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1Speaker 1
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Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's the Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create actual, amazing relationships. George Camel, Ramsey personality, host of the George Camel Show, very popular on YouTube, is my co-host today. The phone number is 888-825-5225,. very important day for Mr. George Camel and all of us here at Ramsey, in that this is the last day you can get the deal on his brand new book, Breaking Free From Broke, because tomorrow is launch day.

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Here we go, baby. It's here. Game on. Yep. And tomorrow's the Super Bowl, and today is the warm-up.

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If you guys want the deal, though, this is your Super Bowl, because the book, Breaking Free From Broke, the ultimate guide to more money and less stress, absolutely incredible new book, comes out tomorrow. What that means for you, if you're listening and hear this before Tuesday, the 16th, up until midnight on the 15th, you can get the book and a whole bunch of goodies.

2Speaker 2
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Oh, yeah. You get instant access to my talk, Show Me the Money. It's a video talk. We have an online private event happening next week with a Q&A. And this is the big one, the enhanced audio book.

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You get completely for free, with all the sound design and custom music, and the team did an amazing job.

1Speaker 1
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It's a very cool audio book.

2Speaker 2
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Very cool. And that's totally free when you pre-order the hardcover, and, of course, the e-book as well for you digital readers out there. And no matter when you buy the book, you also get three months of every dollar premium. So I wanted people to have an actionable plan when they walk away and not just, huh, good book. I want you to actually go, live out the principles and take control of your money and choose hope instead of cynicism this year as we head into an election, Dave.

1Speaker 1
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That's hard to do in that setting. But anyway, so the deal is that you have done some in-depth, detailed research on the scams and schemes of the people that want to take your money from you, boys and girls out there, and George exposes the mythology and the villains in the marketplace.

2Speaker 2
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Absolutely. The first two-thirds of the book unpacks the system designed to keep you broke. And I talk about credit scores and credit cards, which I believe are the gateway drug into all the other types of debt. I cover car loans and student loans and mortgage traps and investing traps, and marketing and consumerism, which just exacerbates the whole problem. And I think, once you get through of that, you're going to want to take a shower.

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You're going to have enough, ick that you go, okay, I need to opt out of this.

1Speaker 1
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I do need to break free from this kind of broke.

2Speaker 2
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I call them chains because I think most Americans, they work too hard to feel this broke. They're feeling the chains of payments in this world. They feel like they're on the hamster in the wheel, rat in the maze, an Uber ride from hell, and they just want something different. And I think this book is going to help you live counterculturally and give you hope that you can break free from those chains and have freedom with your money.

1Speaker 1
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So you'll get the knowledge, you'll get the confidence to break free, and all of the evidence is there with great detail. And you guys that are a little bit nerdy and like the research, George is a consumer advocate at heart, and he can't resist digging up the dirt and proving to you how you're being screwed.

2Speaker 2
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There's 130 sources in this book. It was exhausting to do all the research, but I had to prove it. Not just my opinion and our experience of you doing the show for 30 years, but actual data from the Federal Reserve and from MIT proving our plan works.

1Speaker 1
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So, brand new book out on the 16th of January. If you hear this before, then, up until midnight on the 15th, you can get the new book, Breaking Free from Broke, and instant access to George's newest talk, Show Me the Money, exclusive access to an online private event next week, a Q&A with George, the enhanced audio book. And so what we decided to do was take all of our audio books from this point forward and put a little jazz to them, make them a little better, make them a little sound effects, some sounders coming in and out, rather than just us reading the book, which is what we.

2Speaker 2
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So I was the guinea pig for this.

1Speaker 1
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Yeah, you were the first one out. I don't know if we're going to want to be called a guinea pig or not, but yeah, but anyway, you were the first one. You were a pioneer, George.

2Speaker 2
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Well, it's because, you know, I've hosted our podcast, Borrowed Future, The Fine Print, and I've always loved that kind of narrative storytelling style that has some of those elements in it. And I even did some custom music, Dave. The intro and outro for each chapter is actually my playing. Even James, producer James, got in there. He played one of them.

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Oh.

2Speaker 2
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So that's a little Easter egg for you guys.

1Speaker 1
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Oh, there you go.

2Speaker 2
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Unless you hated the music, in which case it wasn't me, Dave.

1Speaker 1
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Well, until I see the bill for the royalty, sure. Oh, my gosh. Don't worry, Dave. That part is zero. I like it.

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Breaking Free from Broke. Check it out at ramsysolutions.com slash store. And again, you get $100 worth of free bonus items if you get started on it early. We talked about this in our wildly successful live stream last week. Thank you, guys.

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There were 419,000 of you signed up. Live stream. to come aboard. Not all of you came, but you signed up to come. And hundreds of thousands of you did, and it was by far the biggest live stream Ramsey has ever done.

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It was number one on YouTube that night of anything. Wow. Yeah. We blew YouTube up. We just about broke the internet, with a number of people signing on our site to get onto EveryDollar and saying, hey, I'm going to break the cycle, which is what that's for.

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We're breaking a lot of stuff. We're breaking Free from Broke. We're breaking the cycle.

2Speaker 2
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I think it's time. I think it's time.

1Speaker 1
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But you talked a little bit about some of this for your section on that live stream last week, and the feedback in the comments was really excellent. I mean, people are hungry to not be stuck anymore.

2Speaker 2
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Yeah. And I wanted to lead with empathy and go, listen, there's a lot of reasons. There's a lot of finger pointing. we can do, a lot of things to blame this year as to why we're not going to get ahead and why we have this situation.

1Speaker 1
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You even blamed the baby boomers. I did not really appreciate that.

2Speaker 2
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Well, it wasn't me blaming. It was here's what I'm seeing out there. You know, for all. like you, Gen Z, millennials are going, the boomers ruin the housing market, Dave. This is why I can't afford a house.

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And my dad is saying, oh, shut up. You can do it.

1Speaker 1
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You paid $13,000, which, by the way, I've never lived in a house that I paid $13,000 for. I actually did buy one in the hood one time, but it was not a desirable, not a home that I lived in.

2Speaker 2
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Not quite Chippen, Joanna.

1Speaker 1
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Nope. Nope. Not before or after. But anyway, the yeah. So we were in the housing market for sure, buying our homes for a mere $200,000 or a mere whatever.

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And then actually the home before last, I paid $353,000, for, it's worth about a million.

2Speaker 2
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Wow. So we know, I mean, the appreciation of the housing market is real.

1Speaker 1
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And Daniel and Rachel were, Rachel was 10 years old when I bought that. So that's a classic boomer story, but it's not 13,000, you goobers.

2Speaker 2
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But it's just one of the things, Dave. I talked about the Fed and Congress and the president, and inflation.

1Speaker 1
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There's a lot of things you can blame it on.

2Speaker 2
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And exactly.

1Speaker 1
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There's plenty of villains out there.

2Speaker 2
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The only person who can fix it is you, and the more we rely and complain, the less we're going to make progress. And so that was one piece of that talk I did, and I unpack more in the book. But the other piece is we all sort of fell into this trap. I tell people, it's not all of your fault, but it's your responsibility. You weren't taught financial literacy.

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You were told the path to upward mobility is to take out unlimited student loans, and you got to have a nice car, and then you got to get a house, because renting is a sin and a waste of money. And we all just followed down this path and realized that instead of the American dream, we got delivered the American nightmare. Yep. And so I led, with all of that empathy, to go, I understand, and I'm sorry, but I'm going to show you a way out in spite of all of that. And that was the heart behind this book.

1Speaker 1
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There we go. Breaking Free from Broke comes out tomorrow. So order it by midnight tonight. This is January the 15th that we're recording this. So January the 16th is launch day.

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We would love to have you purchase this. Go to ramsaysolutions.com. You're going to love it. Go to the store and get $100 worth of free goodies with the book for only $20.. Breaking Free from Broke by George Camel.

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Congratulations, George. Great book. Thank you, Dave.

2Speaker 2
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Appreciate you publishing it.

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1Speaker 1
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Ken Coleman, Ramsey, personality, number one, bestselling author of the book Paycheck to Purpose, is my co-host today. Thank you for joining us, America. We're so glad you're here. Open phones at 888-825-5225.. Christopher is with us in Dallas, Texas.

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Hi, Christopher. Welcome to the Ramsey Show.

3Speaker 3
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Dave, I am a fellow believer, so you are brother, Dave. to me. It is an honor to be on your show today, man.

1Speaker 1
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Oh, we're honored to have you, sir. How can we help?

3Speaker 3
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All right. I'm 28,, married with two under two. I work for a church, making $43,000 a year take home. We are nearly done with baby step three, and we have enough for our bills, but things are tight. I have a friend and mentor twice my age who is a successful businessman.

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He knows our financial situation and offered me a business opportunity that he has proved with someone else. He suggested trying it independently or taking a $10,000 investment from him for faster growth, with, of course, a share in profits. I hesitated because of our close relationship, seeing it as a personal loan, and the thought of trying to work hard and fast to make back his investment caused me great anxiety. When I expressed interest in starting the business without taking his money because of viewing it as a personal loan, he got very upset, claiming that it was a weak excuse for not wanting to admit that I could make more money on my own. He acted like I was trying to pull one over on him and that he was going to call my bluff, but my heart truly did prioritize the relationship over potential business gains.

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So my question is, was I wrong to view the investment as debt? Did I miss out on an opportunity, or did I do the right thing following my gut and not adding anxiety to my life? Is this just a conflict of different ways to view money?

1Speaker 1
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No, this is a butthole.

