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<p>The Betrayal community is growing. From the producers that brought you the critically acclaimed Betrayal limited run series, a new always on docuseries will hit the feed every week. Our lives are all built on an invisible force: trust. But sometimes, the people we trust the most can turn out to be complete strangers. Every week, <em>Betrayal: Weekly </em>will share first-hand accounts of broken trust, shocking deceptions, and the trail of destruction they leave behind. Hosted by Andrea Gunning, this weekly ongoing series digs into real-life stories of betrayal and the aftermath. From stories of double lives to dark discoveries, these are cautionary tales and accounts of resilience against all odds.</p> <p> </p> <p>Go back and listen to Betrayal Seasons 1, 2, and 3!</p> <p> </p> <p>In Season 1 we follow Jenifer Faison's journey after discovering her husband Spencer Herron's hidden life. A reality TV producer, Jen moved across the country to be with Spencer, a beloved soccer coach and award-winning teacher in Acworth, Georgia. Their seemingly idyllic seven-year marriage abruptly ended when Spencer was arrested under shocking circumstances. Jenifer's quest for closure leads her to confront the truth about her husband through candid interviews with his victims and other affected women. Through these conversations, Jen begins to heal and reclaim her life from the shadow of betrayal.</p> <p> </p> <p>In Season 2, Ashley Lytton, a suburban mom of three in Utah, faces a life-altering revelation about her husband. His shocking crime not only jeopardizes their safety but thrusts Ashley into a relentless quest for justice and protection for her daughter. Through Ashley's harrowing journey, the season exposes a pervasive issue affecting families nationwide, shedding light on a betrayal that undermines our core values and communities.</p> <p> </p> <p>In “Betrayal” Season 3, Stacey Rutherford thought she met her soulmate when she laid eyes on Dr. Justin Rutherford. They fell in love, and it was better than she ever imagined. But this family doctor, beloved father, and cherished husband had dark secrets. He had sworn to do no harm but would resort to any means necessary to save himself. </p>
Hi, I'm Molly Conger, host of Weird Little Guys, a new podcast from CoolZone Media on iHeartRadio. I've spent almost a decade researching right-wing extremism, digging into the lives of people. You wouldn't be wrong to call monsters, but if Scooby-doo taught us one thing, it's that there's a guy under that monster mask. The monsters in our political closets aren't some unfathomable evil, they're just some weird guy.
So join me every Thursday for a look under the mask at the Weird Little Guys Trying to Destroy America. Listen to Weird Little Guys on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Hey guys, it's Andrea Gunning. Betrayal is now releasing episodes every single week about the people we trust the most and the deceptions that change everything. Now, you can get access to Betrayal weekly, 100 ad-free and one week early with an IHeartTrue Crime Plus subscription available exclusively on Apple Podcasts. Plus, you'll get access to other chart-topping true crime shows. You love, like There and Gone, South Street, Creating a con, the story of Bitcon, Paper Ghosts, Unrestorable, The Girlfriends and more.
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I'm Andrea Gunning and this is betrayal bonus episode 4 update on Erin.
Before the bonus starts, I want to tell you that more stories of betrayal will be coming in 2024, so we want to hear your stories. And although we've talked about marriages and parent relationships, we are open to any betrayal that has changed your life in a meaningful way. If you're open and want to share your story of betrayal, email me at betrayalpod at gmail dot com. That's Betrayal P-o-D at gmail dot com. And, of course, if you want to write in and just share privately, this email account can continue to be a safe space for you too.
Okay, so on to an important update on Erin, one of the women you got to know last season. We received so many wonderful emails expressing support and concern about her. Let me give you a quick recap of her story. Erin is a family therapist, she was married to Joel, and they lived with their two kids in Texas.
Joel was an explosive specialist for the military. Erin knew her husband was struggling, her marriage was in trouble, and after a fight, Erin's intuition kicked in.
I decided to look at his computer and I went into his recently deleted files. And that's where there was just a plethora of pictures. Like Little Miss Country USA, all different ages, all different looks. It was so many people he had collected. I clicked on one and it was this little girl who I'd never seen before, don't recognize at all. Standing naked on a beach, she had a look on her face like, This is not me being cute and playing on the beach. No, it was inappropriate.
