You Can't Outearn Your Stupidity

2024-01-18 01:54:59

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1Speaker 1
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Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's the Ramsey Show where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create actual, amazing relationships. George Campbell, Ramsey personality, YouTube sensation and newly minted bestselling author, is my co-host today, his brand new book, I'm Proclaiming It, a bestseller. It isn't technically yet, but it will be breaking free from Broke, the ultimate guide to more money and less stress. And by attacking all of the evil villains out there in the money space. George very carefully and with great craftsmanship, unpacks all of the traps that you have to avoid. And the people that are out there to get you and in the process, gives you hope.

3Speaker 3
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That's the goal, and the feedback has been amazing on that. It's at exactly that people are saying. You've dismantled not only the myths, but all of the objections that I've had toward a debt-free lifestyle. And the things that you've heard over 30 years. Dave and I've heard them on the show as we take calls. And so what I try to do with the book was get in their heads before they could even say it and say, I know what you're thinking right now.

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I pay off my card every month, I've never paid a dime in interest. We've heard all of these things over 30 years. And what I wanted to do was not just have some kind of emotional opinion, but actually give you data and research and analogies and empathy and humor. To help you understand why your plan ain't working for you so far, and a different plan that could actually work.

1Speaker 1
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Well, and you clearly define, I mean, when we talk about it on the show here, a lot. What normal is normal sucks, and if you're going to be normal, you're messed up. And Romans 12 says Be not conformed to this world, don't be normal, but instead be transformed. How? by the renewing of your mind.

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And you do that by putting information like this book in, and the result is hope.

3Speaker 3
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Yeah, and it starts with that paradigm shift, because why would you even attempt any of this Ramsey plan if you don't believe it's possible? And so when you start to think differently, the renewing of your mind, you begin to act differently, and when you act differently. And we see this on the debt-free stage, you believe that a different life is possible. It's amazing the relationship between those three.

1Speaker 1
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I'm amazed people can run through a wall when they have hope and they can't cut paper. They can't find their way out of a wet paper bag when they have believed that the little man can't get ahead.

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They believe they're trapped, they believe there's no chance of winning because there's plenty of people out there to tell you that.

3Speaker 3
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Oh, it's so easy, you look at the headlines, and it's easy to lose hope.

1Speaker 1
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It's the natural state of mediocrity and of loser talk and busting through the loser talk and getting. I'm not going to live like this, I'm not going to live like this. And then you see a path, you see, I think I could go from here to over there.

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I actually see what George is saying. I think it's doable. And that's called hope when you open up that path, and it's a believable path. Away from mediocrity, away from friends and relatives that tell you it can't be done.

3Speaker 3
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Well, and I was that guy. I was cynical back in 2013 as the guy who fell for all the traps and followed the path. Society told me. $40,000 in consumer debt. I was cynical toward adulthood, and so I actually end the book with a chapter called Ignorance was Bliss. Because I believe, you know, too much to still stay broke after reading this book. And so I tell people it's easy to be cynical.

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You can wake up every day and decide to be cynical. What's harder is deciding to be hopeful and choosing hope, and then creating the habits that get you out of that mire that you've created. And so I tell people it's not all their fault, but it's their responsibility. No one's going to come saving you, and so you've got to drop the victim mentality for this victor mentality.

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And it's not easy, it's not all woo woo, it takes real action.

1Speaker 1
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Yeah, and part of the action is clearly identifying that there are some people out there operating in the world that do not have your best interest at heart. Hello, their job is not to help you, their job is to take stuff from you. And legalized fraud, you know, we're going to, you know, legalized horrible financial products. And you know everything from the stupid timeshare, which is definitely legalized fraud. To the credit card point that nobody ever redeems.

3Speaker 3
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To the credit score, that is the gateway drug into all of the debt.

1Speaker 1
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Yeah, which is, you know, that's worshiping the golden calf there, you know? The Great Fico is now your provider. Oh, Great Fico. We bring you offerings of stupidity and interest.

3Speaker 3
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Well, it's amazing, Dave, is that, you know, debt has not been around that long in its current form, our obsession with debt, especially American culture. And so I actually walk through the history of the credit score and the history of the credit card, because it gives us some perspective to go. Wait. This thing was like, invented by the 90s, that's crazy, this wasn't around.

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On a grandparent's Day, they thought debt was shameful.

1Speaker 1
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The old American Express thing Don't leave home without it, turns out. Daniel Boone Did you know? I mean, who knew?

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It's a fairly new thing, and you're right, and unpacking all of that helps you to break free from broke. The ultimate guide to more money and less stress. And not because money keeps you from having stress, but because having a plan and a belief system that leads you towards winning. That will lower your anxiety level immediately.

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Even if your situation hasn't changed, a clear path that you know works, that you can follow, and I'm now on that path. I'm going to put my right foot in front of my left foot, in front of my right foot, in front of my left foot, and I'm going to take a couple steps in this direction. All of a sudden, your anxiety goes down, even though your situation hasn't changed yet.

3Speaker 3
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Absolutely, and you've talked about this, Dave, for years. That money is a tool, but for so many, money is an obstacle. It's not a tool that they can use to build wealth and give generously. Instead, it's a stress point, not a bless point.

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So that's the point of this book. Right here is to help you see money in a different way, help you create the actions necessary and give you the ick to go. I need a shower after understanding how this debt system actually works, and I now believe it's possible to live without it.

1Speaker 1
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What are two or three of the ugliest things you've found in the things that these companies are doing to people?

3Speaker 3
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Oh my goodness, well. I interviewed an ex-Capital One manager who spilled the tea and said, Straight up, Capital one. 10,000 experiments a year on consumers to keep them trapped. There is a reason why they moved from cash back to points and rewards to try to confuse consumers. And they can devalue your points at any time if you don't play their game perfectly. So that was one piece, and the other was a Federal Reserve study that showed exactly where credit card rewards comes from.

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$15 billion is moved, a wealth transfer from the poor uneducated to the wealthy educated through credit card rewards. So for years, people said, Well, Dave, my rewards come from transaction fees. Capital One's earning report says otherwise 75 of Capital One's credit card revenue came from interest and fees charged to people who are broke. That's how you got that free flight.

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That disgusted me, Dave.

1Speaker 1
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Wow, so you're participating in wealth inequality, whoa, look at that.

3Speaker 3
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That one was for the social folks out there who were going well. If you're going to get on your moral high horse, there's an argument that's hard to argue against. And one lady even messaged me and said, Hey, I had done the Ramsey plan, but we kept the credit cards. After reading that chapter, you convinced me to finally cut them up. I needed a shower after reading that chapter. And we decided, we're done with this game. It's not worth being a part of that system.

1Speaker 1
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Well, these goobs are not agnostic, they're not without belief systems. they have a belief system, and their belief system says, take all your money.

3Speaker 3
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Well, there's a reason. Capital One sponsors the Taylor Swift Tour, and we can't afford tickets to the Taylor Swift Tour. They are winning.

1Speaker 1
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You can't beat the house, the house always wins, so stop playing the debt game.

3Speaker 3
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Be free.

1Speaker 1
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There we go. The new book, Breaking Free from Broke comes out. It came out this week. You can pick it up anywhere that important books are sold, like Ramseysolutions.com, your bookstore, Amazon, all those kinds of things. This is the Ramsey Show.

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Jade Walshall, Ramsey, personality bestselling author, is my co-host today. Her new quick read, Money's Not a Math Problem, hit the bestseller list last week. Big deal, that's your first one on the list, right?

3Speaker 3
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Yeah, I didn't even know that that was possible with a quick read. So here we are.

1Speaker 1
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They sometimes will sneak on there, you never know. Good job, that's exciting, that's a lot of fun.

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It's a great book, too, great read. David is in San Bernardino, California. Hi David, welcome to the Ramsey Show.

2Speaker 2
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Hey Dave, thanks for having my call.

1Speaker 1
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Sure, what's up?

2Speaker 2
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Hey, so I've been watching your show since I was like 17. It's done me pretty good, thank God. I'm about 25 years old now.

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I graduated in 2021.

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I've paid off all my student loans and I just got myself back into debt by buying an investment property. I have about $75,000 in savings and $15,000 in stocks. And I was wondering if I should take that 90k and drop it into this first investment property to pay off as much as I can of it, or if I should drop it on a down payment for a second investment property?

1Speaker 1
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Well, if you've been listening to me as much as you say, you have, you know the answer to that question.

2Speaker 2
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That's accurate, I guess. My question was if I'm in an area where I know I'll have tenants. I know you always say you can't depend on them always paying your mortgage for you, but do I take that risk? If I'm so? I'm living with my parents right now, I don't have my own mortgage.

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Is it a risk that you would think is worth taking, or is it just an automatic no?

1Speaker 1
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I don't borrow money because I don't think it's a risk worth taking. And I have not for 30 years told anyone ever once to go. Borrow money for an investment property because I don't think it's a risk worth taking. And that's probably not going to change today, David.