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I mean, what kind of guy is a mentor? and then sets you up to get you into something he wants you into and then is mad because you won't do it? That's not a mentor.

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He violated mentor ethics.

2Speaker 2
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That's right. That's a manipulator. Oh, wow. That's what that is. That's a manipulative move.

1Speaker 1
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Yeah.

2Speaker 2
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Big time. The relationship, by the way, isn't anywhere near what you think it is. And let me just say, as a guy who I still have older mentors in my life and I talk with them regularly, a true mentor, as Dave said, would never react that way. That relationship isn't anywhere near what you think it is. And I hate to tell you that, but you need to be aware of that.

1Speaker 1
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I would take his name off the mentor plaque. He gets the mentor plaque beside his name. We have to take that plaque down. I like that. We have to put up a different plaque that just says, guy who wants money plaque.

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No, that's not. I mean, a mentor wants your best interest at heart and has absolutely zero conflict on their part. And so he was way too emotionally and otherwise invested in you doing this.

3Speaker 3
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Okay.

1Speaker 1
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If I'm mentoring someone, which I don't do very often for this exact reason, and I say, hey, go, do this, and they don't go, do it, they don't get anything from me. But the next time I get ready to tell them something, I might hesitate. But I'm not going to go, I told you not to do that. If they come back and go, you told me not to do that, and I screwed this up. Okay.

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Learning experience. That's fine. But I don't have to search someone down and defend my ego when I'm in the mentor seat. That's wild, man. It's kind of heartbreaking.

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Because you really depended on this guy.

3Speaker 3
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It was really deflating. Yeah. Yeah, it was really deflating. And it seems like a really good opportunity.

1Speaker 1
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It's like your dad talking down to you. Yeah.

3Speaker 3
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Pretty much.

1Speaker 1
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Yeah. Like your dad yelling at you when you're a grown man. I mean, it's like, golly, that don't work. You know? You're confused about that, too.

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I don't know, Ken.

2Speaker 2
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Yeah. I would say that a mentor needs nothing from you and should never need anything from you. Other than if they call and it's relational, hey, pray for me, or something like that. But this is a manipulator. The reaction really disgusts me, if I'm being honest.

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It's almost like he's a little desperate. It rings of some desperateness if he's trying to shove 10 grand down your throat so that he can make a profit. Something about it is off.

1Speaker 1
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Yeah, we're going to share on the profits and I'm going to put you to work over here.

2Speaker 2
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Yeah. Something's off.

1Speaker 1
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Yeah. That's wrong. All right. Brian's in Salt Lake City. Hey, Brian.

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How are you?

3Speaker 3
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Doing great, Dave. Thank you for taking my call.

1Speaker 1
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Sure. What's up?

3Speaker 3
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So, question. I've followed you for years, but I am in a situation where I'm starting to give. And it is a little bit of a shame around student loans. So, I'm 49 years old and I've got about $20,000 in student loans and I've been paying for about 19 years.

1Speaker 1
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What do you mean by starting again?

3Speaker 3
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I have used your program and had success, but I always counted myself as debt-free, not including my home and not including my student loans.

1Speaker 1
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So you used your program and said it was mine.

3Speaker 3
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Well, yes. But I get motivated and then I don't. And I try to just ignore that this is out there.

1Speaker 1
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And obviously, you're calling because that's not working.

3Speaker 3
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Yeah. I'm anxious about it and I'd love to know what your thoughts are. I know that there are some programs out there around. forgiveness if you've been paying for 20 years.

1Speaker 1
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What's your household income, Brian?

3Speaker 3
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I make about $90,000 a year.

1Speaker 1
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Okay. The program is cut your lifestyle and pay this off in 12 months. That's the program.

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Live on $70,000 minus taxes and pay this off. in one year. That's about $1,800 a month, and that means you're not going out to eat and it means you're not going on vacation, and it means you're not doing half the other crap you've been doing with your $90,000 and you're going to finally address this head on. That's the program. Quit looking for a shortcut, man.

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It's not going to work for you. You're going to have to hit it right straight in the nose. Hit the bully in the nose.

3Speaker 3
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Okay.

1Speaker 1
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Does that make sense?

3Speaker 3
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Yes. It does.

1Speaker 1
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It's very doable. You've got no other debt, but this, right? In the house?

3Speaker 3
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I own my car.

1Speaker 1
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Oh, okay. So we went back to that, too. Okay. So how much do you owe on your car?

3Speaker 3
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About $15,000..

1Speaker 1
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Okay. That's not too bad. All right. So $35,000 out of $90,000.. So we're debt free in under two years.

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Can we agree? you could come up with $17,500 a year for two years, please?

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Please tell me you can do $1,500 a month or you'll figure out a way to cut everything out. But I mean, that's what you got to do. You've been trying to find a way to not do this and it still go away. and the problem with the whole thing is there's only really one solution, and its name is not Joe Biden. I mean, there's only one solution.

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Its name is Brian, because I'm not going to pay it off. You are.

2Speaker 2
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Brian, do you have any margin in your budget at the end of the month?

3Speaker 3
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Yeah.

2Speaker 2
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How much?

3Speaker 3
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I haven't been good at budgeting, but I wouldn't consider myself living paycheck to paycheck. I have a little bit of savings.

2Speaker 2
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Give me a round number, a given month. I understand you haven't been disciplined, but what's a round number each month that you know you've got margin on?

3Speaker 3
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I'm not sure if I fully understand your question, Kevin, but I have a thousand dollars after.

2Speaker 2
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all bills.

1Speaker 1
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How much can you scrape together in your mind right now, a month to throw at this?

3Speaker 3
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I could come up with, I think, between $700 and $1,000 a month to throw at this.

1Speaker 1
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And then, when you start doing your budget, you're going to get that to $1,500 and you're going to be done in under two years.

2Speaker 2
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And that doesn't include you going out and making some extra money. A guy who makes $90,000 has got some skill set. This is about absolute, you talked about motivation. I get motivated and then I lose motivation. You know, motivation is really about an end result.

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It's a real, clear focus on a result that I want. And then the actions take place. naturally. That's what real motivation is. What's my motive for getting up early or eating right or saving money?

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What's the motive? And that's the end result. You've got to start looking at the end result. No anxiety over this debt anymore. You mentioned that.

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All the other things. If you get clearly focused on that, Dave, then the actions take care of themselves.

1Speaker 1
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Here's the way I look at it. Sometimes, when I'm looking at this stuff, if I'm going, because I do that too, I guess we all do.

2Speaker 2
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We all do.

1Speaker 1
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I go, if someone that I dearly loved, one of my grandchildren's life, depended on it, could I? Well, yeah.

2Speaker 2
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Absolutely. Yeah. That's a clear motive.

1Speaker 1
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I mean, you know, so it's not a question of could I, it's a question of will I. Yeah. That's right. That's what it comes down to. This is the Ramsey Show.

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Ken Coleman, Ramsey Personality is my co-host. Al is in Fort Smith, Arkansas. Hey, Al. How are you?

3Speaker 3
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Doing okay, Al. Thank you so much for taking my call. Sure. And just to let you know, I am a long, long-time listener, and this is my first time ever to call.

1Speaker 1
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Well, we're honored. How can we help you today, sir?

3Speaker 3
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I'm honored, too. So, okay. So, question is, this is about paying off mortgage versus leaving the money in investment. The mortgage is about $188,000 at a 3.375 interest. We owe about 26 more years on it, and I am 65 years, well, I'll be 65 in May.

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The investments are roughly $600,000, making about anywhere from, say, 6% to 8%, a whole bunch of mutual funds, based on what you told me over the years. So, that's my question, really, is do I go ahead and pay off the mortgage, which would then bring the investments down after paying taxes in the range of, say, $360,000?? What do you say?

1Speaker 1
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About $400,000, yeah.

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Well, the way I do these things is I reverse-engineer it, and then I see how that feels. Let's pretend that you had a debt-free house and $400,000 in investments.

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Would you go borrow $188,000 at said interest rate to put more in your investments?

00:21:06.88 – 00:21:09.14

Hmm. I wouldn't. I wouldn't. Yeah.

3Speaker 3
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Yeah, I wouldn't.

1Speaker 1
00:21:10.84 – 00:21:15.28

That wakes me up when I look at it that way. And all that is is the exact same thing, but backwards, right?

3Speaker 3
00:21:16.56 – 00:21:17.58

Right. Right.

1Speaker 1
00:21:17.82 – 00:21:41.02

So, the only thing that gives me a little bit of pause is if you told me you had $600,000 left over or $800,000 left over, I'd go in a heartbeat, go, do it. $400,000 is kind of like, eh, it's a lot, and you've done really well, but you're going to have to be careful to not go on a spending spree or something, which I don't think you're going to do. It doesn't sound like you.

3Speaker 3
00:21:42.02 – 00:21:52.44

No. No. And I agree with you that $400,000 would be on that edge, because I've ran the retirement calculators, including yours, and it puts me on the edge.

1Speaker 1
00:21:52.84 – 00:22:06.54

Yeah. With no house payment, I mean, I always use just, on the high side, 8% of the nest egg, and so, you know, that's what, 20,. what was that? come out? $32,000 a year, right?

00:22:07.58 – 00:22:15.48

Yep. $320,000.. Yeah, $32,000 a year. So, you know, you've got $2,500 a month coming in, plus Social Security. Do you have any other money coming in?

3Speaker 3
00:22:17.96 – 00:22:20.58

As a revenue stream, no.

1Speaker 1
00:22:20.82 – 00:22:21.14

Okay.

