Winning With Money Is 80% Behavior

Welcome to the Ramsey Show. Good afternoon. Hey. What's up? So, my question is, my wife and I are on Baby Step 7, and we want to be able to help out our kids.

We have grown adult kids. One of them just got married, and the other one is a grad student in college. And we want to be able to help them in such a way that, you know, whether it's helping pay for a down payment on a house or something like that, we want to help them and have it be a blessing, but not make them feel entitled or not, you know, kind of make them feel like they're just waiting on us to provide.

Mm-hmm. Are they waiting on you now? Oh, no. No. So, there's not already a sense of entitlement.

You're just worried that handing them $30,000 might create more entitlement? Right. Hmm. I mean, you know, we, like, throughout the course of them growing up, you know, we paid for their state college, you know, we basically provided them, you know, when they graduated from undergrad, you know, we got them a nice, reliable used car and kind of set them on the path and said, all right, you're, you know, you're never going to borrow money to buy stuff like that. You know, the next car you buy, you're going to save up and pay cash for it.

You know, you're not going to have any student loans. And are they doing all of those things? Yeah. Yeah. Okay.

Here's the thing. I don't think the gift causes the entitlement.

I mean, you could give one person a dollar and they would be entitled, and you could give another person $100 million and they wouldn't feel entitled. So entitlement is an arrogance.

Entitled is, I am due the, I'm on third base, I was born on third base, walking around, acting like I hit a triple. You know, and you didn't do squat, you know, so entitlement is, I am due something from someone. There's an, it's an arrogance. And it's my right to get this. I'm entitled to healthcare.

I'm entitled to something. And it's your, it's basically saying you're willing to, you improperly believe that you have rights over someone else's stuff. Right? That make sense? So entitlement is an attitude.

It's not a, it's not caused by an amount. And so it sounds like you've got really good kids that you're describing. Yeah. I mean, they, they worked really hard for, for everything they have. I mean, I'm, I'm a teacher, so, you know, I feel like they, you know, they, we live in a pretty nice suburb and, you know, the reason that they had their schooling paid for is because we didn't go out and buy all the things that maybe their friends had and, you know, we.

But they didn't, they didn't walk around acting like that. you had to do that or you were a bad human. It was just what you did. And so, you know, like, you know, I have a friend that bought his kids when they got married, he bought them a paid for house and said, you know, you, the only thing I ask from you is that you promised to never borrow money the rest of your life. And those kids have gone on to become millionaires fairly quickly, obviously got a headstart with a nice house, you know what I mean?

And they got no payments, so they're piling it up, but those kids were not entitled at all. They, they were just grateful. And I know the kids well, and they were, you know, they've gone on to become normal grown adults and they just got a real nice headstart because dad, because their dad and mom had done well, like you guys. So I think it's about the attitude, uh, the thing you don't want to do, I guess one thing you could say is just, you know, don't develop an expectation with this gift of this down payment for this house, that I'm always going to be here handing out money. This is a one-time thing.

And you can just say that. one thing, to make sure there's clarity about it. Right. But, but the entitlement has to do with their lack of character, not about you giving them an education or giving them a car or giving them money for a down payment. Does that make sense?

Yeah. Yeah. I mean, and I guess the other thing I, question I have with that is, you know, I want to, you know, this is a gift. I mean, I'm not, I know I hear you constantly talk about how, you know, when your kids are grown and you can't use your dad voice anymore, you know, they're, they're. basically we're, we're walking together as, as friends, and maybe, you know, I can be a mentor, but you know, I can suggest some things, but ultimately it's their choice.

And so, you know, that's the thing. Well, my gift would be contingent upon them, you know, doing these things. I mean, I don't have a promise that they continue to go that direction. And I do have the right to attach that with a gift. I'll give you an example.

The Ramsey Family Foundation, we give to a lot of ministries. We do not give to ministries that borrow money. And so the gift is contingent upon, you know, the fact that that ministry is not going to go into debt and, and use some of the money I gave them to pay stinking bank interest. That'd be stupid. Dave Ramsey, be giving people money for that, right?

So I mean, but that's a gift that has control on it. And you know, if there's going to be a gift in another year, that the follow-up gift will not happen. if they have borrowed money during that year, we stop them, you know? So it's the same thing, but that, so it's okay to put a, to attach a contingency to a gift. Yeah.

And I think the worry for our friend Dave here is that he's worried. his generosity of trying to offer them this blessing will turn into laziness, but he hasn't raised lazy kids. So this will not cause that to happen. The gift in and of itself doesn't cause that to happen. I mean, it can be part of the equation that caused it.

I mean, if you've got a trust fund, baby, that's waiting on, okay, I'm going to, you know, at age 30, you're going to get $2 million. And so they decide, well, I'm not going to work much. I'm just going to sit around and wait till I hit 30.. Well, but the problem was, it was not just the $2 million at age 30.. The problem was the person you raised to be that freaking lazy, you know, that mediocre mindset.

And so the fact that you plugged that into them before you made this announcement about this trust gift. And so that's the problem with a trust fund. baby, you know, right there, the classic stereotype. Because that's a sense of entitlement. Well, you've said that an eagle that doesn't leave the nest is called a turkey.

I love that. And that's, I think, the worry for every parent out there. But he's saying, hey, my kids are getting an education. They have jobs. They're getting married.

They're not stuck in mom's basement. And he's going, here's $30,000.. That's a very different situation. You should be, in order for a parent in Dave's situation to come alongside and start dumping money on the situation, you should be, they should already be on fire. And you're just adding some fluid.

You're adding a little gas to the fire. Not like wet wood is sitting there, we're going to throw some gas on it and hope it lights up. That's a little different. That's the difference, right? I mean, so all you're doing is trying to accentuate the good things that are already happening, further, those good things that are already happening, but you're not going to, with a gift like wet wood.

So the kid needs to already be on fire. That's the deal. This is the Ramsey Show.

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It didn't change. I wish I could say that. I'd like to. One amazing show. did it, Dave.

So we had a breakthrough. No, we didn't. Just still here doing what we do. Linda's in Phoenix. Hey, Linda, how are you?

Hi. Good. Good. How can we help?

So my husband and I, we currently own a home. We've been here for 12 years. We have a really awesome interest rate on it, low mortgage. And we are thinking about buying another house and we want to keep our current home as an investment property, but I'm just a little bit worried that it's going to strap us financially too much and just kind of wanted to get your thoughts. I wouldn't.

You wouldn't buy it? No. I mean, I'd sell the house and buy another house, but I wouldn't keep your other house. I know that because you have a mortgage on it. Okay.

Well, our mortgage is really, really low. Your first goal to becoming wealthy, one of the top two things you need to do, there's two big things to get to. the first million to 5 million in net worth is get your residence paid for, be a hundred percent debt free and build up your retirement and mutual funds. Those are the two primary things that cause people to get their first one to 5 million. It is not leveraged, borrowed rental property.

That is not what causes the typical first one to 5 million. All the research we've done, studying 10,000 millionaires, so everybody talks about how good rental property is. Rental property is wonderful if it's paid for and your home is paid for, but that's not the situation you're in.

Okay. So you say this house needs to be paid off before if we wanted to have two million? Well, and you would need to pay cash for the next house. Okay. Yeah.

We couldn't do that. I know. I can tell. Let's pretend you were sitting in a paid for home and you wanted to buy a rental property. I would tell you to do that with cash.

It's what I, by the way, have done. Buy the rental property with cash. Everything with cash. Never buy real estate with debt. Because here's what happens.

You don't make as much on them because you're eating up your cash flow of payments and all of a sudden, the way you're dealing with the tenant changes, because you need the rent money to pay the payment.

Right. You know how much I need rent? I've got a bunch of real estate. You know how much I have to collect the rent on any of it? None of it, because I don't have any debt.

And so I don't have to put a bad tenant in there hoping they'll pay because I got to make the bank note.

Okay. That makes sense. Yeah. There's no desperation when you do it that way. And your worry that you mentioned, that's wisdom.

That's your body telling you this is not a good idea. And so, doing it this way, it's going to take longer, but you're going to do it with a lot of peace and a lot of patience. Yeah. So if I were going to move in your situation, I would just sell that house, move the equity to the next property, get that personal residence paid off, and then start saving and pay cash for your first rental. That, by the way, is exactly what I did the second time I built Wealth.

The first time I was a millionaire, I did it with borrowed money on real estate and I went bankrupt and lost everything because I was leveraged up to my eyeballs and I was stupid. So I wasn't stupid. What I was doing was stupid. And if you're out there doing it, you're not stupid, but what you're doing is really stupid. So there we go.

Well, and Dave, this was another part I love. She said, we've been here 12 years. I love the interest rate. I don't love the house. I just love the interest rate.

George, do you love the interest rate that you have? No. Because I don't got one. The interest rate you have is zero. It's a wonderful interest rate.

I love your interest rate. Thank you, Dave. I love my interest rate. It's zero. I don't have an interest rate.

But that's the toxic money culture, Dave. They're saying you should get obsessed with a low interest rate, a low payment. That's the key. No, the key is be... If you're going to borrow to buy your home, date, the rate, marry the house.

The interest rate should be looked at as a temporary thing. Not something we're going to keep around like a family heirloom. So you're... Pass it on to my grandkids, Dave. The future's.

that way. We're going to make sure everybody gets you a little... No, that's not... That's right, though. That's how people talk about it.

And that's not making fun of her. That's just what... But that's how people think in America today. So, Linda, what we're always big on around here is getting you out of debt, keeping you out of debt, because it is the shortest, most sustainable way to build wealth. The shortest path to proven wealth building.

