Anitta: Segredos para um Ótimo Sexo, Rebolado e Boquetes (Portuguese Subtitles) [VÍDEO]
2023-05-17 00:46:06
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Anita Welcome to call her daddy. Thank you Daddy gang. We are in the presence of truly someone that is just doing it all, and I'm honored to be sitting with you today. Anita is the most successful Brazilian artist to ever come out of the country. Billboard magazine has called her more influential than Beyonce, Rihanna and Lady Gaga.
What the fuck, no big fucking deal, Anita.
In Brazil, maybe.
I don't know, international, I don't know. You also are nominated for a Grammy this year for best new artist. Congratulations.
Thank you.
It is like your career is incredible and watching you grow has just been so fucking cool. But I know you from when we met at the Baby to baby gala.
Yeah.
I need to hear what your favorite moment is from that event, because I know we met like briefly, but we were sitting next to each other. I was dying. You are so funny, you're so charismatic, you have such a personality.
What do you remember from that event?
I think our table was so fun, we had, like, very fun people with us, and we had fun just talking about things that people would never talk in a fancy table of auction. You know, dinner, I don't think.
Yes, Anita and I are like, we meet, and two seconds later, Anita is like, So like, how does your vagina smell? And I was like, Oh, hey girl, what's up? And we're like, let's talk about our buttholes and our vaginas. As like, a corporate Spotify person is sitting directly to our left. My favorite was also when they not that, like everyone knows, the baby to baby Gala, but so there's like, angels that work at the event.
Oh my god.
So Anita is like chilling and like, now it's like towards the end of the night. Like people have left, but like people are saying, so Anita is like, you know, girl. Like, I got an early morning, like, I'm going to dip out and I'm like, totally get it. I'll be leaving soon.
So everyone in the crowd is sitting and they're like, Hey, can all the angels stand up? To give people context? It's about 11 women in a crowd of 300 and they go, everyone, all the angels stand up. Anita just starts standing up, she's like, Bye, everyone, I got to go.
And it's a dead, silent room. And she was like, Wait, and I'm like, Anita, it's only the angels.
It's worse than that, it's worse than that.
Tell us.
In my mind, I thought she was telling she was calling all the women angels, stand up, all the women, and I thought all the women was going to stand up.
That's why I stood up.
And you're like, this is a perfect moment for me to, like, sneak out the back door. Only 11 people of like 300. And Anita literally sits back down. She's like, Mother, fuck.
That was terrible.
It was, it was a great moment.
Let's kind of go back through, like, your life, a little bit to get to know you better. What was life like where you grew up outside of Rio de Janeiro?
So people don't think when, when they see me, or they see like my songs and whatever, they don't imagine that I come from. Like the communities it could be called the ghetto, a little bit, it's like the favelas. When you go to Brazil, there's like communities, places that, like the houses, are really close to each other.
It's a really like, humble place, simple, I come from a place like that, I was born and raised in a place like that. My mom used to do the best she could to fake the danger and the bad sides of it for me and my brother. So we all see everything with like this beauty and playing in the streets, things like that.
Very like, very like in the hood, you know? And. But she always told us that a way for us to leave there. It's not that we don't like there, but we all want to leave because we want a better life. So she always said that the only way to get out would be studying, and we always did the best we could, like studying and doing like all we could. And I always loved music.
So I started doing music, but also like studying everything. I was my own manager for like 10 years, me and my brother, we were partners, so it was a whole job, not only from arts, but also like business.
When and at what age did you realize your love for performing?
Oh, no, since I was a little kid, I was already like singing, and when I was three years old, like four or five, I was already singing. And my family used to ask me like these questions like, What are you going to be when you grow up? whatever? And I was used to be like, I'm going to be famous.
I'm going to be an artist, I'm going to have a pool in my house, blah, blah, blah, blah.
That was literally me, so you kind of always knew.
Always I would pass through some, pass by some places that I knew it was like TV places like studios or whatever. And I used to open the window or go to the bus window and say, like, you guys are going to see me, I'm going to work here, blah, blah, blah.