3Speaker 3
00:22:22.16 – 00:22:28.70

Together, we bring in about $118 gross per year right now.

1Speaker 1
00:22:28.70 – 00:22:29.92

Working. You're still working.

3Speaker 3
00:22:30.62 – 00:22:31.68

Yes, I'm still working.

1Speaker 1
00:22:31.80 – 00:22:52.42

Yeah, okay. All right. But, I mean, if you retired, you'd be on 8% of that max of your nest egg, with no payments in the world, plus Social Security, right? Correct. So, you'd have about half what you've got now coming in, but you'd have no house payment, and you'd not be, and you, but, of course, the longer you work, the more we change that $400,000..

00:22:52.62 – 00:22:53.88

That does change the equation.

3Speaker 3
00:22:54.66 – 00:22:57.66

That's correct. Yep. You know. Plus, it'll change the Social Security.

1Speaker 1
00:22:57.66 – 00:23:06.60

Yep. Yeah. Now, not enough to worry about. I wouldn't keep working for that, but I like working, because I like accomplishing things. I like helping people.

00:23:07.08 – 00:23:23.38

I like the sense of traction that it gives me, and I don't mind making money. I like doing that, too. So, as long as you're doing that, I think I'd keep going, and I'd pay it off today. I mean, there's something to be said to not retire. Everybody thinks you have to retire.

00:23:23.46 – 00:23:24.16

You don't have to retire.

2Speaker 2
00:23:24.50 – 00:23:33.76

No. In fact, retirement can look however you want it to. You want to work 20 hours a week, 25 hours a week, doing something that keeps you mentally and emotionally active?

1Speaker 1
00:23:33.76 – 00:23:35.28

I'm not talking about wood shop.

2Speaker 2
00:23:35.48 – 00:23:36.90

No. You don't have to start out.

1Speaker 1
00:23:36.90 – 00:23:40.54

Talking about go, do something in your career field, in your discipline, where you make some bank.

2Speaker 2
00:23:40.78 – 00:23:41.70

Yeah, and you're doing something, really.

1Speaker 1
00:23:41.70 – 00:23:52.74

But you might do business coaching and make more in 20 hours than you're making now. Right. Yeah. I mean, something high, with a high level of sophistication. I mean, sometimes people say, you know, I'm going to be a fishing guy.

00:23:52.80 – 00:23:53.94

That's not what I'm talking about.

2Speaker 2
00:23:53.94 – 00:24:15.84

No. Listen, I just read an article last week that hiring managers, with the wave of Gen Z coming into the workforce, they are actively trying to hire older people. The ageism that has been in existence for a while is dissipating. If you're in your 60s, you got some skill and experience, you're a great locker room presence for hiring managers. They'll hire you now.

00:24:15.96 – 00:24:26.54

So, to your point, you can stay active longer and work and do really well, because companies are looking for that older, seasoned veteran, if you want to use that football analogy or basketball analogy.

1Speaker 1
00:24:26.54 – 00:24:53.72

I have not heard that, but I've got an instant theory that pops into my head. What's your thought? Well, the thing that I'm hearing all over the place in the leadership circles that I'm running in and where I'm doing entree leadership stuff, is that Gen Z is highly skilled in their disciplines, but a lot of them have soft skill problems with relational skills. That's correct. And putting that old dog in there that's very relational almost to mentor and train just by their mere presence seems to make a lot of sense.

2Speaker 2
00:24:53.84 – 00:25:26.74

It does. And it also squares with the data that Gen Z over, I want to say about 52% of Gen Z reports saying they want to actually work in the office because they want to be mentored. Keep in mind, one of the effects of this generation of the helicopter parents, Gen X and millennial parents is that these kids have been guided in helicopter to the point that now, when they get in the real world, they actually are craving the good ones with character, not the ones we see on TikTok. They're craving some older mentorship in the office. They want that older guy.

1Speaker 1
00:25:27.02 – 00:25:27.78

The tough old coach.

2Speaker 2
00:25:28.02 – 00:25:31.74

They do. Someone they feel safe with. Hey, this old guy is going to take care of me and show me the ropes.

1Speaker 1
00:25:31.76 – 00:25:32.96

He loves me, but he's going to bust me.

2Speaker 2
00:25:33.14 – 00:25:45.98

Yeah. But they feel security in that someone's going to show me what to do. So there are some benefits. My point here to our greater audience is don't assume that your value drops in your 60s. The data says otherwise.

00:25:46.34 – 00:25:46.48

Hmm.

1Speaker 1
00:25:46.92 – 00:25:56.92

Hmm. That's interesting. And certainly that's true for Al. We didn't stay with Al long enough to find out what his actual career is, but he's obviously making some money. Six figures coming into the house.

2Speaker 2
00:25:57.12 – 00:26:02.46

And I was also going to ask you, depending on how much his house has worked, does that change your advice then on that?

1Speaker 1
00:26:02.72 – 00:26:23.32

No. Because here's the thing that the largest line item, folks in your budget at any time in your life, that the most expensive item in your budget is housing, your biggest expense. Even if your house is paid for, it's still your biggest expense, with taxes, insurance and maintenance. Right? So it's still.

00:26:23.32 – 00:26:54.50

housing is your biggest expense. When you can do away with the payment part of that expense, it stabilizes your golden years. It's, I mean, when you go from 60 to 90, that 30 year period of time with no house payment, with that kind of stability, it changes your emotional state and therefore it actually affects your health. because you're not, as Dr. John Loney says, you're not carrying around that stress between your shoulder blades, uh, but which debt is stress between your shoulder blades?

00:26:54.62 – 00:26:56.58

Whether you actually remember it's there or not. You don't.

2Speaker 2
00:26:57.12 – 00:27:06.56

And I like that. And this is safe money too, because as they get older, maybe they need to go into some assisted care. That house is sitting there, that's money waiting for them to cash out.

1Speaker 1
00:27:06.68 – 00:27:23.72

Yeah. And it's, it's, it just, it, it is one of the two things that we see with the people that have the first one to $5 million of net worth, your first million dollars, up to your first 5 million, is a paid for house and a big old 401k. And he's got both. Yep. Now.

00:27:24.06 – 00:27:34.24

Or he's about to have both if he does that. So Al's done a really good job. Yeah. He's in the top, probably four or 5% of Americans financially in his situation. He's done excellent work.

00:27:34.72 – 00:27:48.70

Um, and even at that, we're saying, Oh, I wish it was a little bit more. Sure. You know, but he's making a hundred a year. So you thought you start throwing, load that 401k up, load the IRAs up, anything else you can load up for the next and work three more years, four more years. Yeah.

00:27:49.74 – 00:27:59.98

That, that. all of a sudden, then, that becomes a no brainer, right? That changes everything. If you had to retire today on that, that's when it kind of gives you a little bit of a breath there. Right.

00:28:00.20 – 00:28:15.36

Pretty crazy. But, um, isn't that a wonderful thing, though, that that guy has been listening all those years to us and has gone and done the stuff and is in really, really good shape. Congratulations, sir. Very proud of you. Very, very, very well done.

00:28:16.08 – 00:28:30.50

And um, you know, you folks, you just don't want to get to retirement and the only thing you have is the government, which is well known for its ability to handle money, is going to take care of me. That's a pretty dumb idea. That's the definition of insanity. This is the Ramsey show.

2Speaker 2
00:28:34.50 – 00:28:58.58

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1Speaker 1
00:29:46.44 – 00:29:58.32

Ken Coleman, Ramsey, Personality, number one, bestselling author of the book Paycheck to Purpose, is my co-host today. Thank you for joining us, America. Josh and Claire are with us in Des Moines, Iowa. Hi guys, how are you?

3Speaker 3
00:29:59.34 – 00:30:00.64

We are good.

1Speaker 1
00:30:01.70 – 00:30:02.84

Cool. How can we help?

3Speaker 3
00:30:04.32 – 00:30:23.32

Well, we had a question if we should sell our house and move and rent or if we should stay put. And the reason we're asking is because we have some debt and we both drive about 40 minutes each way to our jobs. Which wasn't how it was when we bought the house originally. Okay.

1Speaker 1
00:30:25.12 – 00:30:26.72

How much debt do you have?

3Speaker 3
00:30:28.82 – 00:30:31.82

Combined without the house is about $100,000..

1Speaker 1
00:30:32.14 – 00:30:32.76

On what?

3Speaker 3
00:30:35.74 – 00:30:41.62

$86,000 on student loans. About $10,000 on a car.

00:30:43.50 – 00:30:45.40

Yeah, that's it.

1Speaker 1
00:30:45.62 – 00:30:46.46

What's your household income?

3Speaker 3
00:30:48.18 – 00:30:50.52

About $90,000 a year. Okay.

1Speaker 1
00:30:50.76 – 00:30:54.16

Cool. All right. And what's the house worth?

3Speaker 3
00:30:56.62 – 00:30:58.18

About $200,000..

1Speaker 1
00:30:59.12 – 00:31:00.12

What do you owe on it?

3Speaker 3
00:31:01.58 – 00:31:02.50

Say that again?

1Speaker 1
00:31:02.68 – 00:31:03.66

What do you owe on it?

3Speaker 3
00:31:05.90 – 00:31:07.36

About $175,000..

1Speaker 1
00:31:09.76 – 00:31:12.84

Okay. So by the time you sell it, you don't have much equity, if any.

3Speaker 3
00:31:13.92 – 00:31:14.40

No.

1Speaker 1
00:31:15.46 – 00:31:19.62

Okay. So it doesn't really pay off any debt. It just gets rid of the house and you move closer.