Because you don't have any payments. You have money. And then you get to buy more stuff and help more people and be more generous. Chris is in New York City. Hey, Chris, welcome to the Ramsey Show.

Hi, Dave. Hi, George. Thanks for taking my call. Sure. What's up?

Well, I am hoping to get some advice from you in terms of streamlining and simplifying our investments. We rent right now. And we also... Our business is mortgaging a property, and we have about $350,000 left in the mortgage. But we also own outright a rental property that's probably worth about $200,000..

And I have... We have... My wife and I have about $55,000 in a whole lot of policy and $65,000 in stocks. And I was thinking maybe we should sell the rental and then cash out the life insurance policy and the stocks to pay off... Either pay off the mortgage on the business building or to buy a place to live outright.

So I was hoping you could help me shed some light. Oh, either one of those would be a wonderful idea. Neither one... I mean, either. one's fine with me.

If you buy a home, then what we're going to do is lean over next and start using cash flow to start paying off the business mortgage. If you pay off the mortgage, we're going to use the cash flow to start saving up to buy a house. Either way. So, I mean, at the end of the story, both properties are debt-free, and that end is not that far down the road. I mean, at the end of three to five years from today, that's where you ought to be.

What's your household income?

We make about $120 a year. Okay. All right. Right. And what has made it so difficult is our rent is just really...

Our landlord has been wonderful, and the rent has been so cheap. Yeah, that's nice. But I started listening to you about a month ago, and I feel like it's time to make things simpler. Yeah, and I like your idea of simplicity, but also you may have cheap rent, but that property's going up in value in his name.

You're right. You're right about that. Yeah. You want to be an owner, not a loaner, man. So, you'll get there.

I would do this move anyways. I would cash out this whole life policy. I'm selling the stocks, and I think simplifying your life. without the volatility of the stocks, without the crappiness of that whole life policy, your life's going to be better. Yeah, and get rid of the rental and buy you a home.

I love that. I'll get you another rental later on down the road. Yeah. I mean, you make good money, and you get the business paid off, and you're sitting there really making some serious money. No house payment, no business payment, boom, boom.

We've got what we call margin at that point. Yeah. Increased cash flow. Cash flow. Yeah, money's flying everywhere.

You start stacking cash at that point, and you can get your. ... I mean, you get yourself in a really, really pretty position. The thing snowballs in the right direction, you know, because the more of the stuff you own that you don't have payments and you've got a good income, you know, it starts feeding on itself. And all of a sudden, you look over there and it's, where's all this money come from?

Oh, I'm not giving it all to the bank. I'm not supporting those towers in the skyline that has furniture nicer than I have. It is amazing when you look at the rental property numbers people share, and they go, I'm going to go, how much are you making a year off of this? 1,200 bucks, 100 bucks a month. I'm like, you're doing all of this for $1,200?

Which also means, by the way, they're probably losing money. Oh, yeah. At the end of the day. I mean, that's- That's not our friend on the call here, but that's many people out there. They're doing too much at once, fiddling around, trying to skip ahead.

Yeah, you have $100 a month cash flow, you're not making money because, I mean, one heating and air filter, and you're done. You know, oh my gosh. You're in the red. Just one little thing. One little sink issue, you're done.

Yeah. There's no room in that. That's no fun. This is the Ramsey Show.

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Michael's, in Louisville, Kentucky. Hey, Michael, how are you? Great. How are you? Great.

Better than I deserve. What's up?

My girlfriend and I are getting married this year, and we are combining households. We both have... She has a grown child, and I have two kids that are getting ready to go into college. And just trying to see what's the best way to kind of combine, you know, with a blended family and assets, you know, previous assets and things like that, what's the best way of going about combining that fairly, where, you know, my kids are taken care of the way I've been planning for years, and obviously herself as well with her own.

Well, it's an emotional series of decisions.

And I'm not sure there's a wrong way or a right way to do it. It's whatever you guys sit down and come up with is the right way. I don't think there's an immoral or a moral issue or an ethics issue.

I'm old school on kids. And so our kids understood when they were growing up that the number one thing in my life was not them. It was their mother. I understand. It was their mother.

And they get their second right behind their mother. But don't get between me and your mother, that won't work well for you. And so were I to remarry, if Sharon were to pass away, I would have the same concerns that you've got. But I would want to, my first goal would be to take care of my wife.

And so my second goal would be, if there's anything left, we can help the kids. But they're like supposed to be grownups and on their own. Correct. And I agree. I guess more of a technical question, too, was, you know, maybe not.

I have a home that's paid for and she has a home that's still got a mortgage on it. Other than that, we don't have any debt.

I have a 401k in my retirement and all that. Basically, she has basically her home as her asset that she's been thinking of leaving to her kids or her child someday, or it'd be her really her only asset that I'm going to combine my home, sell mine entirely, and put all of that into hers to help start to pay off a big chunk of the mortgage and do some improvements, and then we can work together. Yeah, which would change her plan. That would change her plan. If you're going to be living there and she dies and the house is going to her kids, she's going to make her new husband homeless.

Correct. After you put money in it. Is there a way to, yes, I guess that's a way. How do you lay things out where, I don't know, I guess, to put her mind at ease, I'm not really sure how to word that, where things will be... There's not a, there's, I mean, you could start using a bunch of trusts and putting things into a trust, and the trust has certain terms to it, and you're going to spend a ton of money on that,

but I think what you're feeling is a natural tension, and I would feel the same tension if I were in your shoes, and I'm validating that, but I think the two of you have got to decide, okay, what is more important to the two of you? If you're going to take several hundred thousand dollars, dump it into her house, right, and now it becomes our house, oh, but wait, it's going to her kids, well, that's screwed up. That's going to create a problem, and so maybe her plan is going to change. now, you know? Yeah.

Maybe her new husband is going to get the house if she dies. And really, my thoughts were, whoever goes first, obviously the other person, everything is theirs, and then, when they're gone, it can go three ways to everybody and divide it up. however, you know. Yeah, or you can leave the portion that was going to be her house to her kid, and the portion that was going to be your stuff to your kids. I mean, there's no right or wrong thing, and it's not wrong to leave the house to her kid if she wanted to.

It just leaves you homeless, and it's really weird. It feels awkward, you know? But I have seen that. I've seen where the step-parent gets kicked out upon death, and it can be really emotionally strenuous. That's a nice way of saying it, yeah.

So I think that what I want to encourage you is really push through and don't, the problem with the other plan is, okay, you leave it all to her, she leaves it all to you. If you don't do that in a trust that states how things are going to be distributed, then the surviving spouse could change their will after the death of the, like. say she passed away first, she left everything to you, four years later, you're getting married again. You could change the whole will again, and her kid ends up getting nothing. Legally, legally, it'd be immoral, it'd be unethical for you to do that, but legally there's no way to keep that from happening except to dump it all into a trust upon death, and the trust has certain terms, and the terms are the distribution, you know, maybe based on the past evaluation to the kiddos upon your death, or something like that, because you're not going to be able to undo those trust terms.

So you'd have to see an estate planner to do that. That would be a mechanical way, a tactical way to pull it off. Now, Dave, would it be simpler to turn this into cash, let's say they sell the property, and she would get that amount, let's say, of the equity, as it stands today in an investment account, would that simplify things? Well, she's, I mean, then he's buying the only house. Because they have two houses right now, the paid for one and the mortgage one.

Yeah, but I'm saying, either way, she's either got her cash sitting over here to the side, but if she passes away, she's just gonna leave that cash, nothing to her husband, you know, everything to her, kid, you know. So the key is, there's a lot of ways to skin this cat, but we have to be in agreement with both spouses, which is the hardest part. Yeah, and just promising that you'll do it in your will is not binding legally. I'm not an attorney, but you'll find that out when you go. sit with your estate planning attorney.

That's what they're gonna tell you. So, but leaving it into a trust, you could do that. You could set terms of the trust and it's locked in, there's nothing you can do about it. If I was in their shoes, I'd sit with the estate planning attorney, have them lay out all of the options, and then we agree which is the best route. Yeah.

And then, but here's the thing, part of what you're struggling with is, before they met, her, children were her everything, even though they're grown. His children, since he's divorced or his first wife passed away, whatever, his children are his only concern, priority-wise. And this new relationship changes the priority. The spouse now takes that seat. It challenges the priority position in your emotions, and so that's the hard thing to walk through.

And it's very real. I mean, I haven't had to do it, thank God, but it is a very, very real thing. It's, you know, but I'd like to think that I would want to make sure my new wife was taken care of before I worried about my grown kids. You'd hope the kid would understand, but I'm sure it causes relational turmoil. I don't care.

I don't care. I mean, it's, you know, what's the primary relationship? Who's your first team, then who's your second team? And that's what we're talking about here. And so the kiddos growing up understood their second team.

You know, we love you. They're the B team. And we'll take a bullet for you.

But, you know, your mom's coming first. Your mom's in front of you in priority. That's how this works. I love the idea of the kids being so self-sustaining. They're not needing whatever's on the other side.

Yeah, and that changes the whole equation. when somebody doesn't feel entitled to it or need it. The kid says, well, that was my one shot at home. ownership, was getting mom's house, and now you ruined it. Well, they feel like that dad's assets are somehow they're entitled to them.

They're not entitled to them. You have absolutely no moral or ethical obligation to leave your children money.

So your kid's doing heroin, don't leave them money. You'll kill them. Because you will leave them enough to buy enough heroin to kill themselves. So you, you know, if you're, you know, thank you, whatever other fill in the blank of any misbehavior said misbehavior, you will magnify the misbehavior. So I am under no obligation to leave my children money.