3Speaker 3
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What do you owe on the first mortgage, the one that you have, the rental?

2Speaker 2
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So I just bought it two weeks ago, it's a $400,000 property and I dropped 20, so I've got, I think, $325,000 left on that.

3Speaker 3
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Yeah, I would definitely take this money, I'd probably cash out the stocks, I'd take the $75,000. I'd set aside. Three to six months of your personal expenses, keep that aside, and then I'd throw the rest at this mortgage and pay it off as quickly as possible.

2Speaker 2
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Okay, fair, that sounds good. I mean, the $90,000 I'm talking about is aside from any emergency fund. I've got that set aside already.

1Speaker 1
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David There's three rules in business. It takes twice as long as you think it's going to, it costs twice as much as you think it's going to. And you're not the exception. And so you're all bright-eyed and bushy-tailed. And you act like you can automatically get a renter. And you're in an unusual situation, so that there's no risk, and you're wrong, there is risk.

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It takes twice as long as you think it's going to, it's going to cost, twice as much as you think it's going to. The renters are going to pay half as much as you think they're going to pay, and half the time when you think they're going to pay. And you're going to discover that real estate is anything but a passive investment, it's a very active investment.

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You have to be very actively involved or you're going to get your butt chewed up. And the less debt you have, the higher the likelihood that you're going to survive investing in real estate much less thrive.

3Speaker 3
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I hope he can afford that mortgage payment if he doesn't have a renter, otherwise he's going to be up a creek without a paddle.

1Speaker 1
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Yep, that's the thing. So guys, I don't want to pick on David straight out of the chute here, but let me just go ahead. And I'll remind some of you that are fairly new to this place. If you come on here and you say, I've been listening to you for 10 years and you know what I'm going to say, don't be shocked that I say what you think I was going to say, because it's kind of been the same.

3Speaker 3
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You're very consistent, David, Yeah.

1Speaker 1
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I mean, my pastor said, Dave, you're a one-trick pony, you only have one story, and I said, Well, so do you ah-ha.

2Speaker 2
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One sermon.

3Speaker 3
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That's hilarious, so true, I've been preaching the same thing.

1Speaker 1
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Oh, there you go. Open phones at 888-825-5225. Natalie's in Los Angeles. Hi Natalie, how are you?

2Speaker 2
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Hi, thank you for taking my call today.

1Speaker 1
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Sure, what's up?

2Speaker 2
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My question is. My husband and I have been saving for a house for almost six years. Our plan we thought would be three to five years, but then Covid happened and everything. And inflation, and we still aren't in a position where we can afford a house. And so my question is, we have money saved and I'm not sure what we should do with it because it's just sitting in the bank.

3Speaker 3
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How much do you have saved?

2Speaker 2
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We have about $90,000 and my goal is by the end of the summer we'll have $100,000.

3Speaker 3
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That's awesome. So can you just drop it in a high-yield savings account, like one of those online ones?

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I mean, the rates are pretty decent right now.

2Speaker 2
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So how long would you suggest? I guess you just....

1Speaker 1
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The high-yield savings accounts don't have a time on them.

3Speaker 3
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You can just drop it in there and kind of set it, just forget about it. And when you're ready to use that money, you can pull it out. There's no stipulation on pulling the money out.

2Speaker 2
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Oh, okay.

1Speaker 1
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I'm a little curious, what's your household income?

2Speaker 2
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So we have a very unique situation. We live in L.A. County. My husband is a school teacher, we live just on his income, but we don't pay any housing expenses. We manage a property, so I'm a property manager.

1Speaker 1
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What's his household?

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What's your household income?

2Speaker 2
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Yeah, so it's 57 a month after taxes and health insurance.

1Speaker 1
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Okay, so he's making $80,000 a year, and you've saved about $20,000 a year for five years, right? Mm-hmm, okay.

2Speaker 2
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Yeah.

3Speaker 3
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How much house are you trying to get when the time comes?

2Speaker 2
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I mean, at this point, it's like, I'm not very picky, like whatever we can get.

3Speaker 3
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Well, that's.

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You got to be a little bit more specific than that. We're talking about prices and money, so what do you think you're going to spend?

2Speaker 2
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I'm not quite sure. We've kind of said maybe we'll leave the state, but we just haven't made that decision yet.

1Speaker 1
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You live in one of the most expensive real estate counties in the world, and you make $75,000 $80,000 a year, and so that's what you've got to consider. I mean, L.A. San Jose, San Francisco, New York City, London, Tokyo. these are super expensive markets. San Diego not far behind, right? And so I'm not telling you to move. But you may reach a point that what you get paid, you can't afford to live there. I mean, you can't....

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Here's an example. Okay, you can't make $50,000 a year and live in Manhattan and own your home, own your real estate. Okay, it's not mathematically possible. So there are some things that you say I can't afford to live there and have a house and have the dream that I want to do. And you're probably pretty close on this one.

3Speaker 3
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Listen, my sister-in-law was a teacher living in Los Angeles, and they decided that they moved to.

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First, they moved to North Carolina, and then they moved to North Florida because that's how they were going to afford the house. But I do think that if you take some time and you guys do some research, look at different areas, look at different cities and states. And really create a clear picture for what you want. Because I think that you could easily. I don't feel like there's a clear target.

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So you're not really aiming at anything clear, it's just home ownership. But if you make a clearer target, I think that you'll be more excited about saving that money and you'll be more intentional about actually getting to the goal.

1Speaker 1
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Well, that's exactly true, that's very true. And you can start to make a decision about career path. And where do we want, what part of...?

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I mean, maybe.

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I don't know if a teacher that works in L.A County has to technically live in L..A County, that's true.

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How much of a commute can we stand? In other words, because L...A. is not unlike most other cities, that the further you get out of town in most directions, the cheaper the real estate. It's not unusual, it's basic ring theory of urban growth.

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And so drop a pebble in the center. And as you go, every ring, you go out. Other than you hit a lake, or you hit a mountain where the prices go up, other than you hit a particular neighborhood that is known for its prestige. But other than those things, as you go out, the rings, generally speaking, for most of you listening, the further out in the country you get, the cheaper the property. I mean, it's a pretty simple concept and I think most of us walking around know that. So you got to decide that. And then the other thing you decide is, do we want to live? Or can we make the life we want to make with the money we make in L..A?

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County. And if we can't, then you'll be one of those California refugees who ends up in another state. This is the Ramsey show.

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Jay Duaschall Ramsey Personality is my co-host today. Thank you for joining us. America Open phones at 888-825-5225. Angie's in Salt Lake City, Utah. Hi Angie.

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Welcome to the Ramsey show.

2Speaker 2
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Hi Ramsey, thank you so much for answering my call.

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I'm 33 years old, I just graduated from grad school last month, I decided to embark on this journey of school. January 2022. I moved away from home, Florida, to Salt Lake City, to pursue the sport of ice skating.

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While I finished my grad school program, I had the opportunity to just go to school and train while out there. I was not working early throughout the year. My father passed away and it shipped my entire world. I felt some he left, some inheritance, which helped me live through and continue my journey out there and train.

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My lease is now up and I didn't meet the goals or finish the projects I had in mind. Now I'm stuck whether I should continue out here or move back to my parents home and recalibrate.

1Speaker 1
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Did you get the degree?

2Speaker 2
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Application.

1Speaker 1
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Oh, did you get the degree?

2Speaker 2
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I did, I got the degree.

1Speaker 1
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In what?

2Speaker 2
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In my Master's in Business Administration.

1Speaker 1
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So why don't you go get a job?

2Speaker 2
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I am, I'm in the process of doing that right now, it's taking some time.

1Speaker 1
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Why?

2Speaker 2
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And.

1Speaker 1
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People are hiring everywhere.

2Speaker 2
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Say that again.

1Speaker 1
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People are hiring everywhere. You've got an MBA for God's sakes.

2Speaker 2
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I know, I know I'm in the process of that.

1Speaker 1
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Why is it a process? You should get a job?

2Speaker 2
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Right now I am, I am interviewing exactly good.

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Okay, I'm interviewing right now.

1Speaker 1
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Where are you interviewing?

2Speaker 2
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Goldman Right now, Goldman Sachs.

1Speaker 1
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No, I'm talking about what cities?

2Speaker 2
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In Salt Lake City and Florida, Miami, Florida.

1Speaker 1
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Okay, good. And what do those positions pay?

2Speaker 2
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Right now in Salt Lake City, the cost is a lot lower, so they're not going more than $90,000.

1Speaker 1
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Okay, so you're a 33-year-old, full-grown woman that's going to make $90,000 a year. Why would you even consider living with your mommy?

2Speaker 2
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I know they just they came. They were like, Listen, you have $200,000 in student debt if you just want to come and recalibrate, but I just don't....

1Speaker 1
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I think you've recalibrated enough.

2Speaker 2
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Yeah, yeah.

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Yes, my other option is whether to continue in Utah or move back to Florida due to the job market.