3Speaker 3
00:31:20.98 – 00:31:21.34

Mm-hmm.

1Speaker 1
00:31:23.04 – 00:31:29.46

Okay. So it doesn't pay off of $100,000 in debt, right? Am I missing something?

2Speaker 2
00:31:30.66 – 00:31:31.86

No, we're just wondering.

1Speaker 1
00:31:31.86 – 00:31:33.82

You just want to move closer to work.

3Speaker 3
00:31:34.78 – 00:31:42.32

Well, that, and the cost of renting versus paying the mortgage, is it worth to be closer to work?

2Speaker 2
00:31:42.68 – 00:31:49.78

Well, that's what I want to know. So what's the difference? Give us the difference between what rent would be if you moved closer versus your current mortgage.

3Speaker 3
00:31:50.92 – 00:31:57.48

Our current mortgage is about $1,500, and rent will be about $1,500 to $1,700..

1Speaker 1
00:31:58.74 – 00:32:22.86

Okay. So let's pretend it's $1,500.. All you did was just write a mortgage payment for a house payment, but you got considerable blocks of time back, which I would then use to make extra money and work more and get this debt paid off. That would be the goal. I think just doing that and spinning your wheels, I would not do.

3Speaker 3
00:32:24.22 – 00:32:28.78

Okay. We also just had a baby boy, about three months ago.

1Speaker 1
00:32:28.78 – 00:32:29.68

Congratulations.

3Speaker 3
00:32:31.26 – 00:32:33.88

So we're still trying to figure that out, too.

1Speaker 1
00:32:34.12 – 00:32:36.24

Yeah, well, you're not sleeping now, so that's it.

3Speaker 3
00:32:37.46 – 00:32:38.18

That's true.

2Speaker 2
00:32:38.68 – 00:32:51.76

I want to know what Claire thinks. Claire, if all things were equal, would you rather be closer to where you work, or is it easier to change jobs as opposed to change the house situation? I know you guys have thought through this.

3Speaker 3
00:32:52.80 – 00:33:35.56

Yeah, so the original thought was that when we bought the house, I was, like, 15 minutes from my job, and Josh was, like, 40 minutes from his, which we knew was a sacrifice. being in the metro. We knew somebody would have to drive. But right now, Josh just finished his master's in educational leadership, and so we're not even really sure how long we're going to stay in Des Moines, but it feels like he leaves at 630 and doesn't get home until 530.. I'm an occupational therapist, so my schedule is just flexible everywhere, and so it feels like, yeah, the time, it's hard to figure out, like, is it worth the same cost and the effort to sell a house versus rent, but, like, we would get some time back, and especially with a newborn, it feels like time is more important than everything right now.

00:33:35.62 – 00:33:37.56

So, yeah, I don't know. We're just trying to balance that out.

2Speaker 2
00:33:37.60 – 00:33:40.46

Well, what's your gut telling you? Before we weighed in, where were you leaning?

3Speaker 3
00:33:42.12 – 00:33:44.82

I was leaning towards selling to get time back.

2Speaker 2
00:33:45.56 – 00:34:14.60

That's the call I would make. So, as a parent, I'm thinking through that, and I'm also thinking about the fact that with HUBZ here, Josh getting the master's, we don't know we're going to be in Des Moines long term. I like the flexibility, and it looks like the rent is awash, basically. You said it was about $200 maybe difference, and to get that time back, as Dave said, we got that time to hustle a little bit, pay some debt, but I think renting at this point gives us options if we're moving. I kind of like that as a bridge.

00:34:15.50 – 00:34:20.88

What do you think, Dave? I feel like options right now are better, since they don't know they're there long term.

1Speaker 1
00:34:22.34 – 00:34:22.66

Yes.

00:34:24.88 – 00:34:32.12

What my fear is, and I always try to figure out, if it's me and Sharon doing something, I'm like, how can we screw this up?

2Speaker 2
00:34:33.18 – 00:34:33.34

Right.

1Speaker 1
00:34:33.52 – 00:34:54.34

And we go, okay, if we do this part of that, then it's bad, and if we do the whole thing, then it's good, right, kind of thing. Sometimes we even write that down at our house. We type it out and go, this is the whole plan. Simply moving and getting time back and becoming a renter, no. Not a good trade if that's all you do.

00:34:55.02 – 00:35:34.44

But if there's a move out of town and up on his career in the future, good play. If you take some of the time you've redeemed for the newborn and some of the time to make some money and clear up this $100,000 in debt, good play, because you've got the flexibility. I mean, if Josh is going to be home more, maybe Claire picks up more hours on some nights and maybe Josh picks up some stuff Saturday mornings, and he continues to look for a different, permanent solution with his masters. It's a much higher paying thing as well. So all of that to say three years from today as a result of this and some extra hustle and maybe a move, I want you guys debt free and owning a house.

3Speaker 3
00:35:35.80 – 00:35:36.24

Yeah.

1Speaker 1
00:35:36.52 – 00:35:48.92

It can't be. you get over there and you go, well, we've got a lot of time with the little boy now, and we are renters for the next 10 years because we spin our wheels. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. That would be a bad plan. I agree.

00:35:49.02 – 00:35:55.48

And that's how I could screw it up if I were in your shoes. Because so you got to be careful, because what's driving this is the newborn.

00:35:57.80 – 00:36:24.26

And if the newborn gets all of this, not going to be good for the newborns long term, not going to be good for anybody's long term. If they gets all of the, the, the juice from this move. So yeah, that, that's a similar thing, but just similar, but similar. Sharon and I sold our home and, but we had made about three different changes at the same time. We had our children in a private school.

00:36:24.38 – 00:36:35.54

We were, they were 45 minutes away. So an hour and a half each way, 45 or 45, back twice a day to go get them and pick them up. So we got rid of that. We got rid of the private school. Cause.

00:36:35.54 – 00:36:51.90

we moved into a county, this County, which is the number one County for education in the state. And we moved into that County and, and we rented and we sold the house. And we cleaned up a little bit of last little bit of debt that would survive the bankruptcies from IRS stuff. So we cleaned up debt. We got rid of the commute.

00:36:53.48 – 00:37:15.80

We got rid of the private school at all, three of those things. So that we could rent for two years so that we could move up. And that was a move we made almost 30 years ago. So that was a good move. But if we had just consumed the difference in time and consumed the difference in money and stayed a renter, that would not have been a good move.

00:37:16.22 – 00:37:29.14

You see what that that's makes sense. But we talked about those exact things at that exact time, very clearly. I mean, stuck in my head. And you could ask Sharon Ramsey to this day, she hated that freaking rental house. She hated that kitchen.

00:37:29.14 – 00:37:43.40

She can describe that kitchen with anger in her eyes. to this day. She wanted out of there, which is great. We were not supposed to be there for a while, but for a little bit, it was camping. So chill out.

00:37:43.46 – 00:37:48.22

It's camping. It's a camp stove. Leave the stove alone. Right? So it's a rental house.

00:37:48.22 – 00:37:56.32

for God's sakes, you know, that kind of stuff. So that, but that's the kind of stuff you want to fight against. Josh and Claire. You guys are awesome. You're awesome parents.

00:37:56.32 – 00:38:05.06

You're obviously thinkers. you're, and you're working together to make these decisions. All of these things say you're going to make the right decision. Yeah. And I think you're solid move.

00:38:05.16 – 00:38:05.80

I do too.

2Speaker 2
00:38:05.82 – 00:38:21.64

And I echo everything Dave said, Josh and Claire, here's what I'd like you all to do. I think you have to have a dream conversation tonight about what Josh's next move or moves could be. And let's figure that out. That will determine the rest of this. That's what Dave just laid out.

00:38:21.72 – 00:38:32.28

So beautiful. Like, where are we headed? What's the 20 year, 25 year play? and what's the next move. And if a move out of Des Moines for Josh is the next right move, then everything else falls in place.

00:38:32.28 – 00:38:38.58

So make that decision first. The baby's fine. Baby has no concept of time. You're tired. I get it.

00:38:38.64 – 00:38:41.76

Your heart hurts. You want to be with them. You can hang on a little bit longer.

1Speaker 1
00:38:41.90 – 00:38:43.52

There's nothing cuter than a brand new. No.

2Speaker 2
00:38:43.70 – 00:38:53.40

And so you got to make that big decision first. John Maxwell, our friend, once said, make the big decisions early and manage them for years. This is one of those decisions.

1Speaker 1
00:38:54.72 – 00:39:01.68

It's a big, big rocks in the glass first, then the next little, then they put the sand in. last. It'll hold a lot more. That's right. And put the big rocks in.

00:39:02.12 – 00:39:09.22

Yeah. That old, that old analogy or metaphor that people use. It's a good, good object lesson for the youth group, right? It is. It is.

00:39:09.38 – 00:39:10.74

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00:39:16.40 – 00:39:47.06

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00:39:47.94 – 00:39:51.18

Abraham is in Lincoln, Nebraska. Hi, Abraham. How are you?

3Speaker 3
00:39:52.84 – 00:39:56.36

Hello, I'm doing good. Thank you for taking my call today and helping out.

1Speaker 1
00:39:56.64 – 00:39:57.44

Sure. What's up?

3Speaker 3
00:39:59.42 – 00:40:29.26

So, essentially I'm in the chemical engineering field and in my current position, I have a great manager and I have a great job, and a job that I enjoy a lot. And I get to travel quite a bit for, however, I do know that, uh, in comparison to other, uh, positions out there that are of similar work, or, uh, that would have the same experience that I have, I can probably get 20 to $40,000 more. What do you mean? that in mind? I'm sorry.

