Quit Trying To Calculate Your Way out of Debt!

2024-05-20 01:56:23

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Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's the Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create actual, amazing relationships. The phone number here is 888-825-5225.. Number one best-selling author and host of the Dr. John Deloney Show. Ramsey personality, Dr.

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John Deloney, is my co-host today as we answer your questions about your life and about your money. Thank you for joining us. Anthony is with us in Canada to start this hour. Hi, Anthony. How are you?

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I'm good. How are you doing?

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Better than I deserve. What's up?

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Hey, I got a question. So, I sold my rental properties as a bit of a... I was under the belief that it was a passive income, and it really wasn't. So, we got out of it at the right time, I think, and right now...

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You mean you had to actively manage the rental property?

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Yeah.

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You mean the tenants don't just do what they're supposed to do all the time? I'm shocked.

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They were calling me, and I.

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Yeah, and they wanted, like, repairs done and stuff.

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Anthony, I just have to disagree with you. I've watched plenty of TikTok videos. I think you're out of line here.

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That was sarcasm, Anthony.

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It is a passive income. I also watched a lot of TikTok videos.

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It's sarcasm. I'm glad you realized it. So, you sold it, Anthony. I'm sorry. And go ahead.

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Your question. I also watched those TikTok videos, which got me into it.

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That's our point. Yeah.

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Okay. So, I have $240,000 coming in, and I have fully stocked emergency fund. And we're giving money. We have our, like, we call RESP for my kids' education.

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We have no debt other than our mortgage, which we have $140,000 left. But we have... We've been paying off... Like, this year, we paid off $60,000.. I think next year, we could probably pay off $50,000, $60,000..

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Like, we're on track to pay it off. But I could just pay it off tomorrow. Good. And...

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Do it. Do it.

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But, like, okay, so you're so focused right now. I know that...

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What are you going to do with the money if you don't?

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Invest it.

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Okay. So, it's like borrowing $140,000 on your house that's paid for to invest money.

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If you had a paid-for house, would you borrow $140,000 on it to go invest it? No. No. Same thing.

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Yeah. But I just... I keep looking at, like, since we are so focused on the...

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If you're focused, pay it off.

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And we have $40,000 in retirement. Yeah.

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Pay it off.

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But the.

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. But in... So, in 30 years, I keep doing, like, the compound interest calculator, and it'll be different.

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Yeah.

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Yeah. Yeah. Is that on TikTok, too?

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Yeah. Your compound interest calculator never met a millionaire, because let me tell you how it works in the real world, okay? In the real world, as we studied the largest study of millionaires ever done, 10,167 of them, none of them, precisely zero, said, we became wealthy by borrowing on our home to invest, and compound interest calculator, zero, zero, zero, not one. The same number of millionaires that said, they got rich with airline miles using their credit card, zero, not one. The same number.

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that said, they got rich using a whole life life insurance, zero, not one. We couldn't find one anywhere that did that. So, that's the data that I'm using. And so, you... I mean, it's not even statistically significant.

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It's zero. It's not like, oh, it's 56%, so some did and some didn't. It's zero. None did what you're talking about doing. And so, yes, your compound interest calculator is there, but what it's leaving out is risk, and what it's leaving out is the way you walk.

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when you walk into work, and you don't have a house payment. Your voice changes one octave when you don't have a house payment. It's called peace, and you will make different career decisions when you don't have any debt, and you have different relationship issues when you don't have any debt. None of these are quantifiable in your calculator, because the borrower is slave to the lender. Think about all the implications of slavery.

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Only one implication of slavery is mathematical. All the rest are spiritual, physical, relational, psychological, emotional, breaking of the spirit. Think about that.

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And hold on. I wonder if... Dave, I wonder if he has created this new identity that he's a go-getter, and he just can't picture himself... Some people create chaos because they don't know how to exist when it's peaceful. You have to learn.

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I think he's honestly analyzing it like he did when he bought the passive income.

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Okay.

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He's just wrong.

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He's just wrong, like he was with the passive income.

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It's okay. Yeah. That's how I... I've learned a lot of stuff when I was wrong. Sometimes I'm wrong, but not as much lately, but...

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James, will you clip that real quick?

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I used to be wrong a lot more, but I'm not wrong as much anymore, because when I was wrong, it hurt, and I quit doing that wrong stuff. I mean, it's like that. So, and for those of you listening, Anthony was making fun of it, and we were too, in case you're missing the point on this. Anyone that tells you that real estate, and I own, I don't know, $600 million, $700 million worth of real estate. Anybody that tells you real estate is passive income is absolutely full of crap.

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There's nothing passive about owning real estate. If you want passive income, buy an S&P 500 index fund, and set it, and forget it. And you'll get... Check it. You know, the emails will come in and show you what you made.

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As a matter of fact, in the last 12 months, you would have made about 25%, which would have been a good run for you. It's been a nice run in the last 12 months. But that's not normal, but I mean, you didn't have to do squat. You didn't have to fix a leaky roof. You didn't have to collect from somebody who lied.

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You didn't have to analyze if the next guy moving in was lying. You didn't have to do anything. You just set it and forget it. That's passive. Real estate is not...

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There's. no... You can't have... You can't even have... I have a blank piece of ground, a piece of dirt.

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The neighbor texts in here last week and said, those storms that came through, some of your trees fell on my lot and knocked over my fence. I can't even have a piece of dirt. that has no buildings. that's passive. Even that is active.

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You know, there's just anything having.

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. So we got to send a guy over there with chainsaws, because it's our responsibility, our stupid tree tore up his nice fence, and so I bought a fence and some trees. And so... Dead, dead. Even that, you know, you can't...

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Yeah.

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Can't make that up.

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It's just, you know, there's no way you can get to passive in real estate. It's great investing, but it's anything but passive. I own a bunch of it. I believe in real estate.

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Where does that story come from? I hear it everywhere.

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It's the same.

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. It's the natural extension of the bullcrap line that the renters are going to pay your payment. It's okay to borrow money because the renter will pay your payment. I'm going to let the renter pay it off for me. Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.

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Note, it's your payment. And when the renter doesn't pay because he got put in jail for hitting his wife. Oh, that's happened. Um, yeah, because he's not working now, because he's doing $11.29.. That'd be sitting in the local jail.

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Yeah. Guess what? He doesn't pay. Guess what? You got to pay it anyway.

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So that's when you find out it's your payment, not the renter's payment. It's not passive, boys and girls. It's good investment, but it's not passive. This is the Ramsey Show.

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Well, apparently enough of you people made enough noise out there that the folks here at Ramsey have officially lost their minds. because I am now in the t-shirt business. I'm wearing one. Look at this. Look at this.

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Yeah.

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We have food at home.

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We have food at home. We have better than I deserve. t-shirts and yetis and hats. We have live like no one else, tumblers, in case you want to tumble. If you carry that around, you will tumble over, it's so big.

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And I've got a bunch. Some people carry it around like a bathtub. I'm just saying. And these sweatshirts that say they're debt-free. The debt-free t-shirt sweatshirts are very cool.

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And the material is all this super soft, nice, expensive, whatever t-shirt material. It's not like your cheesy t-shirt at the booth in the flea market thing. This is like the good stuff. So there it is. You got a story.

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You got to want a better than I deserve hat.

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And yeah, you can get one.

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Maybe the worst pitch I've ever heard.

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Sales job that has ever been done.

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I would like to say, America, if you have recently bought a shirt in a flea market and you are not happy with your purchase, write into the show. We'd love to hear from you.

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We will holler right now and we'll get you a better than I deserve replacement. And yeah, I, just, if you got 20 bucks, I would rather you buy like John's book, because that'll change your life, right?

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There you have it.

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Or you bought my book and that'll change your life, right? But if you, if you got money and you want to say that you're debt-free and better than you deserve, and you got food at home and that kind of stuff, we got shirts that'll help you do that. And all at RamseySolutions.com slash store.