And by the way, that's very clear around our place. They're grown and we're like, you know, you're, I manage these assets for God. If you're not walking with God, then you don't have the opportunity to manage his assets. Boom. You're out.

Sorry. Sorry, Charlie. Just like that. Charlie. Yeah.

King Charles. Rachel's smallest. Yes. And he is a king. He sleeps on a queen bed already.

So that's the most impressive part. I'm just saying. Yeah.

That's a neat question, Michael, and I struggle with you on it, but I encourage you to get closure on it. Don't just assume, because you know what that does. Yeah. This is the Ramsey show.

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Six and a half people out of ten. There we go. Half a person. Yeah, and the, you know, I've heard as high as 78% actually do. So somewhere around seven houses out of ten on your street have too much month left at the end of the money.

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That's even worse. Yeah. So, you can stay stuck in the cycle, paycheck to paycheck, rat in a wheel, or you can change something. Stupid has a gravitational pull. Once you get stuck in the orbit around stupid, it's hard to break the orbit, and you just keep going and going and going and going, and you're the wrong kind of ever-ready bunny, right?

Stupid, just a rat in a wheel, just going and going and going. No traction, living a life of mediocrity, no hope, not fired up. That's most people. You don't want to be like that. Let me tell you how you get out of an orbit, even if it's orbiting stupid.

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Oh God, it's Monday. We're all just stuck. Sure, hope we can elect a president who'll fix my life, because I'm not going to do anything about it. Yes. You grow up around that, man.

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Anxiety is so high out there. They're worried about interest rates. Man, I'm worried about, is the market going to crash? I'm worried about this, worried about that. And let me tell you what, we can show you what to do.

We can show you the process. It's not magical. It's not get rich quick. It's not easy. I mean, we're going to teach you important things like live on less than you make.

You ready to do that? There's a whole new idea. Concept Congress can't grasp. Nicola is with us in Jacksonville, Florida. Hi, Nicola.

Welcome to the Ramsey Show. Oh, Mr. Ramsey. Thank you so much for taking my call. Hope all is well with you.

So I, in my twenties, I listened to your, read your books and purchased a home at 27.. However, I lost my job after 10 years and I sold my condo in 2016.. I live at home. I'm now 42 and I created a lot of debt for myself, but I want to purchase a condo in 2025.. So I just wanted your advice in a strategy on how, what, what debt to pay down first.

Um, I have $10,000 in total debt, um, three personal loans, three credit cards, and I have $45,000 student loan debt. I'm still in school, seeking my master's, and I'll be done at the end of the year. So I'm not currently paying that. right now. I have $36,420 in my 401k.

I, I know I borrowed from my 401k, uh, $20,000 to pay off my debt, which I accrued again. Um, so, right now, by weekly, I'm paying $171.94 at 4.5% interest on my 401k. All right. So what is your total debt outside of, uh, you don't have a mortgage now, so what's your total consumer debt? 10 plus 45 plus 20 on the 401, right?

Yes. 75? 65?. No, the 401 is $36,420.. No, the loan balance, the loan on the 401 is $20,000..

Oh, I'm sorry. Um, $14,000 left to pay. Oh, $14,000 on that. Okay. Yeah.

And it's $171 by weekly on my paycheck and a 4.5% interest. All right. So you got about $70,000 in debt. And you make what? Um, right now it just got raised.

So $60,400.. I, you know, I wasn't making much, but now I am making $60,400.. I'm going to pay more, and I recently paid off my car. in 2021.. Unless your income changes, you're not going to buy a house in 25..

Right. What's your master's in? What, what? Condo. I wanted a condo.

I work in education, so it's obviously you don't pay that much in education. So I just want to have a small one bedroom condo. I'm not much, then why are you doing it required? Well, it's required. Right now I'm not paying for it.

the school paid for it. Okay, because I work in education. if it's required to have a higher degree, but the school paid 90% of that, Nicola, you need to pass $70,000. Say it, save up a down, save up an emergency fund, then save up a down payment. Well, right now I have $3,500.

I just don't know if I should, but I have three personal loans 35, 35, 25.. Yeah, and you have 45,000 student loan debt and you have $20,000 on a 401k. You have $70,000 in debt. Okay, I didn't look at it like that, but yes. So here's the hard truth.

You're not going to be ready to buy a house a year from now. It may be two or three years from now. Wow, we have to get rid of the debt. You don't have 70,000 coming in In the next 12 months. you have 60,000 coming in and you have 70,000 in debt.

Right. Yeah, what I was thinking? maybe I should pay off my save up this year. pay off, you know, my 401k, the $14,000 just flat-out paid off, or If I should pay the high interest rate that I have on the personal loan. I Think we're beyond the math of interest rates.

I would just list all of your debts out, from smallest to largest. make minimum payments on all the debts except for the smallest one, and we're gonna attack that one with a vengeance as much extra on the principle as you can throw at it. and that Might mean you're doing side jobs after your master's program, after your full-time job, when you complete your master's, when? and end of this year. So 12 more months.

Uh-huh. Okay, Do you have any time to do tutoring during while you're working on your master's?

Not really, I mean the job is pretty demanding, you know, sometimes I do have to work weekends. Now you said you're living at home with your. Yes,

Okay, so you have almost no expenses. What are you having to pay for right now? The loans that I have in the credit cards. I do give them contribute $600, But it's the loan that I have, a personal loan, you know situations happen and obviously I did that, but You're gonna have to draw a line in the sand and quit borrowing money, I don't hear any more about your situations. You've situations yourself, into your parents basement.

You got to quit situation. So Cut up the credit cards. get yourself on beans and rice, rice and beans. budget anything you can do to increase your income, like tutoring. let's go, do it and Let's start attacking these debts, just exactly like George said, smallest to Largest, and it's gonna take you a little while to clear $70,000 in debt.

when you get that clear, You can start talking about buying a house. You may go rent something in the meantime, but I wouldn't buy until you get this mess cleaned up.

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Starting this hour off is going to be Jenny in Columbus, Ohio. Hi, Jenny. Welcome to the Ramsey show. Hi, thanks for having me. Sure.

How can we help? My husband and I are on baby step 2 and we are all in. I've got a second job. He's working overtime. We're selling everything, but our kid We're all in.

however, We are looking at anywhere, depending on what option we pick. at the dentist, We're looking at anywhere from 10 to 50 thousand dollars worth of work needed on my husband's teeth.

I don't know how to Do that without taking on more debt. What's your household income?

170. well, I do. you save up $10,000.

Well, okay. So the $10,000.

Gets us 10 years, they said, and then he'd probably have to have the work done again. Do you still think that's the best option, or should we wait or should we try to do the $50,000 option? Which is a fix for the rest of his life?

Um, B or C. None of the above. I want you to go talk to two other dentists. Okay, I'm calling BS. Okay, unless your husband has some kind of disease, 50,000 is out of control.

I'm not a medical professional plan for dental implant. No, but it's not. Okay, then it's not 50 grand. Let's go shopping, Let's go shopping. Okay?

Okay, okay, Because the thing I I don't know, Beans, about being a dentist, okay, but what I do know from having sat in this chair for 30 years is that I've had a lot of people bring me dramatic numbers, like you just did, and I send them back to the marketplace. and they, there's a lot of other ways to do this and turns out, and a lot of Different pricing structures and so forth. for some reason, when it comes to medical or dental or things like this, we we don't shop like we. if you were buying a car and Someone said you could buy a $50,000 car or a $10,000 car. You would say, okay, Tell me about it.

And and then I'm gonna keep looking at cars, I'm gonna keep shopping and then I'm gonna have a lot of things to compare with not just two of these options. So, but for some reason all of us, you included. just accept. Well, it's 50,000 bucks, it and it said so. Doc said it says and no, there's, no, you know, Vast array of pricing structures in that world.

So I want to go shopping and then, yes, I'll put, let's pretend, You can fix this for ten or fifteen thousand bucks, or twenty thousand bucks even. okay for implants, okay, Something more permanent, and then you have to cheap out, but you also don't have to go bananas. Okay, so.

Then then the answer to your question is how do you pull that off? you make a hundred and seventy, you just slow your debt Snowball and pile up twenty grand, depending on the urgency. The amount of pain he's in, or whatever is you're facing is how fast you do it. If it's me and I'm hurting, we're gonna do it fast, because I'm a complete wuss. You want it over with quickly?

I don't do pain. I'm a wuss. Hmm. Sharon has the pain tolerance of a Navy SEAL. I get a hangnail and I'm in the floor crying like a four-year-old.

So no, I mean so I'm gonna go, I'm gonna write some checks. Yeah, and get out of pain is what I'm gonna do. But anyway, so I just depend on the urgency of the situation. and if what she's saying is true, Let's say ten thousand buys her ten years. Well, ten years from now, you're gonna be in a very different place financially in two years.

It might be debt-free and you could do whatever you want. I don't know if I want to rip my teeth for ten years, But anyway, I'm confused. I didn't know. it was like an HVAC like. well, this thing will keep it running for the next ten years.

I don't know what they're doing to his mouth there. It's very strange. Well, I know, so I can tell you this there's um.

The cost. it's four hundred and something thousand dollars. to become a dentist now and then buying into a practice would be another half million Or so. and so there's a whole.

Business side of dentistry. that allows them to sell a Vast array of products. I've fallen for it. Every time I go in there. They have a new technology They've purchased that can now do this new thing, and it's for $50 a tooth.

We can do this for you. Otherwise, it'll be 300 later on if you get the cavity and I'm like, I don't. it's so stressful. That's called practice management. That's sometimes they're in sales, which is medical talk for sales.