Nine years old, I was always like, this personality, kind of crazy.
I love that so much, though, because I think sometimes you have to have that energy in order to get to where you need to get.
But I was like, sure, I was sure. it was not that. I said, like, Oh, I want to be, I was sure I was. I would tell my family where I was going to live, how my house would be, the TV shows, that were going to be, the people we're going to meet.
I would be like that when I was a kid, I could literally, like, see and dream about this. And like, my family was like, okay, cause it was a very humble life.
So they would never perspect that in my life totally, so they would be like, Okay? And I was like, you guys don't understand, I'm not saying I want to.
I'm going to be there, but there's no option.
It's happening. Do you guys want to come along for the ride or not? Who were some artists that you admired growing up?
Mariah Carey was my first one, she was my first diva, and I had the opportunity to tell her that. And it was crazy. And to be on the phone with her for hours.
That was crazy for me, she was the number one.
Forever.
And then Rihanna, and now I'm sponsored by Fenty, I did their Fenty show, I do like photoshoots for Fenty. It's crazy.
Even when you're saying that, like, does it still feel surreal, like how much success you've had?
I think we should always remember because sometimes, and I think the industry does this to us. They push us to think that we need always more, more, and more, and more.
And I think nowadays with the internet, it's kind of impossible for you to reach everything, everyone every time. You got to be happy also.
You got to take time for yourself also. So I think that this speech that I used to have for my life for many years, like, you can be more, you can do more.
Never stop, never give up. I was like that, and when I was like that, I couldn't see those things that happened in my life.
I would be like, Okay, yeah, I met Mariah. Okay, yeah, I loved it.
But I couldn't like, look and be like, Wow, nowadays for me, it's like, Yeah, we can definitely give up.
We can definitely go rest, take a nap, go to sleep. We don't need all the money in the world, you know?
A person, the money doesn't mean happiness, and as many number ones you get in your life, that's not going to make you happier or not. So for me, it's like.
Every single thing that happened, that happened in my life, I learned how to stop and be like, Wow, look at what I did.
This is so. And then live that moment again. I got to this reflection because last year I got super sick, right?
Super sick. I couldn't do anything, I couldn't go upstairs at my house, I couldn't do anything literally.
For three months, I was like.
And I thought literally that I was going to die. It was a whole thing. And then I was in the hospital for so long, and then I was like.
You know what, I was just working, working, working to reach everything.
And thinking I still didn't have enough and now I'm here, and what did I get from life, right? did I enjoy it?
Did I have fun, did I do nothing? And the thing that I wanted the most was like to travel, to have more free time.
But today is too much for you to be successful, you got to be on Instagram, YouTube, TikTok.
Spotify It's so many things that you got to do. We are just one human being.
It's too much.
How can we do all of that? It's a lot, so I'm not up to waste my life searching for things anymore because I'm almost 30.
Now I'm 29 and I do think it was important and amazing for me to do that for so many years. But now I just want to rest.
If I get more success, amazing, if no, amazing.
It's okay. Your birth name is actually Larissa. Yeah, do you mind sharing why and when you started going by Anitta?
So my name, Larissa is very common in Brazil. Anitta is a name that there was just one character from a series called Anitta. And I wanted to be this girl because she used to say that she was like an 18 year old character in this series.
She used to say that she didn't like to be just one girl, she liked to wake up and decide which girl she wanted to be. Today. I want to be crazy, tomorrow, I want to be sexy and then I want to be pretty.
And then I want to be a princess. And I was like, that's so cool because I don't like to define myself and be like, Okay, I'm this.
I'm so many things I like to discover every day, a new me. And I think people have the necessity of defining you and being like, Oh, she is that, and I like to be all.
What is the difference between Larissa and Anitta?
Oh my God, it's huge, it's huge. I started my career 12 years ago here in America. I am a best new artist.
I'm joking, but I am nominated as best new artist for the Grammys because it's a new career. I started from the zero, I left everything and I came to start here again. But 12 years ago, when I started there, I created this character.