3Speaker 3
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You go wherever the job goes.

1Speaker 1
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Whoever's going to pay you the most money, go get you some money and a life girl, it's time.

2Speaker 2
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Yes.

1Speaker 1
00:22:02.78 – 00:22:03.36

It's time.

2Speaker 2
00:22:03.50 – 00:22:03.82

Yes.

1Speaker 1
00:22:04.62 – 00:22:10.48

I agree, you can't bob and weave and duck anymore, you get to face the whole thing now, you can do it.

2Speaker 2
00:22:12.02 – 00:22:13.06

I can do it.

3Speaker 3
00:22:13.16 – 00:22:13.58

You can.

1Speaker 1
00:22:13.68 – 00:22:18.38

You can do it. I hear someone that's more capable than she thinks she is.

2Speaker 2
00:22:20.00 – 00:22:24.52

Thank you, it hasn't been easy these past years.

00:22:26.40 – 00:22:39.52

I'm grateful for the opportunity. Just thought that if I do stay out in Salt Lake City, I'm having the opportunity to, instead of paying rent, come back.

1Speaker 1
00:22:39.64 – 00:22:42.84

No, it's not an opportunity. Hey, what's, you're hiding?

3Speaker 3
00:22:42.84 – 00:22:46.30

What's messing with your confidence because you're scared? What's messing with your confidence right now?

1Speaker 1
00:22:46.50 – 00:22:46.96

Yeah, really.

2Speaker 2
00:22:48.80 – 00:22:59.02

My confidence is the fact that I haven't defined the income yet. I'm still in that process, but I know I'll get through.

1Speaker 1
00:22:59.52 – 00:23:08.64

I wouldn't even put living with mommy on the table. Hon. Not even an option. I want you to go out there and lift some things and grow your back muscles so you get a strong back.

00:23:10.24 – 00:23:18.22

Okay, you can do this, you can do this, but you've had different things come at you and I don't think Jayden, I know the whole story.

00:23:18.30 – 00:23:28.72

I think there's a whole bunch of stuff back there. And then the thing with your dad. And then you've been over there in Salt Lake City. And then you graduated and you went, Oh crap, I've really got to go do this now.

2Speaker 2
00:23:30.18 – 00:23:32.28

Yeah, yeah, that's what happened, yeah.

1Speaker 1
00:23:32.62 – 00:23:41.16

And you do really got to go do this now, and here's the thing you really can go do this. Getting an MBA is not an easy task.

00:23:41.16 – 00:23:49.12

You just accomplished a big goal, make a little mark on your little self-report card that says, I just did a big thing.

2Speaker 2
00:23:50.66 – 00:23:57.56

Thank you, thank you. I forget most of the time due to the fact that I do. I hate loans, I hate that.

00:23:57.76 – 00:24:03.56

So it's just like, having that under my name is just like, when am I going to finally pay it off if I keep?

1Speaker 1
00:24:03.56 – 00:24:08.22

You're going to pay it off when you get a big old job and you work like a crazy girl and you get the stuff paid off.

3Speaker 3
00:24:08.22 – 00:24:30.72

And let's reframe how we're viewing this debt if you look at a pile of debt and all you feel is fearfulness. And oh my gosh, I did this and da da, da da. You've got to really refuel that and reframe that in your mind and say this has got to be the fuel for the fire. Like, I've got $200,000 of debt, I can't let it paralyze me, I've got to lean into it and go forward.

00:24:30.80 – 00:24:54.48

Because if you keep having that kind of off balance and I'm scared of it, feeling you're before you know it. You look up and it's a bigger pile. So really let this feeling you getting those notices. This debt is due, let that fuel it. Do you understand what I'm saying? That's fueling your job search, that's fueling you moving to wherever the best job is.

00:24:54.60 – 00:25:01.62

That's fueling you pouring as many payments and as much money into this as possible to get it paid off quickly. Does that make sense?

2Speaker 2
00:25:02.50 – 00:25:04.76

That makes sense, 100, yeah.

1Speaker 1
00:25:04.88 – 00:25:21.82

I don't want you running home if you're my daughter, my daughter's not a lot younger than you, I would tell you. The best thing you can do is strengthen your wings by flying, and you're capable of flying, you're capable of soaring. You've proven that by getting your MBA.

00:25:22.58 – 00:25:29.12

Take some confidence from that now, go get a position, get settled, then go get a better position, get settled.

00:25:29.48 – 00:25:44.26

Then go get a better position, get settled. When you call me back, you're making $150,000, $200,000 a year. And you paid all this off, and you're 38 years old and you've slayed this dragon. You can do it, you can do it.

00:25:44.66 – 00:25:52.58

Do not try to hide anymore, it's not serving you. Well, go get them. Ronald is in Naples, Florida.

00:25:52.74 – 00:25:53.70

Hey Ronald, what's up?

2Speaker 2
00:25:54.72 – 00:25:56.92

Hey, how's it going? Thanks for having me on the show.

1Speaker 1
00:25:57.14 – 00:25:58.10

Sure, how can I help?

2Speaker 2
00:25:58.94 – 00:26:24.10

Yeah, I just had some advice, questions. I feel like I'm on the right track, but I just wanted to hear it from somebody of stature. You know, other than my dad, who's an investor, he's got the mindset he's a business owner. But you know how hard it is for a son to hear something from their father and take it 100 to heart, especially about money and business decisions.

00:26:24.10 – 00:26:50.26

Well, I recently just had my son, my very first son. He just turned one a couple of months ago. And I'm just trying to build basically a package for him. You know, for when he turns my age, he's got that cushion or that pillow behind him. I don't want to necessarily turn him into, like, you know, waiting around for dad to die.

00:26:50.26 – 00:27:06.58

So I get my money because that's the way I was raised. I had a cushion. But I still, you know, I work a full-time job. I work 50, 60, 70, 80 hours a week, sometimes to accomplish my goals. But I just want to see if I'm on the right direction.

1Speaker 1
00:27:06.86 – 00:27:10.80

I think you need to teach your son just like your dad, did you you teach him to work?

2Speaker 2
00:27:11.94 – 00:27:26.36

He instilled a lot of good core values in me and I've had the same conversations with my dad. I spoke to him two days ago and he said, You know, I'm proud of what you're doing and you're going in the right direction. I just want to make sure I'm not missing any steps for my son.

1Speaker 1
00:27:27.10 – 00:27:46.10

A big old pile of money is not what a grown young man needs, they need work ethic, integrity, honor, dignity. You instill those things in them. Then they won't need money, they won't need money, and if you leave them money, then they'll take that money and do wonderful things with it. If they have those character qualities.

00:27:46.10 – 00:27:47.44

That's where legacy comes from.

2Speaker 2
00:27:48.54 – 00:27:49.64

Absolutely yeah.

3Speaker 3
00:27:50.70 – 00:27:53.54

And so much of that's going to be them watching you do those things.

2Speaker 2
00:27:54.44 – 00:28:02.56

Yeah, it's hard to show them things like that, though, because a 5-year-old, 8-year-old kid's not going to understand sitting and looking at a computer.

3Speaker 3
00:28:03.00 – 00:28:10.36

Yeah, they do, they catch everything, kids catch and absorb everything. You would be shocked and amazed.

1Speaker 1
00:28:10.46 – 00:28:11.48

More is caught than taught.

2Speaker 2
00:28:12.68 – 00:28:17.02

It is my first time my friend's got kids, but this is my first one.

1Speaker 1
00:28:17.02 – 00:28:32.00

Hey, I'm going to send you. Rachel and I did a book together called Smart Money Smart Kids, How to teach kids how to handle money and how to work. And how to give and how to save and how to spend. And it was a number one bestseller. I'll send you a copy as my gift.

00:28:32.72 – 00:28:37.90

And Ronald, you're a great dad. you're going to do good. Congratulations. This is the Ramsey show.

2Speaker 2
00:28:41.06 – 00:28:56.48

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3Speaker 3
00:30:20.48 – 00:30:45.86

Alright, today's question comes from Robert in Minnesota, he says. Last year, against the wishes of her mother and I, my 18-year-old daughter signed a lease with an apartment complex. She committed to one year, but she never moved into the apartment. Fast forward a year later, and now she's getting calls from a collection agency to pay back around $9,000 for unpaid rent. She is currently going to college, has no assets and no income.

00:30:46.32 – 00:31:01.10

My wife and I are not willing to help her pay for this, but I'm trying to help her navigate her options. Any advice? Oh my goodness, I'm wondering why she never moved into it. Number one, here's the thing. She owes the money, like she signed a lease, she owes the money.

00:31:01.10 – 00:31:26.26

The best you could try to do is maybe try to settle it for less. But she's going to have to pay this money back. She signed and said that she would commit to pay a certain amount of rent. They don't know or care whether or not she moved in or not. But because she occupied on paper that space, that's $9,000 of rent that that owner lost out on, so she owes it. And if you're her mom and dad, I feel like Dave, you can ring in on this. This is where my brain goes.

