Do You Have Too Much Month Left at the End of the Money?

2024-03-21 01:55:49

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1Speaker 1
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Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's The Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create amazing relationships. I am, Rachel Cruz, hosting this hour with my good friend and bestselling author, Jade Warshaw, and we are here to answer your questions. So give us a call at 888-825-5225, and we'll talk about your life, your money, your relationships, your career, anything and everything. We are here for you. So, first up, we have Ashley in Charlotte, North Carolina.

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Hey, Ashley, welcome to the show.

2Speaker 2
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Hi. Sorry, I'm really nervous.

1Speaker 1
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No, you're good. Don't be. It's just us.

3Speaker 3
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It's just us girls.

1Speaker 1
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It's just chatting. You're great, Ashley. How can we help?

2Speaker 2
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So I'm trying to figure out if I step away from work, if I'm going to financially ruin my family.

3Speaker 3
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Ooh. Hmm. Hmm. Let's talk more about that. Why do you feel like that could be the case?

2Speaker 2
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So I make about double what my husband brings in, and he works at a small business, so they don't offer health care or retirement plans or anything like that, and he's never going to leave that. That is his life.

3Speaker 3
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Okay. What does he earn?

2Speaker 2
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I love him.

3Speaker 3
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What are the real numbers?

2Speaker 2
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So he earns about 60, and I earn about 115, roughly.

1Speaker 1
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And how old are your kids?

2Speaker 2
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I have a four-year-old, a three-year-old, a two-year-old, and a one-month-old. Wow.

1Speaker 1
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Oh, Ashley. Oh, my Lord. You're in it. I feel like we should just take a moment and pray.

3Speaker 3
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I just almost fell asleep just listening to that. That's crazy.

1Speaker 1
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Goodness. Oh, man. Okay. So, and I totally get this, Ashley. Like, after my third...

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Actually, when I was pregnant with my third, it was the moment I was like, oh, man, do I want to go back to this work thing? What does this look like for me? So like this heartstring that moms feel, it is so real. And so for you, you're a month into a new baby. You have three little ones around.

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And what does your husband say when you're saying, golly, I'm feeling pulled in this direction?

2Speaker 2
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Well, he says that we'll figure it out and it'll be fine. But he feels like, if I do step away, that I'm not going to feel fulfilled staying at home. He feels like I was meant to work and that I'll get bored.

3Speaker 3
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Well, I think that.

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. I feel like no one's going to know that better than you, how you'll feel, right? So it's possible that, being new, after having a baby for the first time and you're just a couple of months in, it's possible that you're feeling more emotions in the moment and that you could step away and feel a little bit like, okay, several months have passed now. I'm feeling better about this. That is possible.

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But I do think at the core, you probably do know yourself best. My question, when I'm looking at all of this, I'm just really wondering if you do get to the point where you decide, I want to stay home. Can you actually afford to do it? Because I feel like that, otherwise you wouldn't be calling this show. So that's really.

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the question is, what's your financial situation above what you both earn?

2Speaker 2
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I mean, we're doing the baby steps. We're honestly, we're doing pretty well. We are debt free. We have a fully funded emergency fund. We own our house outright for rental.

1Speaker 1
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Okay. Okay. And have you done a budget with just his income, just to see if, you know, from basic necessities, if everything would be okay?

2Speaker 2
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We have.

1Speaker 1
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It's tight. It's going to feel tight.

2Speaker 2
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It's going to be covered with my work. And so if we went to his, we would be about $2,000 short a month if we start paying, if we get insurance on his. So, and I don't know where to cut or what to do.

1Speaker 1
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Because $2,000, yeah, that's a significant gap. That's not 200..

3Speaker 3
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Is there something you could do to bring that in to where you're still not working full time, but you're closing that gap while still staying at home?

2Speaker 2
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I'm not sure. I haven't really looked into that.

1Speaker 1
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Okay. And why doesn't he look at for another job? That's another point. I know you said that this is his life, but like, what's the situation?

2Speaker 2
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I mean, this is his life. He, he's known what he wanted to do since he was 12 years old, like. Yeah, but what is it?

1Speaker 1
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What is it? What is it? What is it?

2Speaker 2
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Well, he partially owns the business. It's he, he is a martial arts instructor.

3Speaker 3
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Okay. So is there a path to, is there a path to growing the business to where he's earning more? basically, is what I'm asking?

2Speaker 2
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There definitely is, but it probably won't be for like another year or so.

1Speaker 1
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Okay. Okay. So, okay. So I think what it gets down to Ashley is you guys, you and your husband, y'all have to sit down and decide what is, what is a priority for our family? What does a priority look like?

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What are our values when you both have desires that are conflicting, right? He has a desire to stay in a job, um, where financially you wouldn't be able to do it. Um, you, it would force you to work. And is that for him greater than having his wife, who doesn't want to go to work, be forced to go to work? Do you know what I mean?

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Like? there's a, there's a level for me where I'm like, man, there's something about, and if you work, Ashley, I'm like, you're paying childcare for four kids. That's a lot. So there's a point too, that your income, at that point, it starts to dwindle really quickly for that. And so I don't know, I, there, there is something in me that I, I don't know.

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And Jade, you can, you can correct me. on the other side. I fight for the mom that wants to be home with her kids. I really do. Because I think some moms, us, Jade and I, we love to work, and so we're working and it's great.

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But when you have that feelings, I've had that feeling before, Ashley, we're like, I just know this for this season, this is where I'm supposed to be. And here's the deal too, Ashley, it may not be forever. It may that you guys do it for three years and then, you know, half of the kids are in school and maybe one has a five day a week program and you know, like, and you, and you start going back, going back in. Um, but motherhood is such a seasonal time and, and I really do, I fight for women to be able to honor that. And the thing that sucks is that the math has to math.

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And so something has to give Ashley. So there either has to be a level that you say, Hey, part time, I'm going to do something on the side to bring in income, like Jade said, or the only other, or you go back to work full time, or he has to find a different situation, um, to sustain the life that you guys both wants. Right.

3Speaker 3
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So, um, when you're crunching those numbers, be careful, because I want to make sure that you're crunching them. If you're doing your budget, your lifestyle as it is, with both incomes, and you say, Hey, we could get this. We just, we're just $2,000 away. That's pretty good. That might just be the difference in you changing your lifestyle a little bit.

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Does that make sense? Is this a lifestyle thing, or is it, Hey, Jade, even with our bare bones budget, we're $2,000 away. I think those are two different questions, right?

2Speaker 2
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It might be. It probably is the lifestyle thing, but I mean, there's definitely things that we could cut. Um, like. there's some programs that our kids are in, um, but you have to ask yourself about.

3Speaker 3
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that quality of life too, because there's part of this where I could look at this and go, Hey, you go out and make an extra thousand. He, go out and make an extra thousand. Like that should be easy enough. But if that still just gets you to a barely baseline, how much are you going to enjoy staying home with four kids when you can't put them in any activities? So there's, you got things to weigh out there.

1Speaker 1
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Yeah. So maybe there's another option, Ashley, even for you for the time being, or maybe you guys say for a season, for three years, we're going to grind it out, and you do, and you cut the lifestyle way back. Um, but yeah, so I, thanks for the call, Ashley. I don't know if that helps, but I think you guys sitting down and deciding what you value the most, because something is going to have to have a sacrifice and you guys need to choose that. That's right.

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1Speaker 1
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Welcome back to the Ramsey show. I am, Rachel Cruz, hosting this hour with best-selling author, Jade Warshaw, and we are answering your questions. And today's question, Jade, comes from Isaac in Ohio.

3Speaker 3
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Yeah. He says, my wife and I are recently married and found a house that we would like to buy for 600,000.. We earn about the same amount a year, $600,000 a year, and we have zero debt. Good. My wife has over 200,000 sitting in a savings account and I own a home that I bought before a marriage.

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I proposed. She put down 150,000 of her savings for the down payment and put the house in her name. She comes from a divorced household, so it's why I suggested putting the home in her name. Her family thinks it should be the man's responsibility to pay for the house and she should not be putting down any money. I don't know what type of world these people live in, but it's not the 1950s anymore.

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They don't seem to comprehend that I already own a house and can't just buy another one. What can I say to knock some financial common sense into these people? Isaac, I'm going to knock some financial sense into you, dude. Listen, you're both wrong. All of you are wrong.

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Here's the thing. There's just a lot of I, me, his, her, all this individual talk. And we're married, right? My wife and I are recently married. And so I just think that, the same way that you feel that her side of the family kind of has this outdated or erroneous way of thinking, I honestly think, Isaac, you have a little bit of it too, because you guys are very separate, and I understand that you're in many ways trying to honor some of her previous trauma and her previous pain with the divorce.

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But I would think of that as even more reason to cling on to the fact that we're together. I'm not going anywhere. We're making this work. We are one. And that's the relational side of it that I see, that I think, no matter what you decide here, I think you're going to run into problems until you solidify the oneness in your marriage.

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So that's thing number one. Thing number two is, yeah, $600,000 house. She's got $200,000 sitting there. If you've got some money to put in, yeah, put as much down as you can. You don't have any debt.

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I'm all for that. I don't know what the situation is with the other home that he owns. Part of me is like, there's just a lot of singularity going on.

1Speaker 1
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Yes. And yeah, and the combination isn't happening like it should of the oneness. Yeah, because if I were you, Isaac, I would sell your home and you guys together go in and pull your money together, see it all under one account, and let's put down the biggest down payment we can, regardless of man, woman, whose money it is. It is you guys together. And I think people get in trouble, Jade, sometimes.

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We could go down this rabbit hole a whole different ways. Go down the rabbit hole, Rachel. But that way of thinking, there's so many splinters, I think, in it. But one of them being that we don't honor personality enough. It's honoring, are you a man or a woman?

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And there's something about, it is a personality element that is so key, you guys, when it's a married couple. So good. Because if anything, people are like, well, I'm going to let him take care of it, or she just does it all. I'm just going to let her. I'm going to be hands off.

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No, no, no, no. It is a, hey, who is really good at this? Who actually enjoys the money? That's right. And here at RIMS, we call it the nerd.

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And it's the person that really genuinely enjoys doing the budget. They really do like crunching the numbers. They like to feel in control. It's fun for them. So let them take the first pass at kind of creating a plan and saying, okay, I found this account here and this, this, let me, here's what I see.