Okay, so I I'm not accusing this dentist of malpractice. I'm just saying he's willing to sell implants. are the most willing to sell old Jenny a Bentley. That's all I'm saying I'm seeing on Google, Dave, one to one to five thousand dollars per implanted tooth is what the going rate is. So if he's talking many, many teeth could be 50 grand.

It could be okay, depending. All right, Google, we know Google's, right? I Go to web MD for all of my hair. Yeah, Yeah, if you go to web MD, you're dying. You have three days to live.

That's it. You got three days to live. everything is three days to live, or it's a minor head cold. three days to live And a thousand dollars a tooth. Yeah, three days to live.

Yeah, I seriously shop at Jenny, That's what I would do. and then, if you need 20,000 bucks, slow down your. you got 170 coming in. slow down your debt snowball enough at the speed of the urgency to come up With the 20k. if you're gonna wait 10 months, I'll be $2,000 a month.

We're gonna do it over 10 months. if we need to do it right now, We're going to stop everything and do it over two or three months, right? And so, however quick, you can build up the 20k, but It is going to impact and slow down your debt. snowball speed, Because this is something you have to deal with your. your husband's Dental health does matter, and we're not.

we're not blowing that off. Hey, thanks for the call. open phones at triple eight, eight, two, five, five, two, two, five. Thank you for joining us, America. we appreciate you being here, and I mean, this is how it's done, boys and girls.

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Hello. Mr. Ramsey. Can you please explain? Why the most common form of income mentioned is gross income, not net income?

when discussing budgets and personal finances, I find it confusing, because in my mind, the deducted taxes don't count. You can't spend what you owe the government. So if you include that, it makes it seem like you have more discretionary income than you actually do. Thank you for the clarification.

Well, it depends on what we're talking about. the problem is, honestly, Sherry the.

Too many people don't know.

Say this delicately, they don't know what to flip their own money is. I mean, so here's the thing. if you make $60,000 a year, that's $5,000 a month gross before taxes. But if I ask you what your net is and you say twenty five hundred dollars, which is thirty thousand dollars a year, Then I've got to go try to figure out because you apparently don't know Whether you have taken out 401k out of that health insurance, out of that, whether you have your car payment Deducted out of that and it's going to your credit union. That's not real net, But it is what you're coming home with, because you had all those other crap taken out of your check, And so a lot of people don't really understand that net.

what you get your take-home pay, Because people have other various things taken out is not Germane. I can tell what's going on with your gross, but I can't, and I know about what your taxes are based on your gross. but And then I can do the calculations while we're sitting here to help you move towards getting out of debt. But I'm well aware, if you make $60,000 a year, $5,000 a month, that you're not getting home with after federal income tax withholding $5,000. I know that, but I also know that you should be getting home with a lot more than some of you are.

Some of you have too much taken out of your check. Your deductions are wrong. Some of you have other things that aren't taxes coming out of your check, like I just mentioned. And so when I say take, when someone gives me take-home pay, I really don't know What they're talking about, because it could mean so many different things. But I can back into it from gross and know where you stand.

So that's why I use that figure. but it's not because I don't realize there's taxes taken out. it's because I do realize there's a bunch of other crap taken out of other people's checks, and Sometimes they're so confused by that because you really can't talk to somebody. There's a $5,000 gross and they're getting home with half of that. Or if they have a regular income, there can be very confused based on what's gonna come in that month.

What's your take-home pay? So the hey, what would you make like yourself employed? You know, you don't have a take-home pay. Mm-hmm, You know. and unless you set yourself up on a salary and you've done withholding, then did you do your withholding correctly?

Because way too many people get a tax refund, which means you have too much coming out of your check for taxes. It doesn't mean Santa Claus lives in Washington, DC, and So if you have too much coming out of your check and then I use your take-home pay number to try to help you with Your finances, then I've participated in your in your stupid mistake, you know. And so that that's why we do that, because the only reliable number to back into things is your gross. And yes, obviously sure, we do realize it comes out Taxes and we use some round numbers to when we're just on a five-minute phone call. We're not digging in to the exact mathematics.

But yeah, your brain in the lady a few minutes ago. 170,000 is her gross, and I know she's not getting home with 170, But also know that with a hundred seventy gross she could come up with fifteen or twenty thousand bucks for her husband's teeth. I mean I can. they're taking home eight or nine. They could probably not rocket surgery to do that basic math right there.

And so but I don't have to actually go. Well, let's see her tax withholding, and I don't have to you have to do all that. She's out of 170, minus income taxes, minus food. She can still find 20 to perfect her as a mystique. I mean, that's just just doesn't take them, you know sixth grader to do that.

So Hypothetically, but that's why, that's why I know you can't spend what you owe the government. I'm well aware of that. They they take so much from me that it I Can't breathe. Aiden is with us in Tampa, Florida. Hi, Aiden.

Welcome to the Ramsey show. Hi, how you doing better than I deserve? What's up? Great. Um, I'm 22..

I just got married in October. Congratulations. Thank you. Thank you. Yeah, we make around a hundred and fifteen thousand dollars right now.

We both contribute 10% to our IRA for work. We're debt-free and our question is around housing. We have enough for about a 10% down payment on the house We want to buy, and our question is should we? Go ahead and do that and pay the PMI, or should we wait a couple of years and just save up 20%? Well, I doubt it take you a couple years.

You probably do it by a year from now, couldn't you? Yeah, I think so. I think the math I was looking at it'd be about a year and a half. Okay. All right, so you'll be a whole 24 years old when you buy your first house.

That's the goal. no, that wouldn't be bad. I like that. no, I just. I mean it's okay to do it the other way.

But the PMI is so stinking expensive, man. It's 75 bucks a month per hundred thousand, So $225. if you do a $300,000 house, what is this house cost?

Aiden, what's this house gonna cost? Yeah, about a 300,000 is what we're thinking. my my wife works for a homebuilder, so you get a good deal. So you got 30 and you want 60.. So the question is how quickly can we save up another 30??

Make it 150.. We ought to be able to do that in a year, dude, You have other debt. That's what we're thinking. You said you had no other debt at all. Oh good, Yeah, I think I'm gonna sit down, do the budget and tighten up and say hey, We're not gonna buy that thing and we're not gonna buy that thing and we're gonna save for a house.

And that's what I would do if I were you guys, and you're investing 10%, you're in baby step 3b, And so, if you so choose and you wanted to do this in six months, You could pause investing or bring it down to a match or something like that in order to speed this up. Yeah, I think I think you'll be, and if you're building a house the two you're not gonna be closing on it when you break ground.

You could break ground, you know, next spring, one year, and And still have time to get the money together to have the 20% down. So I, like I just don't want to give them PMI. private mortgage insurance folks, If you don't know, is foreclosure insurance? It pays the mortgage company. in the event.

They have to foreclose on you and they lose money. That's what PMI is. It's private mortgage. It protects the lenders, not you protects the lenders. It's not life insurance, It's not insurance.

you are buying someone else an insurance policy, it's a risky borrower fee. That's $75 a month per hundred thousand. if you're buying a $300,000 house, That's $225 a month on top of your interest that you're throwing away. So it definitely hurts, but I was in the same spot as Aidan day We bought our first townhome was $300,000.. It was a new construction build and every delay I was happy because it was more time we could save up, and so we were able to put down well over 20% because of that, and it allowed us to pay it off even sooner.

Did did you? you didn't, purposefully causing delays? Did you know? That's just a construction business. Dave.

I learned. I learned, I had to. I had to manage the project myself. I had to show up there and be like that towel bar is not even centered on the wall. I'm not a construction expert, but I feel like it should be centered.

Wow, And so a lot of things need to really happen, didn't? yeah, it's real life. That's what that really. you really did. do a towel more thing.

Yeah, Because I thought you had too much passion about that. so much passion about the towel bar. That's. but you know, you've been in Nashville a long time. the amount of construction that's gone up in the last five years even is Wild.

and these builders, you know, they're, they're moving as fast as they can, But they run into delays and subcontractors are moving around and going to the next guy who will pay him a dollar more. And so it can be. it can be tough. now things have slowed down, which is great. You get a little more attention on these builds and I'll probably keep the towel bar centered.

keep the towel bar centered. That's all I ask. I'm OCD. It's got to stay symmetrical. It's a big deal, but new builds, as you know, Dave, They can be a blessing and they can be a curse.

And so we were happy to have it. but getting there was a journey The amount of blue tape on the walls. Dave, every little short cranny, you blue tape them, too. I blue tape the heck out of those walls. man.

You're that guy. Yeah, okay. They, they didn't like me. They were ready for me to be done. Yeah, I get rid of OCD, George.

It's the biggest purchase of my life, George. he's the towel rack guy, the blue tape guy. I've complained more at Chick-fil-a to get the order, right? Let alone my house. Oh, you complained at Chick-fil-a.

It's happened. Are you going to heaven? They're not always perfect. They're not always angels day.

This is the Ramsey show.

Thanks for taking my call. How are you better than we deserve? What's up? Well, my husband and I are pretty young. We're 24.

Over the last three years. We've paid off all of our debt, you know college in a car. We paid for our wedding in cash, but since we started working, we've actually tripled our income. So now it's about four hundred thousand dollars a year. Good lord.

What do you guys do? We work in tech. in what in tech? Okay, they work in tech in Seattle, so I could guess where that might be okay, well, good for you. way to go.