00:31:27.16 – 00:31:33.38

She's got some options. Number one man, I don't know Dave, I don't know if I would pay it for her.

1Speaker 1
00:31:33.56 – 00:31:34.34

No, I would not.

3Speaker 3
00:31:34.86 – 00:31:40.06

But I mean, like, even like to help her, because it's only going to get, it's only going to get more.

1Speaker 1
00:31:40.28 – 00:31:47.02

She's 18, she gets a job, get a job and pay it $9,000. I mean, come on, you can do it, that's a lot of money.

00:31:47.16 – 00:31:57.22

It's not a lot of money. I'm just saying to not go uber, your little 18 year old, butt off, seriously, door dash yourself until you can't walk.

00:31:57.22 – 00:32:04.34

Come on, really? $9,000. Go clean it up, baby Doll. Now help her navigate it.

00:32:07.06 – 00:32:22.06

That depends on how obstinate and rebellious this girl is. She obviously was obstinate and rebellious when she went against your wishes. Is that what you called it? Yeah, your wishes, you and your wife said, don't do this.

00:32:22.10 – 00:32:32.12

This is stupid, so she lined up and signed up for stupid, and now she's got $9,000 of stupid. And now if she's like, Dad, I really screwed up and she's repentant.

3Speaker 3
00:32:32.66 – 00:32:33.02

Right?

1Speaker 1
00:32:33.20 – 00:32:40.36

Would you help me with this? Yes, I'll help you. Here's what you're going to do, You're going to work, you're going to, you're going to scoop dog poop.

00:32:40.42 – 00:32:47.82

You're going to walk dogs, you're going to clip dog's hair, you're going to babysit kids, you're going to do door dash, you're going to work all the time.

00:32:47.90 – 00:33:01.98

You're not going to have a social life because you signed up for Stupid and you get to cover it and you can clean this up in. Oh, let's just say $1,000 a month would be nine months, $2,000 a month would be four and a half, That's true. $3,000 a month would be three months.

00:33:02.80 – 00:33:05.20

So I think you should do it in about three months, kiddo.

3Speaker 3
00:33:06.00 – 00:33:10.80

Oh man, I wonder why she never moved in, like, did she not realize that when she signed it?

1Speaker 1
00:33:10.80 – 00:33:16.26

Well, and then there's the other thing she's currently going to college, and who's paying for that? That's the question, that's the question.

00:33:16.52 – 00:33:27.48

And is this kid still in this? I don't know what the attitude of the kid, because here's the thing. I don't help people who are continuing down the same path, I don't even coach them.

3Speaker 3
00:33:27.64 – 00:33:27.88

True that?

1Speaker 1
00:33:28.62 – 00:33:39.82

Okay, and especially because it's not an act of love. It's an act of helicoptering, and writing checks is an act of helicoptering, and, you know, helicopters create snowflakes.

00:33:40.04 – 00:33:40.96

That's where they come from.

3Speaker 3
00:33:41.24 – 00:33:48.48

That's good, Dave, but here's what I'm wondering. Here's what happened. What if she was like, Mom, Dad, I'm moving into an apartment and they're like, we don't want you to do that?

00:33:48.78 – 00:33:49.42

She's 18.

00:33:49.42 – 00:33:57.34

What if she doesn't realize, like, Hey, if you sign the lease, like, that's legally binding? And so she's like, Oh, my mom and dad don't want me to move in this apartment.

1Speaker 1
00:33:58.12 – 00:34:09.40

What she does realize is her mom and dad love her and they're smarter than she is. Unless you're a rebellious little twit and then you go sign the thing anyway and you get to pay the stinking $9,000..

00:34:09.78 – 00:34:14.30

True that because you're a rebellious little twit and so you get to do it, I mean, guess what, you know how?

00:34:14.30 – 00:34:16.84

I know this because I was her, I was the rebellious little twit.

3Speaker 3
00:34:16.84 – 00:34:17.86

You were the rebellious twit.

1Speaker 1
00:34:17.86 – 00:34:33.22

I've done everything stupid under the sun that can be done, so I recognize these attitudes. The question is, for me, and what we don't have, the information we don't have. Here is the state, her current state of repentance, repentance, meaning I realized I was wrong.

00:34:33.82 – 00:34:40.82

I'm sorry for that, I goofed up. Would you help me? Absolutely, I'll help you. I'm not going to pay it.

00:34:40.98 – 00:34:57.88

But I'll absolutely coach you and show you and give you hope, and I'll even talk to the people with you and stand beside you. So they don't beat up a little 18-year-old kid anymore. But if she's still like, Well, you know, I didn't know, shut up, you get to do the whole thing on your own then.

00:34:58.44 – 00:35:04.98

All right, you just get to wallow out there and you're stupid if you're going to still be a twit, right? But Repentant is different. You follow me.

3Speaker 3
00:35:05.18 – 00:35:05.94

Yes, I am.

1Speaker 1
00:35:06.12 – 00:35:18.90

I mean, because she's going to learn this lesson. If she's already learned the lesson and only has to pay the bill, that's the easy path. If she hasn't already learned the lesson. It's going to get painful before this is done.

3Speaker 3
00:35:19.24 – 00:35:19.78

Oh man.

1Speaker 1
00:35:20.04 – 00:35:22.40

And man let her experience that pain at 18.

00:35:22.90 – 00:35:30.58

Otherwise, she's 38 years old and thinks that the world owes her a living after she got her degree in left-handed puppetry and she's a barista.

3Speaker 3
00:35:31.00 – 00:35:44.10

Listen, Dave, you and I saw this on two different sides because you went straight to rebellious little Twit, which you own that. And I'm looking at this. Here's what I'm looking at when I was 18, Here's how dumb I was.

1Speaker 1
00:35:44.54 – 00:35:45.44

But you were sweet.

3Speaker 3
00:35:46.22 – 00:35:57.76

I did all right. When I was 18, I was dumb enough to think, Okay, I got student loans for school. And you know, if there's leftover, they give it back to you. Called a refund, right? They call it a refund.

00:35:57.84 – 00:35:58.84

It's not really a refund.

1Speaker 1
00:35:58.84 – 00:35:59.86

You just borrowed too much money.

3Speaker 3
00:35:59.90 – 00:36:10.74

But I took that money and I thought that I was buying a car in cash, and I bought a car quote in cash with my student loan. That's how dumb I was. That's why I'm looking at this 18-year-old.

1Speaker 1
00:36:10.98 – 00:36:15.42

Yeah, but was anybody looking at you that loved you and said, Don't do that?

3Speaker 3
00:36:15.62 – 00:36:19.40

No, because when I told them, I said, I saved up this money in cash.

1Speaker 1
00:36:19.40 – 00:36:24.30

Well, no, but if they had realized what you were doing and told you not to do that.

3Speaker 3
00:36:24.32 – 00:36:25.20

They probably would have stopped me, yeah.

1Speaker 1
00:36:25.30 – 00:36:31.52

If they told you not to do it and you went and did it anyway, that's where we're sitting here. They said, don't do this.

3Speaker 3
00:36:31.58 – 00:36:39.48

Right? But she may not have known that when she signed that lease, she was locked in. Come on, Dave, think back 60 years.

1Speaker 1
00:36:40.14 – 00:36:45.38

Yeah, or 50 years, 50, thank you, but yeah, it doesn't matter a lot of decades.

00:36:45.58 – 00:36:49.64

It doesn't matter. No, I was already running businesses by then, that's true, so no, I knew what a lease was.

3Speaker 3
00:36:49.64 – 00:36:52.84

Dave, you were smarter than the average bear, man. I'm talking about these.

1Speaker 1
00:36:52.94 – 00:36:58.76

But hey, mom and dad looked at you and said, Don't do this, it's a dumb idea. That's enough.

3Speaker 3
00:36:58.96 – 00:36:59.68

That's true.

1Speaker 1
00:36:59.82 – 00:37:10.24

That's enough. That's when you do full stop, that's when you do full stop, and if you don't, then you get to eat $9,000 worth of stupid. I'm not saying she's currently rebellious.

00:37:10.34 – 00:37:19.20

I'm saying, at that moment, she was, I think she was. This wasn't a sweet little interaction, it was against our wishes. Both he and his wife looked at their little daughter and said, Don't do this.

00:37:19.38 – 00:37:22.62

Dumb, don't do this, and she said, I'm doing it anyway.

3Speaker 3
00:37:23.12 – 00:37:37.62

Oh man, that's funny, Dave. I think she was like, Okay, I won't do it, and didn't know that she did it anyway. Because if she was a rebellious twit, she would have moved in, realized after two months she couldn't pay the rent and then left, but I'm like, she never moved in.

1Speaker 1
00:37:37.70 – 00:37:38.36

This is a mystery.

3Speaker 3
00:37:38.48 – 00:37:39.44

This is unsolved mysteries.