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And you can wear it while you're doing your side hustle to get out of debt.

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It just had, yeah. And you know what? And you could do like DoorDash and where I've got food at home. That's that's, that would be, that would be oxymoronic.

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There you go.

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Yeah. That would be screwed up. Yeah. Probably cost you. If you wear a better than I deserve.

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Now, I will tell you this in the old days on the show, when it, back, when it was just talk radio, uh, we had a bazillion people delivering pizzas. This was before DoorDash and all that stuff was there. And you say, go, get a, go, get a job delivering pizzas. It's a great job. You can make 1500 bucks a month working four or five nights a week, but, and you still can, by the way, delivering pizzas.

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And, um, but we had the whole Ramsey tribe out there trained to say, if the pizza guy or gal says, how are you doing better than I deserve? That means they're working that side hustle. to get out of debt. You have to double their tip.

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Ooh, I like that.

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It was like code. It was tribal code.

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Let's bring that back. I like that. Okay.

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If they're wearing a better than I deserve hat.

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If they're wearing the clothes, you have to triple the tip. If they just say better than I deserve, you've got to double it. There you go.

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I like that. There you go. Cause you got to pay for their t-shirt. That's it. That's it.

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I like it. Now we got, shouldn't be buying a... Here we go. All right.

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I'm wearing the shirt and it's comfortable. That's all you need to know.

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It is comfortable. It's very, they're very comfortable. I can't wear them, cause that's like really weird. That'd be like wearing a shirt that says my name is Dave and I'm great, or something. I mean, if I wear a shirt with my own sayings on it, that's like, you wear that shirt.

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That's really horrible. I just couldn't. I just can't. People go, Oh, you're, you're wearing your, Oh, that's weird. Yeah.

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And I really wouldn't blame them. That would be accurate. Isabella is in San Diego. Hi, Isabella. How are you?

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Hi, Dave. Good. How are you guys?

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Better than we deserve. What's up?

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I was just wondering, um, my question essentially is, um, how do I, I'm just looking to see how I can get, use my extra income and set myself up for finance for the best financial future I can. I'm 22.. I just graduated college last week, um, with a public health degree. So I'm really excited about that. Um, and my, like I had, I rent here in San Diego and, as you know, it's duper expensive.

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Um, but yeah.

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Did you get your big girl health, uh, public health job?

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Not just yet. I'm still, I currently serve on the weekends to help with my extra money. And then I work with the, I'm working with the city, but it's still a minimum wage, you know, 35 hours.

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Now, so where's the part where I'm excited about the degree?

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I know, uh, hopefully using it to, in the future, I, I mean, it's the exciting part of the degree that it does pay well, but it usually requires a master. I'm hoping I could pay for that. I have no debt. I paid, my mom helped me through college and I paid half of it too.

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Thank you. I would go get a job in the next six weeks in your field that will pay for your master's as a part of their benefits package.

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Okay.

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And, um, I was just wondering, do I, would I still keep the serving job just to help with the extra income? Because I have the goal of retiring on my 401k. currently have three grand in that right now, but I, I'm just, I guess, zero debt, zero debt.

2Speaker 2
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Okay. How much money you have in savings?

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4,000 in cash and 4,000 in a savings account.

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Okay. All right. I want you to build an emergency fund of three to six months of expenses. In your case, 10 or $15,000 that you don't touch for anything but emergencies. And then let's work on the career side of this equation, to where you're not making minimum wage and serving.

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Cause. that's not a plan when you're 30 agreed.

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Agreed.

2Speaker 2
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Yeah. The 30 year old you needs you to, that needs the 22 year old you to have a plan.

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And you've got the cart way before the horse. right now. You gotta get a job.

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Yeah. Yeah. You got to get your income and then get settled into that 401k rhythm is a great thing to do. And then start saving above your emergency fund for your first home purchase. And you'll be well on your way to wealth building, but it's going to be dependent upon your income.

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And if you think the field that you're in is going to require a master's, go get one, but let somebody else pay for it.

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Right.

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They do all the time. You say that, like you, don't believe me. They believe me in your world. They do it all the time.

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I just, I get a little nervous because I feel like with the masters, I get, my mom really wants me to do it now. She's like, we could budget for it. It's okay. It's a small load. But I don't know.

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Or just go get a job at the university.

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Why don't you go get a job at the university and let them pay for it now? I'm not suggesting waiting 10 years. I'm suggesting doing that in the next five or six weeks.

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I guess I never really looked into it.

2Speaker 2
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That's what you need to do, kiddo.

1Speaker 1
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And you can get one in your field, but you can also go get a job at a local university and they'll have some sort of tuition reimbursement program and then get yourself a master's there. And they'll get an employee that they get to keep for two to three years. And you'll get your master's degree paid off. It's a great-.

2Speaker 2
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And it doesn't need to be a big fancy school. I mean, the cheapest possible school in your area, you know, that would hire you to mop the floors and give all their employees free tuition, or hire you to be a graduate assistant.

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Or a resident hall director. You get your housing taken care of too. And all this is going to come at a cost, but you end up with a master's degree in a public service field and you don't owe anybody any money. Then you can actually do real service without wondering where you're going to sleep at night.

2Speaker 2
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And you can start on it next week without having to budget out of your mom's stuff to pull it off. Yeah. You need to be thinking about your career that way, rather than, I can't do my career until I get a master's. Instead, integrate the getting of the master's into your career moves. That's what we're saying.

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And it really can be done, kiddo. I can tell from the way your voice tone was, that you didn't think it can be done. But believe me, John's got a PhD in higher ed. I did.

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I did it.

2Speaker 2
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Yeah. Oh, you did it.

1Speaker 1
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I did that.

2Speaker 2
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Oh, yeah. There's that. One of the PhDs.

1Speaker 1
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I worked at a university for my master's degree.

2Speaker 2
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Both haven't paid for?

1Speaker 1
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No, I paid for the second one. But my master's degree, I worked at a university and they helped. And then the PhD, yeah, it was largely taken care of with tuition reimbursement program at the university where I worked.

2Speaker 2
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That's a pretty standard thing. And that actually happens, by the way, boys and girls out there. in medical school too. There's MD, PhD programs that they're very hard to get in. But, if you can, Duke has several, for example, where you, again, work on campus, you're a TA or a GA, and you're working grading papers and other stuff while you're doing your work.

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And oh, you're not supposed to have a side list. And they'll do it. They'll do it. And they do it all the time while you work on this stuff. And that's the way a lot of people get postgraduate stuff paid for.

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It's excellent for undergrad, but not very many undergrads qualify for the actual work.

1Speaker 1
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Or if you have an associates in nursing, your hospital may pay for you to get your bachelor's or help you to get your-.

2Speaker 2
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Your RN.

1Speaker 1
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Yeah, whatever you need. So it never hurts to ask that question or to really scour the earth, and you might have to move. You might have to work at a different school or work at a different hospital, whatever. But always ask that question, and you're thinking about the five year from now you.

2Speaker 2
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The alternative is wait tables and work minimum wage, and you and your mom scratch together enough nickels out of the corner of the couch to go get your master's and then start your life. I don't like that alternative. This is The Ramsey Show.

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2Speaker 2
00:20:00.42 – 00:20:14.30

Dr. John Deloney, Ramsey Personality is my co-host today. Come by and visit us anytime you'd like here at Ramsey. We're about 12 miles south of downtown Nashville, in a wonderful town called Franklin, Tennessee. And the lobby is open to the public.

00:20:14.30 – 00:20:37.28

We do this show on the glass from 1 to 4 central time, Monday through Friday. The homemade cookies and the coffee are on us, and so the place smells like Mama's Kitchen when you walk in, not corporate America. And so come in and hang out with us. We'd love to have you. And in the middle of that lobby is an official thing called the Debt Free Stage, and it's where people do their debt-free screams.