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And then the free spirit, the one that may not be as excited about things like a budget or planning for the future as much, they're still in the conversation. They have as much say as the other person. But again, it's regardless of gender, it is truly how you're wired and how you're created, and honor that in each other. Because you can learn from each other on both ends of it.

3Speaker 3
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So absolutely.

1Speaker 1
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I don't know. I don't, yeah, I don't, I don't like that way of thinking.

3Speaker 3
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I don't either. I 100%, and I love that you put it in that way. It's just a personality trait. It's not a gender on that, but they've got to, they've got to get together. Yeah.

1Speaker 1
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On. both ends of, y'all are on both extreme ends. Her feelings on one end and, Isaac, the way you view money and relationships is at the other. Y'all need to find that. There's a balance there.

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So come more in the middle. But thanks. Thanks for the question. Good question. Yes.

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All right. Let's go to Gustavo in Denver, Colorado. Welcome to the show.

2Speaker 2
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Hi.

1Speaker 1
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Hello. Can you hear me? okay? Yes, we can. How can we help?

2Speaker 2
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So my current situation is I am 30 years old, trying to move out and I have poor credit, except I don't really have any debts to pay off to build credit. And I'm getting declined everywhere, left and right, and I'm not sure what to do.

3Speaker 3
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Do you have poor credit or zero credit?

2Speaker 2
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Poor. Uh, no 600s, but everywhere I apply, that's everywhere I apply. That's all they really look at.

3Speaker 3
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Yeah. Um, why is your credit low?

2Speaker 2
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Uh, I have two derogatory marks and I haven't necessarily been smart in the past, but I started following you guys over a year ago and I've paid off a couple of credit cards and all I've left is two, like collections. And so it's just dropped over time because I've been slowly paying everything off.

1Speaker 1
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Yeah.

3Speaker 3
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But you still have the two in collections.

1Speaker 1
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Yep.

2Speaker 2
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Yeah.

3Speaker 3
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I mean, the fact is it's going to be low and bad until you get everything that was on your credit cleaned up and cleared off, including the two that are in collections. And then after that, once everything's off, yeah, once everything's off your credit, it takes, you know, six months to 12 months for that to drop off completely. And then you're at zero, and that's where you want to get to. So I think it's just going to take you some time. Why are you trying to buy rental properties when you have two items in collections?

2Speaker 2
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No, I'm just, I'm just trying to move out.

1Speaker 1
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Trying to rent somewhere. I was renting.

3Speaker 3
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Oh, rental. Okay.

1Speaker 1
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Have you had a consistent job at the same employer?

2Speaker 2
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I worked as a trucker and I just actually a year ago switched jobs. So I've been employed at the same place for over a year.

1Speaker 1
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Have you shown them proof of income at an employer for one year? And do you have money saved? Like, do you have first month's rent, last month's rent, a security deposit? Do you have cash that you can be up front with?

2Speaker 2
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Yeah, I have, I have the cash and I have all the proof, for, you know, what I make and all the other bills that I paid on time. And just nothing. So then you're working.

1Speaker 1
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I mean, at that point, honestly, you're just working with big corporations, where there's probably a manager at that apartment complex and he literally doesn't have the power to rent you something. Cause it probably is, Hey, if anybody's below 700 or whatever, you don't have the authority to go and rent. So either you need to get to somebody with higher authority and the power to be able to kind of overwrite that, or you need to look for somebody that's a landlord and they're a one-off and it's not part of a big, you know, system, like a big apartment complex, but maybe it's a small, you know, one bedroom, something, that, that, that there's a owner, that you can actually talk to that owner and tell them about your situation. Have you tried that route or has it been just more like apartments that you've been shopping?

2Speaker 2
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I've, I've been looking around and Zillow and, like all the main, like main places to apply for rent. The only thing is, so there is like a, you know, I'm trying to move out within like two months and also I had an idea to get a loan to try to build credit, but I'm not, I'm not really sure. Like, I wanted to get your guys' opinion on that as well.

3Speaker 3
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I definitely would not go into debt to try to build your credit. I think in this case, to Rachel's point, you just got to find the right situation and going to basically, for lack of a better word, like big box apartment rentals may not be the move for you. And, yeah, finding a landlord, that's an individual that is willing to look past that. I also think, no matter what you do, cleaning up these collections needs to be a one, because as long as you have things in collections, nothing's going to get any better. And the faster that you do pay those off, the faster that you can get to a zero position, which is still going to look better.

1Speaker 1
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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And that's, that's the distinction here that Jade's exactly right. It looks better to have an undetermined credit score that they can't pull numbers for because they don't exist, because it's been over a year since you've had any level of debt.

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So you, you know, so there's at least a credible story there where what's being flagged for you, obviously, is that there were issues and that number is showing, Hey, he didn't pay back what he said he was going to. And it's, and it is, it's, it looks bad on you. So I don't know if there's a situation, Gustavo, where you can stay where you're at for maybe six months to a year and you grind it out, you get that stuff paid off, get that place where you are, have more of a clean credit history and then go out and try to rent or find an individual that you can sit down with and just show them, Hey, I'm a person, here's a situation. And the more cash you have to be able to present, Hey, I'm able to cover X, Y, and Z, if something were to happen, the better it's going to look for you. So I'm sorry, you're in that situation.

3Speaker 3
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1Speaker 1
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Yeah. And what's so hard is I feel like one of those, especially the ones that I'm like, Oh, it's terrible. People that call in and their spouse has passed away suddenly and they don't have life insurance. When you have to think through, how am I going to pay my bills in the middle of all that grief? Like it's just, it is, it's terrible.

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3Speaker 3
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1Speaker 1
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next, we have Victoria in New York City. Hey, Victoria. Hey, Victoria. Welcome to the show.

2Speaker 2
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Hi.

1Speaker 1
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Hi. How are you?

2Speaker 2
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Good. Thanks.

1Speaker 1
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Good.

2Speaker 2
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So the question I have is I wanted to know if we should pay off our car or buy or sell it and buy a van or something larger for our family.

3Speaker 3
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What do you owe on the car?

2Speaker 2
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$21,000.

1Speaker 1
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Okay.

3Speaker 3
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So you've got $21,000 and then the option was, or should we buy a van?

2Speaker 2
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Yeah. So we're a family of three, and I mean, the car that we have is fine, but I feel like we're just like busting out of the seams. So I wanted to know if maybe we should sell it. I mean, it's probably, if we sell it, we'll probably sell it for probably around the same amount that we owe.

3Speaker 3
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So break even.

2Speaker 2
00:22:49.88 – 00:22:50.36

Right.

3Speaker 3
00:22:51.10 – 00:22:53.18

And then how much do you have saved?

2Speaker 2
00:22:54.62 – 00:22:55.76

Nothing right now.

3Speaker 3
00:22:56.94 – 00:23:02.52

Okay. So, and is there another car in the situation too? Like, do you, are you a two car family right now?

2Speaker 2
00:23:03.52 – 00:23:04.94

Yeah, we're a two car family.

3Speaker 3
00:23:05.30 – 00:23:05.94

What's the.

00:23:05.94 – 00:23:06.28

. Go ahead.

1Speaker 1
00:23:06.42 – 00:23:07.42

How much do you guys make a year?

2Speaker 2
00:23:09.94 – 00:23:11.14

About $160,000.

1Speaker 1
00:23:11.28 – 00:23:13.10

Okay. And what other debt do you guys have?

2Speaker 2
00:23:14.64 – 00:23:18.32

Um, we have that car and student loans.

1Speaker 1
00:23:18.82 – 00:23:19.80

How much in the student loans?

2Speaker 2
00:23:21.46 – 00:23:22.58

Uh, 34.

3Speaker 3
00:23:23.04 – 00:23:23.36

Okay.

1Speaker 1
00:23:23.80 – 00:23:25.90

And no money saved at all?

2Speaker 2
00:23:27.18 – 00:23:30.28

Um, well, we have an emergency, we have $1,000.

1Speaker 1
00:23:30.74 – 00:23:31.00

Okay.

2Speaker 2
00:23:31.82 – 00:23:37.92

Okay. Um, we can sell the other, we do have another car, but it's paid off.

3Speaker 3
00:23:38.14 – 00:23:39.44

And what could you get for that one?

2Speaker 2
00:23:39.44 – 00:23:43.86

Um, we could probably get, um, 7,000.

3Speaker 3
00:23:45.32 – 00:24:09.58

If, the, if, the, if the goal is to get a vehicle that's large enough for your whole family to fit and pay cash for it. My first move, unless you can tell me why this wouldn't work, cause you know more about your situation than I do, obviously, is to sell the one that's worth something. So you get a headstart saving for the van. So my thought would be sell car number two, it's already paid off, clear $7,000.. You've already got the $1,000 saved.

1Speaker 1
00:24:09.58 – 00:24:09.76

But you'll be a one car family.

3Speaker 3
00:24:10.24 – 00:24:11.46

You'd be a one car family.

1Speaker 1
00:24:12.40 – 00:24:15.90

And Victoria, you said we're a family of three, is it just you, your husband, and a baby?

2Speaker 2
00:24:17.34 – 00:24:20.48

No, no, I'm sorry. We're a family of five, we have three kids.

1Speaker 1
00:24:20.50 – 00:24:26.84

Okay. I thought, okay, Victoria, I think we can stay in this car a little bit longer. I thought it was just a family of three. Okay, you have three kids. Yeah.

00:24:27.06 – 00:24:28.68

Okay. That's fair. That's fair.

3Speaker 3
00:24:29.88 – 00:24:39.62

So what have you looked at? Like these vans, is there one for 7,000?? Can you find a junker for 7,000?? And is this dire straits, I guess, is what I'm trying to figure out.

2Speaker 2
00:24:40.52 – 00:24:50.02

Right. I mean, we've been looking at vans, we're looking at like a 2015,. it's looking around 10,000 to 12,000..

1Speaker 1
00:24:51.06 – 00:24:56.54

Okay. I just, the only thing will be, y'all have to save for it. Yeah. Yeah. You got to just save for it, Victoria.

00:24:56.56 – 00:25:17.00

And it's one of those things that you're going to put money aside month after month. And the fastest way to get there is what Jade said, would be to be a one car family. If you don't want to do that, then it is going to be saving $10,000 to get to a point where you can just buy it outright. But then also that's $10,000. that's not going to pay off just your current car, which I understand you want to have it traded.

00:25:17.18 – 00:25:18.06

I get it.