1Speaker 1
00:37:42.60 – 00:37:47.00

It's so fun, you get to be the daughter and I get to be the dad. That's the funny thing here. I know, I know.

00:37:47.44 – 00:37:51.78

You're going to take up for the poor little kid, I know, because my dad would have been like you. I'm just hammering her.

3Speaker 3
00:37:52.18 – 00:37:53.90

My dad would have been like, you're on your own.

1Speaker 1
00:37:53.92 – 00:38:00.88

Now you know how Rachel was raised? Okay, I'm just saying she turned out great. This is how you create a Rachel Cruz right here, okay?

00:38:01.52 – 00:38:20.58

Oh my gosh. Open phones at 888-825-5225. Yeah, the trick is lovingly guide grown children, and when they're 18, they can legally enter into a contract. And if they choose not to take your loving guidance, then you are under no obligation to fix their mistakes.

00:38:20.58 – 00:38:40.06

As a matter of fact, you would be making another mistake called enabling helicoptering to go and fix their mistakes, regardless of the person's attitude. Now, I will always come along with someone who admits that they made an error and says, but now will you help me? I've always got a lot of mercy because I've been that guy too.

3Speaker 3
00:38:40.26 – 00:38:40.80

True that, true that.

1Speaker 1
00:38:40.80 – 00:38:49.90

I need grace, I need lots of grace, and so I don't mind extending grace, but I'm not going to extend grace. That says, Oh, that was actually very smart when it wasn't.

3Speaker 3
00:38:49.90 – 00:38:51.32

To the extent they don't learn the lesson.

1Speaker 1
00:38:51.52 – 00:38:54.04

Right, because it's not helpful, I get that.

00:38:55.96 – 00:39:06.52

If you don't learn the lesson, you get to do it again. if you flunk the test, you get to do it again. That is true, then you just cycle. Stupid dog chasing its tail named stupid.

00:39:06.70 – 00:39:14.64

I mean, you just cycle it. I've done that, too, not as much. Most of the time I do something stupid, it's only once, and then I move on to another new stupid thing.

00:39:14.94 – 00:39:17.80

But wow, this is the Ramsey show.

00:39:21.84 – 00:39:49.84

Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's the Ramsey Show where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create actual, amazing relationships. Jade Washaw, Ramsey Personality, best-selling author of the book Money's Not A Math Problem. She's my co-host today. Open phones at 888-825-5225. Dylan is in Orlando.

00:39:50.10 – 00:39:50.94

Hi Dylan, how are you?

2Speaker 2
00:39:51.90 – 00:39:53.82

Hey Dave, thanks so much for taking my call.

1Speaker 1
00:39:53.96 – 00:39:54.66

Sure, what's up?

2Speaker 2
00:39:55.70 – 00:40:09.02

So I've worked really hard and I've sacrificed a lot to pay my way through school. I've got one class left in my bachelor's and I plan to go on to attain my master's degree in business. Cool, I've saved up my money really well. My girlfriend and I live together and we've been together for two years.

00:40:09.16 – 00:40:23.64

And she's in her second of eight years to become a veterinarian, that's been her lifelong dream. It's going to put her in about a $200,000 to $250,000 hole of debt. And the average income for that degree in the state of Florida is $114,000. To me, that's a scary amount of debt.

00:40:24.14 – 00:40:38.24

And without waiting, basically, you know, 10 years to have kids, buy a house, get married, any of those things. Do you have any thoughts on how to minimize this debt, or is it even a good idea to get into? And I can provide background on each of our finances as well, if needed.

1Speaker 1
00:40:39.70 – 00:40:40.94

When are you planning to get married?

2Speaker 2
00:40:41.90 – 00:40:45.66

I'd like to get married in probably two and a half to three and a half years.

1Speaker 1
00:40:46.06 – 00:40:46.78

Why so long?

2Speaker 2
00:40:49.46 – 00:41:21.54

Well, we've had a few ups and downs in our relationship and it's been going pretty well. But I also want her to get some school under her belt before we go and figure out some other financial things before jumping into that with both of you. And I kind of want to have her grow with God a little bit more, my relationship with God is a little bit stronger and her and I are growing in the faith together. But I kind of want her to get to a good point with God and with the idea of marriage before jumping into marriage. Because I want her to have a chance to really succeed rather than fail like more than 50 of marriage.

3Speaker 3
00:41:22.00 – 00:41:30.36

Okay, so Dylan, I hear you saying that you've got a point. You want her to be somebody different, you want her to grow with God.

2Speaker 2
00:41:30.36 – 00:41:38.70

No, not necessarily a little bit. I just want her to have an opportunity to grow with God, because she hasn't had a chance to really meet God. Only except for when she kind of met me.

3Speaker 3
00:41:39.06 – 00:41:43.12

Is she a Christian person? She's a Christian person, yes, and you've been with her two years.

2Speaker 2
00:41:44.12 – 00:41:44.94

Correct, okay.

3Speaker 3
00:41:46.42 – 00:41:58.28

I'm just being honest with you, I don't know you, I just met you two seconds ago, listening to you talk. You have a version of her that you want her to be. We don't know how long that's going to take.

00:41:58.78 – 00:42:08.28

And this is a financial thing, this is a spiritual thing. It also sounds like there's some things with her job that, again, you don't think it's a good roi for her school. Which, don't get me wrong, I don't want her to go into debt either.

00:42:08.50 – 00:42:29.04

But the things that you're describing could be red flags or could be deal breakers. You said you've had ups and downs. Listen, maybe I'm wrong. People can weigh in on this. I am of the mind that when you're dating someone to marry them, it should be the best time ever.

00:42:29.64 – 00:42:49.88

It should be easy and it shouldn't be this ups and downs and I need you to turn into this person. Listen, that happens after you get married, after you get married is when you're like, I need you to be different. And so if you're facing that now, for me, that could be some that could give me some pause is all I'm saying, right?

00:42:49.98 – 00:42:50.32

Fair enough.

2Speaker 2
00:42:50.34 – 00:42:51.36

That's a good point to think about.

3Speaker 3
00:42:51.62 – 00:43:07.58

And then other than that, because then it's like, okay, like when couples who are dating are in therapy, I'm like, listen, give it up, like you shouldn't be in therapy yet. So does that make sense? I'm just a little worried about some of the things you're saying, don't get me wrong.

00:43:07.58 – 00:43:17.98

It's okay to want someone to grow, but you have a three year trajectory of growth that you think she needs before you can marry her. And that's a long time.

1Speaker 1
00:43:18.26 – 00:43:30.38

Yeah, that's a long time, that's like you're waiting on someone else to grow up and or something like that. I mean, she's 14 and you're waiting until she's 17. I mean, I don't know, but I mean, that's the way, that's kind of the that's a long time.

00:43:30.62 – 00:43:38.46

Anyway, back to your rigid, back, back to your tactic, your tactical. Question How can she go to veterinarian school for less than $200,000?

00:43:38.76 – 00:43:59.24

Well, number one. It depends on where she goes to vet school, because vet schools are, like all other schools. There is a vast spectrum of what they charge. Number two 114 is the average. But I know a lot of veterinarians that make more than docs, it's the pet world is a big, expensive, crazy world.

00:43:59.24 – 00:44:22.72

Now, what people spend on their pets, including the Ramses, is outrageous. And so, you know, the there's a lot of opportunity in that field of because Americans budget for their pet is. It's crazy. So yeah, I, I I think of it's a veterinarian is actually an excellent field to go into. I'm with you.

00:44:22.82 – 00:45:03.24

I would try to limit or do away with the 200,000 in debt while I'm doing that. I would do that first with school choice, I would do that second with talking to some local veterinarians that have big practices. That might chip in some scholarship money or whatever. To, and in return, she agrees to work there her first year out or something like that. There's even the drug business in the animal world is massive. And if one of those pharmaceutical providers has scholarships for vets in order for the vet to look favorably on them later, that wouldn't be unusual or unethical.

00:45:03.96 – 00:45:32.74

And so I would be poking around on all those kinds of things. To try to create money to move towards paying the bill number one and then number two, lower the bill by where we go to school and so forth. But I want to play with animals, and I want to go $200,000 in debt to play with animals is not a plan. That's a childish view of actually a wonderful degree, and I'm not sure which of those she's taking.

00:45:33.20 – 00:45:44.82

I was not accusing her of that, but I have met people that since I was six, I wanted to be a veterinarian. Yeah, but when you were six, you didn't understand what it cost true, and when you were six, you didn't understand it involved poop.

00:45:45.20 – 00:45:46.06

Lots of poop.

3Speaker 3
00:45:46.20 – 00:45:46.48

Honestly.

1Speaker 1
00:45:46.66 – 00:45:53.60

You didn't understand. It involved blood and guts, and animals dying, and so on.

3Speaker 3
00:45:53.74 – 00:45:56.22

They're not puppies, they're old and crusty.

