And he's like, So we're just gonna act like we haven't, like completely.
It was like he was bringing up things and I was writing up things and I was like, suddenly I'm 20 times more comfortable with you. Yeah, yeah, it feels like I know you already. We were arguing by the end of the date.
No, it's just like, whatever, well, because it's also like, let's just keep it real. I know who your ex-girlfriend is, all right, and this is our first date. Yeah, and I know who she is, where she, where she works, like it.
I'd like to just get it. I agree, let's just get it out. Yeah, girls, we're about to play a game. Okay, go under your seats.
You have.
Which sister do not?
Okay, so we're playing which sister is more likely to, and so don't show each other, but like, basically, I'm gonna ask and you'll hold up whichever whichever sister is more likely to, okay.
Which sister is more likely to be the favorite child?
Wait, why?
He gets away with everything I always got in trouble for. It's she always 50 times crazier things.
But I always get the youngest child, Yeah, that's just the youngest thing.
Which sister is more likely to take something from the other sister's closet without asking?
This is a great moment. You're both taking accountability.
Well, cuz I just I want to avoid. The thing is, I'm like, if I ask, it's gonna start drama before the night goes out or whatever, okay, I would rather postpone the drama and deal with it later. So I can just feel good. Where the top that I want to wear and then I think I could steal it and get.
Away with it, I feel like you would a sneaky little bit.
Okay, which sister is more likely to post drunk on Instagram?
Used to be me, but I feel like.
What are you drunkenly? You just not give a fuck, you're like, post like, Suppose she just does? I'll just think something's so funny.
I'd be like, Yeah, this is my bit, and then the next morning I'm like, What are you doing?
Yeah, but then I'm like, it's too late, you can't, yeah, right, cuz then they know you were right and then you can't delete it.
Which sister is more likely to give better head?
I love that, I love that great head game. Which sister is more likely to fuck on the first date?
Then he's like, like, I don't go on dates, remember, on the first hangout?
Like, that doesn't, but I guess she goes on more dates, more. Okay, there you go, there you go.
I have never fucked on the first day. I love that for you. Get it in and get it out. Okay, goodbye. Go on dates Which sister is more likely to if they were ever to go on a reality show?
Do you want to go on one? She has been trying to get our family on a reality show since she was in high school.
For, like, a year, we're like talking, but I would watch it, one viewer.
Which sister is more likely to text their ex when drunk?
Love that for you.
She won't even like, tell anyone she's like, and it'll be like a random person, my random choosing of the night, I'll be out of her. Like, and everyone's like, Devin, what do you do it, Devin?
And she's like.
Yeah, she's like, also she doesn't get like, scary, it's like she will text her ex, do whatever, and then the next morning she'll be.
Like, that last night was so fun and I'm like, what? like, how do you do that?
Doesn't get like any. I love being admirable. Which sister is more likely to have a threesome?
Have you had a threesome?
She won't call it that, but she won't call it that, cuz there was.
Was it fun or was it awkward? No, it was great, great, and it was my friend was there. Okay, I was like, So it was totally fine, it was fun.
Okay, good for you.
Which sister is more likely to get kicked out of the club?
Loki.
I'm really clumsy, so I knock over, Okay, that's why, that's why it wouldn't be, because I'm like, it would be because I've had two drinks. And I like, go, like, not trying to. Vegas, Yeah, and we're, I went with, like some of my old dance friends. And we kept knocking over the champagne. And the guy picked up the bottle and he goes, you're done.
And we were like, not even just because she keeps knocking, but I feel like you guys are so connected.
You'd be like.
Okay, which one? Oh my god, this is a sad one. Which sister is more likely to get cheated on?
I'm honestly the face of being cheated on. I mean, like, you're over it, yeah, you're done, you're not gonna blow up.
It gave me, Yeah, you're, you're gonna be my standby, you're staying here, okay? Which sister is more likely to cheat in a relationship?
Honestly, I don't think either of us would, boy.
Lovely girls, just so, so lovely. Okay, yeah, no one's cheating here. we're just getting cheated on over. Yeah, okay. Which answer is more likely to slide in? And DM a celebrity?
Um i.
Don't know, I've never DM.
I.
You've never DM anyone? No, I've never gone out of my way like DM someone that I don't, whatever I think. It's funny sometimes, I haven't in a while.
He does it all the time, takes a screenshot unsent. Yeah, I do that to make her laugh.
I'll DM someone funny and then unsend it, okay? Which sister is more likely to be in an open relationship?
None. I gone through moments where I'm like, Oh, I could totally, if I was like, constantly told that I was like.
But I honestly, I don't think that it'd be fair to like the other girls or whatever. And yeah.
You don't have to give us this week, you're like.
The reason I'm gonna be the shit.
I'm down for like, friends with benefits where it's like, Okay, you, I know that you're hugging a butterfly dating dating.
I make you my boyfriend, I agree also, because if I make someone my boyfriend, I don't want to be dating other people.
I got my intentions, so why would we ever? I want to know. Both of you said, you can go first. What is the toxic that you like attract and you're like, fuck?
I hate it that I'm attracted, we all like a toxic, and then how are you toxic in a relationship?
I.