3Speaker 3
00:25:18.40 – 00:25:32.36

It's just how urgent is this? Because I'm looking at $21,000. you owe on the first car, 34,000 student loans. And I get that it's not comfortable for three kids in the back. Like, I don't know, do their car seats not fit?

00:25:32.44 – 00:25:35.16

Is it that? I just need to understand how urgent it is.

2Speaker 2
00:25:36.60 – 00:25:55.64

I mean, I guess it's not really urgent, but I'm just thinking of, like, you know, it's a growing family. We have sports, we have so many events going on. And, like the car that we, it's a Toyota Highlander. I mean, it's just, it would be more and it would be more comfortable to have a van.

3Speaker 3
00:25:56.26 – 00:25:59.50

I mean, not a new van. Wait, so you have a Toyota Highlander already? Isn't that an SUV?

1Speaker 1
00:26:00.72 – 00:26:01.42

It is.

3Speaker 3
00:26:01.74 – 00:26:07.72

Okay. Okay. I'm changing this. I'm changing my vote right now. You told me you had two cars.

00:26:07.98 – 00:26:25.66

I'm thinking like a Camry and an Ultima. So you have a sport utility vehicle. That's fine. And if I were in your shoes today, I would not, I would not be saving money to buy a new car. If anything, I would still sell car number two or whatever, whatever is not the Highlander.

00:26:26.22 – 00:26:30.04

Which one's the Highlander, by the way? The paid for one or the 21,000?.

2Speaker 2
00:26:30.04 – 00:26:30.86

The one with 21.

00:26:31.00 – 00:26:31.76

. That would be 021..

3Speaker 3
00:26:32.40 – 00:26:43.98

Then I'd sell car number two, put it towards the Highlander, get that thing paid off as soon as possible. And can you guys survive as a one car family for a while to pay off some debt before you save up and buy a second one?

2Speaker 2
00:26:44.04 – 00:26:49.82

That would be ideal. However, we are, my husband and I, both work and we do commute.

3Speaker 3
00:26:50.46 – 00:26:52.28

Okay. So you're not seeing a way to do that.

1Speaker 1
00:26:52.30 – 00:27:08.70

I think it's just a sense, Victoria, you're going to have to just pay this car off. You're going to have to pay off these student loans and y'all got, I mean, but you make 160.. I mean, you're in New York City, so I know it doesn't go as far, but it's just going to be you guys buckling down for 18 months, two years. And it will be uncomfortable. I mean, yeah, it will be uncomfortable.

00:27:10.16 – 00:27:46.08

But trading in and the whole car situation, it's so hard for me because it's such a depreciating asset that I'm like, these loans that are racking up interest and all of it, I'm like, I just want so much of your effort to get these out of your life. And then we can go from there to say, okay, the car is paid for. What does it look like in two years to trade it in? We can save a couple of thousand, go to a minivan. Like, you know, I would make that move later personally, because again, all your efforts and straining and saving and sacrificing lifestyle, I'd rather that go to debt than to go to a van to feel a little bit more comfortable.

3Speaker 3
00:27:46.30 – 00:27:50.42

Yeah. That's going to be going down in value and pretty, you know what I mean? It's just another thing. So.

1Speaker 1
00:27:50.62 – 00:28:09.12

But I get it. We have three kids and if they're all in one row, they're going to be hitting each other, and it's annoying, and there is stuff everywhere. Like, it is true, but also, I think you guys have different priorities. And if you're going to follow the steps to get in control of your money, stop sending your income out to freaking car payments and student loans and actually keep your income.

3Speaker 3
00:28:09.36 – 00:28:10.22

But let's be honest.

1Speaker 1
00:28:10.50 – 00:28:11.84

And get out of debt. It's a thing.

3Speaker 3
00:28:12.10 – 00:28:25.82

She has a Highlander. That's plenty of space. Victoria, I'm getting you a little bit. That's plenty of space. It's not the same layout, obviously, as a minivan, because, let's be honest, I can't drive a minivan, Rachel, but I have been in one and they are very nice.

1Speaker 1
00:28:25.94 – 00:28:31.34

The Odyssey, it is like a living room. It is the best thing ever. You're not cool. I get it.

3Speaker 3
00:28:31.38 – 00:28:37.28

But the space, it's so easy to get the kids in and out. That is very, very true. But a Highlander will get it done.

1Speaker 1
00:28:37.46 – 00:28:54.58

It will get it done. Yeah. The minivan has its luxuries and it was so cheap. when we went and priced out cars. We looked at SUVs, we looked at all different levels and I'm like, I just couldn't stomach buying an SUV because I'm like, my children, God love you if you listen to this later on in your life, kids.

00:28:54.76 – 00:29:06.82

But you're disgusting. I'm like, they take sandwiches and spread them apart and put them on seats and there's gum in the back. It's just, it's just their kids, you know? And I'm like, I just can't stomach a nice SUV personally at this stage of our lives. So we went.

3Speaker 3
00:29:06.90 – 00:29:07.16

100%.

1Speaker 1
00:29:07.16 – 00:29:17.06

And the minivan was a third of the price. Really? A third of the price of some of the SUVs that we were looking at. And I was like all day. It's like a mom set in that driver's seat, Jade.

00:29:17.64 – 00:29:27.50

The mom said, where do I want cupholders? Where do I want storage? What do I want? You sit in a minivan driver's seat and you think, a mom designed this car. Thank you, mom.

00:29:27.76 – 00:29:28.52

Honda Odyssey.

3Speaker 3
00:29:28.78 – 00:29:33.02

Minivan is great. The worst part of it is people have to see you drive it. It's a minivan. You have to drive it.

?Unknown Speaker
00:29:33.06 – 00:29:33.84

That's the worst part.

1Speaker 1
00:29:34.92 – 00:29:39.28

But I'm with you, Rachel. I know. I know. I'll get my cool mom SUV soon. Yeah.

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00:31:10.46 – 00:31:23.70

We are here for you. So give us a call at 888-825-5225.. Up next, we have Aurora, beautiful name, in Portland. Hey, Aurora. Welcome to the show.

2Speaker 2
00:31:24.02 – 00:31:26.60

Hi. Hi. Thank you guys for having me.

1Speaker 1
00:31:26.76 – 00:31:28.74

Absolutely. How can we help?

2Speaker 2
00:31:30.36 – 00:31:59.14

So my question is, do I pause Baby Step 2 in order to save up money? I just got told last week that we're being laid off here at the school district that I work at. I'm sorry. And so, yeah, it was a little unexpected. But I just, I'm in Baby Step 2, so I'm like, do I save up money now, in case, you know, for the future?

00:31:59.74 – 00:32:02.64

Or do I just keep going at the debt until it's paid off?

3Speaker 3
00:32:02.96 – 00:32:05.28

Is it just you? Or are you married? Do you have a family?

2Speaker 2
00:32:06.44 – 00:32:12.92

Yeah. So my husband and I, we started this about a year ago. We paid off almost $50,000..

1Speaker 1
00:32:13.24 – 00:32:14.06

Good for you, guys.

2Speaker 2
00:32:14.88 – 00:32:32.24

Yeah. So we have $6,500 left to pay on one card. And our last day of work, well, for me, is August 30th. So I have a few months of, you know, paychecks. And so, yeah, we're just wondering, like, do we continue to pay on it or do we save up money?

00:32:32.24 – 00:32:41.70

And then come August, in case I don't find a job right away or don't get called back, that we have a little bit of a fund, you know, to live off of for a little bit.

1Speaker 1
00:32:42.06 – 00:32:42.22

Yeah.

3Speaker 3
00:32:42.28 – 00:32:44.90

So you've got $6,500 left and then you're done, done?

2Speaker 2
00:32:46.02 – 00:32:47.00

Yes. Oh, wow.

1Speaker 1
00:32:47.58 – 00:32:51.30

Oh, that's awesome. How much will you guys be, how much will you make between now and August?

00:32:52.96 – 00:32:54.56

Or how much per month did you all bring in?

2Speaker 2
00:32:55.72 – 00:33:05.06

Yeah. So we bring in about $6,000.. It could be between, you know, $55,000 on a slow month, but usually it's about $6,000..

1Speaker 1
00:33:05.56 – 00:33:09.98

Okay. And we're in March. So we got April, May, June, July, August.

00:33:12.14 – 00:33:22.40

So for your living expenses, I'm just curious, what margin do you guys have left? How much are you throwing at debt every month? That if you paused it, that would go into savings. How much would that be?

2Speaker 2
00:33:23.24 – 00:33:24.00

$1,400.

1Speaker 1
00:33:24.42 – 00:33:24.94

$1,400.

2Speaker 2
00:33:25.38 – 00:33:34.44

We're paying $1,400, yeah. Okay. So my little calculator that I have on my tracking sheet shows that we should be done with this by August. Okay. Of this month that I did my job.

1Speaker 1
00:33:34.44 – 00:33:35.98

Then you have no savings. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

3Speaker 3
00:33:36.32 – 00:33:36.70

Yeah.

1Speaker 1
00:33:37.04 – 00:33:38.44

What do you do for work?

2Speaker 2
00:33:39.62 – 00:33:48.80

So I'm a secretary. Okay. And they've, yeah, they've laid off about half of us. So we don't know if we'll be called back. So I guess we're just kind of waiting.

00:33:48.94 – 00:33:52.78

I don't want to quit just now and find a new job, because, you know, we just never know what could happen.

3Speaker 3
00:33:52.78 – 00:33:58.00

Can you just clarify what do you make versus what your husband makes each month?

2Speaker 2
00:33:58.36 – 00:34:02.40

Yeah. So I bring in $2,800 a month and he's the rest of it.

3Speaker 3
00:34:03.04 – 00:34:04.88

And that amounts to $6,000?

2Speaker 2
00:34:06.12 – 00:34:06.98

Mm-hmm. Okay.

3Speaker 3
00:34:07.20 – 00:34:08.02

Got it. Okay.

00:34:10.88 – 00:34:31.58

I think that you've got to do a budget here and figure out what's going on, because you've got $1,400 left that you're putting towards debt. I do want you guys to have savings. The real question is what does your lifestyle look like just on his income? And is it something that you guys can live on for a while until you find something new? Or is it something that's going to put you in a state of emergency?

00:34:32.10 – 00:34:43.78

One thing I do want to highlight is congratulations for paying down this debt and answering that call when it came, because this would feel so much different if you had $50,000 of debt laying around. Am I right?