1Speaker 1
00:45:56.52 – 00:46:17.02

It's, you know, so you're not, you're not six anymore, and so I'm, I'm guessing she has moved past that. But, you know, if we're blowing up a six year old's dream, that's fine if we're drawing up, blowing up a 24 year old's dream. And saying, Define it and approach your dream as an adult. So it doesn't become a nightmare that I'm in.

3Speaker 3
00:46:17.44 – 00:46:17.70

Yeah.

1Speaker 1
00:46:18.06 – 00:46:27.86

And we can go that direction. And so, yeah, I would, I would do that. Um, Dylan, I'm going to jump on one other thing and then, uh, cause you, you walked into this brother?

00:46:27.92 – 00:46:32.16

I'm sorry. Did you say y'all were living together? I'm all ears. Did you say you were living together?

3Speaker 3
00:46:32.56 – 00:46:32.74

Yeah.

1Speaker 1
00:46:32.94 – 00:46:33.96

Did you say you're living together?

2Speaker 2
00:46:35.76 – 00:46:39.82

Yes, for financial reasons for her, she wouldn't have a basically a place to live.

1Speaker 1
00:46:40.06 – 00:46:41.96

You remember that, you remember that God part?

2Speaker 2
00:46:43.20 – 00:46:43.56

Yeah.

1Speaker 1
00:46:43.88 – 00:46:46.20

Yeah, you remember that Bible that goes with that God part.

2Speaker 2
00:46:47.10 – 00:46:49.40

I hear you, okay. I felt like that was coming.

1Speaker 1
00:46:49.68 – 00:46:51.08

Well, I mean, you know you, you.

3Speaker 3
00:46:51.66 – 00:47:01.54

Well, I got another one coming. I don't like that, He's like taking care of her, I don't. I don't like that. I feel like she didn't have a place to, she didn't have a place to live.

00:47:01.60 – 00:47:09.34

So I got to give her a place to live. She doesn't know how to do this degree, so I'm going to show her how to. I don't like this, I'm sorry.

?Unknown Speaker
00:47:09.44 – 00:47:10.54

Dylan, I'm talking about you.

1Speaker 1
00:47:10.56 – 00:47:12.68

But I don't like this relationship, I don't.

3Speaker 3
00:47:12.90 – 00:47:21.44

I want people who are equal and they see eye to eye. I feel like you're up here and and you're viewing her down here and your big papa who's got to take care of her. I don't like that.

1Speaker 1
00:47:21.98 – 00:47:25.16

Pretty young to be a sugar daddy. This is the Ramsey show.

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00:48:26.08 – 00:48:46.70

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00:49:12.14 – 00:49:37.96

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00:49:52.82 – 00:50:14.82

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00:50:15.06 – 00:50:30.36

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00:50:30.88 – 00:50:40.96

We're going to dress her up a little bit, put her back out, and then we're going to do this big event. Total money makeover weekend here in Nashville. It's going to be great, the lineup on this and all the different subject matter.

3Speaker 3
00:50:42.96 – 00:50:44.02

Is completely new.

1Speaker 1
00:50:44.20 – 00:50:49.60

Good stuff, new content around, old ideas, that's right there we go, which is what we've always done, by the way.

00:50:50.00 – 00:50:53.64

All right, Tyler is with us in Atlanta, Georgia. Hey Tyler, welcome to the Ramsey Show.

2Speaker 2
00:50:54.74 – 00:50:58.26

Hey, thank you guys so much for the opportunity to be able to speak with you here.

1Speaker 1
00:50:58.48 – 00:50:59.40

You too? What's up?

2Speaker 2
00:51:01.18 – 00:51:03.62

So I'm 34 years old.

00:51:05.22 – 00:51:08.36

About to be going through a divorce, unfortunately, I'm sure.

1Speaker 1
00:51:09.30 – 00:51:10.92

How long have you been married?

2Speaker 2
00:51:11.76 – 00:51:17.50

I've been married almost seven years, I have two little girls together.

3Speaker 3
00:51:17.70 – 00:51:18.18

Oh man.

2Speaker 2
00:51:20.10 – 00:52:19.44

So my question, as direct as I can be with it, is. I have bought into the baby steps in the process and everything that we have been working towards has been in line with that. And now, with this divorce, it's kind of obviously thrown a big wrench into those plans a little bit. So what I'm trying to figure out is I purchased the home that we live in before we were married, so I know the house will stay with me. What I'm trying to decide, though, is I have about $71,000 worth of debt and I have roughly between $200,000 to $250,000 worth of equity in the house. The plan was always to pay off the debt, sell the house, and then use that money to build a house outright and become completely debt-free.

00:52:19.90 – 00:52:22.50

So my question, I guess, is.

1Speaker 1
00:52:22.50 – 00:52:23.82

What do you make?

2Speaker 2
00:52:24.96 – 00:52:38.28

I currently make $84,000 a year, but within the next six months I expect that to be between probably $100,000 to $120,000. Based off of the incentives with the new company that I'm at.

1Speaker 1
00:52:38.50 – 00:52:39.76

What is the $70,000 in debt?

2Speaker 2
00:52:41.26 – 00:53:01.14

I have $18,000 in credit cards, I have $30,000 in a truck, I have $10,000 worth of student loans. And I was previously at my own construction company, so I still have about $13,000 worth of debt related to that company that I'm working on.

1Speaker 1
00:53:01.52 – 00:53:02.52

What is she driving?

2Speaker 2
00:53:04.82 – 00:53:09.12

She is driving a vehicle that her parents had given to her.

1Speaker 1
00:53:09.34 – 00:53:10.12

And it's paid for.

2Speaker 2
00:53:11.44 – 00:53:12.10

Yes, sir.

1Speaker 1
00:53:12.30 – 00:53:13.60

Okay, how old are your girls?

2Speaker 2
00:53:15.68 – 00:53:17.80

Five and one will be four tomorrow.

1Speaker 1
00:53:21.46 – 00:53:24.26

No, I would sell my truck, I wouldn't sell my house.

00:53:28.32 – 00:53:31.16

Because that cuts your debt almost in half.

2Speaker 2
00:53:33.10 – 00:53:33.58

Correct.

1Speaker 1
00:53:33.78 – 00:53:41.40

And you make $120,000 a year coming up soon. You can pay off $40,000 in debt really fast as a single guy, with nobody telling you what to do.

2Speaker 2
00:53:43.20 – 00:53:56.88

Right, unfortunately, the $30,000 is what I owe on the truck, but I'm upside down in it. I took out a higher interest rate loan on it than I should have known better than to do.

00:53:59.02 – 00:54:01.14

So I'm not sure how to get out.

3Speaker 3
00:54:01.28 – 00:54:02.22

How much upside down?

2Speaker 2
00:54:04.60 – 00:54:06.58

Probably about $9,000.

1Speaker 1
00:54:07.04 – 00:54:10.72

That's okay, go borrow the $9,000 you got any money at all.

2Speaker 2
00:54:12.36 – 00:54:29.66

I have very little saved up the transition from when I was self-employed to now working for somebody else. I had about a two-and-a-half-month period where I had very little income and that drained a lot.

3Speaker 3
00:54:29.94 – 00:54:31.14

So what do you have saved?

2Speaker 2
00:54:33.00 – 00:54:34.70

I have about $2,000.

00:54:35.10 – 00:54:35.82

$2,000 good.

1Speaker 1
00:54:36.32 – 00:54:58.38

So, yeah, you're going to get a loan for $9,000 if that's truly the difference. You're guessing because you haven't really looked it up, because you didn't say so. I'm going to find out from Kelly Blue Book what the private sale value on this truck is, and let's get it sold. It is the biggest item in your situation, and it moves the needle the fastest, the furthest, and it's just a stupid truck. I would hold on to the house.

00:54:58.42 – 00:55:01.46

I think the house is going up in value, the truck's going down in value.

00:55:03.50 – 00:55:08.58

And you know, part of what happens when someone's going through what you're going through.

00:55:10.94 – 00:55:46.14

Again, we can even hear the sadness in your voice. There's a grief, and one thing that grief always does to all of us is we get clouds in the brain for a little while. And so Jade and I have the benefit of sitting here, looking at your numbers with cold logic and no emotion. And you're sitting there with two little baby girls and a broken heart and a failed construction company going into a new job. There's a lot of heartache in your life in the last 36 months.

00:55:48.62 – 00:55:53.80

Correct. And so when I said, sell your truck, you almost cried.

2Speaker 2
00:55:57.78 – 00:56:03.20

No, I'm not, I promise you, I have no emotional attachment to the truck.

00:56:05.34 – 00:56:10.00

It's a tough situation, it's one I didn't see myself in.

1Speaker 1
00:56:10.00 – 00:56:11.66

I know, I know, I know.

00:56:13.30 – 00:56:25.22

I was not, Hey dude, I'm not making fun of you, and I was not shaming you either. One. I'm just observing that. Any normal human being that's been through the three or four things that have hit you in the face in the last three years would be hurting.

00:56:26.76 – 00:56:29.08

You would be, if you're not hurting, you're a psychopath.