Because me, Larissa, I'm very shy, to be honest, I'm very insecure. I don't like going out, I don't like socializing, I don't like doing anything.
I'm so the opposite of who I am when I'm in this character. When I created this character. Anitta, I wanted a person, a persona that would be completely against hypocrisy. People that are hypocrites that say one thing and do the other. And that's what I wanted to do.
How many languages can you sing in?
I can sing in five languages, it's because I sing in Portuguese, Spanish, English, Italian and French. But French just a little bit, I speak just a little bit, and Italian a little bit.
How the fuck did you learn all these languages?
I'm going to give a very good example right now of Larissa and Anitta, right? So when I go to Inderville as Anitta, you got to deliver entertainment, right? So people ask me, How did you learn so many languages? I say, with boyfriends?
Whenever I wanted to know a new language, I would date a different guy and different accents, but in reality I had, which is kind of boring. The reality Larissa I hired different teachers from different places of the world.
And I used to leave them in my dressing room for whatever commitments I had, so I used to get two hours of glam every day. I would be studying during these two hours, the teacher would be telling me, and I would be studying for these two hours.
I fucking love your honesty. Let me be so clear, Anitta is like, Bitch, if I wanted to learn Italian, I'm going to date an Italian man.
I'm going to fuck an Italian guy.
Actually, I was just hiring people and they were just teaching me. Do you ever worry that now? Being so honest about the two characters that people will be like, Wait, what the fuck, this isn't the real you?
No, because I think it's so important for me to have this clear and to understand that I use my character. To break rules, to break boundaries, things that limit us women to do all women.
Women that wants to be free in sex, women that wants to be free in work, whatever. I like this character, it brings to us self-esteem.
Confidence and something to look at. Even I do when I'm myself Larissa nowadays, I look at me as a character and I be like, Okay, I think I can get that from Anita.
And be a little bit more confident about myself. It's so much easier for people to watch a movie and see that character and be like, okay, and understand the actor is another thing.
But they don't understand that musicians, singers, they do the same thing, we do the same thing. There's no way we're bringing the on self, the person that we are at home.
The person that we are in family and bring this person on stage, it's not entertainable. It's not different enough for people to look and be like, Oh, this is special.
Who is your favorite person that you've collaborated with on a song?
Snoop Dogg.
That is.
For sure, because I think him and Cardi B, because they are so funny. Snoop Dogg is very simple, humble, and he's like, everything for him is a vibe.
It's all about if he likes you, if he likes your energy.
He has something kind of, I don't know. He sees someone and he feels the energy and then he decides if he likes or not. I feel, I think so, that's what I think from him.
Because I just feel like I can hug him and be there safe forever. I think he's one of the coolest guys. And Cardi B, she's just funny.
Good energy, best energy, high level. I love that.
I was reading the list. I'm like Pharrell, Missy Elliott, Snoop Dogg, Rita Ora, Cardi B, Saweetie, Becky G.
I'm like, Becky is one of my best friends. Missy Elliott was great energy, too.
It was so good, so good. Okay, Anita, you're also known for your dancing, okay?
Yeah, the Anita Challenge went viral on TikTok. I remember just watching these videos and being like one, how is this not getting censored on TikTok? I can't even like, fucking curse in my TikTok. Meanwhile, people are like, doing the challenge and like.
It's incredible watching it. Can you explain how twerking in Brazil is different than twerking in America?
Because it's not even only twerking, it's partying in general. I think here in America, people in the parties, they're more concerned about who they're with, where they're going, what they're wearing. And you know, it's like the table situation in Brazil, there's no table situation, you go to the party, there's no table.
Everyone is just one place, mess together, find out, you know, and we love dancing.
We love dancing, sometimes we don't even understand whether you're singing, we just want to dance. Sometimes it's just the same lyrics over and over. They just sing a different melody, just same words, always.
And we love it, we just want to dance, we just want to listen and dance.
What is it like being known for? Like the way that you dance, though, are you like, so proud of yourself?
It's crazy because in Brazil, it started this fever of like, Oh, we're going to do Anita moves, Anita moves.