00:20:37.40 – 00:20:45.72

Gregory and Emily are on it, which can only mean one thing, that they're here to do a debt-free scream. Where do you guys live? Tampa, Florida. Welcome. Good to have you.

00:20:45.78 – 00:20:56.30

Welcome to Nashville. And how much debt have you paid off? $225,000 in the last two years. Oh, love it. And your range of income during that two years?

00:20:56.54 – 00:20:58.08

It was around $220,000 to $250,000.

00:20:58.52 – 00:21:04.82

. Cool. What do you all do for a living? I'm a project manager, real estate development. And I'm a nurse.

00:21:05.06 – 00:21:11.88

Very good. Great careers. Well done. Fabulous income, $225,000.. You get after it.

00:21:11.88 – 00:21:17.44

Man, your ratios. You guys are on beans and rice. That's pretty serious. What was the $225,000?? What did you pay off?

00:21:17.78 – 00:21:19.94

The house. Oh, I'm looking at weirdos!

?Unknown Speaker
00:21:20.04 – 00:21:20.14

Woo!

2Speaker 2
00:21:21.16 – 00:21:27.52

Paid for house! Love it! Way to go, you guys. Way to go. Excellent.

00:21:27.72 – 00:21:34.30

So what in the world? What's this house worth? Probably around $550,000.. Very cool. And how much in your retirement accounts?

00:21:34.30 – 00:21:43.18

in Nestic? Just under $600,000.. Oh, so, I'm looking at Baby Steps Millionaires, too. How old are you, weirdos? I just turned 43..

00:21:43.74 – 00:21:51.22

Wow. I'm 40.. All right, and you're a millionaire, and you don't have a house payment. That's what I mean by weird. That's weird.

00:21:51.34 – 00:21:54.38

Very weird. So strange. I love it. So what happened?

1Speaker 1
00:21:54.44 – 00:21:55.70

Why'd you decide to pay the house off?

2Speaker 2
00:21:56.22 – 00:22:15.76

Well, our story began in 2007, when I was traveling a lot for work, listening to the radio, hearing Ramsey. And then, 2010,, I got the book, and I'm like, we've got to read this book. I've been listening to this guy for years now. And Emily read the book, and then she's like, we've got to sell the car.

00:22:17.72 – 00:22:32.86

Oh, way to go, Emily. I was like, I'm not selling my car. Sorry, I made you read the book. And then, six months later, I read the book, and she overheard me talking to my mom saying, we're selling the car. And she's like, what do you mean?

00:22:32.86 – 00:22:38.50

we're selling the car? That was my idea six months ago. She's right. It wasn't her idea. I like it.

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So that started the whole process. Right. And we had about $100,000 in debt that we paid off within two years back then. And we've been working the steps over the last 13 years. And the last two years, we knocked out the house.

00:22:53.06 – 00:23:14.82

Yeah, that's about the typical timeline, although y'all are a little younger than normal. But typically, it takes people somewhere around 10 years to do the whole plan. And that's debt-free, then build your emergency fund, then be putting 15% away, then pay on the house extra, and then knocked out the house really fast. You leaned into the house, though. These numbers are not—you sacrificed to do this quick.

00:23:15.10 – 00:23:22.32

And the kids' college fund, they're set. So, I mean, we got—this is generational. Wow. Way to go, y'all.

1Speaker 1
00:23:22.52 – 00:23:25.48

What sparked this in you, the last two years, to pay your house off?

2Speaker 2
00:23:26.78 – 00:23:38.10

We'd been on the plan, and we'd said we just need to focus, and focused intensity, and times. God equals momentum. And we just made it happen. I love it. Very cool.

00:23:38.28 – 00:23:44.94

Well, congratulations, you two. Thank you. How does it feel to not have a payment in the world? I mean, millionaires are 40.. Pretty amazing.

00:23:45.08 – 00:23:53.00

It's crazy. I mean, you did this. I mean, everybody knows there's too much inflation. Everybody knows the stock market's crazy. Everybody knows, everybody knows, everybody knows it can't be done.

00:23:53.20 – 00:23:59.68

But you did it. I'm so impressed. Well done. Thank you. You swam upstream in a culture full of toxic negativity.

00:24:00.54 – 00:24:01.94

That's right. Way to go, you guys.

1Speaker 1
00:24:01.94 – 00:24:08.70

What's it like going to work with your fellow nurses who are still paying back their school loans 25 years after taking them out? It's crazy.

2Speaker 2
00:24:09.64 – 00:24:12.26

Yeah. You got to get them to sell the car.

1Speaker 1
00:24:14.28 – 00:24:18.68

All right. So what's the biggest fight y'all got in over the last decade as y'all were navigating this?

2Speaker 2
00:24:19.98 – 00:24:33.34

So when we first started, we were always going out to eat. And then she's like, well, we can't go out to eat because there's no more money. I'm like, what do you mean? there's no more money? We have, you know, this was before we started the plan.

00:24:33.52 – 00:24:41.18

And that's when we were like, we're fighting over money. We need to get serious. And I think it was over food, honestly.

00:24:42.70 – 00:24:45.94

Over you wanting to go out to eat. That's what it was. Yeah. Yeah. That's what it was.

00:24:46.24 – 00:24:50.60

Let's get right down to it. The guy whose idea it was to sell the car after his wife had the idea.

1Speaker 1
00:24:50.90 – 00:24:52.88

That's the most typical husband thing.

2Speaker 2
00:24:54.88 – 00:25:00.30

It really is. You guys are so fun. Way to go. I'm proud of you. Thank you.

00:25:00.38 – 00:25:08.44

Who was cheering you on? Our kids. Our kids, our parents, family. So you had some good support. then.

00:25:09.22 – 00:25:18.50

Anybody call you crazy? Everybody. Everybody. All those broke people. If broke people are making fun of your financial plan, boys and girls, you are on track.

00:25:19.28 – 00:25:21.44

So just tell you how that works. Way to go, y'all.

1Speaker 1
00:25:21.96 – 00:25:36.92

Way to go. If you are sitting down at a table with a couple who's just turned 33 and 30 and they're starting to fight about dinners, or starting to fight about stress, or starting to fight about what soccer league little Timmy's going to play in, what would you tell them?

2Speaker 2
00:25:37.96 – 00:25:49.08

I would ask them if they think there's a problem. Because if they don't think there's a problem, then there's no problem. I think that's been a lot for us when we've been talking to people over the years.

00:25:50.70 – 00:26:02.12

If they don't think there's a problem and that they just want to live in that cycle on the hamster wheel, then they're never going to be able to change. So I think it's a hard issue, maybe.

1Speaker 1
00:26:02.28 – 00:26:07.14

And if they look at you and say, yeah, we're ready to change. Can you help? What would you tell them? What's the most important thing that they could do?

2Speaker 2
00:26:07.84 – 00:26:08.66

Get on a budget.

00:26:11.10 – 00:26:19.02

Live, act your wage. There you go. Live on, less than you make, a concept. Congress can't grasp. Way to go, you guys.

00:26:19.54 – 00:26:24.74

Wow. Very impressive. Very impressive. Very impressive. Cool, cool, cool.

00:26:24.82 – 00:26:29.80

So the book. That was the whole thing. Total Money, Makeover book and this list on the radio. That's right. Yeah.

00:26:29.92 – 00:26:36.18

We just started doing the envelopes and paying everything with cash.

00:26:39.64 – 00:26:41.90

What else did we do? That's pretty simple.

00:26:43.78 – 00:26:49.42

It's just pretty simple. I mean, there's nothing complicated. here, is there? I think that's the biggest problem with it. is it's too simple.

00:26:49.66 – 00:26:57.84

People that are way too smart think that it's too complicated. There must be a, you know, must be a shortcut. Shortcut. There's no shortcut. Yeah.