00:56:30.78 – 00:56:46.98

Okay, right, and so, yeah. And in the middle of that, to me, you want to just make all the debt go away, so the hurt goes away. And selling the house seems quick and easy. You can do that if you want to. It's not an immoral act or an unethical act at all.

00:56:47.86 – 00:56:52.10

I'm kind of thinking, those little girls bedrooms, I'd like to keep them intact for a little while.

3Speaker 3
00:56:52.32 – 00:56:52.86

That's what I'm thinking.

1Speaker 1
00:56:53.22 – 00:57:00.30

Not at all cost, but if I can choose a truck over that, I'll choose keeping their bedrooms there.

3Speaker 3
00:57:00.48 – 00:57:10.24

Yeah, I'm also looking back. He said. He had $13,000 from his construction business. I'm wondering if there's some things that he can sell off to clear that a little bit, if there's something laying around.

1Speaker 1
00:57:10.36 – 00:57:14.40

There may be some negotiation with some of those vendors at Pennies on the dollar because they don't think they're going to get paid.

3Speaker 3
00:57:14.46 – 00:57:15.86

True that you've got options.

1Speaker 1
00:57:16.18 – 00:57:30.54

Yeah, I think you can plow through this debt pretty quickly. If you got rid of the truck. And that's where I would go before, I would go to the house in your situation, Rob, but it's not wrong to sell the house. I just think this other route might be better.

00:57:30.54 – 00:57:34.26

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Share the show, Leave a nice five-star review, review the show, share the show, subscribe, all that kind of stuff. Melissa is in Paducah, Kentucky. Hi Melissa, welcome to the Ramsey show.

2Speaker 2
00:59:45.90 – 00:59:47.56

Hello, thank you for taking my call.

1Speaker 1
00:59:47.74 – 00:59:48.40

Sure, what's up?

2Speaker 2
00:59:48.40 – 00:59:58.94

Well, we started doing your program several years ago, kind of got off track, now we've got our baby steps kind of all jacked up.

1Speaker 1
01:00:00.86 – 01:00:03.00

Your baby is walking with a limp.

2Speaker 2
01:00:03.84 – 01:00:06.44

Pretty much it's like bow-legged or something.

01:00:08.08 – 01:00:24.60

So anyways, me and my husband, we were just trying to decide. I have a 401K that was started years and years and years ago by an employer. I'm no longer with that employer. I haven't really done anything with it, it's with stocks.

01:00:24.82 – 01:00:43.18

It has grown some, not a whole lot. We haven't been putting it in it because we've been trying to work on our baby steps. So then we got our emergency fund, we got like $10,000 in our emergency fund, then we have $15,000 in this 401K.

01:00:44.48 – 01:00:54.60

Our question is, we don't have a whole lot in credit cards. I hear some people and I'm thinking, holy crap, but we just have like $5,700 in credit cards.

1Speaker 1
01:00:54.84 – 01:00:56.06

What's your household income?

2Speaker 2
01:00:57.62 – 01:00:58.58

$75,000.

1Speaker 1
01:00:59.92 – 01:01:03.98

We're joking around about your baby and all this stuff, but are you guys really going to do it this time?

2Speaker 2
01:01:04.98 – 01:01:05.46

Yes.

1Speaker 1
01:01:05.64 – 01:01:05.90

Really.

2Speaker 2
01:01:06.10 – 01:01:10.30

Yes, really. yes. I have a daughter that's getting ready to go to college.

1Speaker 1
01:01:10.68 – 01:01:14.68

Then let's line this up and do it exactly like we teach.

2Speaker 2
01:01:15.10 – 01:01:15.74

Right, exactly.

1Speaker 1
01:01:16.14 – 01:01:16.76

No flinching.

3Speaker 3
01:01:17.12 – 01:01:18.98

Is the credit card debt it? What else is there?

2Speaker 2
01:01:20.06 – 01:01:21.62

We have a car, yeah.

1Speaker 1
01:01:22.16 – 01:01:23.24

How much do you owe on the car?

3Speaker 3
01:01:23.60 – 01:01:24.24

How much is the car?

2Speaker 2
01:01:24.96 – 01:01:25.76

$35,000.

1Speaker 1
01:01:26.70 – 01:01:27.50

$35,000.

01:01:27.86 – 01:01:29.16

And your household income is what?

2Speaker 2
01:01:29.98 – 01:01:30.72

$75,000.

1Speaker 1
01:01:30.74 – 01:01:35.30

You told me that I'm sorry and you have $15,000, how much in your emergency fund?

2Speaker 2
01:01:35.94 – 01:01:36.60

$10,000.

1Speaker 1
01:01:36.60 – 01:01:38.80

Okay, go ahead, I'm sorry.

3Speaker 3
01:01:38.92 – 01:01:42.46

And then you just got the $5,700 on credit cards, that's it, right.

2Speaker 2
01:01:42.72 – 01:01:45.22

And our house is $54,000.

3Speaker 3
01:01:45.22 – 01:01:59.56

Okay, but that doesn't come until later. So why can't you reach over with this emergency fund? why can't you reach over, pay off those credit cards? And let's look at this car and see about downgrading it, and aren't you done very quickly after you do that?

2Speaker 2
01:02:00.78 – 01:02:12.48

Pretty much we just didn't know with that 401K if we should, since we're kind of did the baby steps backwards if we should pull out of that.

1Speaker 1
01:02:12.50 – 01:02:28.94

We're not going to worry about having done them backwards before, we're going to start going forward right now. Okay, right now, if you started and you'd never heard of us before and you called us today. We would tell you. To take everything out of your emergency fund down to $1,000 and throw it at your smallest debt, how much in the emergency fund again?

2Speaker 2
01:02:29.48 – 01:02:30.20

$10,000.

1Speaker 1
01:02:30.32 – 01:02:33.72

Okay, so we paid off the credit cards now. have you cut up the credit cards yet?

2Speaker 2
01:02:34.38 – 01:02:34.62

No.

1Speaker 1
01:02:35.24 – 01:02:35.78

You have.

2Speaker 2
01:02:36.30 – 01:02:36.56

Yeah.

1Speaker 1
01:02:36.66 – 01:02:37.42

All of them.

2Speaker 2
01:02:38.42 – 01:02:41.76

I only have one. What happened is –.

1Speaker 1
01:02:41.76 – 01:02:42.52

Is it cut up?

2Speaker 2
01:02:42.92 – 01:02:54.46

It is, it is. What happened is we had like three or four just little ones, and then we transferred them over for 0 APR for 24 months. Yeah.

3Speaker 3
01:02:54.86 – 01:02:56.46

But you never paid it off, didn't work.

2Speaker 2
01:02:56.46 – 01:03:00.64

No, the 24 months don't end until December 30th, okay?

1Speaker 1
01:03:00.64 – 01:03:04.06

So, write a check today and pay off the credit cards.

3Speaker 3
01:03:04.58 – 01:03:05.62

Now, what about the car?

1Speaker 1
01:03:05.72 – 01:03:07.26

And then you need to sell your car.

2Speaker 2
01:03:07.96 – 01:03:12.68

Okay, see, I've already been doubling up on the car.

1Speaker 1
01:03:12.80 – 01:03:13.36

The car's too expensive.

3Speaker 3
01:03:13.36 – 01:03:14.26

It's too expensive for you.

1Speaker 1
01:03:14.64 – 01:03:24.68

You don't need a $35,000 car when you have a $75,000 income. Mm-hmm. You shouldn't have vehicles totaling more than half your annual income, and you do because you have another car.

2Speaker 2
01:03:25.80 – 01:03:28.24

Right, that's the only one we have, though.

1Speaker 1
01:03:28.38 – 01:03:29.32

You have one car.

2Speaker 2
01:03:29.96 – 01:03:30.82

One car, yeah.

1Speaker 1
01:03:31.02 – 01:03:38.44

Okay, all right. Well, you're right at half your annual income. If you want to keep it, you can keep it, but I probably wouldn't. I think it's too expensive.

01:03:39.26 – 01:03:55.28

And I'd probably get about a $10,000 car and let's pay that off as quickly as possible. And then you're debt-free, everything, but the house. No, we don't cash out 401ks. Besides that, here's a technicality you can't add to a 401k from a place you used to work. you can only add to a 401k where you currently work.

01:03:55.28 – 01:04:06.86

So that 401K you get with a SmartVestor Pro at Ramsey Solutions and you roll it over to an IRA. You clean out your emergency fund, you get your car stuff straightened out. I think you sell the $35,000 car I do, too.

01:04:06.86 – 01:04:08.96

And you buy about a $5,000 car for cash.

01:04:11.00 – 01:04:20.44

To go quickly, now you're debt-free except your house. You build your emergency fund back up, then three to six months of expenses, and then you start investing and you can be wealthy then.

01:04:21.00 – 01:04:32.92

I mean, in five years, you're going to be in a way different position than you are right now. You can make this stuff move pretty quick, but you're going to have to just start looking around, going. I want peace more than I want this car.