2Speaker 2
00:34:44.38 – 00:34:53.14

Exactly. Yeah. And just a quick shout out, you guys gifted me a financial piece last year and it's been a relief.

3Speaker 3
00:34:53.62 – 00:34:54.06

Mm-hmm.

1Speaker 1
00:34:54.30 – 00:35:03.42

I'm so glad. Me too. I'm so glad. Yeah. I think my first reaction would be what Jade said of, hey, could we live off...

00:35:03.42 – 00:35:21.08

If we had no debt, technically you'd be debt free, could we live off of his income for 30 days, 60 days, until you find a job? if you can't find one sooner than that? I just feel like your skill set, it's so versatile. Yeah. Admin stuff, you'll probably be able to get something.

00:35:21.54 – 00:35:47.14

So for the worst of the worst, could you guys live off of his salary for 30 to 60 days? And if you're like, no, we can't, then I would be okay saying, yep, we're going to put one to two months away just for safekeeping, because we know this is coming. And again, if these were different numbers, I would probably have different opinions, right? Right. But because you guys are so close and your income is, well, it's pretty much half of.

3Speaker 3
00:35:47.14 – 00:35:49.46

what you guys bring in. He's got 32 and you've got 28..

2Speaker 2
00:35:50.60 – 00:35:53.86

Mm-hmm. So we're right about the same. So we would be very...

3Speaker 3
00:35:54.42 – 00:35:55.02

It'd be tight.

2Speaker 2
00:35:55.08 – 00:36:03.12

We'd be very limited and just right on the cutoff, which I would be worried to just live off of his income. Well, here's the thing.

3Speaker 3
00:36:03.38 – 00:36:19.54

Yeah, sure. The blessing you have here is you know this is happening and you know it's not happening until August. Correct. It's not to say that you have to wait till August to find a new job, right? You can start looking closer and closer and really truly have something lined up so that you have a smoother transition.

1Speaker 1
00:36:20.02 – 00:36:26.04

Yeah. Do you love the job you're at? Because you keep saying, if I get called back, what does that mean? Is it because another department would need something?

2Speaker 2
00:36:27.20 – 00:36:43.96

Yeah. So with our school district, we have unions. So there is a possibility of being called back once the school year is... We're getting closer to the new school year. They're like, okay, well, if we have extra students, like our number of students go up, then we might be able to hire some of us back.

3Speaker 3
00:36:45.56 – 00:36:47.14

I don't think I would count on that.

2Speaker 2
00:36:48.32 – 00:37:12.24

Yeah. The other thing is that I would want to look, even if it wasn't a secretary position, I would look at a different, like a teaching assistant or something else in the district, because of just the benefit of being able to bring my son to work with me. He works at the same school that I work at. And even if I move schools, I could bring him with me or school closer. That's the benefit of being able to work in the district.

00:37:13.38 – 00:37:19.78

And just the benefits in general, like medical, dental, all of that is taken care of for us.

1Speaker 1
00:37:19.88 – 00:37:24.54

Yeah. So there's a lot of benefits to your overall life for you to stay if you can.

2Speaker 2
00:37:26.32 – 00:37:29.92

Yeah. I'm not worried about not being able to find another job. I know that I could do it.

1Speaker 1
00:37:30.06 – 00:37:47.88

But you want to go back to that school for all of that, which I totally get. Okay. So, honestly, what I would do is I would save up maybe two months worth of it and you won't have it all paid off by August. You'll have two more months of that debt. But I'm okay with that in the season, because it's not two years, it's two months.

00:37:48.46 – 00:38:09.46

And again, the benefit of you, if you do get called back, because I can just hear it and I'm like, I get it. The convenience of your life. overall, what that looks like for the next year or two, for two months of waiting is worth it to me. Yeah. So I would be okay with you guys saving two months worth of expenses to the side, which means you'll delay your debt snowball a little bit, which is okay.

00:38:09.54 – 00:38:23.46

And we say this, if you're pregnant, if you see an upcoming job loss, if you're having to move, if there are situations that you need to pause the debt snowball, for, we're okay with that. I just don't want you to lose momentum. And y'all are so close. That's why it's so hard for me where I'm like, oh my gosh, y'all are like right there.

3Speaker 3
00:38:23.76 – 00:38:28.58

Well, let me ask you, is anybody doing a side hustle of any sort to make this go faster?

2Speaker 2
00:38:28.58 – 00:38:36.10

Yeah, we do. On the weekends, we're doing Instacart. I am helping my dad with his business. Good for you guys. Okay, good.

00:38:36.12 – 00:38:45.06

We've already cut so much out and we're already doing so much. I would hate to just lose this momentum. I'm like, do we stop? Do we keep going? Yeah.

00:38:45.20 – 00:38:45.74

So, we're doing a lot.

1Speaker 1
00:38:45.74 – 00:38:46.98

And the momentum is just going to.

00:38:46.98 – 00:38:55.10

. You're going to still save at the same speed and the same rate as you were paying off debt, right? So that momentum goes... And that momentum is still for a big. why.

00:38:55.26 – 00:39:06.12

That's right. And you can't just say, hey, I can get called back to the school where my kids are at and my son's at. And that's a big. why to continue what you're doing. So yeah, I'm good with you guys, saving two months.

00:39:06.16 – 00:39:06.74

What do you think, Jade?

3Speaker 3
00:39:07.80 – 00:39:28.32

I'm with it. My thought was going to be, is there some way that you guys can pick up any extra work so that you can keep almost like doing both? You're still able to maybe to pay off this debt, but you're also able to stack up some savings. And then the other side of it is, is there still a way to have something? just be in talks or have something lined up, just in case?

00:39:28.66 – 00:39:36.86

I mean, I hope you do get called back, but if you don't, I want to make sure there's something there and you're not elongating this process any longer than you have to. Yeah. Yeah.

1Speaker 1
00:39:37.06 – 00:39:39.50

Yeah. If your confidence is high, you can plug into something.

2Speaker 2
00:39:40.70 – 00:39:50.04

Yeah. So there is... So we get the month of July off for summer break. So there are summer school jobs and stuff that we can pick up.

3Speaker 3
00:39:50.16 – 00:39:50.92

Yeah. That's it.

2Speaker 2
00:39:51.38 – 00:40:05.10

That's great. So that's what I was thinking of doing. I'm like, okay, maybe I can pick up a few extra summer school hours. And also, there is a possibility of being able to find another job. I have somebody who can help me with that.

3Speaker 3
00:40:05.16 – 00:40:05.46

Good.

2Speaker 2
00:40:05.66 – 00:40:09.92

Okay. Like medical offices and stuff. Yeah. That's great. I'm just preparing.

00:40:10.16 – 00:40:10.48

I just.

1Speaker 1
00:40:10.48 – 00:40:16.94

Yeah. Yeah. And Aurora, you guys are doing an incredible job. I mean, and this is why you do this. This is why you do this.

00:40:16.94 – 00:40:25.46

Man, what? So you're not stuck in $50,000 of debt trying to figure this out. So there's a lot more peace, a lot more control and planning. And I'm just... Kudos to you guys.

00:40:25.50 – 00:40:33.86

You're doing it, doing the extra work, paying it off. And I'm so excited for you guys. You're so close. You are so close. Well, thanks, Jade, for a great show.

00:40:33.96 – 00:40:37.62

Thanks to all the guys in the booth. And thank you, America. This is The Ramsey Show.

00:40:41.30 – 00:41:09.80

Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's The Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create amazing relationships. I am, Rachel Cruz, hosting this hour with my good friend and bestselling author, Jade Warshaw. And we are here to answer your questions. So give us a call at 888-825-5225.. We will talk about your life, your money, relationships, career, anything and everything.

00:41:09.80 – 00:41:18.08

So give us a call. Up first, we have Lisa in Clarksville, Tennessee. Hey, Lisa. Welcome to the show.

2Speaker 2
00:41:19.06 – 00:41:20.00

Thank you for having me.

1Speaker 1
00:41:20.26 – 00:41:21.56

Absolutely. How can we help?

2Speaker 2
00:41:22.30 – 00:41:29.80

Hi, I'm 54 years old. I have no debt. I paid off all my student loans, credit cards, and my house, and my car.

1Speaker 1
00:41:29.82 – 00:41:30.00

Good for you.

3Speaker 3
00:41:30.52 – 00:41:30.88

Wow.

2Speaker 2
00:41:31.26 – 00:41:38.84

Yes. I have 76,000... I'm sorry, 72,600 in the money market. And I want to know how to start investing.

3Speaker 3
00:41:38.84 – 00:41:46.96

All right. That's good. So are you currently investing any of your paycheck every month when you get paid?

2Speaker 2
00:41:47.86 – 00:41:51.46

No, ma'am. I am not. We don't have that option at my job.

3Speaker 3
00:41:51.72 – 00:42:01.74

Okay. So they're not offering like an employee-sponsored 401k. That's okay. You can still start investing 15% of your income today by just investing in a Roth IRA. Right?

00:42:02.20 – 00:42:03.70

So is it just you or your husband?

2Speaker 2
00:42:04.66 – 00:42:05.66

No, ma'am. I'm single.

3Speaker 3
00:42:05.78 – 00:42:08.62

You're single. Okay. So yeah. You're. technically...

00:42:08.62 – 00:42:23.02

I mean, you've gone beyond, you know, baby step four, five, and six, because you've paid off your house. But let's go back to baby step four. right quick, and jump that one in place, which is 15% every single month. In your case, yeah, just start with a Roth IRA. You could start there and max it out.

00:42:23.10 – 00:42:43.30

I think you can do 7,000 this year. And if you have money to go beyond, above and beyond that, we can look into what that means for you. But that's the first place to start. So that's thing number one. And then, since you've got this big chunk of money sitting in this money market account, I would differentiate what's going to be your three to six months of expenses.

00:42:44.10 – 00:42:51.48

And I would put that in a high yield savings account. So what do you think? three to six months... In your case, I'd probably do six months. to be honest with you.

00:42:52.36 – 00:42:54.66

What's six months of expenses for you?

2Speaker 2
00:42:56.12 – 00:43:20.44

Well, I only make about $32,000 a year. Okay. And I pretty much use all of that to live on and pay the bills I do have to living expenses. I do have a little bit left over from each paycheck, but I have not been putting that in savings for about... I got divorced in September, so I haven't been putting anything in savings since I got divorced.