00:26:58.06 – 00:27:05.24

No shortcut to any place. It's worth going. Beverly Sills said way to go. Good job, guys. All right.

00:27:05.28 – 00:27:21.68

Hey, we've got a couple of years of every dollar subscription for you. Pay for your every dollar budgeting, since budgeting is a big deal to y'all. And you can either use them or pass them around to get somebody else started. However, you want to do. Our gift for you to say thank you for coming all the way from Tampa, Florida, to do your debt-free scream.

00:27:22.68 – 00:27:41.62

Gregory and Emily, Tampa, Florida. Ten years later, the last two years, they paid off $225,000.. Net worth approaching $1.5 million at 40 years old, following the baby steps. There it is, ladies and gentlemen. It's not any harder.

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It's not any easier than that. It's harder than doing it the other way, but it's easier than doing it the other way. You guys, count it down. Let's hear a debt-free scream. Three, two, one.

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Glory to God, we're debt-free.

?Unknown Speaker
00:27:57.60 – 00:27:58.00

Yeah.

00:28:00.62 – 00:28:02.12

Woo-hoo-hoo-hoo.

2Speaker 2
00:28:03.28 – 00:28:08.02

That's how it's done, ladies and gentlemen. That's how they do it in Tampa, Florida.

1Speaker 1
00:28:08.36 – 00:28:30.92

I'm going to put a note down. There's got to be a psychological construct, and maybe some of my fellow nerds can, right in the show, leave a comment. But there has to be some sort of psychological path that we feel like, the more complex it is, the more right it must be. Oh, yeah. And if it's just too easy, then it's just too easy.

00:28:30.98 – 00:28:31.96

We're going to pass on that.

2Speaker 2
00:28:32.10 – 00:28:53.44

Actually, I was working through the content for the Investing Essentials Seminar that George and I are doing tomorrow night and the next night. And one of the principles I'm going to tell folks is that in studying and hanging out with people with $5, $10, $20, $30 million net worths, the thing that has always kind of taken me aback is how primitive and simple their investing is.

1Speaker 1
00:28:53.44 – 00:28:53.74

It's so simple.

2Speaker 2
00:28:54.06 – 00:28:58.66

They have no desire to be complicated. And I think that's how they got all their money.

1Speaker 1
00:28:59.44 – 00:29:03.92

It's the same with people who are physically fit, who have great marriages. It's usually pretty simple.

2Speaker 2
00:29:04.04 – 00:29:05.72

Yeah, it's pretty simple, like be nice.

1Speaker 1
00:29:05.84 – 00:29:07.56

Be kind, exercise, eat less.

2Speaker 2
00:29:08.14 – 00:29:12.24

Yeah. It's hard. Yeah. This is the Ramsey Show.

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Dr. John Deloney Ramsey, personality, is my co-host today. Thank you for joining us, America. Open phones at 888-825-5225.. Corey is with us in Washington, D.C.

00:30:30.84 – 00:30:31.96

Hi, Corey. How are you?

3Speaker 3
00:30:32.76 – 00:30:34.02

Hi, Walt. Thanks. How are you?

2Speaker 2
00:30:34.20 – 00:30:35.74

Better than I deserve. What's up?

3Speaker 3
00:30:36.90 – 00:31:02.96

I am trying to figure out how to get out of a stuck situation I'm living. I went through a divorce, which was a really terrible relationship, and jumped into my mother's home for the time being, which has been way too long now. In the process, I came into her home with $50,000 in credit card debt and a car loan, which I've since paid off.

2Speaker 2
00:31:04.12 – 00:31:07.42

You paid off all the credit card debt and the car, both?

3Speaker 3
00:31:08.16 – 00:31:08.50

Yes.

2Speaker 2
00:31:08.80 – 00:31:10.54

Way to go. How long have you been there?

3Speaker 3
00:31:11.40 – 00:31:13.04

I have been here for six years.

2Speaker 2
00:31:13.18 – 00:31:13.38

Oh!

3Speaker 3
00:31:14.28 – 00:31:28.10

So, I paid that off and I went back to school all in that time and got a decent job and now make three times the amount that I was when I first started my job. Now I make $118,000..

2Speaker 2
00:31:28.44 – 00:31:29.32

Why are you still there?

3Speaker 3
00:31:31.78 – 00:31:41.66

Because this market here, I started looking in 2020 for homes. I've been outbid several times by like $40,000 at times.

2Speaker 2
00:31:41.66 – 00:31:42.12

How old are you?

3Speaker 3
00:31:42.96 – 00:31:43.48

45.

2Speaker 2
00:31:44.02 – 00:31:45.92

Okay. Why have you not gone and just rented something?

00:31:47.56 – 00:31:50.90

You're debt-free and you make $120,000 a year. You can rent something.

3Speaker 3
00:31:51.68 – 00:32:02.58

Yeah. The rental's around here for a three-bedroom. I have three kids and myself. For a three-bedroom, it's about $3,000 a month. So, at that point, I thought I was just throwing away money.

00:32:02.96 – 00:32:05.94

My income has gone up each year pretty substantially.

00:32:07.60 – 00:32:34.38

So, I keep feeling like I'm chasing the carrot. I get to like a point where I could potentially make it work, and then the rents go up and the prices on the houses go up, and, of course, the interest rates are up. So, I feel like I can never just get a grasp on something that I can actually move comfortably into. So, now I'm trying to figure out, do I just put everything on hold as far as trying to buy a home?

2Speaker 2
00:32:34.92 – 00:32:43.32

No, the secret to happiness is lower expectations. You're trying to move into a neighborhood in an area that your income does not allow you to do.

3Speaker 3
00:32:45.26 – 00:32:45.70

Understood.

2Speaker 2
00:32:45.98 – 00:32:55.02

You probably won't be able to catch that carrot. And I don't want you being 55 and living with your mother. I don't want your children graduating from high school living with their grandmother.

3Speaker 3
00:32:56.42 – 00:33:00.58

Yeah, and that's the other thing. I have nothing saved up for them to go to school.

2Speaker 2
00:33:00.82 – 00:33:10.78

But the point is that you have painted yourself a world where you have decided that you are trapped by housing prices and rental prices.

3Speaker 3
00:33:12.68 – 00:33:13.01

Okay.

2Speaker 2
00:33:13.92 – 00:33:14.56

And you're not.

3Speaker 3
00:33:17.06 – 00:33:17.72

With.

00:33:17.72 – 00:33:32.26

. So, I get paid biweekly, and I get paid about $2,600.. Again, my income just went up. in January. I was getting paid several hundred less per month last year and the year before.

00:33:33.52 – 00:33:40.10

So, with that, what can I afford? Because I keep looking at all these other bills,

2Speaker 2
00:33:41.94 – 00:33:45.44

and I'm free. If I understood you right, you're debt-free, and you have how much saved?

3Speaker 3
00:33:47.50 – 00:33:48.70

It's close to $60,000.

2Speaker 2
00:33:48.80 – 00:33:59.52

And you make $118,000 a year, and you have three children. Mm-hmm. Did I understand all of that right? Yes. And you did all of that in six years, coming out of a broken, toxic, horrible marriage.

00:33:59.66 – 00:34:00.68

I'm so proud of you.

1Speaker 1
00:34:00.72 – 00:34:02.60

And you got a degree. You're freaking amazing.

2Speaker 2
00:34:02.72 – 00:34:08.30

Well done. Thank you. Well done. You've really accomplished a lot here. Thank you.

00:34:08.30 – 00:34:27.74

And the thing I think I'm hearing, and I might be wrong, Corey, but I think I'm hearing that, probably in the marriage and definitely with Mom, the home that you're living in were both nicer than the home that you can afford now, and you're having trouble with that.

3Speaker 3
00:34:30.94 – 00:34:39.62

Probably, yeah. I've definitely looked at lowering some of my living to what I'm used to, but...