1Speaker 1
00:40:29.44 – 00:40:37.48

What do you make? Hundred thousand. Okay. All right. So you think that you could change companies and make 140, doing exactly what.

3Speaker 3
00:40:37.48 – 00:40:37.94

you do now?

00:40:39.46 – 00:40:45.84

Uh, probably even less, uh, less stress and less work, to be honest. Okay.

00:40:47.54 – 00:41:08.14

So my question is what is, if I would like to keep my current employment, but with the added benefits of the additional salary, what is the best way to bring that up with my manager? Um, and, and how do I assess, even if it's worth it at all, and just go pursue a?

1Speaker 1
00:41:08.14 – 00:41:11.24

different, uh, uh, how big, how big a company?

3Speaker 3
00:41:13.26 – 00:41:15.76

Uh, it is a, it is a global company. Okay.

1Speaker 1
00:41:16.00 – 00:41:18.00

So it's not a hundred percent up to your manager.

3Speaker 3
00:41:19.96 – 00:41:34.24

Uh, no, but it is run, their companies run pretty lean and, uh, it's a very, it's a similar to your company, where it's a single owned, uh, owned by a single person, and that family culture kind of penetrates through and.

2Speaker 2
00:41:34.24 – 00:41:45.02

through. Okay. So here's what I want to dive into. Two times you've mentioned, uh, the idea that this is either highly stressful, maybe you've got some balance issues. Is that true?

00:41:45.06 – 00:41:48.86

Am I hearing that? What's going on with that? The stress part that you've mentioned.

3Speaker 3
00:41:51.00 – 00:42:01.04

It's, uh, uh, there's a lot of requirements and a lot of expectations that I am able to meet. Um, but it's, uh, it's still enjoyable.

2Speaker 2
00:42:01.46 – 00:42:11.50

Yeah. So let me ask you this. If I called your boss right now and Dave and I made it happen behind the scenes and we called you back and said, Hey, good news. We got you that a 20 to. let's let's split the difference.

00:42:11.54 – 00:42:15.02

We got you a 30 K bump. What would your reaction be?

3Speaker 3
00:42:16.98 – 00:42:17.90

I'd be very happy.

2Speaker 2
00:42:18.02 – 00:42:31.20

Would you even be thinking about going to these other companies where you could make more and, and do less? Would you even be thinking about it? Okay. So I think that has to be the perspective. So my advice is pretty boilerplate on this.

00:42:31.32 – 00:42:56.12

I'm not, I'm sure Dave will weigh in, but, uh, but I'm going to put myself in your shoes and I'm, but I'm thinking about your leader and Dave's right. in a company this large, it's the sole decision on your raise is not in your leader's hands. That's going to have to go up. And so you've got to make a case with your leader that your leader can then decide how they could make the case. So I would not go in just with the data.

00:42:56.12 – 00:43:13.16

that says, all right, I've looked at other positions out in the marketplace. And when I compare these, by the way, you got to know that they're apples to apples. They rarely are, but if they're not apples to apples, you got to call that out too. And you say, okay, here's the comparison based on a skill and experience. And this is the range that I see out in the marketplace.

00:43:13.58 – 00:43:40.84

However, I want to be here. You tell them why you want to be there. Tell them how much you appreciate them, what you've told, Dave and I, then you say, Hey, I'd like to have a conversation with you about a growth plan to where I can add more value. And you and I are on the same page about what that value is, how we measure it. And, if we accomplish that, a path to where I can make this kind of money and be more competitive in the marketplace.

00:43:40.84 – 00:43:58.68

based on this, I want your take on this. Is there a growth plan that we can work on? And now I'm bringing the leader into the conversation and that leader sees that you're grateful that you're hungry, but that you've got some humility and you're not asking for a raise. You're going, Hey, I'd like to grow to this. What could a path look like that on?

00:43:58.74 – 00:44:11.76

And I know that I've got to have more responsibility. I've got to deliver results that we agree on. We measure those. And with that comes more responsibility and more income. That's how I would approach that, because now you're going to find out two things.

00:44:11.86 – 00:44:36.92

Number one, what your relationship is with your leader and how they're handling this and how they're communicating it. And two, you give them something that they get to build as well. And they've got some ownership because they've got to take this up, as Dave has pointed out. So this is a partnership, not you demanding something. And I don't sense that in your spirit, but the way you approach this, they've got to have buy-in because they've got to present this plan up.

00:44:37.04 – 00:44:38.36

They're running a P&L. Yes.

3Speaker 3
00:44:40.86 – 00:44:42.58

I'm not sure what a P&L is.

2Speaker 2
00:44:42.76 – 00:44:43.64

Profit and loss. They've got it.

1Speaker 1
00:44:43.80 – 00:44:47.50

They're running a business unit. They're running a business unit and responsible for profitability.

2Speaker 2
00:44:47.98 – 00:44:51.92

And you, when you get a raise, guess what that is? That's more expenses for them.

3Speaker 3
00:44:52.56 – 00:45:17.70

Yeah. Now, to be frank, my relationship with my manager is excellent. And we've actually had a similar exact type of conversation that you're, that you are describing a few years ago. And he and the company have given me many opportunities. So now, for example, I do projects in a lot of different countries.

1Speaker 1
00:45:18.24 – 00:45:20.74

I want them to give you opportunities. I also want them to give you money.

3Speaker 3
00:45:22.36 – 00:45:22.76

That's that.

2Speaker 2
00:45:26.08 – 00:45:31.54

So have you gotten more opportunities, but no money over the last couple of years? Give us the track record here.

3Speaker 3
00:45:33.42 – 00:45:43.74

Yeah. I mean, so. I've been employed for five and a half years with the company, progressed quite a bit, level of responsibilities, and the projects that I'm doing for my...

2Speaker 2
00:45:43.74 – 00:45:45.26

What about your financial progression?

3Speaker 3
00:45:47.22 – 00:45:51.76

It's been, I think, close to $25,000 increase.

2Speaker 2
00:45:52.06 – 00:45:53.06

Over five years?

3Speaker 3
00:45:54.58 – 00:45:56.46

Five and a half years with projects.

1Speaker 1
00:45:57.04 – 00:46:19.10

Okay. Here's what I want you to do. I want you to do better research, to go with Ken's suggestion than you have done to date. I want some detailed written compensation studies from LinkedIn, Monster.com, whatever, showing. this is the detailed description of these people, and this is what the average person makes.

00:46:19.34 – 00:46:23.22

Not, I ran into a guy who's in our industry who's making X.

00:46:24.92 – 00:46:40.69

I want you to really make the case, like you were going before a judge and you were a lawyer. And this is the evidence of what the... If I'm going to sell a car, here's the evidence. It's not. I had a feeling or I had a friend once who sold a car like that.

00:46:40.85 – 00:47:09.17

I go and I pull up kbb.com, I'll pull up traders, and I'll pull up two or three things. I'll find several examples of this car. I show them to the person I'm trying to do the deal with and go, this is what the reality of this car is, and then they do that. So, because let me tell you what's happened around here at Ramsey is, we'll be on the other side of your conversation. We've had people come in and tell us that they're worth $40,000 more, and then we show them that they're not when we do the comp.

00:47:10.07 – 00:47:35.11

When we do the detailed study. And then sometimes they come in and tell us that, and we do the comp study, and we go, crap, they're right, they're underpaid, and we pay them. We raise their income. And both of those have happened this year. But sometimes the person bringing it doesn't do their homework, and I want you to do your homework before you have this next conversation and say, I don't want to leave, but I do want to make market.

00:47:35.65 – 00:47:38.49

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00:48:44.19 – 00:49:01.59

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00:49:01.59 – 00:49:13.33

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00:49:13.69 – 00:49:32.99

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00:49:33.31 – 00:49:41.95

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2Speaker 2
00:50:04.05 – 00:50:18.57

Today's question comes from Joseph in Georgia. I'm 22 and didn't go to college. I feel stuck in this customer service job. I have making a little less than $30,000 a year after taxes. I had a few other jobs besides the one I just mentioned, and my favorite was in asphalt paving.

00:50:18.77 – 00:50:41.69

I was making the same hourly rate, but within a few months I made close to that yearly amount. due to all of the overtime. The paving job left me with no more than around seven to nine hours to eat dinner, shower, and sleep almost every day, which I hated and it drained me. Should I go back to that job or go study something that could let me be in a similar position? I'm in now, but potentially make more than what I currently do?

00:50:43.21 – 00:50:56.39

Okay, you're 22,, number one. Number two, I'm seeing a lot of these videos on social media that after my job, I only have seven to nine hours to eat, shower, and sleep almost every day.

1Speaker 1
00:50:57.13 – 00:50:58.37

That's kind of life.

2Speaker 2
00:50:58.51 – 00:51:08.03

That's kind of how it is. When I come home from my very non-labor-intensive job here at Ramsey Solutions, I'm in bed by 10 o'clock.

1Speaker 1
00:51:08.07 – 00:51:09.79

I don't know. There's lash marks on your back, I think.

2Speaker 2
00:51:09.83 – 00:51:46.05

I know, but I only have, as I see it, about four to five hours, and my life's pretty great. I think we need a perspective shift here. I'll leave it alone, so I don't sound like the old man here, but you need a new perspective on what your long-term goals are, as well as your short-term financial goals. What I would say, because I worked in the masonry industry in college, hardest job I ever worked in my life, I was on the job site at 7 a.m., Dave, mixing the mortar, dumping the mortar in a wheelbarrow, wheeling the wheelbarrow around the job site, which, if you've ever been on a home job site, that's like a mogul ski course.