Congratulations, you know, thank you so much. And I kind of leave my question, you know, as the baby steps lay out, We're moving on to the next phase of wealth building. We've maxed out our 401ks, our HSA Contributing to an IRA, to mutual funds. We don't have a desire to buy a house soon, But, you know, Maybe we'll just save up for a down payment to be able to do that down the line if we choose. But since neither of us grew up with this kind of wealth or anywhere close to it.

all of it kind of feels Excessive, almost so. how do you guys think about what a reasonable amount is to be saving versus spending? You know, we don't want to be excessive savers and missing out on generosity and enjoying the now, but also we don't want to be Excessive spenders, so since it's new territory, I was curious if you could share your insight on that.

There's a lot of wisdom there. well done, very well done. Thank you.

Well, the experience that most people have and I've had it as well is that as your income increases and it goes places you've never Been before, it takes your emotions a while to catch up, which kind of causes you to ask this question Yeah, okay, it's like, you know. give an extreme example. I mean, I own Ramsey solutions. our gross revenues here about 300 million a year, and I've got a thousand team members. We spend more on coffee Than I used to make.

You know, it's kind of. it's kind of emotionally mind-blowing. You know what I'm talking about. It's.

It's. It's hard to get your head around. so how do you go? it almost feels immoral or unethical unless you really start to put some. You know, put, put some help to it to help with the emotions.

So one of the things I've discovered and I you know when I'm working, for instance, with a pro-athlete, I'll use this Is we just always say Sharon and I work off of percentages. We say this percent of our income, If I get a check in from a publisher, total money makeover check comes in, which is usually a pretty nice check each year, and that check comes in. a percentage goes to investing a certain percentages of that preset. a preset goes to additional purchases and enjoyment. a preset amount goes to additional generosity, additional investing.

Now, 50% of its gone before we start, because 40% goes to taxes and 10% to tithe because we're evangelical Christians. Okay, so that that that leaves me the other 50% to split up among fun investing and additional generosity. and so We just put a percentage on that. and so that's what you can do. You can just say so.

for instance, here you're in baby step four and you're saving towards a house. So I would put 15% of my income towards retirement, right? and you ought to be doing that anyway, that's a standard baby step move, and Then I'm gonna put X% for enjoyment and then you, kind of like, have to spend that on Enjoyment, even if it feels weird.

Yeah, because when you were thinking about it, not in terms of a purchase you wanted to make, but you were just thinking about it In the in general terms, and you said, okay, we're gonna spend 10% of this money on us. as an example, I just pull that number out. Okay, so that's $40,000 of just increased lifestyle, and That's what that would be leaving 90% for everything else taxes and generosity and Investing and everything else. So that would be. you know, we can't really say that would be crazy.

But yet then, when you get ready, spend $40,000 on something. Oh, my gosh, What in the world that feels so weird, but it helps you to do that, because, oh, I've done my generosity, I've done my investing and.

And these are amounts I came up, our percentages. I came up with. so because your income could go to 600,000. then what are you gonna do? I don't want it.

I wouldn't use an amount. I would use a percentage. That's really helpful. I think that's exactly my word. not worry.

I mean what a blessed problem to have. but You know, as we're 24, so presumably this isn't going to be the peak of our income. And so thinking about it as percentages is so helpful. I hadn't thought about that. Yeah, it'll, it'll keep you from Under doing an area or overdoing an area.

Yeah, because you thought about it. You thought about it in ratios when your head was calm, not when you were, because if you wait Until you're looking at an opportunity to support a thing with generosity, a ministry or something. You're emotionally involved, then Mm-hmm, and so I get you know, I want to help, that thing. I want to, I want to cause that. I want to help those people with that situation, These hungry kids or whatever it is, right.

by then, by then, you're already, you're already deep into it And then you start going. well, you know, I don't know if this is right or not, And I may be going too much and you could do too much. you could get all caught up in the. you know The beautiful little children that need some food and you could just give away every. you know, you go crazy.

And so that's you that really helps to lay out ratios. Yeah, well, I think of it as that kind of tire, and you don't want a flat tire. if you're only saving, you're not enjoying It. you call into the show and you're just clenched fists. and you know Some people can be very, very generous, but I've a hard time finding people who went broke being generous.

So that's a great one to flex. and the spending side. people call in and say Dave. I've been following you for 30 years. I can't stomach spending money and Dave's like go force yourself to do something fun.

And so if you look at it, those through those three buckets, it becomes easier. No, I mean the first time you spend XYZ that you've never spent makes you want to throw up on something. you go. What in the world am I have I lost my mind? even if you're a spender, you stop in question, you know, Am I out of control here?

I bought a car that cost that. Oh my gosh, I used to buy houses for that, you know, I mean, it's like golly, and so, yeah, it is emotional. and But you know, the good news is once you and the first time, I gave away $10,000.. I Thought, man, I'm rich. I mean only rich people give away $10,000.

I thought this is a big deal. and now $10,000, I mean. and then you kept up to upping it every year. the other year you gave away a million dollars in a day, and That was a big goal for you. Yes, fun to get there, And so.

but it wasn't. I mean, I couldn't. even I thought I was so cool in one sense, You know, and then and then I was like, oh wow, you know, but then you get Satiated to it and will keep you from going out of control is to have some boundaries, and those those ratios are good boundaries. It's kind of the opposite of lifestyle creep when you're not living on less than you make. This is someone following the plan going.

How do I increase the right way? Mike's in Washington DC. Hey Mike, welcome to the Ramsey show. Hey Dave, how are you better than I deserve? What's up, man?

Not not too much. I have a question. So I, my employer offers a 401k and I just finished up. first year work, maxed out my contributions to it, Found out we have the ability to make Roth contributions. great.

So I I switched from 12% pre-tax to 12% Roth awesome. So now that I'm contributing, making Roth contributions, I lose that deduction that I was getting for making pre-tax contributions, correct? And other other than an IRA, a traditional IRA. I'm curious what other avenues there are to kind of make up for losing that deduction. okay, let's, let's reframe that.

because you you traded a pre-tax tax deduction, Making the entire account taxable when you get ready to take it out. So if you have a million dollars in your 401k at retirement, a hundred percent of its taxed. if it's a pre-tax 401k, you traded that for tax-free. You didn't lose the tax deduction. You traded a small tax deduction for a huge Tax-free gain.

So that's a good trade. I'll make that trade every day. I hate taxes, but not bad enough to, to just, you know, do something stupid like avoid a Roth. No, you did the right thing with the Roth. There are no big Deductions out there.

this idea that the rich people have all the deductions a bunch of crap unless you run a business Or you've got something you can depreciate. you don't have big deductions out there and don't go do a traditional just to get a tax deduction.

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George Campbell Ramsey personality is my co-host. Heidi is in Bowling Green, Ohio. Hi, Heidi. How are you? Hi, Dave.

I'm doing well. How are you better than I deserve? Bowling Green, Ohio, hometown of Scott Hamilton, It is, it is. Yeah, in the National Tractor polls, then Yeah, and, and I believe, Dave, or day, there was an old runner back in the Dave Waddell. You probably don't know that name.

But yeah, that was a long time ago. Anyway, how can I know? Okay, Okay. So my question is first I want to say thank you so much for taking my call, And you are an answer to a bold prayer that I just said yesterday, and I'm so grateful to get through. Um, but my question is we, my husband and I We've been blessed with four kids that we raised.

We have, our baby is a senior in high school, and now my husband and I are trying to buckle down and figure out how to ride this next season and To the best we can. financially. to you know, hit retirement in a good note. We have our home that we live in and we also have a five acre piece of property that has Four rentals on it for rental homes. It also has a large barn, but we've had a hard time renting the barn out for anything, but we have, through this process of raising the kids and selling a business that we had for years.

my husband went back to school and They called him grandpa daddy, but he Graduated first in his class. So he was. he was a good grandpa daddy student. He um, but we have. we took out to.

he lock. I'll, maybe he lock on our home and he lock on the rental for what? So why? yeah, what'd you buy with that money? We just covered expenses while he was in school because he wasn't working.

No, okay, Yeah, he, he worked and you weren't working. y'all, y'all don't have any money to eat, and so you borrowed money to eat. Well, I was working, but my income was not gonna.

Was not going to fill the gap of his not working. so how long did he not work and how much money did you guys rack up?

Well, he did not work for about a year And in that time we had We went from I Guess, over the course of a few years. We went from a Really large income. how much do you owe on these two? He locks? That's what I'm asking On the he lock.

on the first one. We owe 29 by. what about on the other one? and yeah, the other one is thirty, nine, five. Okay, so you borrowed Seventy thousand dollars One on the year that he didn't work and what is his degree in?

He is now a substation electrician.

Okay, and what is his income now? Well, he's still climbing each year on cookies. he's been at his job for three years now, but currently He works. he is working a lot of overtime, but he makes about.

110. okay. What do you make? And I'm, I'm currently home. Okay, so you have $110,000 income.

you have $70,000 and he locks from this mess. Any other debt? Well Well, we have a hundred and forty income because we get rental income from the five acres. It's another 30 in rental income. you have any other debt other than any she locks, we have.

No, we, we drive crappy cars. and you're how old? we 52, okay. So how quick are you going to clean up? $70,000 making a hundred and forty.

I Hope I would love to do it in two years. I think you should, but But I don't. I would also. my other proposal thought is do we sell the five acres with the rental? because over the next ten years from what like I'm Calculating if it makes a profit of two hundred and sixteen thousand.

I don't know. if I Don't know if it's worth hanging on to or just trying to sell it, Or in what would it bring everything I?

Think it would bring it. I think it would bring at least my husband thinks 450.. Okay. She got a half a million dollars sitting in the middle of your coffee table and you don't own this farm. Would you go buy it?

No, then sell it. Okay, you wouldn't buy it again. you shouldn't keep it.