2Speaker 2
00:34:39.62 – 00:34:43.10

Yeah. The home that your mom is in now, did you grow up in that home?

3Speaker 3
00:34:43.68 – 00:34:44.88

No. Okay.

2Speaker 2
00:34:45.08 – 00:34:52.14

So the home you grew up in was not as nice as the home that you're currently staying in. No. And you're not damaged because of that.

3Speaker 3
00:34:52.96 – 00:34:58.48

Yeah. I mean, the health is okay. It's not, like, fantastic or anything like that.

1Speaker 1
00:34:58.54 – 00:35:00.48

Could you afford to buy it if it was on the market?

3Speaker 3
00:35:01.40 – 00:35:01.76

No.

2Speaker 2
00:35:02.00 – 00:35:02.22

Okay.

00:35:04.40 – 00:35:10.86

Your childhood home, though, you might, and your children will not be damaged if they move into a home. that's not something off of the.

00:35:12.60 – 00:35:46.24

real estate channel being redone by Chip and Joanna, okay? So I want you to get your toe in the water in some kind of piece of real estate and establish sustainability of your own life. Whether that's an inexpensive rental and you have a little bit too far of a commute, or it's not a stellar piece of property that lines up with all of your wants but does cover your needs. But I think you've set your... I think the reason you're chasing the carrot is you set the carrot pretty far out on the stick.

00:35:46.74 – 00:35:50.26

And I'm gonna pull the carrot back in and grab a hold of it and take a bite out of it.

1Speaker 1
00:35:50.72 – 00:35:56.56

I think it's probably both, and. It's moved the carrot out and the housing market has gotten tough, especially.

2Speaker 2
00:35:56.56 – 00:35:56.82

in D.

00:35:56.82 – 00:36:08.16

C. I'm not saying it's not tough, but I'm saying the way she can enter the market and make $120,000 a year with a $60,000 down payment is probably not... I mean, D.C. is super expensive. You're gonna be outside of D.C.

00:36:08.16 – 00:36:11.90

You're not buying a place in D.

00:36:11.90 – 00:36:19.94

C. proper. You're not buying a place in L.A. or San Francisco. That used to be.

00:36:19.94 – 00:36:35.74

when you made $100,000 a year, you'd made it. But not anymore. And not with housing prices being what they are. And so you're in a market where your expectations are based on your fabulous progress that you've made. I'm very proud of you.

00:36:36.04 – 00:36:38.20

But it may mean that you go somewhere else.

1Speaker 1
00:36:38.78 – 00:36:43.80

And Dave, this is like a thing I want to be emphatic about.

00:36:46.08 – 00:36:54.24

There's gonna be things you want to give your kids. Like she even mentioned, I don't even have any college savings. I don't have this. I don't have this. Your kids can share a room.

00:36:54.58 – 00:37:09.74

Your kids can put themselves through college. Your kids can do so much. What her kids have that I don't think she has recognized yet is they have a mom who is extraordinary. The greatest gift my parents gave me was not college. They didn't have the money to pay for college.

00:37:09.82 – 00:37:18.64

It wasn't a car. It wasn't any of those things. It was. I had two parents that always scratched and clawed. And both of them had mid-life career changes.

00:37:18.82 – 00:37:29.82

And I watched them flourish. And, lo and behold, this opportunity came up when I had a career. And I had the courage to go do something else. And I had the work, ethic and all the stuff. That's what she's given her kids.

00:37:29.98 – 00:37:38.26

And it's not something you can buy. It's something you witness. So go, get a townhome, if that's all you can afford. And two of your kids can share rooms. And they're gonna be fine.

00:37:38.26 – 00:37:46.02

Because they've got an incredible mom who loves them. And they're watching you blaze a path. That's the greatest gift you can give your kids. It just is. All the other stuff's gravy.

2Speaker 2
00:37:46.36 – 00:37:54.30

The number of people that shared a bedroom with a sibling that ended up in counseling because of that alone is zero.

1Speaker 1
00:37:54.66 – 00:38:09.20

There's a lot of kids. I'm telling you right now. I just had this conversation this weekend in Utah with the Behavioral Services team. There's a lot of people in counseling because they have never shared a room. They've never had to negotiate anything other than whatever they want whenever they want it.

00:38:09.30 – 00:38:15.20

And then they go to college or then they get married and their whole universe explodes because somebody else has a different opinion about something.

2Speaker 2
00:38:15.28 – 00:38:19.78

Because somebody said, oh, the axis of the world does not run through the top of your little head. Who knew?

1Speaker 1
00:38:20.98 – 00:38:33.90

I've talked to every residence hall director on planet earth that I've ever met and I've always asked them. Just privately. Shared rooms or single rooms? I've never had one say the right thing to do. Developmentally for a college kid is to share a room.

00:38:33.90 – 00:38:43.22

I can't sell it anymore because these kids are coming from their own bedrooms and their own bathrooms and their own whirlpool tubs. so I have to make these single ones. But if I was the king for a day...

2Speaker 2
00:38:43.22 – 00:38:44.34

You mean there's not a skylight?

1Speaker 1
00:38:44.56 – 00:38:54.10

Everybody has to share a room. Can we get the sushi delivered to our dorm room? No! Yes, kids can share rooms. They're so resilient, especially when you have a mom like that.

2Speaker 2
00:38:55.86 – 00:38:57.54

You've given them a gift, Corey.

1Speaker 1
00:38:57.68 – 00:38:59.36

They can change schools. It's okay.

2Speaker 2
00:38:59.94 – 00:39:15.82

You've given them a gift by stepping out of a horrible situation and then standing knee deep in that manure and flourishing. It's amazing. Using that as fertilizer and have grown and grown, and grown and grown. I'm so proud of you. You're an amazing lady.

00:39:16.82 – 00:39:32.14

I think your real estate is just. I think your problem is unrealistic expectations with your numbers. That's going to mean that you change probably the neighborhood you've been looking in. Whether it be for buying or for renting. It may be a long commute.

00:39:32.36 – 00:39:40.98

It may mean a complete move. It may mean a lot of other things. That's not to say I think that Washington D.C. real estate is cheap. It's quite the opposite.

00:39:41.16 – 00:39:45.30

It's basically crazy. This is The Ramsey Show.

00:39:49.00 – 00:40:14.28

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00:40:14.82 – 00:40:18.06

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. That's 888-825-5225.. 888-825-5225.. Penny is with us. Penny is in Phoenix, Arizona.

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Hi, Penny. How are you?

3Speaker 3
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I'm okay. How are you?

2Speaker 2
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Better than I deserve. What's up?

3Speaker 3
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I listen to you on occasion and I hear a lot about how you encourage couples and spouses to combine their incomes, and that's one of the better ways to build wealth is when you have your spouse with you. You combined everything. I'm feeling very emotional and discouraged.

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I'm 54.

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and I make $50,000 a year and I just don't have a spouse, and so I feel very afraid.

1Speaker 1
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Are you afraid of the money? Are you afraid of growing old alone? Where does that fear rest?

3Speaker 3
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I love the job I do, but I'm afraid I'm not going to have money for retirement.

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I apologize.

1Speaker 1
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Is that fear real? Have you looked at the math problem of it all?

3Speaker 3
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I'm hoping you can tell me that I'm overreacting. I don't think I am, but I rent an apartment. It's about $1,700 a month. Before that, I was just renting rooms at Airbnbs.

2Speaker 2
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What do you do for a living?

3Speaker 3
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I'm in Human Resources.

2Speaker 2
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Human Resources. Doing what?

3Speaker 3
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Yes. Onboarding.

2Speaker 2
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Okay. And you make $50,000 a year and you're 54 years old?

3Speaker 3
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Yes. And you're single.

2Speaker 2
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Have you ever been married?

3Speaker 3
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Yes. I've been married, divorced for a decade.