So I actually took a picture of her from the face up because I just needed to prove to myself that I wasn't crazy. And then I took a picture of the names of the files, and then I shut it all down and I put it all back.
What Erin found was the tip of the iceberg. She took her two small, young children and fled. She drove to the airport and flew back to her hometown in California seeking solace and family support. Her mother was deceased, and her two brothers and father did not offer the safe haven she was seeking. After almost three years, her husband was prosecuted.
He pled guilty to 25 felony charges of child pornography. He was sentenced to eight years and he only did three.
One piece of Erin's story that really affected our listeners was how difficult it was to start over. She lost her livelihood and her husband's income. At one point, Erin applied for welfare, then there was her family, although there were many family members who helped and supported her. Her nuclear family did not seem to find Joel's crimes as troubling and serious as she did.
We heard from so many of you mothers, a former prosecutor, other victims all rooting for Erin, and even listeners who wanted to send her financial support. Erin read all of it.
I was blown away. I've not felt that kind of support since my mom was alive. And that was like the whole nation. Counteracting what I had grown up believing with kind of a low self-esteem and second-guessing my every move. I really think that motivated me to go, you know what, I'm really doing my best here. It was really miraculous and I can't tell you how healing this podcast was for me.
One thing that really gets me is when people wrote to me and they said, I wish I had a mom like you.
My mom was great, my mom was amazing, she had cancer for 26 years and she never dropped a ball. I mean, she was really, really fantastic and I always wished that everyone had a mother like her. It's an honor to her. Also that I'm making good choices and that I'm looking out for my kids and that I keep them number one.
Once Erin's ex-husband, Joel, was released from prison in Texas, he moved in with his parents. It was only about a mile from where Erin and her children were living.
When he got out, I got the restraining order and he got awarded visitation with the kids in a supervised facility.
Erin managed to avoid those visits, while other parental litigation was still pending.
Then the lawyer called me and said he just got arrested again. And when we looked it up online, it did mention possession of child pornography, and I still don't know the details of all of that. But it sounds as though he may have had his first parole check the first time in a year, and they found some things on his phone. Like social media, which we've learned, is a common way that people share CSAM material.
Hi, I'm Molly Conger, host of Weird Little Guys, a new podcast from Cool Zone Media on iHeartRadio. I've spent almost a decade researching right-wing extremism, digging into the lives of people. You wouldn't be wrong to call monsters, but if Scooby-doo taught us one thing, it's that there's a guy under that monster mask. I've collected the stories of hundreds of aspiring little hitlers of the suburbs. From the Nazi cop who tried to join ISIS, to the National Guardsman plotting to assassinate the Supreme Court, to the satanist soldier who tried to get his own unit blown up in Turkey, the monsters in our political closets aren't some unfathomable evil.
They're just some weird guy and you can laugh, honestly, I think you have to. Seeing these guys for what they are doesn't mean they're not a threat, it's a survival strategy.
So join me every Thursday for a look under the mask at the Weird Little Guys Trying to Destroy America. Listen to Weird Little Guys on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Joel Lavelle Callahan was arraigned on September 26, 2023, in the Superior Court of Fresno, and assigned a public defender.
He denied the public defender so that he could hire a private criminal law attorney. And he has a private family law attorney. Which has bought him quite a bit of time out in the free world.
Erin has kept moving forward and stayed focused on building a healthy life with her two kids. She's a licensed therapist in California.
My private practice is what I would consider very successful. I'm very comfortable and able to give my children the life that I want without needing child support or relying on that.
Erin moved her family a few hours away to a beach community for a fresh start.
That is just like going from the depths of hell all the way to heaven. I've already seen so much healing happening in myself, which I think trickles down to them as well. They love where we live, they said. It's like being on vacation every day. We have a lot more fresh, grown, local produce here.
So another part of our healing was having better nutrition, so we're working on diets, we're working on mental health. We like to go to the park a lot, we feel safer.
Erin lived in fear for a long time. At one point, she felt she needed to be armed.
A year ago, I was walking around with a gun strapped to my person. I had my concealed carry weapons permit and I didn't even want to leave to go to the office without that. And out here also, we live in a very safe area that I feel like we can sleep with the windows open and hear the ocean outside.
Her son has become a top runner in his school. Her daughter just won an award for writing. They are thriving. Still, heartbreak sneaks up every once in a while, especially around the holidays.