Okay, now we need you to twerk.
Okay.
Okay, so this is going to be iconic, I think people will fucking love it. Is this the wrong surface? Oh my God.
Okay, okay, do you want music? We have music? No, it doesn't need to.
Okay.
So you just go like, you're going to do a push-up, right? Okay, and then you just do a circle, basically, you're doing this with your knees.
And you focus here, and then what? Wait, that might take a lot of upper body. You're doing this, but it's this.
AnItA Oh my God.
I don't agree.
This other one is harder, though, when you do a circle, but you stop in the middle so you do a twist.
This one is harder.
I feel so creepy.
Holy shit.
Dude, that was so good. I am, like, inspired now to go home and like, secretly practice it, but like not letting.
Anyone know I'm practicing it?
But like, I will be working on it and next time I see you, maybe I'll have a little move to bust out. And do you incorporate these into your set? what?
No, no.
It's just a dance, not at all.
When the guy asks me to dance, I go like, dance first.
He's never gonna fucking dance, so I'm like, what the fucking question is that?
Wait, you're like, I'm not performing like we're on a date.
I get so like.
It's so annoying.
I'm like, dance first, you dance, how you dance.
Are you currently single or in a relationship?
I'm single, completely single and not looking for anything. I love it and so happy with myself.
And I don't have sex in months, so many months, I don't even remember the last time I had sex, to be honest with you.
Are you just masturbating?
No.
Like, I'm celibate. Listen, I didn't find anyone special enough that I would think, like, Okay, this one deserves to come here, and I didn't find it yet. You're spending time alone, but I was crazy before.
I used to like, fuck, even like one person that would cross me on the street, I would be like, You come here, stop, I would be like that.
How did you get that confidence to, just like, go up to people?
Because I was living Anita 24-7 at the time.
Do you have a type of guy?
No girl breathing and alive.
I don't know, there's something inside that comes, and there's something for some reason, I can feel it. And then I'm like, MM, so there's no type. I can literally show you three different ex-boyfriends and you'll be like, what's the sense between these people?
I love that, though. What do you think is like something that you're most attracted to in a person?
I think when they're funny, I love. when they're funny, you make me laugh. I'm like, Ah.
I love it.
That's so good when they are confident, a little aggressive, but in a good way.
Uh-huh.
I like when they are aggressive in a good way, not like abusive relations.
Have you found yourself in any like abusive relationships?
Oh yeah, terrible, but I need it just once and then never again, like in two months after. There's one guy I had like for a year and something. I can look. If I'm starting with someone in one month, I can feel it's abusive and I'm like, fuck out.
Can you try to give like? If people are listening, they're like, fuck like, I think I may be in one like, do you have any like signs or things to look for?
Yeah, because in the beginning they let you feel very uncomfortable, you know, and then they start to make you feel insecure about yourself. Without saying, they don't say you are less or not, you know? Yeah, they just make they point. It's like they point things at other people that they are actually talking about you, but they pretend they're not.
And then, Oh honey, I'm almost a psychologist, I look and I'm like, Hmm, okay, and then I start bringing shit over for themselves to think.
So you mean, like, they'll point something out in someone in a room? Yeah, for sure, that, like, relates to you or is like, what you don't have.
Or just say, like, you see, that's so bad. Oh, my God kind of like to guide you how to not be.
Are you usually the one breaking up with people or they?
I am, I need that to change, though. I think that's why I'm waiting so much. I want things to be different.
Got it? What is like a deal breaker for you in a relationship?
When I feel suffocated, I don't like that.
Or when I think, when I feel suffocated is the number one thing. Like when the guy doesn't let you breathe and like, jealousy for no reason. You know, like, too much, come on. Or needy like, I need you, I want to talk to you like 24-7..
Come on, give me a break, give me a time to breathe.
Right, there's nothing more like unattractive, which I get it. We're all insecure, but being in a relationship with someone that's so insecure about you in the relationship, it's like, such a turnoff. You're like, can you just, like, get into therapy? Muster the courage.