1Speaker 1
00:51:46.25 – 00:51:47.53

That's how you develop those muscles.

2Speaker 2
00:51:47.75 – 00:52:00.87

That's why I am the brawny man I am today, Dave. It's stuck with me. When I was done distributing the mortar, I've got to tell the rest of the story, it was brick tongs. You repeat this process all day long. It was a 10-hour day.

00:52:00.95 – 00:52:15.47

It was the most back-breaking work of my life. I get it. The asphalt paving is a very, very intense job. In this situation, I would look at most of the trades. I really would, because the amount of education you need is minimal.

00:52:15.47 – 00:52:50.29

The cost is minimal, but the long-term return on the investment of time and money in the trades is absolutely spectacular. In fact, for those of you that are younger and you think I'm kind of the old boomer, I'm actually an Xer, but just go on TikTok. It's where you like to hang out and look at all the TikToks of plumbers and HVAC people that are making well into the six figures. The trades are the great secret right now for this young generation, so I would be looking in that direction. But if you want to win, young Joseph, you're going to be looking at that same schedule.

00:52:50.59 – 00:53:05.65

You shouldn't be having 10 and 12 hours of free time if you're serious about working. It's just not a reality, and I don't know where that came from, this idea that I need 8 to 10 hours a day of free time. I don't get it, unless it's the college schedule.

1Speaker 1
00:53:08.41 – 00:53:11.73

A lot of partying going on. Yeah,

00:53:13.47 – 00:53:32.03

I don't think asphalt's in your future. See, I think you boil this down to two bad things and trying to choose between them. A bad $30,000-a-year customer service job and a back-breaking asphalt job. Those aren't the only two choices. Obviously, the choices are infinite, and so pick up Ken's book, From Paycheck to Purpose.

00:53:32.11 – 00:54:00.53

Start thinking about where you want to be when you're 30, if you're 22.. Clearly define that, and then start asking yourself why you want to do that. If you just want to do it for money, you picked the wrong thing. If you just want to do it for passion, but you're going to be broke, you picked the wrong thing. You want to make some good money doing something you love, and that gives you energy, and then the time will fly by and you won't feel put upon for having worked an entire day.

00:54:01.47 – 00:54:25.43

I think you've got to say, what have I got to do? Don't pick something based on lifestyle. Don't pick something based on money. Pick something that gives you energy and that gives you meaning and that you can make money, and again, the time will fly. by.

00:54:25.91 – 00:54:55.35

The old saying, if you pick work you love, every day is a vacation. Well, that's a bit of an exaggeration. Every day is not a vacation for me, and I love what I do, but some days are harder than others, and even the thing you do turns out to be work. But most days, I do this show for three hours every day, and I have for 30 years, and those three hours fly by. I look up and go, wow, just a minute I was on there.

2Speaker 2
00:54:55.59 – 00:54:58.79

That's the company you keep. I mean, how could you not enjoy three hours of me day?

1Speaker 1
00:54:58.81 – 00:54:59.89

That's it, that's it.

2Speaker 2
00:55:00.31 – 00:55:01.95

Hey, can we...

1Speaker 1
00:55:01.95 – 00:55:04.79

The brawny man over here, the brawny, brick-tongued guy.

2Speaker 2
00:55:05.01 – 00:55:12.73

I know, it's terrible. Hey, you know what? Benjamin Franklin actually said. this. You know, you see all these quotes about these old, famous people from history.

00:55:12.77 – 00:55:41.35

He actually said this, and it's this advice that Joseph and this young generation needs to understand. He said, early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise. And I think we hear that when we're little kids at some point. We think, oh, it's a cute little nursery rhyme. No, that's actually a man, if you read and study, Franklin, I know you and I have, the man was maniacal about his daily schedule, very intentional, and, as a result, one of the greatest citizens of the world.

00:55:41.55 – 00:55:42.51

Forget American history.

1Speaker 1
00:55:43.19 – 00:55:47.93

I'll guarantee you that has played an element in the level of success I've personally enjoyed.

2Speaker 2
00:55:48.13 – 00:55:49.13

I know it has.

1Speaker 1
00:55:49.31 – 00:56:04.11

Because I am a, when I was growing up, I was naturally a night person. I mean, in college, I could stay up till 2 in the morning, I never thought anything about it, and I'd sleep till 10, you know? And I never took any early classes because I was lazy, didn't get out of bed.

2Speaker 2
00:56:04.15 – 00:56:04.83

I was the same way.

1Speaker 1
00:56:04.83 – 00:56:38.05

But when I graduated from college, got married, became an adult, and quit partying all the time, met God, you know, I started going, okay, I'm going to dedicate the first hours of the morning to my mind, my body, and my relationship with God. And so I'm going to read, I'm going to do some kind of exercise, I'm going to spend some time with Sharon, I'm going to spend some time in prayer and with Scripture. And Sharon and I have gotten up at 5 a.m. for, I don't know, 30 years? Wow.

00:56:38.37 – 00:56:55.45

Yeah. That's true. And, you know, we were old people before we were old people. And, you know, we go to bed, and we get up, and, you know, by the time I get to the office at 8.30, I mean, I've done half a day's work in one way or another around the house. and, you know, all that stuff.

00:56:55.55 – 00:57:19.53

And I'm not bragging on me, I'm just saying, the stuff that I get out of my Scripture and my prayer time in the morning, the stuff I get out of reading a good nonfiction book in the morning, making sure I'm connected with Sharon, we've got the day laid out, and by the time I get to work, I'm not stumbling into the first meeting, fuzzy and hungover. That's right. You know? That's exactly right. And I haven't, you know, in 30-plus years.

00:57:20.01 – 00:57:34.67

So that's, you just, that, you know, worried about my leisure time. Yeah. Instead, I've got early to bed, early to rise makes you healthy, wealthy, and wise, and it does do that. It does do that. Franklin was on to something there.

00:57:35.09 – 00:57:48.75

So something to think about. You know, you set your morning schedule. I met a guy when I first met God that knew the Bible inside and out, and I said, how do you do this? He goes, well, I read this many, I read three hours a morning on Scripture. I'm like, how do you read three hours?

00:57:49.27 – 00:57:50.35

He goes, well, I start at four.

2Speaker 2
00:57:50.55 – 00:57:51.45

Yeah, that'll do it.

1Speaker 1
00:57:51.47 – 00:57:52.65

I'm like, how do you start at four?

2Speaker 2
00:57:52.99 – 00:57:53.67

How do you get up?

1Speaker 1
00:57:53.73 – 00:58:00.69

He goes, well, if you want to get up that early, you've got to go to bed early. Yeah. Oh, there's that. Okay. This is the Ramsey Show.

00:58:07.29 – 00:58:14.41

Ken Coleman, Ramsey Personalities. My co-host, Cami, is with us in Sacramento. Hi, Cami. Welcome to the Ramsey Show.

00:58:16.89 – 00:58:21.81

Well, you've got to push the button, old Dave. Did I push it? I did push it. Hi, Cami. How are you?

3Speaker 3
00:58:22.79 – 00:58:24.75

I'm good. Thanks for taking my call.

1Speaker 1
00:58:24.75 – 00:58:25.85

Sure. What's up?

3Speaker 3
00:58:26.87 – 00:58:39.93

I am calling because I want your insight on how I should start with long-term investing as a 21-year-old with no debt, no credit, and about $40,000 in savings.

1Speaker 1
00:58:40.47 – 00:58:41.29

Way to go.

2Speaker 2
00:58:42.29 – 00:58:42.71

Wow.

1Speaker 1
00:58:43.09 – 00:58:43.93

What a great head start.

3Speaker 3
00:58:44.77 – 00:58:45.47

Thank you.

1Speaker 1
00:58:45.71 – 00:58:48.13

You're obviously very smart. How did you learn all this?

3Speaker 3
00:58:49.57 – 00:58:58.13

Well, Dave, I have fantastic parents who are huge fans of yours. I think I've been listening to you since I drive back from kindergarten.

1Speaker 1
00:59:00.49 – 00:59:29.25

You're a financial peace, baby. Okay. I love it. That's awesome. Well, then, you know that we teach folks to stay out of debt, which you have done, to have a plan, which you have done, to have an emergency fund of three to six months of expenses, which you have done, and then start investing 15% of your income into your retirement, first with a match, second with a Roth, and third, just make sure you get 15% in there.

00:59:31.11 – 00:59:36.77

Once you're doing that, any money you have above that to save and invest, I'd start saving towards my first house.

3Speaker 3
00:59:38.19 – 00:59:50.83

Okay. I'm curious about having the no credit, what your thoughts are on that, because I know you talk about buying your house in cash and your process with that.

1Speaker 1
00:59:51.53 – 01:00:20.55

Buying a house with cash means you don't need credit, number one. Number two, if you don't have credit and you want to buy a home with a mortgage, you do that with what's called manual underwriting. Not all mortgage companies know how to do that anymore. Churchill Mortgage, that we've endorsed for almost 30 years, does know how to do that, and they can help you do that. If you're steady on your rent and you've been on your job two years and you have a good, solid down payment, you do not need a credit score to buy a house.

01:00:21.25 – 01:00:47.75

You get the same premium, excellent interest rate as if you had a very high credit score. when you do a manually underwritten situation. You're not there today because you set some of your 40 aside for your emergency fund, some of it aside towards your first house, but that's going to not put you in the housing market today, but you're well on your way and you'll certainly be there in your early 20s, without a doubt. Excellent question, Kami. Way to go.