3Speaker 3
01:04:33.06 – 01:04:42.56

I'd sell that car simply because they need to feel something like they've been down this road. They had a boat-legged baby. This is how you start walking, right, is when you feel it.

01:04:42.78 – 01:04:46.24

And you've got skin in the game, you know what I'm saying, so I think that's what they need.

1Speaker 1
01:04:46.62 – 01:04:51.84

Yeah, I would, and the thing is, it stands out in the situation.

3Speaker 3
01:04:52.54 – 01:04:52.94

100%.

1Speaker 1
01:04:52.94 – 01:05:02.00

It looks weird, yeah, it's the only big thing laying there, and it's a car and it's an out-of-balance car. So there's a lot of things that say, sell it.

3Speaker 3
01:05:02.28 – 01:05:02.38

I agree.

1Speaker 1
01:05:02.84 – 01:05:13.72

I would if I were in your shoes. And it's not to say you don't get a nicer car later. But I wouldn't have that car. And I would get rid of those credit cards today, I would not cash out the 401K, nope.

01:05:13.72 – 01:05:30.58

And we're going to use the rest of that $10,000 to get rid of this car and get you a $5,000 or $10,000 car. And you pay cash for it as quick as you can, or pay it off in one or two months, that kind of thing. And then you're 100 debt-free, except the house, then you build your emergency fund baby step three, three to six months of expenses.

01:05:31.00 – 01:05:51.22

Then you start investing in your 401K baby step four 15 of your income going in. And if you guys are serious about this, I'm going to have Austin pick up and put you guys into Financial Peace University and sign you up. For every dollar, the every dollar premium, and we're going to give it to you free. But if you're going to do that, you have to promise Austin, you're really going to do it. Because I don't want to give it to you and you do nothing with it.

3Speaker 3
01:05:51.66 – 01:05:57.90

Something tells me they're a single income family. Did we ask that? Something tells me there's room for somebody to start working more, yeah.

1Speaker 1
01:05:58.16 – 01:06:04.14

Could be, could be, it's possible. No, we did not ask that, but it's possible. Rob's in Ann Arbor, Michigan.

01:06:04.28 – 01:06:05.66

Hey Rob, welcome to the Ramsey show.

2Speaker 2
01:06:06.94 – 01:06:18.42

Hey, thank you, thanks for having me on the show. For the situation I'd like to throw at you guys and get your opinion. I have a son who's a senior at Naval Academy. They're responsible.

01:06:18.70 – 01:06:24.94

He has no debt, about $40,000 in the bank, and one of the benefits they offer the students is a low-interest loan.

1Speaker 1
01:06:25.06 – 01:06:26.76

Yeah, it's a horrible benefit.

01:06:28.64 – 01:06:34.10

It gets these kids in trouble all the time, we run into it with the military all the time. Oh, it's awful.

2Speaker 2
01:06:34.42 – 01:07:00.22

Well, I surely agree. It could be. What he's done, though, is taken that loan and he's dropped it to a 6 CD, and what he's going to do is when the CD matures. It's about the time the payments are due. Put it in a high-yield money market and then just draw off that fund to pay it back over the term of the loan. And looking at the numbers, he'll probably put $7,000, $8,000 in his pocket once the loan is paid off. What would be your thoughts on that?

1Speaker 1
01:07:00.68 – 01:07:16.40

$7,000 does not make you rich. He's put a lot of risk at his footsteps. Oh, this is so scary. No, there's so much that can go wrong here and so little that can go right. If he does it all perfectly, he doesn't make anything, don't amount to anything.

01:07:17.12 – 01:07:37.88

And so Rob, the way I gauge stuff like this is, I think, okay. When we interviewed 10,000 millionaires, how many of them said? I borrowed money at low interest and put it in a high-yield savings and made the spread? And that made me a millionaire? Let me help you. Out of 10,000 of them, precisely zero said that they would use a technique like this. They lived on less than they make, they save and invest.

01:07:38.32 – 01:07:56.02

They pay cash for things. And your son had all of that going until he did this and he tried to get sophisticated. All for just $4,000 or $5,000. No, I would cash that out and I'd pay it off today. I wouldn't walk around with this hanging around my neck just for a couple grand. It's just the risk.

01:07:56.02 – 01:07:59.30

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01:08:05.44 – 01:08:11.92

Jane Walsh Our Ramsey personality is my co-host. Kat is in Columbia, South Carolina. Hi Kat. welcome to the Ramsey show.

2Speaker 2
01:08:13.14 – 01:08:14.14

Hi, how are you?

1Speaker 1
01:08:14.36 – 01:08:16.34

Better than I deserve. What's up in your world?

2Speaker 2
01:08:17.98 – 01:08:32.22

So I just want to give you a little bit of background. I'm a graduate student right now, and I have usually been working three jobs at the same time while getting my degree. So that I didn't have to take out loans for grad school.

1Speaker 1
01:08:32.46 – 01:08:33.74

Good for you. What are you studying?

2Speaker 2
01:08:34.02 – 01:08:36.56

I do have some loans. Wildlife biology.

1Speaker 1
01:08:37.00 – 01:08:37.70

Say it again.

2Speaker 2
01:08:39.12 – 01:08:40.22

Wildlife Biology.

1Speaker 1
01:08:40.30 – 01:08:43.52

Oh, wildlife biology. Okay, cool, okay.

2Speaker 2
01:08:44.58 – 01:09:23.80

So I was able to follow your methods. And I was working on getting my debt as low as possible because I did have some student loans from undergrad. But unfortunately, due to recent life, I've had to pull a lot more out of my savings than I would like. So now I have about equal amounts of debt that I have to savings. And I hopefully will graduate in May. But there's no guarantee that I will have a job straight out of school. Because the market is so flooded in my area. So I was wondering if you had any advice on which debt to focus on first and foremost?

1Speaker 1
01:09:24.92 – 01:09:30.14

Okay, have you got all the bills paid from now until May? So there's no debt associated with the graduation?

2Speaker 2
01:09:32.40 – 01:09:38.36

So I have about $1,000 of tuition left to pay for this semester, but I paid all of the rest of it.

1Speaker 1
01:09:38.50 – 01:09:39.96

And you have the money to pay the $1,000.

2Speaker 2
01:09:41.86 – 01:09:43.28

In savings, Yes, I do.

1Speaker 1
01:09:43.36 – 01:09:51.48

Okay, because I don't want to add any debt, that's the first goal. Yeah, so graduating with no new debt, and then how much debt is there now?

2Speaker 2
01:09:52.80 – 01:10:02.58

So I have about $3,000 of student loans which were originally paid off, and then Biden said he was going to refund them. So now I have to pay it off a second time.

1Speaker 1
01:10:05.34 – 01:10:05.90

Okay.

2Speaker 2
01:10:07.64 – 01:10:18.34

And then I have $3,000 in car loans, about $300 in credit card debt that I've whittled down from, about $1,000 and $300 in medical debt.

1Speaker 1
01:10:18.70 – 01:10:32.58

Okay, well, you're a hardworking lady, you've been busting your butt. I can tell by the numbers and the way you're talking through this, and you're really on top of and know your numbers. So that tells me you've been very intentional in concentrating.

01:10:32.80 – 01:10:56.40

Congratulations. So the long and the short is if you can graduate with no more damage and then make enough doing something until you land the big girl graduate job that you can eat and pay your bills. I want you to tread water until you land the big job, and you should land it within a month or two. And when you land the big job, then we're going to knock this out very, very quickly. Does that make sense?

2Speaker 2
01:10:57.84 – 01:10:58.24

Yes.

1Speaker 1
01:10:58.82 – 01:11:02.36

And you're telling me you've got about $6,000 or $8,000 in savings.

2Speaker 2
01:11:04.08 – 01:11:05.28

Yes, I do, yeah.

1Speaker 1
01:11:06.10 – 01:11:11.40

I'm not going to start your total money makeover until you graduate and start your job, because it's only a couple months away.

01:11:13.52 – 01:11:20.10

And I'm just going to sit there and let's make sure you graduate with no more debt, that's the big thing.

2Speaker 2
01:11:20.18 – 01:11:26.66

Should I focus? Should I focus on trying to pay down the student loan debt before I graduate so that it doesn't accrue interest?

1Speaker 1
01:11:26.82 – 01:11:28.26

If you have extra money.

2Speaker 2
01:11:30.40 – 01:11:32.84

But I shouldn't spend my savings on that is what you're saying.

1Speaker 1
01:11:32.84 – 01:11:41.90

That's what I'm saying. I think I want your savings there as a buffer to get you out of school. I mean, you've got two little ones, I'd write a check and get rid of those two little ones today. $600 worth three each, right?

01:11:43.46 – 01:11:55.10

Yeah, yeah, and then you've got $3,000 on the other two, and I'd sit on that six and let's get on. Out of school, pay the minimum payments, and when you come out of school, as soon as you land your job, write a check.

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