Or like, when the guy tries, he's selfish, he tries to say he's doing things for you, but he's actually doing for him. He doesn't want to be alone, he is needy, he doesn't want to stand with himself alone, but he says that.
Oh, no, I'm doing this for you. come on, you're not, I want to be fucking alone.
Yeah.
For a little time.
Can you give advice to women listening that are like, Okay, wait, Anita, you have not been with someone, you're not hooking up with people like, how are you so comfortable being alone?
So everything started, and I hope people don't need that to change lives. When I got sick, that was like when I was in bed, thinking I was going to die. I started to look over all the things in my life and I started to see all the things that I didn't want to repeat again. It's not that I don't want to have sex with people anymore. Please God, I'm down.
I'm open, I'm free tonight. I'm just saying that. I'm rethinking the reason why I used to do things and how I was doing things, and I want to do differently. I don't want to have sex with a guy because I want him to fall in love with me, or because I don't want to lose him.
I want to have sex because I feel like doing it, because I feel like this guy deserves this Queen. I don't know. And before I didn't used to like staying by myself, I used to just like need friends every time in my house, friends.
Every time I needed people, and now I don't need nobody, I can be alone like this for days. You know, cook my own food and be like, life is beautiful. I'm just here, chilling.
And I feel like we need to ask ourselves, why are we scared of the silence? What is inside of us that we don't want to listen to? You know what we don't like about ourselves, that we don't want to face it. I'm not saying I regret the thousands of people I fucked, I'm just saying right now, I don't feel like.
Maybe next month. I feel like fucking thousands of people again just now, I just feel like.
Not right now.
It wasn't worth it.
I remember I went through almost, I've never said this. I almost went an entire year in my 20s where I did not have sex and I was like, totally happy.
Oh, I'm so happy.
It was just like a reclaiming moment for myself. I need to just figure my own shit out, and I don't need any penis getting in the vicinity of me while I try to figure it out.
I kind of want, but it needs to be a great penis, it needs to be a penis plus a brain, plus a tongue, plus so many things. It needs to be like a mix. Because it's a lot of work to have sex, for me, it's a lot of work.
I like to put a show on.
You do, Can you give us some tips? Anita? If the girls are like, what do you mean, put a show on? give us some tips?
What's your go-to?
Because I like to enjoy myself, I like to feel like I'm dancing and performing.
Is it a deal breaker for you if a guy is not good at eating you out?
I teach.
I love you. I would teach, I would say, come on, let me say something, do this, do that I don't like.
When they go like this, they put the tongue very hard and they go like,....
And it's like, you go like.
Oh my god, I don't like that.
It's just like a little slithering and you're like.
It's so bad these days. Oh, by the way, I didn't have sex with guys this whole time, with girls I did have. So I was teaching this friend of mine how to eat a pussy these days.
And she was like, Oh, it's that easy, and I was like, Yeah, I came in three minutes, she came in two.
Wait, you were practicing on each other.
Yeah.
And you're just friends.
Yeah.
There was no like sexual connection.
Oh, no, I was just teaching her.
You just like, took off your pants, like, Here's my vagina, let me teach you.
Fuck.
Okay, like, we need some tips without taking off your pants and us doing it. Do you have any like one specific thing that you can adjust for? The men or women listening that could maybe just like help achieve more orgasm?
I will say, first of all, for girls, for whatever guys, girls to eat girls. Personally, I think it's kind of different for each girl. I don't know the things I like can be different from the things. Yep.
Other girls like me personally, when I'm doing that with a girl. I go nice and slow, I do circles, and then I just do up and down and I do side by side. But like, slow and wet, and not like you're eating a pasta.
It's just like you are an ice cream that is cold and you cannot freeze your tongue. If you go like, you're going to freeze your tongue, you're going to feel like ice cold. And yeah, I just go nice and slow and then I put a finger on it, and I don't put the finger on it, like,....
You know, I just put it like nice and slow, small movements and like, just smooth, you know? And then like, I don't go in a crazy side by side, I just go in a smooth. Keep going with the flow, you know, and the girl is kind of going to guide you.