01:00:48.51 – 01:00:48.81

Wow.

2Speaker 2
01:00:49.35 – 01:00:59.39

Yeah. I wish more people would pay attention to these calls. Fast forward, she starts investing 15% right now. She hits millionaire status. at what age, roughly?

1Speaker 1
01:00:59.59 – 01:01:04.73

34.. Yeah. She's having that worth of a million dollars, probably in about 14 years.

2Speaker 2
01:01:04.81 – 01:01:07.39

By the way, the American dream is alive and well. Yeah.

1Speaker 1
01:01:07.55 – 01:01:08.85

And that's a Gen Z.

2Speaker 2
01:01:09.19 – 01:01:09.71

That's right.

1Speaker 1
01:01:10.79 – 01:01:21.83

By the way, for those of you that are Gen Zs and think that, Oh, it's all over! It can't happen! Oh, no! You know, oh, God. All the whining that's out there.

2Speaker 2
01:01:21.99 – 01:01:23.45

It's just the drama.

1Speaker 1
01:01:24.59 – 01:01:32.61

It's like every generation that has come along thinks that the generation before them stole all the opportunity. That's right. There's nothing left!

?Unknown Speaker
01:01:33.07 – 01:01:34.65

The old people took it all!

1Speaker 1
01:01:35.23 – 01:01:41.41

Oh, brother. And the old people, every generation that's come along, think the next generation is a bunch of doofuses.

2Speaker 2
01:01:41.59 – 01:01:43.49

That's true. It's generational warfare.

1Speaker 1
01:01:43.49 – 01:01:50.03

Neither one are the truth. That's right. I mean, this generation is full of wonderful people like Cammie. We've got a building full of Cammies. That's right.

01:01:50.31 – 01:02:01.59

I mean, half of our 1,100 people that work here are under 30, so, officially, Gen Z. Wow. I mean, we have four new people start. this morning. I went up onboarding and hung out with them and talked to them.

01:02:02.23 – 01:02:08.41

Really sharp. Oh, God. They're so smart. And they're going to be great team members. And they care deeply.

01:02:08.91 – 01:02:21.15

Yep. And I was just explaining to them, this is going to be the hardest place you've ever worked, because you're working with smart people that really care deeply. Yeah. And they're not into internal politics. They're just into getting the work done.

01:02:21.65 – 01:02:32.39

And it makes it really difficult, because you've got to—I mean, when you're playing for the Super Bowl with the best in the world, you've got to play hard. You know, it's good. It's a good thing. But there's Cammies all over the place, man. They're all over the place.

01:02:32.65 – 01:02:38.43

I'm thrilled with this Gen Z generation. I think they're amazing. Joe's in Scranton, Pennsylvania. Hi, Joe. How are you?

3Speaker 3
01:02:39.21 – 01:02:40.97

How are you doing, Dave? Thanks for having me.

1Speaker 1
01:02:40.97 – 01:02:41.77

Sure. What's up?

3Speaker 3
01:02:42.65 – 01:02:44.09

Nothing. I just have a question for you.

1Speaker 1
01:02:45.05 – 01:02:45.45

Okay.

3Speaker 3
01:02:45.57 – 01:02:54.83

So I've been investing in real estate for, like, the past 15 years. I got kind of lucky. I didn't use your advice. I used leverage. But I sold everything.

01:02:55.07 – 01:03:11.57

I am debt-free except my mortgage. The issue now is the price of real estate, the rate of return on it is, like, really bad. So I'm thinking, should I keep what I have, go work on something else, just wait, be patient? I'm just, me and my wife are a little confused. what we should do.

01:03:11.67 – 01:03:17.29

Like, she works full-time, but it's kind of what I should do with my life now. Just looking for some advice.

2Speaker 2
01:03:18.61 – 01:03:20.05

How much money you got stacked?

3Speaker 3
01:03:21.45 – 01:03:27.43

About 90 grand cash. And I owe, the only debt I have is my mortgage, and I owe about 68 grand.

2Speaker 2
01:03:27.63 – 01:03:28.47

And you're not working?

3Speaker 3
01:03:29.75 – 01:03:33.43

Well, I work, I manage my rentals. I currently have about 10 units.

1Speaker 1
01:03:33.97 – 01:03:34.85

Oh, I thought you sold them.

3Speaker 3
01:03:35.09 – 01:03:38.29

I sold a few of them, and I kept.

1Speaker 1
01:03:38.29 – 01:03:43.97

And they're all, the ones you have are all debt-free? Correct. Oh, good. Okay. All right.

01:03:44.75 – 01:03:49.85

Real estate, I've been buying real estate since 1982..

01:03:52.53 – 01:04:16.07

And real estate always goes through ups and downs in terms of rates of return and pricing all over the place. And so, you know, it's very difficult, following Fauci's pandemic, to buy a good deal because house prices, as you know, shot through the roof. And they stayed there. They didn't come back down. And so, that makes the rate of return weird.

01:04:17.09 – 01:04:39.65

And so, sometimes it takes rent prices a while to catch up. Rents spiked as housing prices spiked, but not as much. Translation, the rate of return went down. And so, you know, on houses in particular, residential is a little more fickle or a little weirder. So, I have, I buy a lot of real estate.

01:04:39.85 – 01:04:52.05

I love real estate. But I have ebbed and flowed throughout the decades. as to, you know, there's times I just sit on the sideline and watch the craziness. I'm not getting in. I don't like the rules.

01:04:52.47 – 01:05:23.37

And today's one of them. Today, the rates of return, I agree with you, are not really high. But if I can find something at a deal, for whatever the reason, if it's because the marketplace has slowed down or because I just stumbled upon something, that's a deal, then I will step into it and we'll go do it. And sometimes the deal is made up of the situation and it has nothing to do with the economy, locally or nationally. It's just you find a distressed property of some sort or a distressed seller of some sort, and you're able to slip in with some cash and do a great deal.

01:05:23.65 – 01:05:49.47

So, I'm not completely sidelined, but I'm also not just running around buying everything in sight. Now, I'll tell you, when I did buy everything in sight. I dropped almost every coin of cash I had into real estate in 2008 and 2009 because I was buying stuff at 15 and 20 cents on the dollar after the 2008 crash. It was the best buying time in my adult life. And I've never bought as much since.

01:05:49.97 – 01:06:13.33

I mean, we bought everything we could get our hands on, and some of the best properties I own today, rate of return-wise, are obviously those because I got nothing in them. But it does ebb and flow. So, just put yourself on the sideline until you get a great deal or until the marketplace shifts and more deals are out there. Either one's fine. In the meantime, you may want to do something for an income, because managing 10 units is not a full-time job.

2Speaker 2
01:06:14.13 – 01:06:20.27

Well, the other thing I want to know is he's got $90,000 set aside and he still has a house payment. It's his only debt.

1Speaker 1
01:06:20.39 – 01:06:21.43

I'm probably going to clear that.

2Speaker 2
01:06:21.51 – 01:06:26.61

I'd want to clear that, especially while we're sitting on the sidelines. So, the $90,000 goes into the house.

1Speaker 1
01:06:26.61 – 01:06:58.85

Yeah, if you don't stumble upon a deal to put that back into pretty quick, I'm probably going to go ahead and clear that mortgage and then start stacking cash out of the rentals and out of whatever else I can do. I mean, you may want to go into the service side of the real estate business, go ahead and get your license, become a property manager, manage other people's properties and yours. I did that at one point many, many moons ago. I can tell you it wasn't my favorite thing to do, but I did do it for some extra cash flow at the time. It worked out good.

01:06:58.91 – 01:06:59.37

It was fine.

01:07:01.35 – 01:07:12.17

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01:09:37.95 – 01:09:41.75

Allison's with us in Jacksonville, Florida. Hi, Allison. Welcome to the Ramsey Show.

3Speaker 3
01:09:42.35 – 01:09:44.07

Thank you, Dave. How are you today?

1Speaker 1
01:09:44.33 – 01:09:46.61

Better than I deserve. What's up in your world?

3Speaker 3
01:09:47.83 – 01:10:18.97

Well, my husband and I are in a little bit of financial distress, and we're looking to see where we can cut corners, and we would like to reduce our car payments. One of our car payments is $508 and the other one is like $644, but we're upside down on them. We don't have the money to pay the difference of the upside down part, and we wondered what is your advice on what we would do in that situation.

1Speaker 1
01:10:20.57 – 01:10:21.89

Boy, you're deep in it.

3Speaker 3
01:10:22.51 – 01:10:23.69

Yeah, we're deep in it.

1Speaker 1
01:10:23.79 – 01:10:25.53

Let's see. What's your household income?

3Speaker 3
01:10:28.05 – 01:10:31.67

$115,000, and I'm looking for a job.

1Speaker 1
01:10:32.63 – 01:10:34.47

Oh, you're not working. He makes $115,000?.

3Speaker 3
01:10:35.19 – 01:10:35.49

Right.

1Speaker 1
01:10:35.95 – 01:10:39.73

Okay, good. What will you be making when you get your job?

3Speaker 3
01:10:40.83 – 01:10:42.49

Maybe about $1,200 a month.

1Speaker 1
01:10:43.07 – 01:10:43.67

Why so low?

3Speaker 3
01:10:46.01 – 01:10:49.33

Because it's just a cashier type job.

2Speaker 2
01:10:49.99 – 01:10:51.83

Do you have any previous work experience?