Think the toxic I'm attracted to, because this could also be someone who's non-toxic. But it mainly is is like big personalities, like people who are very much their own life, their own ways, big personalities. I could get wrapped up in their life easily in a bad way, but it's like, exciting and fun to do, but like, it's obviously bad. I'm, like, separated from my own life.
I don't know how I'm toxic in relationships, maybe because I like, give too much of myself like toxic and like a bad way for myself. Oh my god, you're like an angel.
You're like, I am not, cuz I'm like, I already don't miss jealous over.
Okay, okay, so, but I get what you're saying, you just kind of give yourself too much, you like, Yeah, yeah, okay.
We're not letting that happen. I'm not doing it anymore. Don't get any ideas. Yeah, I knew it's actually the best like, most thoughtful, like girlfriend ever, like, even for like.
I love shopping, I'm really good at shopping. I'll give you the best like, most thoughtful gift, but words Sydney will write you a book, oh, and like, make it so.
No, it's cute. I think we should normalize, like, cute shit for relationships like, Oh, you're right, fuck up, yeah.
Right, okay, what toxic are you attracting, Devin? and how are you toxic? I know we kind of heard about your fake account.
But I?
Think the toxic that I'm attracted to is like someone who's like, good with their words, or like, knows is witty. I think that people like that just know how to get what they want, and I think that.
Maybe, I know.
That's like a scary combo.
Energy You are giving me something, then I'm gonna give it back. But like, slightly more to the point of, like, right? We're gonna drive each other absolutely insane.
Lastly, who has, like, a crazy fucking dating story, whether it was a one-night stand, whether it was a bad hook-up gone wrong, bad sex.
I have, like, a really like. It should be a bad date, but it ended up being a good day. Share it, share it.
We're here for it, we love story time.
I was in New York and it was the day after Valentine's Day, and.
We had been like we had to gone on a couple dates before, but it was like only whenever. I was like, visiting. And he had just gotten into town and he was like, Okay, I'll pick you up and we'll go out to dinner. And then he texts me before and he's like, Would you want to see a movie? And I was like, No, I'm fucking hungry, like, I want to eat, and so he's like.
I said, I'm pretty hungry, and he was like, Okay, well, I'm not gonna get there for like an hour, and it was like 8 o'clock. At this point. Sydney was in a room under me at our hotel, so I kept going through the like staff stairs and I went into a room.
So I was like, in such a pissy mood, right? So then I stopped answering him and then he called me and he was like, I'm sorry. I'm running. Even later than I thought, like, I don't think I'm gonna get there to like 930 red flags.
I was like, he's like, Do you just want to go see a movie? and I was like, I'm so hungry. I was like, I don't understand.
So we're already arguing. And then I ended up hanging up and he is like, What are you gonna do? And I was like, Well, I'm gonna eat like, I'm if you don't want to come out here. And I thought we were gonna go dinner, I've been waiting to eat right then.
I'm gonna go eat and he's like, Where are you going? Whatever he like, told me, gave me a recommendation of a good place to go. And so I go there. And he's like, calling me, and I was like, decline, decline, decline, like whatever, and he's like, Okay.
Well, I'm at the restaurant that we were gonna meet at. And I was like, Okay, well, I'm not. And he was like, Do you want me to pick you up? And I was like, Obviously, it's February in New York. I'm not fucking walking, right? Granted, it was one block away.
I.
Was like, you know where I am, and so then he obviously pulled around, knew exactly where I was. Came in, got me in the car and he's like, I can't believe you just made me drive a block. I was like, I can't believe you were an hour and a half late. Yeah, and so we ended up going on this date and I was just like, zero fucks at this point.
He like parks, we walk in and we sit, we start eating and we're just like roasting each other, going on and on, having so much fun. The bill comes, he's like.
Forgot his wallet?
He's the one I called a new, are you?
Fucking serious, and he starts dying, laughing. And I just kept being like, I'm so excited to see how you make this up for me, cuz I'm like, I'm not gonna let this go. So I pay for dinner.
Then?
He's like, Okay, well, let me I'll drive you home back to your one block away. And I'm like, Sitting here, I'm like, Oh my God, I'm such a princess. We go outside, his car is towed.
Gone, the car is gone, and we just started looking at each other, dying, laughing, and then.
Did you give him a kiss? Didn't go home? You didn't, even did you get them? yeah.
We slept together.
What do you mean, like, what are you talking about?
We fully fucked. I gave the best sex of his life, and I went and got his car and I paid for the show in the morning.
When a man does that, he's like, Oh.
I was like, Okay, this is what dating is, yeah.
Good story, you're right, like the ups and downs. The amount of times I can look back in my 20s, even my teens. Of the time that you're trying to play it off, cool, like, but you're waiting and you're.
But it was, honestly it was, we had such a fun time. And in the morning, he, like, bought me like a huge bouquet of flowers, it was beautiful, and then he dropped me off.
And now you roasted him, and that's what you said. I thought you were the Uber driver deserved.
We why? What kind of car did he drive? It looks like like the Black Lincoln, like, yeah.
Like, I like your work. Can I get in next?
Going what? I was waving at her at the front seat, like, I was like, why is she the front seat of the Uber, Uber?
Great, I don't think I've ever dated like a not great guy like I. Just. I don't really have any bad things to say about anyone that I like, Yeah, that's a man.
Yeah, I don't think they're bad guys at all, they're just a little cringy. And you point it out, yes.
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