And then you can just put the finger in the beginning of the entry of the vagina, you don't need to go all the way down there. And it's not because the woman squirt that she came. There was this time, this guy made me squirt like 20 times and I was not coming.
I was like, this doesn't mean something is happening.
Men that are obsessed with getting a woman to squirt, let me look at me in the eyes of this camera.
Stop the next day, it hurts.
Oh, it hurts so bad.
Come on.
I think sometimes men forget, like, would you want us like jackhammering your dick? No, you like when it's like, very wet and like, you don't need it to be like, let's fucking go. Imagine we did that also dry, you would have rug burn.
Same for us, Okay, same for us.
There is also like, with guys, what I do.
I always use oil when I can, when the guy is not full of like. Some guys are like, Oh, you're using, I love, I love using lubricant, love it, and some guys think it's because they're not doing a good job. Shut the fuck up.
It's just more pleasing. Yes, you use lubricant, I put the lubricant, I'm going to teach you in this bottle.
Okay, okay, here we go.
I put the lubricant and then I go like this, first of all, I go like this. And then there's one movement and then you're going to do something. There's something you can do that they are not going to understand what you're doing. You could tell him to close his eyes.
You're going to do this, you're going to hold here in the bottom, and you're going to do this with the hands. Like this, you go down and circle, down, circle, down, circle, and then you go up and up and you do this. But up and down, up and down, and you do this.
He's going to be like, what is happening? But you should put lubricant on it. But you go like, this, don't do this, it's like, go up and down.
Don't, don't let it go, just open up and down and you do this, open and close, open and close. Because then you're going to switch the pressure on it and you're going to be like, What is she doing?
But you got to put lubricant on it.
Right, so you're kind of like massaging down past their tip and then around their shaft while you're holding the base.
Yeah, like this, oh, that's magical. And then they get super confused because it feels like a blow job, but it's not, and then you for the blow job. I like using things that you put in your teeth to fix it.
Plastic? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
The Invisalign.
Kind of, yeah, there's a bunch of brands, yeah, if you use the one down, just the one down.
Life changing, really, because it feels like you don't have teeth.
Anita.
It feels like you don't have teeth. Yeah, you can try.
I just added that to my Amazon cart while you were speaking.
Ask them, Wow, they're going to feel like you don't have teeth.
And just on the bottom.
Because it's going to touch the yeah, because it's on the up, too, it's going to look weird. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But if you use only on the bottom, they're going to feel like you don't have teeth. Because you can touch as much as you want with this teeth here, because it's not like aggressive, it's like smooth as a plastic.
This is an educational podcast today.
Okay.
We are educating them out there.
But this is bad, they don't like it, like the brand of the dentists. They will try to kill me and they're going to say, I'm bullshit because I try to say that in Brazil. Wow.
They wanted to kill me.
I feel like they would love it. The sales are going to rock it.
They wanted to kill me. No, no, no, that's not the purpose. This is health for people to take care of this, right?
While you're sucking dick, you're also aligning your teeth, you're multitasking.
But people don't want to know about that, they don't do blowjobs. They just were born from pure sand spirit that came, and so everyone is virgin.
Today, I am claiming that this is a great technique and you can be fixing your teeth while sucking dick, nothing better.
I wouldn't say that I'm not a dentist, I'm just saying, if you want to try, you try. if no, it's okay.
Totally. If you already have one, pop it in, see how it works.
Dentists hate me because I said that in Brazil, they hate me.
Dentists.
They do because I said, it's good when you use it, but they hate it, they don't like that. I said that.
They're the virgin dentist, they need to fucking relax.
Have you ever been cheated on?
Once, when I was 19 18.
How did you find out?
Oh my god, online, a fan told me.
Twice.
Once a fan told me second one, I pretended it was a fan because I actually dreamed about it. I dream about a lot of things that actually happened. So there was this one time I went to sleep this boy, I lent my car to him.
He didn't have a car, I lent my car to him. I was already a singer, I was performing somewhere else, he went to the place.