3Speaker 3
00:43:20.74 – 00:43:34.64

I see. Well, the good news is, like you said, you've got the $72,000, so you don't necessarily need to set any more aside into savings per se. But the retirement piece, I do want you doing that because you've got to keep actively adding to this nest egg.

2Speaker 2
00:43:35.60 – 00:43:40.70

Do I take any of the $72,000 and put that in a Roth IRA, or can I do that?

3Speaker 3
00:43:40.76 – 00:43:53.16

You can, but you can only do it up to a certain point, and then you're going to have to go into a brokerage account, or you're going to have to work with an investment professional to see what's the best option for you to open up. Okay, I got on... Go ahead.

2Speaker 2
00:43:53.28 – 00:44:00.60

I'm sorry. No, you go. I got on SmartVestor, and I have an appointment with... I guess he's called a financial professional.

3Speaker 3
00:44:01.36 – 00:44:01.64

Yes.

2Speaker 2
00:44:03.22 – 00:44:06.24

I guess I'll speak with him. Yes. And then...

3Speaker 3
00:44:06.70 – 00:44:32.60

So, when you work with that SmartVestor Pro, they're just going to give you the options, and the best options for you and your situation. But at the end of the day, the thing I want you to hear me say is, I think you've done a great job with the $72,000, but what you've got to do is you've got to take some of that as your three to six months, because I don't want you investing all of your money. You've got to keep some of it liquid. And so whatever six months of expenses is for you, take that and just set it aside. Put it in a high-yield savings account.

00:44:32.94 – 00:44:43.24

So if something goes wrong, Lisa, you can have that money. You know, if something happens with your roof or something happens with the car, you've got money that you can have access to without you pulling from invested money. Does that make sense?

2Speaker 2
00:44:44.24 – 00:44:46.40

Yes. What is a high-yield savings account?

3Speaker 3
00:44:46.82 – 00:44:59.18

It's a savings account. Most of them, the good ones, are online accounts. You could check out Ally.com. We don't endorse them, but it's just the one I use. I know George uses Marcus by Goldman Sachs.

00:44:59.30 – 00:45:00.06

Rachel, do you have one?

1Speaker 1
00:45:00.06 – 00:45:11.02

Yeah, we use an Ally. Yeah, it's similar to a money market account, Lisa. So it's an account that it usually, I think now is actually getting a higher rate of return than money market accounts. It is. But a high-yield savings account.

00:45:11.22 – 00:45:34.70

So what it is, it's basically a savings account where you're making more money, but you can't withdraw money up to a certain point in so many transactions per month. So there's some limits on it, but that's okay, because, again, that money is going to just sit there unless you really need it. And if you really need it, it's probably going to be one check that you write out of it if it's an emergency. And then everything else. So a Roth IRA is a great retirement vehicle.

00:45:35.22 – 00:46:01.36

Your money will grow tax-free, which is amazing. So as it's growing and as it's investing, as it's invested, you're going to be actually making so much money on your money. It's kind of one of those accounts that you put in. And because the market averages 10% or so, you'll be making money while you sleep, if you will, Lisa, which is a great thing for retirement. Lisa, you said you went through a divorce in September, and so you're back in the workforce.

00:46:01.48 – 00:46:05.56

Were you working before that, or did you go back to work because of where you're at?

2Speaker 2
00:46:06.34 – 00:46:07.86

I went back to work.

1Speaker 1
00:46:07.96 – 00:46:13.60

You went back to work. Okay. So I'm guessing this is one of the first times you're handling everything on your own, huh?

2Speaker 2
00:46:14.34 – 00:46:14.76

Yes.

1Speaker 1
00:46:14.92 – 00:46:19.78

Okay. You're doing great. You're doing a really good job, Lisa. What are you doing for work?

2Speaker 2
00:46:20.62 – 00:46:25.94

I work in a finance office, so I do the accounting work.

1Speaker 1
00:46:26.08 – 00:46:32.46

Okay. That's awesome. So my only other thought, because of your age and because you don't have much in retirement,

00:46:34.02 – 00:46:56.20

what it would look like to up your income. And I don't know what opportunities are out there for you in your area and with your experience and all of that, but that is something. I mean, $32,000, that's on the lower end. So I would encourage you to see what else is out there. And I think there's a level of confidence, Lisa, I could only imagine, that you now are starting to have.

00:46:56.28 – 00:47:21.40

And even when sitting down with the SmartVestor Pro, even listening to him and have him teach you, Lisa, okay, do not go in and just nod your head and just say whatever you say. I want you to learn. This is going to be some of the biggest changes of your life and things that you're dealing with now that you never probably had to. And so you're going to be a sponge, and I don't want you to put your money in something that you don't understand. And so I want you to really, really learn.

00:47:21.50 – 00:47:48.94

And I think over time, Lisa, there's going to be a level of confidence that is built, and I think that that can translate into more income. I think that you're going to feel like, okay, I can actually step out and apply for something and make more. But I think upping your income is another great goal to look at in the next, you know, three, six, 12 months. Absolutely. Because if you can make even $50,000, right, $20,000 more, that's going to make a significant difference to what you can put away for retirement.

00:47:48.94 – 00:47:56.42

But you're in a really good spot to have everything paid off. You have no bills. I mean, it's only up from here, Lisa. So I'm really proud of you.

2Speaker 2
00:47:57.08 – 00:47:59.36

Thank you so much. I really appreciate your time.

1Speaker 1
00:47:59.44 – 00:48:00.96

Yes, absolutely. Absolutely.

3Speaker 3
00:48:01.38 – 00:48:01.88

Really good.

1Speaker 1
00:48:02.22 – 00:48:08.94

Yeah, and that's, again, learning about this stuff and understanding, okay, what is a Roth IRA? And I even love, like, what is a high-yield savings account?

3Speaker 3
00:48:09.18 – 00:48:09.80

Yeah, great questions.

1Speaker 1
00:48:09.80 – 00:48:22.80

Like, getting, yes, getting to these basics and really having this knowledge. Knowledge gives you power. And when you have knowledge, you usually have options. Yeah. And you're able to see, you're not pinned into one thing and because, oh my gosh, this is the only thing I got to do, and I don't even get it, but I got to do it.

00:48:22.82 – 00:48:47.52

And it's this, like, fear cycle, all of it, right? That's right. When you have peace and you have knowledge and you're learning and you're experiencing, it does give you some confidence. So, Lisa, I'm really proud of you. I think that, I think you're doing a really brave thing and I'm excited for you to sit down with somebody and actually look at your specific numbers, have them teach you and show you, and they're going to run numbers for you to look out and say, okay, you know, in 10 years, here's where it's going to be in 15 years.

00:48:47.68 – 00:48:56.82

And I think it's going to be really motivating and empowering, Lisa, for you. So, I'm sorry you went through what you went through in September, but we believe in you. Thanks for the call. Thank you.

00:49:00.52 – 00:49:13.28

Welcome back to the Ramsey Show. I am Rachel Cruz hosting this hour with Jade Warshaw. So, it is tax season, Jade. It's approaching. It's here.

00:49:13.46 – 00:49:23.48

It is approaching. And taxes are confusing. We get it. But we want to unpack one question from one of our listeners. And it says, what's the difference between a tax deduction and a tax credit?

00:49:23.94 – 00:49:38.54

So, tax credits cut your bill dollar for dollar. So, if you owe $1,000 in taxes, you have a $500 tax credit. You only pay $500.. Love that. A tax deduction lowers your tax bill by lowering your taxable income.

00:49:39.20 – 00:49:57.04

So, again, you simply subtract the deduction from your income. Less taxable income means less tax is owed. So, it's more on your income, not on the actual taxes there. So, listen, again, there's a lot of ways you can go about this. And, again, there's like, okay, I could self-file.

00:49:57.28 – 00:50:16.88

Should I sit down with someone? I mean, there's just a lot of questions around taxes. So, if you are confident, though, in filing on your own, make sure to head to RamseySmartTax. And that's RamseySolutions.com slash tax. And there you will find RamseySmartTax, which is our no-nonsense tax software with low upfront pricing, no hidden fees.

00:50:16.88 – 00:50:53.74

And we will connect you with a tax pro if you need that. So, if you've had a big life change, or maybe you're re-looking at something, if you own a small business, you know, you've had a child, adopted a child, like, if something as big has happened in your life, you may want to sit down with a tax pro. And, again, you can find that on our website at RamseySolutions.com slash tax. And you can get connected to a tax professional who is Ramsey-trusted. So, again, you can file on your own using RamseySmartTax or sit down with a tax pro who is Ramsey-trusted at RamseySolutions.com slash tax.

3Speaker 3
00:50:54.36 – 00:50:54.66

Love it.

1Speaker 1
00:50:54.88 – 00:50:59.54

Up. next, we have Morgan in Tucson. Hey, Morgan. Welcome to the show.

2Speaker 2
00:51:00.98 – 00:51:03.40

Hi. Thank you all for taking my call.

1Speaker 1
00:51:03.78 – 00:51:04.92

Absolutely. How can we help?

2Speaker 2
00:51:06.44 – 00:51:33.42

So, my wife and I are buying a house. We got it down to $635,000, but it needs a little bit of work. We do have to put a new roof on it, which we estimate to be about $30,000.. However, that's our lowest estimate, so it could be as much as $40,000.. We also have another $3,000 to $7,000 for radon, so we're looking total at $33,000 to $50,000 that we have to put into the house before we move into it.

00:51:34.60 – 00:52:11.92

Originally, we were going to put down $335,000 on it by doing $235,000 down and then recasting $100,000 afterwards because it got us a half percent savings on the mortgage rate. Now we're trying to figure out, do we go ahead with that original plan? We have the cash to do the roof and radon, but if anything goes wrong, then we're going to be short on cash. We'll have the cash, but we're going to be short on it. Or do we hold off a couple months for the recast and make sure that we have everything squared away, move to New Mexico from Arizona and all of that?

3Speaker 3
00:52:13.08 – 00:52:19.02

So you're going to put $235,000 down, and when were you saying that you're going to do this? recast? How long are you waiting?

2Speaker 2
00:52:20.12 – 00:52:23.40

We originally were going to do it the next day, which we were allowed to do.

3Speaker 3
00:52:23.52 – 00:52:27.20

I don't understand why. Help me understand that.