But do you think it's possible to get out from under the helix? because then that would be paid for total. If you make a hundred and forty thousand, surely to God, you can pay off seventy in two years. It's only thirty five thousand a year. out of a hundred and forty.

You got a struggle through on a hundred and five minus taxes. Right. I think you can do that for sure. Well, and or you can sell the other property. I don't think you're required to sell the other property, but it doesn't sound to me like you guys are.

you're not enjoying? It's a headache. Yeah, it's like, you know, if you didn't own it, would you go buy it? No, was it instant answer? You didn't even think about it.

So obviously it's not. I mean, if you, if you wouldn't buy it again, folks, That means you need to sell it, whatever it is other than your spouse. I mean. And you said you only got one more kid. the house said the baby is a senior in high school.

So it might be time you go back to work and help help speed this process up So you can retire with dignity. because you said that was your goal. Yeah, But if you sold that and you cleared the he locks and then you just start piling stacking cash towards retirement. You're gonna be just fine. You're gonna be okay.

It's just a matter of which way. is the rest the way you want to go at it 20 years from today? do you want to own that farm? and If you ask me that about several of the properties that we own, the answer is yes. I very seldom sell a piece of real estate, but Occasionally I look at it and I go kind of on it.

I wouldn't buy that. I don't know. that means you got to get rid of it. That means it's time to move to something else, and I've got a couple of those on. I have moved a couple of pieces of real estate over the years, But 90% of the stuff we buy we keep forever.

That's our goal. So but you know, it's okay to move it. There's nothing wrong with it. Good question. Thank you for joining us.

Canada's on the line. Dale is calling. Hi Dale. Welcome to the Ramsey show. How can we help?

Hey guys, I'm just wondering. I hear you guys talk all the time about If you own vehicles with large payments on them to sell them and downgrade to smaller vehicles. But I guess my question is if I've got vehicles with negative equity, how do I do that? you have to cover the negative equity with a new loan or savings.

Okay, how much negative equity do you have, Dale? we have two vehicles and a travel trailer that we Give me that we don't use anymore. Well, we're just all you know, we're not using it. We might go get rid of it. Yeah, so the trailer.

let's just take the trailer. What is it worth?

It's worth about For about 30, and what do you owe on it? 47, okay. So would you rather have 47 in debt or 17 in debt? I'd rather have 17,, but I just wasn't sure. Yeah, if that's the best way to do it, or if there's some other options, You got to cover this.

you got to cover the negative in order to give a clear title to the buyer, And so that's the problem with being stuck upside down on these things. So you could go to your local credit union and see if they'll give you or the place that holds the loan and say listen, I'm underwater on this thing. This is, you got bad collateral here because this thing's only worth 30.. I owe 47. I'm looking for a 17,000 loan to cover the difference and get rid of this thing.

Yeah, let me sign a note for the difference, and if it's a local credit union, they might do that for you. Yeah, you know, if it's um Trevor trailer finance Incorporated, They're not going to. yeah, you know, because they don't, they're not running trouble. You have to go the local credit union, borrow the 17 to get out, But I'd rather you be 17,000 in debt than 47. That'll speak, especially on a trailer that's sitting in the yard that you don't use and wish you hadn't bought.

So there you go. Or you come up with the difference if you got it in savings, or you can come up with it Quickly. by the way, travel trailers are not evil, But if you're out there sitting there thinking today that you're gonna go buy a $50,000, one gosh And a $50,000, it's gonna be worth 30 in about 45 minutes, and so don't finance it for sure. You know, be ready to take the hit. That's how this world works.

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How are you? Hi, I'm good. How are you better than we deserve? What's up?

So My question is so in late 2022, my boyfriend and I invested a hundred thousand dollars in my family's fast-food franchise business and then so in 2023. we've since made $11,000 back, and that's currently in a high-yield savings account. My question is should we keep it in that savings account until we've accrued the initial investment back, or should we reinvest? the 11,000 that we've made?

Okay, how much did you put in? I put in 30, my boyfriend put in 70.

Okay, and you made an 11% rate of return, Mm-hmm, Wow.

So the franchise is not doing that well, huh.

Well, yeah, I Don't know. you ought to be making a lot more than okay. Yeah, I'll be making them all more. 11% on a small business operation, Okay.

Okay, so so the 11,000? What is really not a joint amount? you, a portion of that is yours and a portion? That's his correct? Yeah, but for the purpose of this question, we can view it as a joint amount.

I just want to know, like if it was only the 11,000.. Yeah, what? what? it has nothing to do with recouping your investment. I just wouldn't put any more in this.

So I would, I would take that money and just do something else with it, And I would not view it as a joint account. I would view it as separate, because you're not married And so it's not legally a joint account. You don't? you do not have an LLC managing this. you don't have a joint.

You don't have any kind of joint venture agreement. This is two individuals that dump money into an account. So it is separate legally. You don't have a choice in that matter. And so you ought to separate it.

and his portion Should be the return on his money and your portion should be the return on your money. And then you guys go and do with that in your personal finances, each of you not joint What you should be doing, but no, I wouldn't put it back in there. You've already put enough in there, put a lot in there. now, if she's talking about Investing the money instead of having a sit in the savings account, if we're talking five plus years, You know, she wanted to take that money and put it into mutual funds or an index fund. Is that something that?

yeah, but I'm guessing they probably have some other financial goals, like getting out of debt or Saving money, for it's a house, that kind of thing that that money should be moving, moving in those directions Even rather than as an investment, but should I, would I roll it back into the franchise? No, I sure would not. a small business ought to be returning double that. and So that, no, I would not. thanks for the call.

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How are you guys better than I deserve? What's up? So? my father passed away unexpectedly in December.

How old was he, you know 56, oh wow, Yeah, So we're feeling that loss right now. he had one life insurance policy. I was awarded 25% of it and also my five-year-old daughter was awarded 25% Of both of our portions value at just a little bit over $18,000 each. My portion we plan to me, my fiance. we plan to pay off debt With her portion, though Obviously it's with her.

I wanted to stay with her, but she's five years old and I wanted to know. Get some advice on what are the best options to possibly invest it. or Yeah, I would put it in some mutual funds, in a college fund and a 529. go to Ramsey solutions, comm and click on smart Vesta and Find some of the smart Vesta pros in your area that we endorse. we tell folks to go see because they have the heart of a teacher and I would.

I would get her 18,000 sitting in a 529 And.

And I, and then I'll step over into the other part of your statement. much like the last caller, You and your fiance aren't doing anything until you're married.

You are doing things with your money on your bills, don't you dare pay his bills with this? Well, we do have plans to be married, so when Are we planned it in the next month? actually, okay, after you're married. after you're married, You have shared accounts and shared assets, But until that ring is on your finger, and this is official do not use any of your money to pay his bills, please.

Please, for your sake. okay, now, once you're married, And it's all. it's all in where all the money's in the middle is yours. You know my debt, your debt, my money, your money, all that, and But but until you're married. because if something happened until you're married, You know you have zero protection on this.

so it's just dangerous as crud to start to start handling your financial Transactions as if you're married when you're not in both of these cases. And we take those calls when it was supposed to go perfectly according to on paper, and then life Happened and it didn't work out and then someone's gone way. I paid off your debt, and now we're not getting married. What, what do we do now? well, I mean all kinds of things happen that we don't know we're gonna happen.

and You know, sometimes it's ugly things and sometimes it's sad things and other things. so please, please, please, folks, Do not have joint accounts for your $11,000 when you're not married. do not take your dad's 18,000 from your dad's Passing away from his life insurance that he left his daughter and pay bills for a guy. You're not married to yet After you're married. It's not a guy.

You're married to him. He now called your husband. now We are one and now, yes, we can pay any bills with it. Whatever whatever we decide We're gonna do. but, guys, You cannot treat these things the same because you're, you're gonna get yourself in a pinch.

and I just we love you too much to see that happen to you. and We run into ugly situations where people misbehave, we run into sad situations where people die. we run into all kinds of things, and We've seen it all. and, and you know, As long as you, you know, Things don't always turn out exactly like your little plan. so, until you're married, don't be combining Assets.

do not buy a house with someone. you're not married to Dumber than crud. don't do that. I was just talking to you. right then you out there, You know I'm talking to.

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George camel Ramsey, personality, is my co-host today. open phones at triple eight, eight, two, five, Five, two, two, five. we're glad you're here. Ruth is with us. Ruthie is with us, rather in Orange County.

Hi, Ruthie. How are you?

I'm doing great. Thank you for taking my call. Sure. What's up?

So you know, I currently live in California, which is I grew up here, but it's high cost of living and We're Not aside from the house consumer. That's about 150 K that we have, And I was thinking about relocating to Tennessee, as a lot of Californians have and maybe just either use the profit from our home here it did increase in value in a short amount of time and Maybe just get a house cash and then help speed up the process of getting us out of debt.

I don't know. That's a good idea. What is your? what's your home in Orange County worth?

It's about a million 135.

Okay, and what do you owe on it? About Seven, a little over seven hundred thousand. Okay, so you got five hundred thousand dollars in equity and you have a hundred and forty thousand dollars in.

Debt, so that leaves you three hundred fifty thousand to buy a house with when you make your move, right? Yes, okay.

Well, a million two in Orange County is probably 350 in some other areas Not New York City, but it could be in Tennessee for sure. Could be a similar property, actually depending on where in Tennessee you landed or Texas or Florida, or whatever, but Wherever you decide to go.

So financially? obviously that changes things, what does your husband do for a living? What do you do for a living?

I am a registered nurse. I work from home. I bring in about 139 a year. he used to be in sales, but you know, he's in his early 50s and Kind of aged out of it. Really?