When I went to sleep, I literally went to, like, in my dream, I went to the club. He was. I saw him kissing the girl, he was wearing blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah blah. The girl was wearing blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
And it was so clear to me, and I know I have these type of dreams, so I didn't tell him I dreamed. I said, hi, a fan took a picture and sent me.
You were with this girl, you were wearing blah, blah, blah, she was wearing blah, blah, blah. And then he was desperate saying, Yeah, I'm sorry.
After months, I told him I dreamed it.
Have you ever got caught cheating?
No, I'm so smart.
I am so smart.
How do you feel about sex on the first date?
I don't care if I feel like I do you, just be yourself. And if he likes you amazing, if he doesn't, it's because he's an asshole.
Not that he's an asshole, it doesn't match you and you just want him because you think you need him for something, but you don't.
I love that advice, if you're good with yourself, who gives a fuck?
You don't care, it doesn't matter. There was this one time, this one guy, I went on a date after it ended up not happening anymore. I was like, he doesn't want me, blah, blah, blah.
And then after two weeks, when I was better with my therapy on point. And I was like, what the fuck I was doing with that guy? He makes no sense, he kisses terribly his kiss.
I was like, Where the fuck did this guy learn to kiss? It was a terrible kiss. The sex would be even worse. Why I was caring so much? It's just our fear of being rejected.
It has nothing to do with the guy, we don't even care about the fucking guy.
So true.
It has nothing to do with the fucking person. The person sometimes is shitty and we are concerned just because we don't want to feel rejected.
I also think a good bit of advice is pretend in your head. Imagine if they were obsessed with you and they wouldn't stop hitting you up. Then now assess would you actually like them? Like, if you're coming from a place of like, they don't like me, I want them to like.
That's just the chase and we get addicted.
And then he texted me and I was like, No, thank you.
Like, you kiss like a frog.
I was like, No, today I have my mind so on point. No, thanks, some people, you just go with them because your mind is not on point, right?
And then you wake up one day and it's like, what the fuck what I was doing with that person? It's so crazy to when you look back and you're like, I can't believe I was fucking obsessed with that guy. Fucking suck. Yeah, sometimes you just need to, like, step away from it.
How do you feel about sharing nudes?
I don't do that, you don't know.
Is it just because you're nervous? because, like, you're celebrity?
Before, Yes, nowadays, I just think it's new. I think it's more sexy when you're wearing like panties or something that is almost showing, but it doesn't show. I think it's more sexy. Plays more with the imagination, to be honest.
I love that.
Or, like, having a hand on it, you know, it's more even a picture of a dick. It's not beautiful. Come on getting a picture of a dick, let's be honest.
It's not great, let's be honest.
It's not great. You're like, Oh, there it is.
Like, when you see that guy naked, like, it's not hot, that's not hot.
What are you responding if a guy sends you a dick pic?
I'd be like, I sent an emoji or something, I don't know. I'm like, Eh, that's not it. I don't know, I don't feel anything with that.
What emoji?
With the eyes, you know, these two eyes that look like, that's it. It kind of doesn't say anything, it's just not to leave the guy unread.
I kind of love it, though, because then it could make him a little insecure of like, Wait, hello, and you're like, that's all you get.
That's all you get.
Do you like sexting sex? What sexting like texting, sexting?
No, no, me either. All these things for me are just not I like the real thing. Come on, come here.
Let's yeah.
Not the sex, sex, I like the little horny talk.
Uh huh.
But not the sex, like, I'm going to put my dick, put it in your pussy and bang it 20 times. I don't like that, I like the little horny thing, you know.
What intimidates you in the bedroom?
What intimidates me? A huge, insanely huge dick trying to put it on my ass. That's very intimidating. When a dick is like, huge, it's so scary.
And it's trying to go in your butthole, it's kind of not good.
Because you're so scared.
This one guy I saw, I was like, OK, I think I'm going to try here, and then his dick was so big, so big.
And I was like, Listen, I'm scared.
And then he said, why? and then he said, This is something I don't think I can handle right now. At this moment of my life, I cannot handle this, I think.