2Speaker 2
00:52:28.06 – 00:52:35.20

The only reason that we wanted to do it was because they gave us another half percent discount on the mortgage rate. That's all.

3Speaker 3
00:52:37.00 – 00:52:39.16

So the next day put another $100,000 down.

2Speaker 2
00:52:40.38 – 00:52:40.94

Correct.

3Speaker 3
00:52:42.78 – 00:52:50.46

And there's no – I mean, obviously with the recast you're not closing again. You're just putting a $100,000 payment.

2Speaker 2
00:52:51.74 – 00:52:52.30

Correct.

3Speaker 3
00:52:53.28 – 00:53:04.16

I don't know. I want to know if there's a loophole there. I want to know something more about that. It just feels weird that you would hold on to your down payment.

2Speaker 2
00:53:04.58 – 00:53:16.58

From what we can tell, they market you hard. They try to get you to spend that money on something else and not recast it. It just gives them one more chance to get the money from you.

3Speaker 3
00:53:17.38 – 00:53:19.34

And this is all to save a half a percent?

2Speaker 2
00:53:20.92 – 00:53:25.18

Half a percent and, yeah, half percent on the mortgage 15-year.

1Speaker 1
00:53:26.58 – 00:53:38.82

Yeah, because, I mean, if worse comes to worse, Morgan, what would happen if you guys – you put $235,000 down. The next day? they're like, oh, this isn't going to work. The recast, oh, gosh, oh, gosh. Could you just throw the $100,000 on the house?

00:53:38.94 – 00:53:51.24

Yeah. So, I mean, either way, I think you're going to be okay. But you're asking with all these repairs, do you take $50,000 of that $100,000 and save it and put it to the side? Or what was your original question?

2Speaker 2
00:53:52.34 – 00:54:05.38

Right, so that's what my original question was. We have, I mean, to be on the safe side, $50,000 worth of repairs. We'd like to put down as much as we can on the house, but we also don't want to get into a cash crunch.

3Speaker 3
00:54:05.66 – 00:54:22.14

Yeah, so the question is if you save the $50,000 out, I'm not really concerned about the recast and all that. My thought is, can you afford the, here's my two questions for you. Can you afford the house if you don't get the extra percent off? That's the first, the extra half a percent. That's the first question.

00:54:22.42 – 00:54:30.74

And then, can you afford the house if you, instead of putting the $235,000 down, you put $285,000 down and then you keep $50,000?

00:54:31.24 – 00:54:41.28

? Will you still be able to, will it still fall under that parameter of it's no more than 25% of your take home on a 15 year fixed rate conventional mortgage?

2Speaker 2
00:54:41.80 – 00:54:43.14

Yeah. Yeah, it will.

3Speaker 3
00:54:43.52 – 00:54:54.00

So then, if I were in your shoes, based on what you said, I would probably be like, okay, we need this money. Because, like you said, radon, the roof's got to get fixed. Was it radon? Is that what you said?

2Speaker 2
00:54:55.04 – 00:54:56.08

Yeah, radon and roof.

3Speaker 3
00:54:56.60 – 00:55:06.64

The roof's got to get fixed. That's $50,000.. I mean, you need to get that done. So I would just keep that money out and have those repairs done. You put $285,000 down on a $635,000 house.

1Speaker 1
00:55:06.82 – 00:55:18.84

Which is great, because you were putting almost 50% down. That's awesome. So yeah, I mean, you guys are in a great position, but yeah. So I wouldn't, I would rather have the cash, fix what you need, and then aggressively pay down the house. Because do you guys have any other debt?

2Speaker 2
00:55:20.14 – 00:55:23.34

No, we don't have any other debt. We have very good income.

1Speaker 1
00:55:23.78 – 00:55:24.76

What do you guys make a year?

2Speaker 2
00:55:26.90 – 00:55:28.68

Before taxes and everything, $480,000.

00:55:29.46 – 00:55:31.88

. After taxes and 401k, $22,000 a month.

3Speaker 3
00:55:31.88 – 00:55:43.86

And then the good news is, I mean, you said it's 50k on the high side. It sounds like you're like being, estimating this aggressively, which is good. And if you get out on the other side and you're like, hey, we still have $10,000 or $15,000 left, throw it towards a mortgage.

2Speaker 2
00:55:45.10 – 00:55:55.54

Right. Okay, so you guys would suggest then recasting less, and then recasting or paying down quicker after everything is settled with what's remaining?

3Speaker 3
00:55:56.04 – 00:56:01.00

Well, would they let you, are they going to let you recast it, even though it's now going to be less than $100,000?

2Speaker 2
00:56:02.12 – 00:56:05.88

Yeah, they don't care. That was part of the deal we signed with them.

1Speaker 1
00:56:06.10 – 00:56:24.38

Okay. Yeah, I'm okay with that. And you guys make insane money, Morgan, too. So I'm like, if you have, you'll have roughly $330,000 left on the mortgage, and you guys making $480,000, which again is before taxes and everything. But I'm like, y'all could have your house paid off in three years if you really did it.

00:56:24.66 – 00:56:35.86

So yeah, I think you're in a great position. I think you're in a great position. But I would have the cash on hand to do the repairs that are necessary. And I'm thankful that you know that they're coming, because for some people it sneaks up on them and they don't have the cash to fix it.

3Speaker 3
00:56:36.12 – 00:56:48.88

True that. You know, usually when I hear recasting, I kind of, my radar goes up, because a lot of times people are doing that really just to get a lower payment. And it's in their mind, they're thinking, this is great. I don't have to close again. I'm not paying those closing costs.

00:56:48.92 – 00:57:08.22

I can just have them recalculate it now that I've made this giant payment and get a lower payment. But at the end of the day, the whole point is to pay off your mortgage and get it out of your life, not lower the payment. And so that's kind of. I was wanting to ask those questions, but it seems like they understand. And for them, the motivation was to get the lower interest rate, not to necessarily get a lower payment.

1Speaker 1
00:57:08.40 – 00:57:15.84

That's right. That's right. Yep. No, that's good, though, because I think, again, with the housing market where it's at, it is. It's so expensive.

00:57:16.06 – 00:57:35.28

I mean, everywhere I just feel like it's insane, and rates still are high. And so the whole mortgage conversation is one that has continued to be had. And it's still a hard, you know, it's a hard situation for a lot of people. But don't for a lot, you know, for them. in this situation, like you said, it is more about getting a lower interest rate because they're going to pay it off quickly.

00:57:35.84 – 00:58:04.94

And it's not just trying to finagle the system, to just get in a house where you barely can get in, but we're barely doing it because that when you're stretched that to that point, the only way we can do this is if we do a recast, right? Like if that's your only option, there's some desperation there. And if anything goes wrong, it's going to be so stressed and you're going to hate this house and you're going to think, why did we do this when we did it? Why didn't we wait 6,, 8, 12 months and save more? So give yourself some breathing room, you guys, in this.

00:58:04.98 – 00:58:06.96

And I know people are like, get in the market, get in the market, get in the market.

3Speaker 3
00:58:06.96 – 00:58:11.80

There's a lot of incentives out there, incentives out there right now, too, that can lure people away from better judgment.

1Speaker 1
00:58:12.36 – 00:58:22.70

Yes, exactly. So be careful with some of this, you guys, as you're out house hunting and all of it. We love houses. We love real estate. We want it to be part of your life, but we want it to be a blessing, not a curse.

00:58:23.12 – 00:58:24.48

This is The Ramsey Show.

00:58:29.74 – 00:59:04.82

Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. So I feel like one of the things we're known for, Jade, as the anti-credit card people, where so many people try to play the game, try to get the points and the cash back and all of it, and we're just like, you know what, live your own life, people. Don't have the bank involved. But credit card late fees, this has been in the news a lot, they've been capped now at $8.. $8, part of the Biden administration crackdown on junk fees, where a lot of people were paying a ton of these fees, especially with late fees and everything.

00:59:05.54 – 00:59:07.50

They're cracking down on the credit card companies.

3Speaker 3
00:59:07.76 – 00:59:43.18

It's crazy. It says, this is from CNN.com, it says, Federal regulators finalized a rule on Tuesday to cap most credit card late fees at $8 as part of a broader push by the Biden administration to eliminate junk fees. The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau estimates the new regulation, which was first proposed in February, will save families more than $10 billion a year by cutting fees from an average of $32.. It comes as Americans continue to pile on credit card debt. Guys, we know Americans are in $1.1 trillion, with a T, of credit card debt, which is crazy.

00:59:43.28 – 00:59:57.02

More than 45 million people are charged late fees on credit cards each year, which, by the way, that means for all the people who say, I have a credit card, Jade, but I pay it off every month. Someone's lying.

1Speaker 1
00:59:57.58 – 00:59:58.62

Someone's not telling the truth.

3Speaker 3
00:59:58.86 – 01:00:20.44

Someone's lying because somebody is being charged these fees is all I'm saying. It says these individuals will now save an average of $220 per year. I think that's a lie. The new rule aims to close 2010 loophole. So basically, you know, Rachel, when I hear things like this, there's part of me that thinks there's goodwill here, like there's good intent.

01:00:20.72 – 01:00:25.92

I do think that the administration is going, how can we, like? families are hurting, people are hurting economically.

1Speaker 1
01:00:25.98 – 01:00:29.54

We don't want credit card companies to take advantage of them being in a tight situation.

3Speaker 3
01:00:29.68 – 01:00:50.74

Yeah, so how can we, kind of, you know, close in the gap on that? And so eliminating junk fees, I think, in one way, it's great, because some people might look at $32 a month or $18 a month ago. That's nothing. But we do know that a lot of folks who are using credit cards, not everybody's using them to live a lavish life. Some people are just trying to keep the lights on, trying to keep groceries in the house.

01:00:50.92 – 01:01:14.46

And so there's part of this that I know a large population might be going, oh, great. Like I could use an extra $32.. But I really do think that at the end of the day, we have to realize that this is not something that we should cling to for hope. Like this is something for us to go, listen, I got to get out of this cycle. If $32 is what's meaning the world to me, I got to get out of this.

01:01:14.46 – 01:01:34.06

And, honestly, what I think is the way the credit card companies run, they're going to find another way to charge you. Do you think that they're really going to let go of $10 billion a year? No. They're not going to let that slide. They're going to find another way, whether it's increasing their interest rates, whether it's charging other fees.

01:01:34.14 – 01:01:35.38

They'll figure out a way to do it.