He's. he's working with Special needs kids really at one of the local high schools. Now. He just got the job. He's bringing about 40k.

really. Yeah, Well, that's not that hard to replace them and you can do your job from anywhere, right? Yes, from anywhere as long as in the US.

Okay, I keep my same salary really okay, so you you can. you know, you can handle the career change, You can handle the real estate change. You'd be dead free to make the move. Then, the only the bigger question than all of that is

You know, just because it makes financial sense doesn't mean that your family's gonna Want to do this and then you're gonna be happy and that you need to do this. I mean, right, you know.

I've got a good, I've got. I was with a friend of mine last night that just moved to Nashville from, California and his wife grew up in Orange County and You know, they're settling into Nashville. it's a different culture.

Sure, Yeah, you know that's part of it, since he either I, the other plan was thinking about maybe just chugging it through, and you know I'm on baby step to really just trying to get out of debt. Mm-hmm, I mean, so. the answer, the answer to your question, is, is financially, Mathematically, everything you're saying makes sense, but that doesn't mean you should do it. the reason you should do it is is it makes you happy, it causes you to be excited and You get out of debt and pay cash for a house? Not, I get out of debt, pay cash for a house, and I'm miserable.

True, so you guys got it. Would you still want to move if you didn't have any debt? Would you still want to move to Tennessee? Yeah, answers. Yes.

This could be a great move. Yeah, you know, if you wanted to move to a different state of ink, I start a new adventure, but it sounds like like my friend's wife who grew up there. They're her. The axis of the world for her runs through Orange County. I mean the axis for me runs through the middle of Nashville, that's where I grew up, and so You know where I.

to move to Orange County, be different and be like being on a different planet, You know. and so I had to see that, Dave. Yeah, it'd be different, be weird, But yeah, but I'm so. you know you can make. you could pay off 150, making 180.

That's not impossible. You can do it in two years. So we three years. You know, it's definitely doable if you're willing to make the sacrifices. the question is where do you want to be ten years from today?

living physically, geographically, where do you want to be living and?

Then that needs to make your overall decision. in my friend's case, they left, California Because of the political situation, the ridiculous actions around the Fauci pandemic and the crazy but taxes. They paid cash for their house here in one year of income tax savings not living in California. Wow Well, we got no state income tax here in Tennessee, which is another blessing. and so that you know for them It was like you.

you know the state of California ran us off. is the way they feel about it? Well, we saw the migration numbers, too. it's the second largest held for losing. people in New York lost the most, California lost the next most and Most of them went to Tennessee, Texas and Georgia and Florida.

It's where there's the three most, I Don't know. Incoming with it. with the shift in migration. We've had a huge migration, but the migration is completely, in all of these cases, caused by the politics and And the taxes associated with the politics. and so, you know, that's you cannot tax Rich people when they can move away.

They will leave, They don't have to stay. and so this idea We're gonna tax all these rich people and then they all just load up the truck and head away from Beverly Hills. That is swimming pools and movie stars. So there you go. I mean they leave buddy.

I mean, that's what happens. And so you see these migrations, and so what you've got is a perfect storm between several of the political issues, along with the Pandemic issues, which are really political issues, or what they came down to. And then you mix in the tax issues, which really is a political issue when it gets right down to it. But these four, you know, one or two of them, people can stomach. but when you start putting three, five of these things on there, then people move out of Michigan, they move out of Which is the third one?

They move out of California and they move out of New York. It's, I mean, this is not an opinion. It's a statistical fact. You haul is making a killing. I Mean, it's like they think they they, you know, they think governor Newsom is just incredible marketing.

Thanks for the business. Yeah, man, so, um, that's what's going on. So true, Ruthie, but I'm not, it's not. I'm not saying you're dumb if you stay cuz. honestly, I hear sadness in your voice when you're talking about it.

It sounds like you're sad and You don't want to move somewhere just to be sad. Even though the math works, I wouldn't do that. if you're, if you can look at it as an adventure and a new Chapter in our life and we're excited about this and it'll be fun and be different and whatever, then yeah, that's fine. But but but only the math works on what you're talking about, but just because the math works, That's not the only reason to do it. It's one solution.

doesn't mean it's the solution exactly exactly. Samuel's with us in Columbus, Georgia. Hi Samuel. Welcome to the Ramsey show. Hi David afternoon, thank you for taking my call.

I'm longtime listener. So thank you. I'm calling to get some help, Advice on how to best assist my Mother and her husband, who are both struggling financially and medically. How old are they? I'm open about in their early 60s.

Okay, what's the medical situations? So her husband has had two strokes. He had a second stroke at the beginning of last year, around this time. So he's very, very incapacitated. he has some other residual medical problems.

my mom, She has high blood pressure and She's also unfortunately obese, morbidly obese, and They're both are, but the both Partially, so I mean, if you sit down and coach them on their money, will they take your advice?

Well, I I'm not sure, sir. Okay, then you might be wasting your time. I mean you can't make grown-up people do stuff, It's, there's not a law that allows that. so

You know, cover a medical bill, but we need to find a sustainable solution. Yeah, I would sit down with them and Figure out where we're going and what are we going to do to get there? And then you can realize what participation you need to do. But if you start throwing money at this and they're digging a hole faster than you're filling it in, That's not going to work for anybody. So you got to get a holistic approach to this and that'll help you get there.

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George Campbell Ramsey personality is my co-host today. open phones at triple, eight, eight, two, five, five, Two, two, five. All right, let's catch up a little bit. There is a company called standard and poor. They are one of the companies that rates things on the stock market the most famous thing that they rate.

There's a company called Dow Jones that has an average of the industrial companies which creates the Dow Jones Industrial average, which is a little strange because a lot of companies are not industrial anymore that are part of that old-timey term. But it can. it comes from the. you know, when America was more manufacturing driven than it is today. the S&P standard and poor rates the top the largest 500 companies That are publicly traded, meaning their stock is sold on what we call the big board, the New York Stock Exchange.

So these are the largest 500 companies that sell stock in America, and that means they're Having that. the, as this group of companies Goes, is a good indication of what the economy is doing. It's a good indication, certainly, of what the stock market is doing, because basically they make up the stock, the vast majority of the stock market. So the top 500 companies on the New York Stock Exchange is called the S&P standard and poor S&P 500. now That's important because that's actually a better way of measuring What the stock market is doing than the Dow is Okay, or the Dow Jones industrial average or any other measure for that matter?

This is a very generic measure and people in the financial world use the S&P 500 as a as a plumb line to tell what? The market is doing. so if a, if a mutual fund, for instance, outperforms the S&P 500, That means the mutual fund is making better returns than the market as a whole. If it underperforms the S&P 500, it makes less returns. so all that's important.

Nice article, James. our producer pulled up for us. if the S&P 500 hits a new all-time high in 24, You can expect a strong year of gains to follow. According to Ned Davis research, the investment firm crunched the numbers and found that when the S&P 500 hits at least one record high in a given year, That year's median return is about 15%. So what they're saying is is that when the, when the stock market tops out and has a new record, That is almost always a year that you get great returns.

Well, duh, Obviously, if the stock market's hitting the record, you ought to be getting great returns. It kind of makes sense, right? So I'm shadowing guys. Yeah, but I mean it makes sense. It's an.

it's an interesting it is. It is a valid statistical correlation. So I like that. like the study, the S&P 500 has tended to post double-digit gains in years with record highs. Ned Davis research said the data point Highlights two typical characteristics of the stock market.

that strength begets more strength than the stocks don't typically crash from all-time highs. So just because it goes way up Generally means it's going to go up. It doesn't mean it's going to go right back down, and that makes sense. Of course, too. Of course, this staff is not a slam-dunk.

the S&P is less than 2% away from hitting a new all-time high. if it were to do that in the next day or two, or the next month or two, then a, A Listed, you know a. the historical data indicates that you're gonna have a great year. Hmm, which also makes sense, because it wouldn't have hit a high if it wasn't or hadn't moved towards a great year. But it doesn't just jump up there and then jump down.

so All this to say, we're close to hitting a new record Ever in the history of the stock market. it up, and if it hits that. that is a great Indicator that 24 is going to be a great year to have invested, Which means that if you're waiting until after the presidential election in November to do your investing, that's probably a dumb idea. If you got some money you're sitting on right now, I would buy your mutual fund like tomorrow, Right now. and if you're thinking about pulling all your money out because you saw some headlines, don't do that either.

Yeah, we found that if you just ride this roller coaster over time, You're gonna hit a new record high and a new record high, and then it's gonna go down, and then it's gonna come up, And then it's gonna go down, and then it's gonna come up. This is how life works. I mean, it's how the real stuff. It's how the real estate market works, is our mutual funds work. It's how the whole, you know, stock market works.

the S&P 500, all this does that. so here's the deal. you got a hundred thousand bucks and you wait till November and This market hits and does what this study indicates and it makes. let's say, it makes 15%, which was the average, the median. Okay, it's $100,000 and you don't invest it.

You wait till November and The market goes up 15%. What'd you lose? $15,000.

Because you didn't do what I just said to do invest. so You stop, and let me just tell you real estate's exactly the same place right now. Is real estate gonna go down? No, It's not. we have a tremendous shortage of housing.

There's more buyers, even in a sluggish, slow market where people are sitting on the sidelines because interest rates spiked up. now They're coming back down. They're coming off sidelines in the last two weeks like never before, but.

If you wait a year to buy a house Because you're somehow waiting to time the market, You've got this mysterious insight that you think things are going to go down. You're wrong. and if you wait a year to invest in the market because you're waiting on the market to come down, you're gonna miss it. and If I'm wrong, Give it another 12 months and I won't be wrong because it'll come up. I mean really.