Thanksgiving just passed by. My brother hosted Joel and his family for Thanksgiving, whereas we were in a town with no familiar faces and no one familiar to celebrate that with. And that's just like, you just continue to keep stabbing me in the heart.
Erin does not want Joel to have rights to the kids at all. Her fight in court is for him to be removed as a parent.
I'm prepared to fire on all cylinders, but I hope for my sanity that I don't have to keep. Proving why he shouldn't have visitations more than he's trying to prove why he should. I genuinely think I'm probably still doing more to help Joel than anybody else is. How much of a privilege is it to say I've got our kids? I will take great care of them. While you take the time to figure your life out or clean your life up, or whatever you got to do, I can't make our kids not love him.
I can't make them disown him or anything like that. And so if they want to have a relationship with him when they get older. Or they have questions about their health or whatever that is still on the table. And so all I'm trying to do is keep them out of that equation. So that they're not affected and give them a nice, comfortable life so that they don't have to endure everything that he's putting them through. I'm trying to give him and my children both the space that they need to get healthy and myself as well. I mean, I've been severely damaged with trust and trauma through a lot of this.
And so we need to be able to untether in order to show up for one another.
How do you measure recovery for someone who consumes CSAM? Do services provided in prison cure the addiction? It's something we talked about during the series, and there isn't a clear answer.
His whole case was precipitating on the fact that they thought he was reformed, and clearly he's not reformed. And I think it's a lot of people who don't work in mental health that don't know what is required to treat addiction or treat this type of abusive behavior. Maybe they do think church is enough, maybe they do think that court consequences are enough. But I know through direct experience, having worked with people with similar attributes, that that is not enough.
You need a lot more accountability, a lot more hand-holding out of that. Because, you know, he didn't become addicted to things in a day, he's not going to recover in a day. So I just wish that there was more mental health woven into that equation so that they could look at it from that perspective. But I am not convinced. And his reoffense just supported what my feeling was this whole time.
It was really good to find out how Aaron has been doing. Since Betrayal Season 2 first dropped. We'll be back soon with an update on Ashley Litton. You can always reach out to our team at BetrayalPod at Gmail.com. that's BetrayalPod at gmail.com. Thank you for listening.
Betrayal is a production of Glass Podcasts, a division of Glass Entertainment Group, in partnership with IHeart Podcasts. The show was executive produced by Nancy Glass and Jennifer Faison. Posted and produced by Me Andrea Gunning.
Written and produced by Carrie Hartman, also produced by Ben Fetterman.
Associate Producer Kristen Mulcury.
Our iHeart team is Allie Perry and Jessica Kreincheck.
Audio editing and mixing by Matt Dalbecchio. Trails Theme Composed by Oliver Baines. Music Library provided by My Music. And for more podcasts from iHeart, visit the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or Wherever you get your podcasts.
Hi, I'm Molly Conger, host of Weird Little Guys, a new podcast from Cool Zone Media on iHeart Radio. I've spent almost a decade researching right-wing extremism, digging into the lives of people. You wouldn't be wrong to call monsters, but if Scooby-doo taught us one thing, it's that there's a guy under that monster mask. The monsters in our political closets aren't some unfathomable evil.
They're just some weird guy, so join me every Thursday for a look under the mask at the Weird Little Guys Trying to Destroy America. Listen to Weird Little Guys on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Señora Sex Ed is not your mommy's sex talk. This show is La Platica, like you've never heard it before. We're breaking the stigma and silence around sex and sexuality in Latinx communities.
This podcast is an intergenerational conversation between Latinas from Gen X to Gen Z.
We're your hosts, Viosa and Mala. you might recognize us from our first show, Locatora Radio. Listen to Señora Sex Ed on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Hey guys, it's Andrea Gunning. Betrayal is now releasing episodes every single week about the people we trust the most and the deceptions that change everything. Now, you can get access to Betrayal weekly, 100 ad-free and one week early. With an iHeart True Crime Plus subscription available exclusively on Apple Podcasts Plus, you'll get access to other chart-topping true crime shows. You love, like There and Gone, South Street, Creating a con, the story of Bitcon, Paper Ghosts, Unrestorable, The Girlfriends and more.
So don't wait, head to Apple Podcasts, search for IHeart True Crime Plus and subscribe today.
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