1Speaker 1
01:01:35.44 – 01:01:37.14

They're not going to just lay down and say, yeah, sure, whatever.

3Speaker 3
01:01:37.28 – 01:01:37.70

Yeah, $10 billion.

1Speaker 1
01:01:37.90 – 01:01:56.10

I know. And what's crazy, too, and it's interesting to think about, and I hate to say this because, like you said, I'm like there are people hurting and that this is the thing that's somewhat keeping them afloat, if you will, but still in this cycle, is that these fees hurt less. So does it keep you in a cycle because it doesn't hurt as much?

3Speaker 3
01:01:56.24 – 01:02:00.28

Yeah, you're not being charged that heavy late fee, so it's okay if you're late. It's okay if you keep it around.

1Speaker 1
01:02:00.28 – 01:02:22.30

But then your credit score keeps getting dinged. I mean, like all of it. So it's just being aware that this still, like you said, Jade, can't be the thing that motivates you. It has to be out of this willpower, of a higher will, if you will, to say, oh my gosh, I don't want this to be my life. And I don't want this cycle in general, regardless of what, you know, what legislation is passed or not.

01:02:22.66 – 01:02:25.48

For myself, I want to take control of something greater than this.

3Speaker 3
01:02:25.62 – 01:02:43.88

I just wish, you know, some part of me goes, if you really want to help people, show them the way out. Don't show them the way to stay in it and stay comfortable. Like, honestly, I mean, Ramsey. here at Ramsey, we're always showing people how to get out of debt, how to get out of a cycle. And I'm just like, stop giving people money and show them the way out.

1Speaker 1
01:02:44.04 – 01:02:49.12

Yes. But anyway. Governments on both sides are not known for that, y'all.

3Speaker 3
01:02:49.46 – 01:02:59.26

So we got to take it in our own hands. Take the matters into your own hands. That's right. And just get out of it if you can, if at all you can. And we're going to show you how to do that here on the show.

1Speaker 1
01:02:59.50 – 01:03:04.86

Yeah, absolutely. All right. Up. next, we have Joshua in Mobile. Hey, Joshua.

01:03:05.04 – 01:03:05.80

Welcome to the show.

2Speaker 2
01:03:06.70 – 01:03:07.98

Hey, how are y'all doing today?

1Speaker 1
01:03:08.18 – 01:03:09.68

We're doing great. How can we help?

2Speaker 2
01:03:11.08 – 01:03:24.12

Yes, ma'am. Me and my wife, we purchased FPU about three days ago. And we've been following through. And we had about $6,000 in savings. So I couldn't talk her into just having $1,000 in emergencies.

01:03:24.30 – 01:03:28.92

So we got $2,000 in emergencies, since we just had a one month old. So I said, I'll take what I can get.

3Speaker 3
01:03:28.94 – 01:03:30.66

Listen, you've got to sleep at night.

1Speaker 1
01:03:30.76 – 01:03:31.28

I hear you.

2Speaker 2
01:03:32.32 – 01:03:36.52

Exactly. So I took that $4,000, and I paid off my credit cards.

1Speaker 1
01:03:36.68 – 01:03:38.84

Good for you. Got rid of them. How'd that feel?

2Speaker 2
01:03:38.98 – 01:03:45.74

Yeah, I paid off. It felt amazing. It's just a never-ending cycle, it seems like. So I thank God that I found a way out of that.

3Speaker 3
01:03:45.96 – 01:03:46.80

That's awesome.

2Speaker 2
01:03:47.54 – 01:04:13.34

But I also paid off a washing dryer that I had to purchase due to an emergency that popped up in our home. And the thing is, is, instead of just having, you know, like $8,200 of debt left over, I bought my wife this car that I seem to hear about all day long and y'all keep getting asked about. And this car was $41,000.. Uh-oh. Yep.

01:04:13.68 – 01:04:28.32

And I still owe $37,000, but instead of paying off my debt in six months, now I'm looking at, you know, a couple years. And I'm just looking at what y'all recommend. I spoke with a dealership, trying to see if I could come in and maybe trade it in for something a little less.

1Speaker 1
01:04:28.32 – 01:04:30.98

Have you, Kelley Blue Booked it, Joshua?

2Speaker 2
01:04:32.28 – 01:04:33.52

No, ma'am, I haven't.

1Speaker 1
01:04:33.74 – 01:04:36.04

Okay, because I'm curious. How long ago did you get it?

2Speaker 2
01:04:37.50 – 01:04:42.04

We've only had the car for like four months. And then I ran across y'all and I was like, man, that was perfect timing. Okay.

1Speaker 1
01:04:42.66 – 01:04:48.22

Yeah. Four months too late, a little bit. I know. I wish we were there earlier. Was it brand new?

2Speaker 2
01:04:49.28 – 01:04:50.10

Yes, ma'am. Yep.

1Speaker 1
01:04:50.96 – 01:05:00.78

Okay, so it's taken a hit. And I'm curious, though, you owe $37,000 on it. I'm hoping there could be a wash there. You know, if you could sell it. I would Kelley, Blue, Book it and see what you can.

01:05:00.94 – 01:05:01.90

It's a four-month-old car.

2Speaker 2
01:05:02.38 – 01:05:04.00

It's a five-year loan at 2.

01:05:04.00 – 01:05:08.02

9% interest. So it's not a bad loan, considering, you know, other loans.

1Speaker 1
01:05:08.24 – 01:05:09.42

No. How much do you guys make a year?

2Speaker 2
01:05:10.58 – 01:05:14.48

We made $120,000 last year. Okay. Annually.

3Speaker 3
01:05:15.02 – 01:05:16.58

Is this your only car?

2Speaker 2
01:05:16.92 – 01:05:21.72

When I look at the total, I'm like, yes, her only car. And then my truck's paid off.

1Speaker 1
01:05:21.96 – 01:05:23.60

And then what other debt do you guys have?

2Speaker 2
01:05:24.90 – 01:05:32.84

I have a $7,000 personal loan and then $1,800 on a stupid computer that I bought.

1Speaker 1
01:05:33.26 – 01:05:39.12

Okay. So you'll get that paid off this month, I'm hoping. Yeah. Oh, God, Joshua. I'm selling the car.

01:05:39.36 – 01:05:53.26

Yeah, I definitely would. I couldn't stomach having a $41,000 asset that is going to continue just to drop, drop, drop, drop, drop, as even we're talking on this call right now. 100%. It's just continuing to drop. And for you guys just to be out, it's not worth it.

01:05:53.26 – 01:06:10.20

It's not worth it. A car, it's not worth it. And so I would sit down with your wife and be like, hey, what does it look like if we save up some money and we sell this? I'm hoping you can get more than what you owe, just to get a few thousand bucks out of it. And then pair it together.

01:06:10.60 – 01:06:19.24

Go and look on AutoTrader. Just look around at a private sale of another car. You can get a great car. And a car's a car, right? It needs to get you from point A to point B.

01:06:20.50 – 01:06:21.32

That was the thing.

2Speaker 2
01:06:21.46 – 01:06:28.76

She had a 2008 Nissan Sentra. And, like I said, we got a one-month-old daughter. And I was like, you know, that thing ain't safe. And she was like, well, let's get this $20,000..

3Speaker 3
01:06:28.76 – 01:06:31.96

The thing is, you go from one extreme to another.

1Speaker 1
01:06:32.78 – 01:06:38.38

Don't do that. I hate when people do this. And I get it's out of the love of the baby. But a Camry is safe.

3Speaker 3
01:06:38.60 – 01:06:38.82

Yeah.

1Speaker 1
01:06:39.20 – 01:06:47.98

An eight-year-old Camry is safe. It's going to be fine. It's going to be fine. And, Joshua, run the numbers just for yourselves. And just say, let's put this car payment.

01:06:48.08 – 01:07:14.82

Let's just say we just did the norm, which I know you're not doing because you're wanting to aggressively pay off debt. So I hear that. But just put a car payment, put your car payment in an investment calculator and see what it's costing you. And that's what people, you really need to understand is, instead of your money working for you, and when you sleep at night, it's making you money and it's making you wealthier, all of that is going to a dealership and going to the bank. And you're paying interest on something that's going down in value.

01:07:15.00 – 01:07:19.12

So it's not worth it. The car is not worth it to me.

3Speaker 3
01:07:19.24 – 01:07:22.44

What is your car payment? I'm just curious on this $41,000 vehicle.

2Speaker 2
01:07:23.60 – 01:07:26.72

Yeah, it's like a $750 a month. Ooh, Lord.

3Speaker 3
01:07:27.14 – 01:07:27.80

That's messed up.

2Speaker 2
01:07:27.80 – 01:07:30.38

Like I said, I got this short loan. That's still horrible.

1Speaker 1
01:07:30.80 – 01:07:44.18

I don't care. Joshua, sell it. Lock arms, sell it, and then go get an awesome other car in 18 months, once you're debt-free. But get this $41,000 of debt in a stupid car out of here. You guys can do this.

01:07:44.22 – 01:07:58.84

I feel the motivation, Joshua. You guys are on track. I mean, you're four days in, so I'm going to give you some grace. But you're making traction, and just go all in. And if you hate the plan, if you hate it, Joshua, you can always go back and get a $41,000 car loan if you want to.

01:07:58.84 – 01:08:01.48

later. If that's what you want to do, you can go back. But try our way first.

01:08:06.60 – 01:08:28.90

Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. We were just talking at the break, as we were right coming on, hot on the air. Yes. Of just, you know, especially you, young families that have kids, and you're in this season of just, golly, it's a lot of work. And the kids are just, there's goldfish, cracker, crumbs and peanut butter and jelly and Crustables squeezed everywhere.

01:08:29.04 – 01:08:39.64

It's just, you know, you want to evolve. You want to be able to enjoy life. And I think for some people, it can be like, we want the nicest thing. We want a brand new X. We want this, this, this, this, and this.

3Speaker 3
01:08:39.90 – 01:08:43.04

Can it even be taken care of, though, the way it's supposed to be is the question.

1Speaker 1
01:08:43.24 – 01:08:59.56

And there's a level of, like, you know, and I can be like this, where I'm like, I just don't want to spend money on something that I can't enjoy in life because I'm so scared it's going to get destroyed. And maybe one day, once they're teenagers, or, I don't know, parents of teenagers can correct me. Yeah. There's a point that I'm like, okay, great. That's not going to get spilled on.