So I gotta tell you what would Dave? what is Dave Ramsey doing right now buying?

Period, investing period. I'm not waiting on The clash of the old men Trump and Biden, not waiting on to 80 year olds to have an MMA to decide what I'm gonna do, Because who the crap knows what? I may break a hip. Well, it's more like bumper cars that are running out of battery bumping into each other. more than a clash.

It's like two Muppets. the dirt was the old men Muppets, right? So that learn Waldorf. Is that them? That's him.

Oh, my gosh, so you don't wait on this. Don't sit, don't watch Fox News and CNN and and let your butt sit on the bench get in the game, Shoot the ball, fire, Pull the trigger, whatever, whatever Metaphor we need to use to cause you to actually do the invest sports weaponry, whatever it takes, Whatever it takes to get you moving here, We'll do. we'll go whatever, whichever direction you need to go, and this validates a lot of what you've been saying. for 30 years, Dave, We looked at historical data and the S&P 500 average annual return is 10 to 12 percent, and they're saying right here This is gonna could be a year about 15 percent median return, and people always go. Dave, I'm not getting that in my account.

Well, you had dummy, not in a given one month period. Well, you see that, but over time, the average is the average. That's how average is one average. I think we all need to go back to basic math, statistical These. these are these the sixth grade math classes that people flunked.

But now that that's the thing. so all of this to say boys and girls, please be steadily investing, Please. the people that invest are the ones that have money. There's a high correlation between people who save money, invest money that have money. Hello, why was that deep?

You know, if you don't, if you don't put any money in the account, please don't expect any money to be in the account. Why is that hard? Well, but just keep doing it. just keep doing it. just keep doing a lot of fear, and it's why I love, you know, working with a financial pro, smart Vestor Pro, great, great person to work with, to reach out to a financial advisor and investment pro and go, help me understand this.

and You make the decisions and they're not gonna pull the money out for you. You are calling the shots here and they're gonna help you understand the perspective that we're showing you on the show today. Yeah, you can pull up the historical data and look at the track records. Look at the trend lines. It's really not hard to understand.

I mean, it's really not. I mean if you pull up in a neighborhood and There's cars up on blocks and the gutters are falling off the houses and the place, everything you see needs weed eaters, Then you know. and then you pull up the MLS data on that neighborhood and you see the values have been going down. It's not a. it doesn't require rocket surgery to figure out that this thing's going down in value.

I mean, you know, it's just not hard. And if you pull up in the neighborhood and everything's manicured and it looks like freaking, leave it to. beaver lives there, You know, and you go pull up MLS data on that. You're gonna see a line up and to the right. Hello Well, it doesn't take a rocket surgeon to figure that out either.

go buy a house in that neighborhood. This is, these are trend lines. It's historical data. You can watch this stuff. This is the Ramsey show.

Our Scripture that a proverb is 13 three those who guard their lips preserve their lives, But those who speak rationally will come to ruin. Robert Frost said half the world is composed of people who have something to say and Kick and and can't, and the other half who have nothing to say and keep saying it. Well, since we're on the air with a live mic, we pretty much have to fill up the time. So, guilty as charged, Dave's gonna keep saying it. guilty as charged all the time.

Robert is in California. Hey Robert, welcome to the Ramsey show. Hey, mr. Ramsey. I just wanted to say I'm a huge fan.

My economic future for my senior year in high school introduced me to you through the Ramsey solutions investment calculator. Wow, just to. yeah, just let you know. the main problem at hand is my father Is pretty much not allowing me to get a part-time job while I'm a full-time college student. That's like the main issue at hand.

the background on it, though, is my father came to this country as a refugee during a civil war in his home country, and.

He has a bunch of brothers and sisters and they ran into a cycle Because they never really had any guidance through financial, Where the second they would get a job which was a minimum wage, or you know, close to minimum wage. They would spend all of their money. They wouldn't save, they wouldn't try to invest. They wouldn't do anything with their money, They would just spend it all. and you know, even now we're still see, I have a bunch of uncles and aunts.

I don't have a single uncle or aunt that it's financially well off. the only person in my family that is financially well off is my father, and that is because of my mother and Because of your mother's discipline. or she brought money to the table, My mother's discipline. my mother should have. it was super.

where there's a story in the home country. Did he come from? It's a little, say again, It's a little bit. Oh, I'm Salvador. Okay.

Got you. Okay. All right, and I had to put the Tennessee accent on there to understand. Okay, and El Salvador, and I'm kidding, but But anyway the.

Yeah, Yes, I live at home. Okay, All right. Well, um.

You come, like I do, from a culture of honor.

So, honoring your father is very important, would you agree with that? Absolutely. Okay. That's a good thing. And so.

Number one. You're not going to work unless he's going along with it, And that's honoring him and that's honoring your mom. writing the checks for you to go to school. You're going to go along with their plan. Okay, now the next.

then the next thing is is there any way you get a hearing with him and You know what I might do is say

Dad, I have admired your work ethic and mom's work ethic and discipline, and I think I can do some work and not be irresponsible with it. and Would you, would would you coach me? Mentor me and let me try it for one semester, with you watching my behaviors and see if I get out of line. and Let's, let's run an experiment, dad. And the only way I would do that, though, is if I can do it and honor you, dad.

Yeah, Okay, and so I want to honor your request, but I'm asking for you to help me Try this as an experiment. if the experiment goes the way you think it's going to, I Won't ask again, and I'll go through school without working. If the experiment goes well, and I'm able to do this without any kind of debt, and I'm able to do it without Becoming irresponsible due to working, which is his fear, if I understood you, right? Yeah, then, dad, then then maybe the experiment turned out positive and maybe we can extend that, Which would. why don't we try this?

but I need your help.

To make sure this is being done the way you want it done, dad.

That's different than you rebelling and Saying, you know, in a sense, using the attitude. The old man has no clue. So you're going to do whatever you want to do. I would never endorse you doing that. No, absolutely, And it wouldn't work against role model.

Yeah, and it wouldn't work. Robert. What was your goal in working part-time? What would you do with that money? Well, to give you some background.

I followed up with mr. Ramsey. since I was 17, I I remember coming home to my mom because my mom has a better credit score than my dad does, and Begging her to let me piggyback off her credit card as a 17 year old. and because of that, now I have a 750 credit score with my own credit card. Well, you didn't get that from us.

Oh, We didn't. Because of you, I decided to take a bunch of financial classes in my high school, okay, Okay. Yeah, and so what are you gonna do with this money? Invested? I just want to.

I you know, it's. it's to the point where, in order to get any type of income, I've been having to do side hustles behind my dad's back. I do computer repairs for my friends. I do digital repairs as and you know, I do IT work across the internet on Twitter.

Even One of my friends have contacted me to open up an e-commerce business with him. I, like I, have been trying to get any sort of income under the table. I already have my emergency fund set up to over $1,000 And then, in flat cash, I have around $300, and I've been investing like a dollar a day, Just for the past year, into the Vanguard S&P 500. just a dollar a day. Yeah, so dad, you risked your life for our family to have an opportunity to start in the land of the free, and part of the part of the free is free enterprise, and part of the free is the ability to go into the marketplace and earn.

and I want you to walk beside me and show me how you think I ought to do that in a way that's responsible. That's a lot better than under the table.

hiding and Deceiving your father. you don't want to do that. That's not going to turn out well for you. So Good question, sir. Good question, honored to have you in our listening audience.

We appreciate you being there. Jenna is with us in Athens, Georgia. Jenna, right quick for a run out of time. What's up? Hey, real quick.

I'm Curious on how you started on with my budget. when I have so much looming debt over us. I'm really been laser focused. I'm trying to get our financial situation fixed since before the holidays and When I try to look at the budget and I'm thinking about the four walls, It's it's hard for me to navigate where to even begin. So, can you cover the four walls right now?

food, utility, shelter, transportation? How much money do you have left after covering those?

Barely anything. What's your income? So my income between my husband and I is eighty, two thousand a year. and how much debt? So we actually not counting our house for like a hundred and fifteen thousand dollars in debt.

And that's all been accrued since we bought the house. It's all house debt. Yeah, you're not spending any $2,000 on food, shelter, clothing, transportation. You're saying, after your debt, Personal loans. Yeah, that's not.

your personal loans are not four walls. Your four walls are your basic necessities? So there's only one way out of this you got to make more money. sell all the crap you bought and Decrease your expenses and use all the extra margin at the debt smallest to largest balance. How much do you owe on your cars?

Between both of them, fourteen, nine. They're not the problem. Okay. Yeah, so I don't know what else you bought. Yeah, let's get you into the every dollar, a budgeting app.

I will pay for it and the premium version and get you started here, and There's a great paycheck planning tool in there that will help, and we'll go ahead and put you in financial peace University. So you guys can do this, but the two of you are gonna sit down together and figure out what of our lifestyle? We're gonna cut, what we're gonna do to get our income up and our out go down. And that's what George is saying, and he's exactly right. So hold on, Austin.

I'll pick up, We'll get you signed up for every bit of that. So the four walls are basic food, and that includes no eating out.

Electricity and water utilities does not include cable. Okay, that's not a necessity. It includes clothing, although you probably don't need any. you've probably got enough to wear if you're up against the wall Shelter, so you gotta pay the house payment of rent and transportation. You got to keep the cars running so you get in the tank so you can get to work, and that's it.

That's your. that's your four walls. Everything else is not a necessity. Everything else is a bad monopoly game that puts a sour the Ramsey show in the books. We'll be back with you before you know it.

in the meantime, Remember, there's ultimately only one way to financial peace, and that's to walk daily with the Prince of Peace, Christ Jesus.

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