3Speaker 3
01:10:53.73 – 01:11:00.65

As a photographer, I was a photographer, had my own business, but I wasn't a very good business person. I didn't make a lot of money.

1Speaker 1
01:11:00.65 – 01:11:01.31

How old are you?

3Speaker 3
01:11:02.33 – 01:11:04.89

I'm 58, and he's 66.. Okay.

1Speaker 1
01:11:05.15 – 01:11:20.73

You can make $20 an hour, which is a lot more than $1,400 a month, at freaking Target. Okay. So, I mean, you're going to do a lot better than you think you're going to do if you get out there and poke around a little bit. That's right. Even on an entry-level cashier, you can do a lot better than what you're thinking.

01:11:23.41 – 01:11:29.93

Anyway, the car that has the $600, $650 car payment, what do you owe on that car?

3Speaker 3
01:11:31.95 – 01:11:36.01

I think we owe around $24,000..

1Speaker 1
01:11:37.65 – 01:11:38.07

Really?

2Speaker 2
01:11:38.37 – 01:11:38.99

What's it worth?

3Speaker 3
01:11:41.59 – 01:11:42.73

I don't know.

1Speaker 1
01:11:43.61 – 01:11:45.31

How do you know? you're upside down?

3Speaker 3
01:11:47.43 – 01:11:50.11

My husband tells me these things.

1Speaker 1
01:11:50.27 – 01:11:50.53

Okay.

3Speaker 3
01:11:51.19 – 01:11:56.23

It's an electronic Mini Cooper or an electric Mini Cooper.

1Speaker 1
01:11:56.43 – 01:12:01.31

So did you guys get screwed on the interest rate? Because that's a very high payment for $24,000..

3Speaker 3
01:12:01.89 – 01:12:06.41

Yeah. Our credit rating is real bad.

1Speaker 1
01:12:06.61 – 01:12:10.95

So they stuck it to you. They electrified you with an electric Mini Cooper.

3Speaker 3
01:12:11.61 – 01:12:13.01

Yeah, that's what they did.

1Speaker 1
01:12:13.13 – 01:12:13.53

Okay.

2Speaker 2
01:12:13.83 – 01:12:15.35

So what year is that?

3Speaker 3
01:12:16.89 – 01:12:18.77

It's a 2023..

1Speaker 1
01:12:21.77 – 01:12:24.97

Sorry, Dave. So you just recently made this mistake. Yeah.

3Speaker 3
01:12:25.43 – 01:12:25.83

Yes.

1Speaker 1
01:12:26.09 – 01:12:33.33

Okay. All right. So let's just give you some numbers as an example, to answer your question. Do you know who you owe the money to?

3Speaker 3
01:12:35.25 – 01:12:35.69

Yes.

1Speaker 1
01:12:35.97 – 01:12:36.31

Who?

3Speaker 3
01:12:37.49 – 01:12:42.77

We owe it to the Mini Cooper financial people.

1Speaker 1
01:12:42.77 – 01:12:44.35

What about the other car? Who's it owed to?

3Speaker 3
01:12:45.55 – 01:12:46.95

By Star Credit Union.

1Speaker 1
01:12:47.41 – 01:12:52.43

Ah, okay. And that's the $550.. Do you know what you owe on that one?

3Speaker 3
01:12:54.21 – 01:12:55.47

$20,000.. Okay.

1Speaker 1
01:12:55.79 – 01:13:10.21

I'm going to use that one as an example. Okay? Let's pretend that when you look it up, you find out that that car is worth $15,000 and you owe $20,000 on it. Okay. And you're upside down $5,000..

01:13:10.57 – 01:13:16.83

You follow my example? Yes. I have no idea. I'm just making this up to show you how it works, okay? Okay.

01:13:16.89 – 01:13:37.05

You have two options. Three options. One is you live on beans and rice, rice and beans, and save up $5,000, sell the car for $15,000, add $5,000 to it, go down to the credit union, get the title, and give it to the buyer. Okay? Option number two is borrow the $5,000 somewhere else.

01:13:38.57 – 01:13:44.73

Okay. Option number three. on that one is you talk to the credit union about letting you sign a note for the difference.

3Speaker 3
01:13:46.63 – 01:13:47.11

Okay.

1Speaker 1
01:13:47.11 – 01:13:56.97

Now you're going to owe $5,000 instead of $20,000.. And on the other one, you're $7,000 upside down maybe. I don't know. I'm making that up. And you're going to owe $7,000 instead of $24,000..

01:13:57.45 – 01:14:12.95

And so now we've got a total of $12,000 in debt instead of a total of $44,000 in debt. So we're moving in the right direction. We get a couple of beater cars, get this mess cleaned up, and pay cash for a little bit of a move up in car out of the beaters a little bit later.

3Speaker 3
01:14:15.19 – 01:14:18.53

The credit union. letting me sign a note for the difference.

1Speaker 1
01:14:18.73 – 01:14:32.09

They might. Go down and sit and talk to the manager with you and your husband. Because here's the situation. If they repo the car, they're not going to get even $15,000 for it. So they have currently an unsecured note for $5,000 and a secured note for $15,000..

01:14:32.69 – 01:14:34.69

All we're asking them to do is admit it.

3Speaker 3
01:14:36.87 – 01:14:37.31

Okay.

1Speaker 1
01:14:37.39 – 01:14:38.19

You understand what I'm saying?

3Speaker 3
01:14:38.71 – 01:14:41.17

And sign a note for the difference.

1Speaker 1
01:14:41.17 – 01:14:51.13

Let me sell it for what it'll bring. I'll bring the buyer in and I'll sign a note for the difference, because these payments are killing me. And they might even loan you the money for the amount that you're upside down in that other one.

01:14:52.73 – 01:15:08.09

All right. I'd mess with them, especially if you've got a long relationship with that credit union. But go sit down in person and talk to the credit union manager. Don't do this by email or over the phone. Easy to tell somebody no, unless they're sitting across the desk from you.

3Speaker 3
01:15:08.83 – 01:15:09.27

Okay.

2Speaker 2
01:15:09.67 – 01:15:13.17

Do you have any idea how many miles you have on that Mini Cooper, the electric?

3Speaker 3
01:15:15.93 – 01:15:16.65

Around 50..

2Speaker 2
01:15:17.27 – 01:15:29.97

You also need one of the assignments I'm going to add to this. I'm just doing some quick web research, so I don't want to hold you to this. But I would be looking to see if that thing is worth what you owe on it right now or pretty close to it.

1Speaker 1
01:15:30.05 – 01:15:33.13

You might be able to break even on that one.

2Speaker 2
01:15:33.17 – 01:15:39.79

Which would be the play. But you've got to check that out right now. What's it worth right now? If you sell it private seller. Now?

01:15:39.79 – 01:15:43.75

dealerships aren't going to give you what it's worth for private seller. I would be looking at that Blue Book value today.

1Speaker 1
01:15:43.93 – 01:15:57.63

Put the thing on the market on Craigslist and Trader.com and get it sold for $25,000.. Instead of losing money, you gain money. Because I'm looking over Ken's shoulder right now. I see $27,000, $29,000 might be the value on this thing.

3Speaker 3
01:15:58.35 – 01:15:58.77

Okay.

1Speaker 1
01:15:59.31 – 01:16:20.03

So you all look at that and let's make sure. Because if your husband is looking at trade-in value only instead of private sale, and that's how he determines you're upside down, then he's just signing you up again for another mess. Because you all really suck at doing car deals. I mean everything you've touched around cars really sucks. So I'm really not trusting your husband's input at this point.

01:16:20.43 – 01:16:37.87

I'm not mad at him, but I'm just saying you all need to do detailed research. Sell these things for as much as you can, sell them for to an individual. Borrow the difference or sign a note for the difference. And quit signing up for ridiculous interest rates and stupid-butt car deals. That, oh my God, an electric Mini Cooper.

01:16:38.27 – 01:16:45.17

Yeah. Yeah. Wow. Somebody got impulse fever. Yeah.

01:16:45.69 – 01:16:48.79

And it wasn't an electric impulse. I'm just saying.

2Speaker 2
01:16:49.39 – 01:16:59.21

I was wondering if that's where you were going. Oh, man. And by the way, I just pulled up, just for our friend and Allison and all of you. that kind of wonder, was Dave, what is he talking about? Is it going to work?

01:16:59.27 – 01:17:06.13

Yes. I'm looking at some really decent cars in the Jacksonville area under $5,000, folks. It is doable. What, Dave, played off?

1Speaker 1
01:17:06.51 – 01:17:09.67

$2,003. Honda Accord EX, $4,900..

2Speaker 2
01:17:10.21 – 01:17:13.49

A Honda will run for like 300 decades.

1Speaker 1
01:17:13.73 – 01:17:19.51

Until God comes back, I'm telling you. A lot longer than an electric Mini Cooper will.

2Speaker 2
01:17:19.61 – 01:17:20.57

That's true, actually.

1Speaker 1
01:17:20.83 – 01:17:23.27

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01:17:59.57 – 01:18:04.15

Holden is with us. He's in Austin, Texas. Hi, Holden. How are you?

3Speaker 3
01:18:05.55 – 01:18:10.19

Hi. I'm good. Thanks, Dave. Ken, thanks for having me on. Sure.

1Speaker 1
01:18:10.33 – 01:18:10.67

What's up?

3Speaker 3
01:18:12.47 – 01:18:30.15

I am 39.. I live with my wife and two daughters. We are debt-free, thanks to my wife and to your plan. We do owe $260,000 on a house worth about $550,000.. I'm an industrial designer with a master's degree.

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