01:08:59.56 – 01:09:02.84

Or, for the most part, like, you can handle X, Y, and Z.

3Speaker 3
01:09:03.52 – 01:09:18.68

All I know, Rachel, is. I watched my son take a piece of pizza and take every piece of topping off of the pizza into his lap in the car. And then, when I leaned over to see what he was doing, I watched my daughter spill her piece of pizza on the carpet.

2Speaker 2
01:09:18.98 – 01:09:19.24

Oh, yeah.

3Speaker 3
01:09:19.48 – 01:09:23.80

And I'm like, I can't drive Alexa's truck. It's done. I never can.

1Speaker 1
01:09:24.72 – 01:09:32.34

It's a real thing. So we want to enjoy life to people. So some people go get the brand new thing because of the new baby. And I'm like, I don't know.

3Speaker 3
01:09:32.64 – 01:09:34.06

They're going to spit up on it.

1Speaker 1
01:09:34.22 – 01:09:34.98

Yep, 100%.

3Speaker 3
01:09:34.98 – 01:09:44.72

The car seat is going to put those deep indentations into that nice leather. Even if you put down the little mat, it's still going to put that deep, you know. Done. so. You put the little kick pads.

01:09:44.88 – 01:09:54.66

By the time you baby proof it, you put the kick pads on the back of the seat, then it's not even what it was intended to be anymore. I'm like, listen, I'll just wait.

1Speaker 1
01:09:54.90 – 01:09:58.00

We'll wait. We're going to have delayed gratification, Jade. That's right.

3Speaker 3
01:09:58.32 – 01:10:01.82

And these kids are not going to ruin that truck when the time comes.

1Speaker 1
01:10:01.88 – 01:10:08.16

That's right. That's right. All right. Up next, we have Erica in Gainesville. Hey, Erica.

01:10:08.38 – 01:10:09.20

Welcome to the show.

2Speaker 2
01:10:10.42 – 01:10:12.00

Hi. Thank you for taking my call.

1Speaker 1
01:10:12.18 – 01:10:13.46

Absolutely. How can we help?

2Speaker 2
01:10:14.86 – 01:10:38.10

So my husband and I sold our first house two years ago because we wanted to buy some land. And we had $150,000 in equity in our house and decided on our path to be debt-free, we were going to buy a property outright. We didn't want to have a mortgage at all. So we did. We found a five-acre property with a double-wide mobile home.

01:10:39.08 – 01:10:47.34

And we were planning on fixing up the double-wide, but now we've decided we hate it. And we want to build a house.

01:10:49.86 – 01:10:56.62

So we have $20,000 in debt right now, and that's student loans, consumer, and medical.

01:10:59.00 – 01:11:11.62

And I guess, so we want to pay all that off first before trying to get a loan to build a house. But we're worried that it's going to drop our credit and not be able to get a loan to build a house.

3Speaker 3
01:11:13.04 – 01:11:14.40

Go ahead, Rachel. I heard you.

1Speaker 1
01:11:14.60 – 01:11:36.02

Yeah, no. I was going to say, yeah, your credit will lower as you pay off debt, but it will get to a place, Erica, where it's undetermined, basically. And so it will take about 6 to 12 months, once you pay off that last debt, for it to get there. And then from there, you would do a process called manual underwriting. Now, that's usually for already a home.

01:11:36.14 – 01:12:05.68

And so you would have to take out a construction loan and then roll it over to a mortgage once the construction is done. So you would have to work with somebody to make sure, with the manual underwriting process, which people still do that. So that is still an option for you. But, yes, you will have your credit score lowered as you pay off debt, because mathematically, the way your credit score is calculated has to do with debt. And so when you're getting out and you're not accumulating new debt, but you're aggressively paying it off, you will see over time, as you pay off these debts, it's going to go down.

01:12:06.38 – 01:12:09.40

So, yeah, you guys will just have to be patient in that sense.

3Speaker 3
01:12:09.40 – 01:12:19.64

The good news is the time is built in, because the time that it's going to take you to save up for the down payment is the time it'll take for your score to roll to zero.

1Speaker 1
01:12:20.00 – 01:12:20.60

Yep, that's right.

3Speaker 3
01:12:20.90 – 01:12:21.70

So there's part of that.

2Speaker 2
01:12:22.04 – 01:12:34.18

So my husband's a veteran, so we were planning on doing a VA loan. And I guess we may have to look into that more if they will do an underwriting, manual, underwriting process for VA loans. I'm not totally sure about that.

3Speaker 3
01:12:35.06 – 01:12:53.60

Well, typically we would suggest a conventional loan. There are some instances where a VA will work, but a lot of times they have a lot of extra fees that end up making it more expensive. So really do your research on that before you settle in on a VA loan, simply because usually I think the biggest benefit is you don't have to put money down, correct?

2Speaker 2
01:12:55.34 – 01:12:56.26

Correct, yes.

3Speaker 3
01:12:56.38 – 01:13:01.82

And we want you to put money down, because we want you to have almost like instant equity when you're going forward.

1Speaker 1
01:13:01.82 – 01:13:27.18

Yeah, so at least 5% for your first home is what we say, 5% to 20% is ideal. But you guys too, Erica, I'll just say it because I have you on the call. When you go into this build process, again, it'll be in a few years, but this is a situation that you'll go to the bank and they're going to be able to say, oh, my gosh, you qualify for this. And you're going to think, oh, we don't need that. And then you're going to start the home build process and be like, oh, we can upgrade here.

01:13:27.24 – 01:13:35.02

We can add a little square footage there. And you start ticking your way up. And it's so easy. during builds. It's usually more expensive than you think.

01:13:36.34 – 01:13:47.62

Your standard can start to really waver. So I always say this to people that are building homes. Have a budget. Be firm on it and say we're not going over this. And that's what Winston and I did when we built ours.

01:13:47.66 – 01:13:54.98

And it was hard. There was stuff that we said no to. that we're like, man, we wanted it. But at this moment in time, we can't pay for it. So we're not going to do it.

01:13:55.10 – 01:13:57.98

But it's easy to creep that budget up when it happens. Absolutely.

3Speaker 3
01:13:58.34 – 01:14:18.50

And if you can get your loan, a construction to permanent loan, the first time, that way they know, hey, I'm getting this loan for this. It's going to automatically convert. And you're not having to go through that closing process twice. or get to the point where you've taken out this construction loan. To Rachel's point, if you've gone over budget and then you're going over here to try to get that to convert to a mortgage and you're not approving, that.

1Speaker 1
01:14:18.74 – 01:14:19.62

You get in trouble there.

3Speaker 3
01:14:19.62 – 01:14:25.96

You can get in trouble there. So make sure you're doing it all in one from the beginning. And there's plenty of mortgage companies who will do that for you. That's right.

1Speaker 1
01:14:25.96 – 01:14:30.36

Up. next, we have Nicole in Kansas City. Hey, Nicole. Welcome to the show.

3Speaker 3
01:14:31.22 – 01:14:31.72

Hi.

1Speaker 1
01:14:32.08 – 01:14:33.62

Hello. Hello. How can we help?

2Speaker 2
01:14:34.52 – 01:14:47.18

Okay. So I am calling. My husband and I live very frugally. I mean, we're kind of the joke of everybody, because we drive the old cars. But we have secretly been able to put money away.

01:14:48.00 – 01:15:05.58

And I'm just putting it away in CDs and in cash. And I've just been following Dave Ramsey for, like, the last year on Facebook and listening to you guys. And I'm going, okay, we need to do something more, because it's great that we have this money in CDs, but that's making us, what, $1,000 a year?

3Speaker 3
01:15:05.72 – 01:15:06.54

Right. Yes.

2Speaker 2
01:15:06.54 – 01:15:19.66

And we hear them talk a lot about Roth IRAs. And I'm like, is that what I start doing? And we probably make, both of us together, maybe $90,000 a year. And we probably have $90,000 savings.

1Speaker 1
01:15:19.66 – 01:15:20.10

Okay.

3Speaker 3
01:15:20.32 – 01:15:25.62

Well, do your employers offer any sort of investing opportunity? 401K, 403B?

2Speaker 2
01:15:26.10 – 01:15:33.48

Yeah, we do both have that. And we have, like, employer match, 5%. So we both do the max of 5% both.

1Speaker 1
01:15:33.68 – 01:15:38.34

So you are doing that currently? Yes, we are doing that currently as well. Perfect.

2Speaker 2
01:15:38.46 – 01:15:55.44

And so my thing is, like I said, I'm putting away about $1,500 a month, sometimes $2,000 a month. And I'm going, I need to be doing something more with this money, because I'm going to be 37 this year. And I'm, like, you know, retirement's really not that far out in the future.

1Speaker 1
01:15:55.56 – 01:15:56.78

Do you guys have any debt, Nicole?

2Speaker 2
01:15:57.54 – 01:15:58.10

That's right.

1Speaker 1
01:15:58.50 – 01:16:08.54

No debt. Okay. So what I would do, Nicole, is remember this formula. Match beats Roth beats traditional. So the first thing you're going to do is your match.

01:16:08.56 – 01:16:20.28

And you guys are doing that up to 5%. And we want you investing 15% of your income into retirement. So 5% of that 15% is done, which is great. So you have 10% left. So then I want you guys, yes, to open up a Roth IRA.

01:16:20.66 – 01:16:30.44

It grows tax-free. The max, I think, is $7,000 this year that you each can put in. You each can open one. So I want you to open one, Nicole, and I want your husband to open up one. So you guys will be investing money into that.

01:16:30.52 – 01:17:00.34

And then, after that's done, run the calculations and see, okay, is out of that 10%, after we max it out, how much is left? If there is any left, go back to your 401K and put that money in. And you just do that formula of 15%. And then anything extra that you guys have in your budget that you're able to throw at your house, pay it off early, and you just keep doing that. And that, Nicole, your 401K and a Roth IRA, you guys doing that from 37 to 67, you're going to be fine.

01:17:00.44 – 01:17:19.56

It's going to be fabulous. If you want to go to ramsysolutions.com and hit our investing calculator and put some of these numbers in and just say, hey. And this 90,000 that you have, keep some of that cash and put it in a high yield savings account. I would do six months of expenses. And then the rest of it you can use to fund your Roth.

01:17:19.56 – 01:17:26.30

if you need to. You can put it in a brokerage account, some type of Vanguard account. even. So, there's some other options there, Nicole.

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