Check back with me in a couple months.
And then we just talked and cuddled and that was it.
Have you ever had a threesome?
Oh, so many times.
Do you enjoy them?
I do, I think it's cool, I like it, I think it's more, but you have to be very aligned with everyone.
You know, and yeah, I have threesomes, four, six, some, six, some. I had a boyfriend that used to like to switch couples and all.
Do you like the swapping thing?
Yeah.
Did you like it?
Yeah, he was very comfortable and he always let me pick and it was just fun. It was very cool and respectful and fun.
Did you ever get jealous?
Oh, no, I'm not a jealous person. I'm jealous if I don't feel respected. If I don't feel respected, I get not even jealous, I get angry.
I think that people that want to potentially do threesomes or foursomes, or orgies or whatever. I think you need to know yourself before you do that. If you're a jealous person, don't fucking do it, know yourself. Sometimes people, I think, do it for their partner, and it's like, if you know your relationship, don't do it. Just because you think he or she wants to do it.
Yeah, that's a big issue, to be honest. Yeah, I think you need to be very friends with your partner to make sure. Also, there was this one time and threesomes also with guys, but he wouldn't be with a guy just me. And he was super comfortable with that. He picked it and it was cool.
I liked it, to be honest, but he let me feel free with that.
Do you like to use toys in the bedroom?
I do, the guy got to be confident though, I know, but I do me too.
And that's why I did my line of perfume. When I did that, it was more about like I was doing concerts. And obviously, I'm performing for like two hours, and Carnival is like four hours performing non-stop, even seven hours I've done.
And when you finish, you don't smell good. Let's just have a real talk.
Butthole smells like butthole. If you go in the end of the day, you put your finger in the butthole and you smell it, it smells like butthole. It's a place that is there inside, locked in the dark, warm, hot, doing this the whole day.
This is going to sweat, it's like under your arms, there's no way you're going to sweat, you're going to smell.
It's there inside of your whole clothes. So I was like, I'm obsessed with smell, right? and I was like, I don't like smelling like sweat in my butthole. And then a friend of mine told me, Oh, I'm going to do something for you, and she did this perfume.
And I used it and it was like I was smelling great. Even if I went to the Sahara Desert and I did a music video there, it was like 42 degrees Celsius and it was so hot.
I was wearing like a jumpsuit of plastic, I was sweating like crazy and I was still smelling good. I was like, you know what, I'm going to make this like professional.
And then I did it and you just smell amazing, your pussy and your butthole smell great the whole time. And then I give it to the guys that I'm with and they put it in their balls, in the dick, in the butts, too.
They smell great for me, it's such like a turn-on, I love it. After I got this product, something I've always done was like to forget, Oh my god, by accident, my panties at the place.
They smell so good, and it smells insanely good, like strawberry or whatever, cotton candy. And this guy, obviously when you leave, guys pay attention, he will smell the panties, he will smell the panties.
He wants to know. And then he will smell the part that your butthole is on it, and it's not going to smell like butthole. And it's just heaven. They always come back.
Anita, you're giving us everything we need today. There's so few people that you can just like, have an open conversation like this. Talk about your sexuality, your sex life. What do you want people to know about you as an artist and an individual? If they're watching today and they're like new fans?
What would you want to say?
I would say, definitely what I said here, I think I'm an artist that fights against hypocrisy.
That's the artist. I like to be about everything, not only sex, but I bring up subjects which is like, talk about my plastic surgery, talk about sex, talk about poop, talk about things that we all do. And for some reason, we live our lives pretending we don't. And I don't understand what's the type of insecurities that make people live in this fake world that just pretend life is this 24-7 glam.
Knowing more about you now, and knowing how hands-on you are with your craft, you are running the show. You're your own manager. I really respect you and I cannot wait to see what you do next.
And I can't wait for the new album and all the things.
You deserve all of it.
Thank you so much for coming on.
Thank you, I loved it, I felt really at home, I hope people like it and I loved meeting you.
You have great energy.
You do, too, love you.
Love you.
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