2Speaker 2
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Let me go back a step, though, in the way you came on the air, and I want to make sure. When we're talking with couples, we think it's imperative that couples combine their finances. We are not saying it is imperative to be married to build wealth. There are lots of very accomplished single ladies and gentlemen that build wealth on their own.

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What we're talking about is a marriage issue, of combining your finances when you're married. But when you're single, it does not prohibit you from becoming wealthy.

3Speaker 3
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Okay.

2Speaker 2
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Let's just take that off the table. We never said that.

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I've just been talking to you for a moment, so I don't know you inside and out.

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It kind of feels like that you're still really hurting from the divorce. Am I wrong?

3Speaker 3
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Yeah. I am.

2Speaker 2
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Like your heart was broken and there's not been a lot of healing in 10 years.

3Speaker 3
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That's true.

2Speaker 2
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Okay. Alright. Because I'm trying to find out. you're really sad about that. I understand that and I don't blame you.

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I would be sad too. Because I told Sharon if she leaves, I'm going with her.

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Because I don't think I could do it. She said if I die, you'll be dead in a month.

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She didn't think I could find the way to the refrigerator.

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I understand. I'm poking fun not at you but at myself. I get how what you've been through is very hard for you. But the answer to your overall concern is can you prosper on $50,000 as a single lady?

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in Phoenix, Arizona, paying $1,700 rent? Yes. You can retire with dignity. That is the answer to your question. Mathematically, you can't.

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If you made $100,000, would it be better? Yes. If you made $200,000, would it be even better? Yes. If you married someone who made $300,000, would it be even better?

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Yes. Mathematically, all of those are facts. but that doesn't mean that the normal progression of you doing onboarding in HR and moving up the ladder in an HR field, studying, becoming very proficient, very self confident, healing from your broken heart, having square shoulders, a nice smile and a square jaw, and sticking your nose into stuff, and making a difference in this world. You will make a lot more money over time doing all of that and during that time you will be investing and saving and you can become, you can build a large enough nest egg to be okay. But I think I hear under this just this hurt that might be holding you back on a couple of those areas.

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Am I.

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. I'm just feeling this with my heart, okay?

3Speaker 3
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No, that's true. I think I've come to that realization over the past couple years and I have been grieving that whole relationship.

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so I'm acknowledging that, yes. But then I still go back to the math of.

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wanting to buy a home and I couldn't qualify for enough in an area.

2Speaker 2
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Yeah, it'd be tough. Phoenix market is expensive. Unless you had a big down stroke, you're going to be driving from the outskirts to get a property cheap enough to do that on 50K. That's going to be tough.

3Speaker 3
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Yes, sir. I looked even on the outskirts where I'd be driving an hour.

2Speaker 2
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Oh, you can't drive north because it gets more expensive when you go north.

3Speaker 3
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Right. Going south is better. Out of Phoenix, I mean.

2Speaker 2
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Yeah, yeah. Don't head towards anything like a red rock. Stay away from those. They're very expensive.

1Speaker 1
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What is it about Phoenix, where you feel like you're stuck?

2Speaker 2
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Why do you have to stay there?

3Speaker 3
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Actually, I would love to be in the south, but I have two children. They're actually going to be seniors in a week. They'll be finishing their junior year, so they'll have one more year of high school. I really don't want to do anything.

2Speaker 2
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until they're out. They're going to be going away to college and you're going to be.

1Speaker 1
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by yourself. You're going to be all by yourself.

3Speaker 3
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Yeah, and they're going to go somewhere.

1Speaker 1
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Hold on, hold on, hold on. You're about to get left again.

3Speaker 3
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Yes.

1Speaker 1
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Your body has a GPS pin and the time it got left last time and it's sounding every alarm you got.

3Speaker 3
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My son said he will go wherever I want to go, as long as he can get a job.

1Speaker 1
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Because that son learned that his job is to make sure mom is okay, because nobody else was, and that's not his job.

3Speaker 3
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Right.

1Speaker 1
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And, hey, mom, you're allowed to be sad. My son's about to graduate and I laugh as I use that word. He's about to be done with eighth grade, and if I think about it for 30 seconds, I'll get all choked up.

3Speaker 3
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Right. Right?

1Speaker 1
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You're not crazy. You're not broken. There's nothing wrong with you.

2Speaker 2
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Hey, we're going to do two things, okay? One is, I'm going to put you into Financial Peace University so you can get your handle around the math, and two is, I'm going to send you a copy of John's book, Building a Non-Anxious Life, because there's several of the points in that book that are exactly where you're sitting, and it's going to be very helpful to you. You will read it in two days when you get it, I promise you. If you don't, you're messing up and I'm going to give it all to you as our gift. You're going to be okay, Penny.

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It's going to be better than it feels like.

1Speaker 1
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You're a good mom.

2Speaker 2
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This is the Ramsey Show.

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Dr. John Deloney, Ramsey Personality is my co-host today. Open phones at 888-825-5225..

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Proverbs says hope deferred makes the heart sick.

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When you don't have hope, it's a sickness of heart. And the odd thing is, the proverb continues, it says, but when desire comes, it is the tree of life. So the answer to hopelessness is a desire. and really what you end up is you end up figuring out what the core cause of your loss of hope is, and then you get into it. If the actual thing is math, then you look at the math.

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If the actual thing is a wound that is real, then you've got to look at that wound, and that may be causing you to not see the math. Like our last caller.

1Speaker 1
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The only way to healing is through the pain. I have a friend who just had the heartbreaking misfortune of losing a child, and I'll remember a line he told me at the memorial service forever. He said, most people spend their entire life doing everything they can to go around and avoid pain. And he looked at me and said, I didn't get that choice. And so, him and his wife held hands and walked directly through it.

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That's the only way to healing. So yeah, you're right. Hope is always on the other side, and that's why you have to have people in your life who have gone before you and you might not be able to see it in the darkness, but you can hear their voice. You can see their tiny little light, and I'm just going to keep going that.

2Speaker 2
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way. And sometimes it's math is an odd way. If I save $100 a month, at this age, I'm going to have X.

1Speaker 1
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And X is okay. And sometimes it's 10 years out. I remember having my heart stop and when I did the math and was like, it's 10 years, I'm going to be okay at this current dollar amount, at this current saving rate. That's a scary thing, but that's the path. Let's go.

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Yeah.

2Speaker 2
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Game on. That's right. Game on. The old country song, if you're going through hell,

1Speaker 1
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keep on going. Keep on going. That's it.

2Speaker 2
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Keep on going. Today's question comes from Isaac in Minnesota.

1Speaker 1
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Alright, Isaac writes, How do we promote the baby steps to the friends and family when it feels like we cheated the process? A small inheritance propelled us into baby steps 4, 5, and 6, and it feels like we got to get out of jail free card. We've been hustling in baby step 2 for 2 years, with our only consumer debt being credit cards. We paid off $10k while cash flowing our first baby and some car repairs. We budget every month, live below our means, and buy things at the speed of cash, but it feels like we cheated.

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Does an inheritance undermine the value of our financial testimony?

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I don't think so.

2Speaker 2
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The thing is this, you only have one story. It's your story. That's it. And really nobody can take that away from you.

1Speaker 1
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And this isn't like a catastrophe Olympics that whoever has the worst situation wins. The goal is that people become free, and y'all got free. That's the story.

2Speaker 2
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Do you have to go through bankruptcy in order to learn the lessons that I learned going through bankruptcy? No. Do you have to go through drug rehab to figure out heroin's bad for you? No. Maybe the testimony is you were doing smart stuff and God blessed it.

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I mean, maybe the testimony is you were walking along and it turns out you were walking on a moving sidewalk, and God was pushing along under you while you were doing the right stuff. Because when you're faithful in the little things, you'll be given more to manage. Remember that one? That's the testimony. So I can tell you that there's a whole lot of stuff that, as we have built incredible wealth over the last 40 years and built an incredible business, that I look back and I go, I'm really sure I didn't do that by myself.

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It's not like fake humility or something or humble brag. It's more like I'm intelligent enough to know. I'm not that bright. You know, I mean, you're smart enough to know, Isaac in Minnesota, that you didn't do this by yourself. But that doesn't destroy the fact that you were doing smart things along the way.

1Speaker 1
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And somebody in your family did something smart because they could leave you an inheritance. One of y'all comes from somebody who was a saver.

2Speaker 2
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I don't think Rachel has a bad financial testimony and she's never been in debt.

1Speaker 1
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So this is a cultural virus, Dave. And here's what it is. We are not allowed to celebrate. If you celebrate, if something good happens, then you're a jerk. You have some sort of privilege that nobody else has.

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You have some sort of something that isn't fair. The only thing we're allowed to talk about in our culture is when things go bad. I have this. Tony Robbins says our greatest addiction as a culture is to problems. Nobody's allowed to walk into a room and say, my weekend was actually pretty good, my kids are healthy, and the air conditioner worked.

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Because then you leave the room and they're like, but if you come in the room and you say, man, can you believe it out there?

2Speaker 2
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He's so real.

1Speaker 1
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Everybody thinks you're so authentic and real. And we have to have a space. Whenever I tell people about making friends, you gotta have people, you tell the hard stuff to, but you gotta have people you just call and celebrate with.

2Speaker 2
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I hadn't thought about that, but one of the things. that's very interesting, I have a group of guys that I get with once a month. And they're all.

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successful. Some of them are uber successful.

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There's 14 of us, and all of us have been married one time and are still married, except for two guys. Two guys have been through a divorce and are remarried. Three. One's, now currently single, gone through a divorce. So three out of 14..

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But I've been with these guys for 15 years. And one of the rules in that group is every so often, not every month when we get together, but every three or four months, I stop everything, all the joke telling and all the cutting up and carrying on that we do, and say, everybody tell me something good is going on. This is a place where we celebrate. And even those guys who are studs, who are very successful, some of them very, very successful, it's the only place they can celebrate.

1Speaker 1
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Because they're not allowed to anywhere else.

2Speaker 2
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They're not allowed to anywhere else. I never thought about that. Because we treasure that time, all of us guys do, because I can't even get up and go, hey, the only time I can do something is a humble brag for marketing purposes, right? Around here.

1Speaker 1
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We just got done with Entree, and it was super successful. There's nobody that you, Dave, can go, hey, can I just high-five you? I knocked this one out of the park. It went great.

2Speaker 2
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Our team just killed this. It's like the best leadership event in the world right now.

1Speaker 1
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But who do you tell that to, right? You can't say anything. I'll tell you one of the greatest moments of friendship of my life. It's easily in the top five. When my first book went number one, I had a buddy that I called.

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And I said, hey, man, I just need to say this out loud to a friend. You and I talked, me and my mom, me and my wife, but I didn't want to call. I called him, and he paused, and he cheered so loud. He's like, I've known you for 30, you've been trying, you've been working so hard. Congratulations.

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And then he goes, hey, man, well, I got you. My bank just sold. And he ended up telling, and I was like, no, no, no, you can't lose your job. You're the most stable friend I have. And so he walked me through a really hard season he was in.

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And my win did not come at the expense of his loss.

2Speaker 2
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Or vice versa.

1Speaker 1
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He was super happy for me. And I could be happy and sit in a crap with him. That's what friends do.

2Speaker 2
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That's so healthy.

1Speaker 1
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So if you've got a group of friends and family, they should cheer you. They know that you want to get out of debt, and that you've got a small inheritance. That should be the greatest moment that they're all celebrating with you.

2Speaker 2
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If you call the show, and you tell me what you just told me right here, I'm going to cheer for you.

1Speaker 1
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You're going to be heartbroken that you lost somebody, and we're going to cheer for you.

2Speaker 2
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100% of the time, yay. And how do you honor the person that left you the inheritance? By doing something smart with it, which is what you did. And so, did you cheat, to use your words? No.

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No, you did not cheat. You did not steal.

1Speaker 1
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Stop apologizing.

2Speaker 2
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You did not lie. You didn't cheat. I mean, you got a blessing.

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And you have a responsibility that comes with that blessing, and that is to continue to do smart things with it. If you piss it away, yeah, you should be regretful. You should have problems with that. But when you're doing smart things with it, you didn't cheat. So Solomon, King Solomon, built the temple for the people of Israel with his father's money.

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It was inherited money. Did that diminish his testimony? Nope. Gone down in history as the guy that built the temple. This is the Ramsey Show.

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I know it's hard for you people to grasp, but I have a very large and dominant inner nerd. I know you think it's all cool, Dave, and Dave's cool and all this, but he actually, when you get right down to it, is an unbelievable deep nerd. Absolutely. Nerds out on mathematics.

1Speaker 1
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Pretty sure they got that.

2Speaker 2
00:58:09.46 – 00:58:10.50

You think they already knew that?

1Speaker 1
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No one has ever been at home and been like, man, that guy's real cool.

2Speaker 2
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He's covered. GQ coming up. I'm just saying. Never happening. Dads are us.

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Papa, Dave are us. I have had fun, me and my inner nerd, my dominant inner nerd self, and George. George, is a bigger nerd than I realized. So George and I have been working on this content and building out with our content team the teaching arc so that the message is clear and deliverable on investing. Dave Ramsey's Investing Essentials.

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Truthfully, we were going through the walkthrough a while ago, and this is just nerd fun. It's nerd fun. If you're not a nerd, it's not. You're going to go to sleep. You're going to get a headache.

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If you've got an inner nerd, you're going to love this investing essentials thing I'm doing tomorrow night and the next night. Two hours on Tuesday night, the 21st. Two hours on Tuesday night, the 22nd. We're going through all the real estate stuff, nerding out. We're going through all the mutual funds stuff and all the investment principles that the very wealthy people that I know and run around with and me use.

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Not some broke kid in his mother's basement on TikTok. This is like real people that have money that do investing, and here's how they do it. It's $199.. Tuesday night, Wednesday night, this week. 21-22 May.

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Nerdville. That's it. Dave Ramsey's Investing Essentials. Actually, we were literally going through the walkthrough about two hours ago on some of the material and I was told these guys said we need to put up a disclaimer. I am not responsible for people falling asleep during this.

1Speaker 1
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If you are out of Xanax or Ambien, go ahead and buy this. But the nerds,

2Speaker 2
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they'll be caffeinated up. They'll be leaning in. Little pencil marks on their hands. They're going to love it.

1Speaker 1
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For those of you on the fence, I walked into a planning meeting the other day because I was the next meeting with one of our content strategists, and

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I saw some of the slides up there and I said, what's that one? And they explained it to me and I immediately did the math on my place, and that has already spurred a conversation with my wife.

2Speaker 2
01:00:32.60 – 01:00:36.52

Oh, wow. It worked. But you're a nerd. I'm a nerd.

1Speaker 1
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I'm not a math nerd. You're a psychological nerd. Right. I like to put this into the statistics programs and let that nerd it out for me. But I already walked away with something just because I walked into the meeting early.

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So this is cool stuff, man.

2Speaker 2
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It's fun. Ramseysolutions.com slash events. Dave Ramsey's Essentials. Investing Essentials. Stuff we've never done before on real estate and investing.

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Certainly Baby Step 7 and beyond. For sure. We're going to get into that stuff. Or at least showing you, when you get there, what it should be, right? You don't have to be there to watch it, but hey, we would love to have you.

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I'm amazed how many tickets sold. There's. a lot of you people out there are nerds. I'm just saying. Alright.

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Shannon's in Austin, Texas. Hey, Shannon. What's up?

3Speaker 3
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Hello. How are you? Better than?

2Speaker 2
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I deserve. How can I help?

3Speaker 3
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Good. I just have a couple questions. So I'm currently working. I have one child with my husband. We're currently pregnant with our second, and we're just really trying to figure out how to best set our family up for success.

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I currently make $83,000, and my husband did make $115,000 and just got promoted to where he's making $200,000 before our bonuses. Yeah, so we're super excited for that, and so we have, as a family, decided.

2Speaker 2
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to have.

3Speaker 3
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me quit my job and become a stay-at-home mom come July, and so we have no debt. All of our cars are paid off, so the only debt that we do have is our house, which we could sell for $400,000.. We currently owe $190,000 on it, and so my question really to you and just seeing what's smart in the future, is we want to be able to have this house for an investment. Do we put everything we can towards it for the next three to four years, pay it off, or we're wanting to move closer to family about an hour south, do we sell it and use that amount that we could get about $200,000 on to a house that we're wanting to actually grow into and be closer to family?

2Speaker 2
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Okay, so if you sell the house after the baby comes, we don't move anybody when they're pregnant. I'm smarter than that, but once the baby comes, if you put the house on the market and sold it and moved south, now, you have a husband who makes $200,000, you're debt-free except the house. Are you moving up in house?

3Speaker 3
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We would. Currently our house...

2Speaker 2
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So you would go from $200,000 in debt now on the house to how much debt in the move?

3Speaker 3
01:03:06.10 – 01:03:11.06

I would probably say that our house that we would look at down south would be roughly $500,000.

2Speaker 2
01:03:11.86 – 01:03:13.40

And you're $400,000 now.

3Speaker 3
01:03:14.84 – 01:03:15.56

That's correct.

2Speaker 2
01:03:15.56 – 01:03:17.94

So you would have a $300,000.

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. You'd have a

01:03:21.94 – 01:03:29.68

$300,000 mortgage. You've got $200,000 now. $190,000, right? Yes. Okay, so let's up that by $100,000, then, because you're upping the price by $100,000..

01:03:29.92 – 01:03:37.10

So now you've got a $300,000 mortgage instead of a $200,000 mortgage. You make $200,000 a year. Can you pay that off and prosper? Yes, you can do that.

3Speaker 3
01:03:39.76 – 01:03:45.00

Do you think you'd be smarter to pay it off in three to four years? or make the move and...

2Speaker 2
01:03:45.00 – 01:03:45.68

I'd make the move.

1Speaker 1
01:03:46.02 – 01:03:48.38

Yeah, I think you're trying to do too much.

2Speaker 2
01:03:49.06 – 01:04:05.92

You're not going to keep the house you're in now. It doesn't matter. You're not going to be able to do that. You're not going to have the money to do that. I'm not going to tell you to keep a rental house that's paid for and then go borrow on your personal residence because you kept a rental house.

01:04:06.38 – 01:04:10.38

That's the same thing as borrowing on a paid-for house to buy a rental. Not a chance.

01:04:12.84 – 01:04:15.46

So you're not going to have the money to keep that house.

3Speaker 3
01:04:17.42 – 01:04:22.68

Gotcha. Okay. And even if we tried to save as much as we could, why we're actually paying it?

2Speaker 2
01:04:22.68 – 01:04:38.28

off? You still won't have the money to pay cash for another house and then you'd be effectively borrowing on your home to buy a rental. And we'd never do that. We'd never do that. If you had a paid-for house, you're not going to borrow on it with two little kids running around and put that house at risk to go buy a rental.

01:04:38.62 – 01:04:38.96

No.

01:04:42.02 – 01:04:51.80

So just sell it and move. Sell it and move. And then get that one paid off. And when that one's paid off someday, that $300,000 is paid off. You're making $200,000 and he's going to get more raises.

01:04:52.30 – 01:05:03.08

And when he gets all that paid off, then start saving and pay cash for your first rental. But that's a little ways out. That's a little ways out.

1Speaker 1
01:05:03.74 – 01:05:05.70

And you don't want to be landlords an hour away anyway.

2Speaker 2
01:05:06.94 – 01:05:20.44

That's a long hard drive. Yeah. That's landlord by default, not by plan. You fell backward into it instead of sitting there, going proactively, leaning towards it. And so that's what I mean.

01:05:20.54 – 01:05:30.58

But yeah, you're doing great. And congrats on the new baby on the way. What a great time of life for you guys. And he's making bank. He goes to $115,000, all the way to $200,000..

01:05:30.88 – 01:05:35.46

Ching-ching. Very nice. Very nice. I like it. I like it a lot.

01:05:35.46 – 01:05:38.90

Daniel's in Baltimore. Daniel, welcome to The Ramsey Show.

3Speaker 3
01:05:40.62 – 01:05:44.06

Dave and John. Pleasure to be speaking with you guys today. Really excited.

2Speaker 2
01:05:44.44 – 01:05:45.72

You too. How can we help?

3Speaker 3
01:05:47.42 – 01:05:55.62

So, for a little bit of context for you guys, my fiance and I are getting married on June 8th.

2Speaker 2
01:05:55.68 – 01:05:56.24

Yay!

3Speaker 3
01:05:57.28 – 01:06:01.24

Thank you. We are moving on June 1st for our apartment.

01:06:02.86 – 01:06:20.22

And about a week ago, I got the news that my car needs a new engine. So I just want to see if it's a smart time to purchase a new-to-us car or if we should ride it out as a one-car family for a little bit.

2Speaker 2
01:06:22.44 – 01:06:23.42

What's your income?

3Speaker 3
01:06:25.30 – 01:06:30.14

So we both work in sales and last year we did $106,000.

2Speaker 2
01:06:31.12 – 01:06:37.62

Combined? Yep. And do you have any money saved to buy a car with?

3Speaker 3
01:06:39.10 – 01:06:50.98

For a car, nothing saved specifically, but we can get our hands on $14,000 between our QBank account, a general savings account, we have.

2Speaker 2
01:06:51.68 – 01:07:07.92

Sell the piece of junk that the engine blew in. Get what you can out of it. Put $5,000 together and go, get you a little something to limp along in for your first six or eight months of marriage. And then save up and move up in car. You got $5,000, but do you need to go get a $30,000 car?

01:07:08.04 – 01:07:16.12

Crap, no! Do you need a car payment? No! But $5,000 car to get around and get rid of that piece of junk? Yeah, I would do that.

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01:08:09.14 – 01:08:10.88

Hi Matt. Welcome to the Ramsey Show.

3Speaker 3
01:08:12.06 – 01:08:23.96

Thank you. Thanks for having me. I got a question for you. I currently have three jobs and spend more than 12 hours a day working. And I save and invest about half of my income.

01:08:23.96 – 01:08:40.14

So I'm saving about $100,000 a year. So financially we're sound, but it comes at a cost. So I'm not spending enough time with my children and my health is deteriorating. I'm not dying, but it's impacting.

2Speaker 2
01:08:40.14 – 01:08:42.88

negatively. How much do you have in savings in your investments?

3Speaker 3
01:08:44.34 – 01:08:51.82

Yeah, so I've been doing this. I've been having three jobs for about five years now. Going into six years.

2Speaker 2
01:08:51.82 – 01:08:53.64

So you put a half million dollars away.

3Speaker 3
01:08:55.22 – 01:09:03.84

Yeah, exactly. So. with that money I've bought four homes. One primary residence and three single family homes. And I'm renting it all.

2Speaker 2
01:09:03.84 – 01:09:06.68

out right now. Okay, and what are the three single family homes worth?

3Speaker 3
01:09:09.02 – 01:09:11.16

Roughly, on average, about $600,000.

01:09:11.82 – 01:09:15.64

. Each? And I've bought it for about yet, correct. Okay, so.

2Speaker 2
01:09:15.64 – 01:09:18.20

the three rental properties are worth $1.

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8 million and they're paid for?

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